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Would you date a porn star/ sex worker

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By *athiaschristopher OP   Man
over a year ago

LONDON

Probably been asked before and wanders into the realms of being comfortable with your partner and many lovers.

I suppose the idea is, the difference between a huge amount of loveless professional sex and really being THE ONE they make love to. Does that concept actually work/exist or is it a nice sounding myth?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Ive never dated a porn star or sex worker but in theory it wouldnt bother me its only a job. If i was young gorgeous and intelligent id love to be a high class hooker flying around with successful business men and getting paid loads for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy I worked with is with a ukporn star,I was actually sat chatting to her in the pub

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I date the person not the job they do surely it shouldn't matter if you like the person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would date Lexi Belle

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

I can’t for a minute believe one would want to date me so it’s a moot point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have dated an escort before now, had no issues with it as at the end of the day I was the one she wanted to be with (the break up was for other reasons). I’d ask how her day went and I’d leave up to her on if she wanted to give me a detailed answer or not (normally it was the “weird” clientele she would go on about).

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

If Megan Rain, Stoya or Stella Cox twisted my arm I would date them.

I would play hard to get though.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"I date the person not the job they do surely it shouldn't matter if you like the person."

Oh I dunno, I’m not sure I could date a Tory politician...

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By *athiaschristopher OP   Man
over a year ago

LONDON

People are being very open, however jealousy and envy are factors in any relationship and the idea of having a part of someone that is exclusively yours.

Not saying that insecurity is a good thing. Just saying that it would be an elephant in the room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If Megan Rain, Stoya or Stella Cox twisted my arm I would date them.

I would play hard to get though. "

Maybe, you know, if I really had to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Oh I dunno, I’m not sure I could date a Tory politician..."

Indeed. They're fucking the entire country as it is.

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By *talian PassionMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

I'm a porn actor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you call a sex worker , ?

Is it just a prostitute you refer to ?

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By *od ThrusterMan
over a year ago

Newport Pagnell


"People are being very open, however jealousy and envy are factors in any relationship and the idea of having a part of someone that is exclusively yours.

Not saying that insecurity is a good thing. Just saying that it would be an elephant in the room. "

Possibly, but surely swingers have a slightly different mindset from the "norm" diluting your point.

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By *athiaschristopher OP   Man
over a year ago

LONDON

Any person who has sex for money.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"People are being very open, however jealousy and envy are factors in any relationship and the idea of having a part of someone that is exclusively yours.

Not saying that insecurity is a good thing. Just saying that it would be an elephant in the room. "
The question was asked on a swingers site

Swingers actively share their bodies with others. Whether they get paid for it is by the by

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By *athiaschristopher OP   Man
over a year ago

LONDON

Allowing others to have sex with a partner is done for all manner of reasons. Push/pull factors. Pleasing and being comfortable with the idea.

Being with someone who has sex as a way to earn money, isn't really giving them the emotional permission, as you are entering the arrangement on a take it or leave it basis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I date the person not the job they do surely it shouldn't matter if you like the person."

And if he was a hitman, serial killer, drug dealer? Genuine question.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Allowing others to have sex with a partner is done for all manner of reasons. Push/pull factors. Pleasing and being comfortable with the idea.

Being with someone who has sex as a way to earn money, isn't really giving them the emotional permission, as you are entering the arrangement on a take it or leave it basis "
what do you mean by emotional permission

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Emotional attachment- paid for sex is just that. Swinging sex is done because you love it and your partner loves it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure I could with a pornstar as most porn I’ve seen is bareback.

Maybe a silver haired Gigolo though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People are being very open, however jealousy and envy are factors in any relationship and the idea of having a part of someone that is exclusively yours.

Not saying that insecurity is a good thing. Just saying that it would be an elephant in the room. "

Hence why she wouldn’t do anal or kissing, they were something she would only ever do with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strictly solo or FF pornstar yes, otherwise no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would date them but I wouldn't have sex with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, and I have dated a male escort.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

It’s all very well saying yes , and saying it’s the person not what they do for a living . But the fact is that there will always be certain issues that arise .

