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By *athiaschristopher OP   Man
over a year ago

LONDON

Can you have good sex without Cumming?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes dont see why not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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No. Orgasms are the be all and end all of all sexual experiences. If you don't have one, regardless of what's gone on before, it's shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes totally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is so hard as yes I’ve had great sex without the O but now I need the O to get great sex. I’m disappointed if I don’t cum!

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster


"No. Orgasms are the be all and end all of all sexual experiences. If you don't have one, regardless of what's gone on before, it's shit."

You sound like my ex wife. She wanted to climax, once, then go to sleep.. She used to say that an orgasm was like the desert of a meal. But by god did that woman like cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wait. Women are actually meant to ENJOY sex? I thought we were meant to lie there like a sack of potatoes until it's all over.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

As with any questions like this ... some will ... some won't ... newsflash .... we're all different and get fulfilled in different ways

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By *eady4girlsMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"No. Orgasms are the be all and end all of all sexual experiences. If you don't have one, regardless of what's gone on before, it's shit."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, for me having an orgasm is what makes great sex

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"No. Orgasms are the be all and end all of all sexual experiences. If you don't have one, regardless of what's gone on before, it's shit.

You sound like my ex wife. She wanted to climax, once, then go to sleep.. "

Marry her again. She had the right idea.

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster


"No. Orgasms are the be all and end all of all sexual experiences. If you don't have one, regardless of what's gone on before, it's shit.

You sound like my ex wife. She wanted to climax, once, then go to sleep..

Marry her again. She had the right idea."

Fuck. That...

It has taken 6 years for us to be civil!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, most definitely

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster


"No. Orgasms are the be all and end all of all sexual experiences. If you don't have one, regardless of what's gone on before, it's shit.

You sound like my ex wife. She wanted to climax, once, then go to sleep..

Marry her again. She had the right idea.

Fuck. That...

It has taken 6 years for us to be civil!"

And to be honest, it was one of the reasons we split. It's no fun having to finish yourself off in the bathroom every time

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I've had great sex with and without.

Do I like to cum? Of course. Is it about my orgasm? No.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I would like to say yes but I orgasm too easy, I am like one big erogenous zone when fully turned on

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"And to be honest, it was one of the reasons we split. It's no fun having to finish yourself off in the bathroom every time "

Yeah, I can imagine not. My post up there wasn't 100% serious. I have had friends discuss feeling put out etc if they don't come so I don't think that train of thought is too uncommon. It's not the be all and end all but sometimes it's nice.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Yes, most definitely "

Ohhh I like your new avatar

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"Can you have good sex without Cumming? "

Orgasms are not the be all of a good sexual experience, for me it's about the passion you have for each other as well the pleasure of pleasing each other and just the experience of being with each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont mind if I dont . I reaallly want him to though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely, but I would get very bored if I never came.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Yes you can, don't get me wrong, reaching orgasm is wonderful but it's not the be all and end all. Although if it happened a lot with the same guy I'd be a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. Orgasms are the be all and end all of all sexual experiences. If you don't have one, regardless of what's gone on before, it's shit."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can you have good sex without Cumming? "

I've always wanted Alan.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I don't cum so if I only had sex for that reason I'd be celibate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to be more of an orgasm chaser and I do still have a slight tendency to do so. But since being with my partner, orgasms are so reliably easy and frequent that I can relax and enjoy it more than I've ever been able to before.

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By *athiaschristopher OP   Man
over a year ago

LONDON

Thank you for your responses.

Obviously pleasure matters, BUT what matters MORE...

1 YOU being SATISFIED.

2 YOU SATISFYING the other person.

3 MUTUAL Orgasm's.

4 Good feelings, O or not.

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster


"Yes. I don't cum so if I only had sex for that reason I'd be celibate. "

How many men have boasted that they will definitely make you cum?

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By *sm81Couple
over a year ago

warwickshire

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. I don't cum so if I only had sex for that reason I'd be celibate.

How many men have boasted that they will definitely make you cum? "

Haha a few, obviously their kind offers were declined.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, most definitely

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By *iceButtSlimMan
over a year ago

somewhere

But is there not a difference between cumming and having an orgasm?

Both the wife and I find that we can cum, sometimes multiple time in a session, but we don't always have an orgasm.

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By *athiaschristopher OP   Man
over a year ago

LONDON

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can and have.

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By *athiaschristopher OP   Man
over a year ago

LONDON

Sorry last message delete ,typo error.

Is it easier to cum by yourself than with someone else?

Plus good point differences between orgasm and cum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But is there not a difference between cumming and having an orgasm?

Both the wife and I find that we can cum, sometimes multiple time in a session, but we don't always have an orgasm."

What do you mean? I thought cumming was an orgasm, for women anyway. Do men sometimes ejaculate without an orgasm?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But is there not a difference between cumming and having an orgasm?

Both the wife and I find that we can cum, sometimes multiple time in a session, but we don't always have an orgasm.

What do you mean? I thought cumming was an orgasm, for women anyway. Do men sometimes ejaculate without an orgasm? "

Yes. Actually it's a semi orgasm. You get the feeling, you release the coconut milk but you can still keep going afterwards

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

https://www.standard.co.uk/news/london/london-woman-rushed-to-hospital-after-suffering-stroke-during-orgasm-a4089821.html

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"But is there not a difference between cumming and having an orgasm?

Both the wife and I find that we can cum, sometimes multiple time in a session, but we don't always have an orgasm.

What do you mean? I thought cumming was an orgasm, for women anyway. Do men sometimes ejaculate without an orgasm?

Yes. Actually it's a semi orgasm. You get the feeling, you release the coconut milk but you can still keep going afterwards"

I need to meet a man like that. I don't like men to cum as they stop, rollover and I want more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *iceButtSlimMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"But is there not a difference between cumming and having an orgasm?

Both the wife and I find that we can cum, sometimes multiple time in a session, but we don't always have an orgasm.

What do you mean? I thought cumming was an orgasm, for women anyway. Do men sometimes ejaculate without an orgasm? "

I can certainly cum, but I am so intent concentrating on pleasing the other person that the body doesn't have that orgasmic feeling running through it. But at other times and situations I can orgasm and need time to recover and enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. I have done so on a number of occasions

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