FabSwingers.com forum: To all you single parents.....

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you had a whole extra weekend to yourself what would you do with it? Deep clean the house? See friends? DIY? Book a weekend in a B&B by the sea for a couple of days with your walking boots and a book?

All these things would bring me great pleasure (well, maybe not the act of cleaning but the end result would) and I'm really struggling to decide how to use my time. I'm in danger of not making a decision at all and wasting it altogether.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *andS for funCouple
over a year ago

Any

A b&b by the sea with a good book and walking boots was my favourite way to spend a free weekend as a single mum

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clean house, read book, coffee an lunch with friends, walk along beach then pub in the evening

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *REEDOMatVACouple
over a year ago

Suffolk/ Essex

A b&b by the sea sounds amaxing and it's something you couldn't ordinarily do. Where are you thinking? X

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ruebameMan
over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back

I would take a long drive to meet some lovely people on here

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

The b&b sounds lovely if money was no obstacle.

But realistically I’m no ‘I know I will clean’ type. It’d be spending time with friends for me x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would take a long drive to meet some lovely people on here

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A b&b by the sea sounds amaxing and it's something you couldn't ordinarily do. Where are you thinking? X "

I was thinking either Robin Hoods Bay or Bamburgh.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Clean house, read book, coffee an lunch with friends, walk along beach then pub in the evening

That sounds lovely

I wish I lived near the sea so I could fit it all in one day!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If anyone had any other suggestions that would be great. City break with museums and galleries? Shopping?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My favourite weekends when child-free involve long walks, friends, perhaps a meal out or a trip to the cinema to see a non-Marvel type movie.

A b&b sounds like a real treat!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would take a long drive to meet some lovely people on here

Don’t start again you 2

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My favourite weekends when child-free involve long walks, friends, perhaps a meal out or a trip to the cinema to see a non-Marvel type movie.

A b&b sounds like a real treat! "

Non-Marvel? You mean Batman, right?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would take a long drive to meet some lovely people on here

Don’t start again you 2

Is this a common theme?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Clean house, read book, coffee an lunch with friends, walk along beach then pub in the evening

That sounds lovely

I wish I lived near the sea so I could fit it all in one day! "

In the summer it’s not that great, it gets over crowded

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you had a whole extra weekend to yourself what would you do with it? Deep clean the house? See friends? DIY? Book a weekend in a B&B by the sea for a couple of days with your walking boots and a book?

"
I would spend a day at the beach, walking, watching the surfers, I live quite near it but have never had much free time the last few years and a day at York visiting the museums, a walk along the river there as well

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A whole extra weekend? Just a weekend would have been nice. Or a night even.

Back then I’d probably have cleaned the house. Batch cook and supermarket shop without stress.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A whole extra weekend? Just a weekend would have been nice. Or a night even.

Back then I’d probably have cleaned the house. Batch cook and supermarket shop without stress. "

I know! It's so much easier to get that stuff done without the kids to look after too. But I'd regret not giving myself the option of doing something nice for me.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ax_uk_2009Man
over a year ago

Wilmslow

Considering the time it takes to arrange a fab meet unless I had month to plan that would be out.

Movie and lunch with my sister, a night out with friends and a chilled Sunday with a walk in the Peak District.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I should put a caveat in that I'm not a single parent. That being said, if I was free for a weekend, I'd go somewhere like Durham/York/Brighton/Bath/Winchester. Stay in a quirky little b&b and go and explore the city and have a bath (and then a shower) and treat myself to a nice meal out with a decent bottle of red. And then I'd have a night of really great sex and then John Wayne walk it around the bookshops/museums/galleries the next day.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would take a long drive to meet some lovely people on here

Don’t start again you 2

Is this a common theme?