As we are swingers , it’s not the jealousy . More so the fact that sex would be very much taking work home . A successful sex worker on AW will get a couple of meets a day . So getting home from that and having sex again is not high on the agenda . Therefore the partner will feel somewhat unwanted , or if sex is had , the partner may feel it’s just to keep them happy .

There’s no way I’d date a sex worker as this exact scenario that I’ve described has happened to the only two couples I know where one of them is a sex worker . I want to feel like the act of sex between me and my partner is freely given because she wants to do it as much as I do . Anything less and I would rather have a wank .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would.

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By *athiaschristopher OP   Man
over a year ago

LONDON

Thank you all, great discussion.

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By *hinypants77Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Have done. American pornstar. Cool girl. She dumped me because she thought I just wanted for sex and didn’t like it fucked her like a pornstar and spanked her.

No regrets.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Yes I would. I don’t judge anyone. If they enjoy doing what they are doing and are making good money then good on them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s all very well saying yes , and saying it’s the person not what they do for a living . But the fact is that there will always be certain issues that arise .

As we are swingers , it’s not the jealousy . More so the fact that sex would be very much taking work home . A successful sex worker on AW will get a couple of meets a day . So getting home from that and having sex again is not high on the agenda . Therefore the partner will feel somewhat unwanted , or if sex is had , the partner may feel it’s just to keep them happy .

There’s no way I’d date a sex worker as this exact scenario that I’ve described has happened to the only two couples I know where one of them is a sex worker . I want to feel like the act of sex between me and my partner is freely given because she wants to do it as much as I do . Anything less and I would rather have a wank ."

Busman's holiday.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"It’s all very well saying yes , and saying it’s the person not what they do for a living . But the fact is that there will always be certain issues that arise .

As we are swingers , it’s not the jealousy . More so the fact that sex would be very much taking work home . A successful sex worker on AW will get a couple of meets a day . So getting home from that and having sex again is not high on the agenda . Therefore the partner will feel somewhat unwanted , or if sex is had , the partner may feel it’s just to keep them happy .

There’s no way I’d date a sex worker as this exact scenario that I’ve described has happened to the only two couples I know where one of them is a sex worker . I want to feel like the act of sex between me and my partner is freely given because she wants to do it as much as I do . Anything less and I would rather have a wank .

Busman's holiday. "

Exactly

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

No I wouldn't

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

There people so yes no problem.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Yes but only high class.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes because they're just normal people like the rest of us...the only difference is that their 'work' is a bit different to what most of us do to get paid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Possibly, would depend on who they are and what motivated them to work in porn. If it was simply for the money and love for the work then maybe but if there were addictions involved then no.

I know I would struggle if they were involved in scenes they were being degraded in too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes i think so just depends on the girl tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to work for a guy who was a male escort. He never had a problem with girlfriends... He was never without one... But they never lasted more than a week or two before they moved on.

He made way more money doing two evenings a week as an escort than on his full time "normal" job.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd date a cardboard cutout of Waynetta Slob right now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I fancied them and they fancied me.. yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd date a cardboard cutout of Waynetta Slob right now "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably not but I’d deffo go bed with them

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

No. I can get territorial over fellas so if they were stripping off every night and women were pawing them, or if they were being paid to escort and bone other women, i’d be even more of a mentally frazzled woman than i am now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd date a cardboard cutout of Waynetta Slob right now "

Hi

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By *eriousGuyABCMan
over a year ago

( WEST OF ) Chippenham ish

The head can be a funny thing at times about roles and sex. Many years ago I used to be a collared sub to a married Gorgeous Mistress and all that goes with it. One day she wanted me to f*** her, just because she wanted me to. Couldn't get my head round that at all and it didn't happen, because of the way I saw her role between us. Could crop up the same dating as the above etc. Just saying

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