"
only when he stares in my eyes

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *andS for funCouple
over a year ago

Any

Write down all the options that appeal to you on bits of paper and pop them in a cup and just pull one ??? See if what comes out really takes your fancy. You are right though....it does need to be something just for you

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A b&b by the sea with a good book and walking boots was my favourite way to spend a free weekend as a single mum

this is perfect - go for it - which book though ?? lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I should put a caveat in that I'm not a single parent. That being said, if I was free for a weekend, I'd go somewhere like Durham/York/Brighton/Bath/Winchester. Stay in a quirky little b&b and go and explore the city and have a bath (and then a shower) and treat myself to a nice meal out with a decent bottle of red. And then I'd have a night of really great sex and then John Wayne walk it around the bookshops/museums/galleries the next day. "

Glad you qualified your bath with a shower there. I was totally about to judge you.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just did this, Friday night Chams, Saturday lunch with my bestie, Saturday evening rugby and wine and a long luxurious soak in the bath, Sunday morning lie-in, tidying the house and laundry then out with family for Sunday dinner and pub in the evening with mates! x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I just did this, Friday night Chams, Saturday lunch with my bestie, Saturday evening rugby and wine and a long luxurious soak in the bath, Sunday morning lie-in, tidying the house and laundry then out with family for Sunday dinner and pub in the evening with mates! x"

That's a busy weekend! I'd need an extra day to recover

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

We all need some 'me time'.. helps recharge and reenergise .. do what would give you the greatest pleasure, for me cleaning couldn wait.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I’d certainly spend some of it naked in a hot tub with sexy people

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a busy weekend! I'd need an extra day to recover

I agree but it's so rare, and everything just fell into place. Plus Saturday afternoon through to Sunday afternoon was quite chilled really x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’d certainly spend some of it naked in a hot tub with sexy people

Think of the bacteria

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"I’d certainly spend some of it naked in a hot tub with sexy people

Think of the bacteria

That’s what your immune system is for, you’ll be fine

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d certainly spend some of it naked in a hot tub with sexy people

Think of the bacteria

I did! In Chams! And I am still alive!

Just shower afterwards!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say that if the weather was s little warmer, the weekend in Robin Hood Bay would be lovely- so if you need company OP, I am up for that later in the year xx

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have to say that if the weather was s little warmer, the weekend in Robin Hood Bay would be lovely- so if you need company OP, I am up for that later in the year xx"

I'd love that

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have to say that if the weather was s little warmer, the weekend in Robin Hood Bay would be lovely- so if you need company OP, I am up for that later in the year xx

I'd love that

Wine, talking, laughter and walking- perfect!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely get away for the weekend, I’d go for the city break myself. Cleaning would be not giving myself me time and seem like a normal day x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Definitely get away for the weekend, I’d go for the city break myself. Cleaning would be not giving myself me time and seem like a normal day x "

This is what I'm swaying towards. The weather's going to be rubbish so the seaside walking would be less than fun.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

Spending the week with a sexy horny lady somewhere nice hotel b&b holiday abroad would be great.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I think given the time of year, a city break would be more my type of thing. Manchester or Liverpool give hundreds of options for idling or culturally filling your time.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tricky one but whatever you do don’t end up on here all weekend..

I really enjoy a weekend away with my friends but also equal enjoyment can be had by sorting out / cleaning house and then meeting up later for drinks, dinner, dog walk etc etc.

If it was this weekend, I’d be doing the latter.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a 2 minute walk from the beach and walk on it regularly with the dog. So I suppose it'd be a nice city break or a country hotel with spa. But love the country side so a long walk with a couple of pub along the way would be just as appealing. X

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know what I'd rather do, my fortnightly free weekend is due 9n Friday and I've nothing planned either

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

When my kids where little, I'd spend my weekends, catching up on housework, laundry & then chilling out in a peaceful tidy house.

Now, if I'm not working, it's party time.

Visit friends or family, road trips, weekends away.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know what I'd rather do, my fortnightly free weekend is due 9n Friday and I've nothing planned either

Well get planning!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chance'd be a fine thing.....

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I could it would be the weekend at the coast for me. Love beaches this time of the year.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I'd get myself prepped leading up. Organise a cleaner to clean the house once they'd left then have mates night out Friday then fab fun the rest of the time.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would go back to the beach, walk along the cliff edges, wander across the sand, feel the spray on my face and watch the waves crash against the land...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My favourite weekends when child-free involve long walks, friends, perhaps a meal out or a trip to the cinema to see a non-Marvel type movie.

A b&b sounds like a real treat!

Non-Marvel? You mean Batman, right?

Superheroes are not my idea of grown up cinema!!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread