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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Apparently there are thousands of people using this site.. So how come I keep seeing the same users in the forums? I hardly ever see anyone new popping up.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

Because not everyone on the site uses the forums?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apparently there are thousands of people using this site.. So how come I keep seeing the same users in the forums? I hardly ever see anyone new popping up. "

Onky a few people use the forums.

Most just use the profiles ans messages unlike us sad bastards they have friends in real life tk talk to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people spend more time in chat than in the forums, some spend more time sending faf messages and wanking over hot pics than being in the chat rooms and some spend more time wanging their walnut whip out and bustin rhymes in the forums than faffing people.

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By *ulldog_71Man
over a year ago

Sedgefield

The rest are hiding from you lol

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

The number that uses the forums is very small by comparison to the rest of the site - and the regulars probably make up a large chunk of those that do - ergo you see the same names popping up time and again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I’m a ghost. Wooooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or:

Fab is like a bus.

The chat rooms are the front of the bus where everybody moons.

The back of the bus is the forums where all the cool kids hang out.

Those who are neither are stuck at the bus stop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a tiny proportion who use the forums. Gives the forum tools a chance of a meet though, so that's handy

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"The number that uses the forums is very small by comparison to the rest of the site - and the regulars probably make up a large chunk of those that do - ergo you see the same names popping up time and again "

Or same people, different names

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve realised the forums are where the real people are at.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just didn't expect to keep seeing the same people considering how many use the site.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

A lot of people aren't even aware the forums exist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just didn't expect to keep seeing the same people considering how many use the site. "

Some I've spoken to are not even aware of the forums. They don't get past the messaging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could try going into the ‘introductions’ forum, it’s where new people introduce themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just didn't expect to keep seeing the same people considering how many use the site. "

Heck even places like reddit you start to see familiar names comming up.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I've used quite a few forums over the years and they all have a core regular users.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"There is a tiny proportion who use the forums. Gives the forum tools a chance of a meet though, so that's handy "

You can give me a hand shandy anytime Missus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iirc it's less than 1/2% of members use the forums

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I just didn't expect to keep seeing the same people considering how many use the site.

Some I've spoken to are not even aware of the forums. They don't get past the messaging "

at first I thought the forums were not for me.. But now I've become and addict

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are too cliquey for must that's why

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You could try going into the ‘introductions’ forum, it’s where new people introduce themselves "

Don't I have to pay for that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I'm only here for the pizza, someone said that there was pizza

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just didn't expect to keep seeing the same people considering how many use the site.

Some I've spoken to are not even aware of the forums. They don't get past the messaging

at first I thought the forums were not for me.. But now I've become and addict"

That's what's always drawn me back. It's so easily addictive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could try going into the ‘introductions’ forum, it’s where new people introduce themselves "

There’s an introduction forum... well I never knew that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could try going into the ‘introductions’ forum, it’s where new people introduce themselves

Don't I have to pay for that? "

No its jist down below on the list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm only here for the pizza, someone said that there was pizza"

I was told there was cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could try going into the ‘introductions’ forum, it’s where new people introduce themselves

Don't I have to pay for that? "

Only if you can’t get it for free

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By *he Cheeky GirlsCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Dover and Benidorm


"You could try going into the ‘introductions’ forum, it’s where new people introduce themselves

Don't I have to pay for that?

No its jist down below on the list "

Yea just next to the free beer and jam isle.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"I'm only here for the pizza, someone said that there was pizza"

Really? I was told it was garlic bread?

I brought bread sticks too!

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"I'm only here for the pizza, someone said that there was pizza

I was told there was cake "

That's the last time I believe notes posted under my door!

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"You could try going into the ‘introductions’ forum, it’s where new people introduce themselves

Don't I have to pay for that?

No its jist down below on the list

Yea just next to the free beer and jam isle. "

There's an island of free beer and jam?!

Hang on, did you hear about this on a note written in crayon?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You could try going into the ‘introductions’ forum, it’s where new people introduce themselves

Don't I have to pay for that?

Only if you can’t get it for free "

I think I found it on the message board

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m a ghost. Wooooo"
spooky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cos im a gobby cunt who cant stop his fingers chatting shit

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You could try going into the ‘introductions’ forum, it’s where new people introduce themselves

Don't I have to pay for that?

No its jist down below on the list "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm only here for the pizza, someone said that there was pizza"

Have you not gotten your pizza yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is a tiny proportion who use the forums. Gives the forum tools a chance of a meet though, so that's handy "
Phew!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are too cliquey for must that's why"

They really aren't. I've not been on very long at all in grand scheme of things. I've been shown lots of kindness, compassion, empathy, love and patience by many regular forum users. That's not Cliquey behaviour in my book.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"You could try going into the ‘introductions’ forum, it’s where new people introduce themselves

There’s an introduction forum... well I never knew that."

That's because you don't need any introduction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forum is VIP only, the best looking and best at sex

Waiting to be thrown out any minute now

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By *ussD1Man
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Apparently there are thousands of people using this site.. So how come I keep seeing the same users in the forums? I hardly ever see anyone new popping up. "

I’m new *raises hand and grins*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apparently there are thousands of people using this site.. So how come I keep seeing the same users in the forums? I hardly ever see anyone new popping up.

Onky a few people use the forums.

Most just use the profiles ans messages unlike us sad bastards they have friends in real life tk talk to"

he's right you know

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"There is a tiny proportion who use the forums. Gives the forum tools a chance of a meet though, so that's handy "

Nice to know you think so highly of us tools

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"They are too cliquey for must that's why

They really aren't. I've not been on very long at all in grand scheme of things. I've been shown lots of kindness, compassion, empathy, love and patience by many regular forum users. That's not Cliquey behaviour in my book.

"

It's the truffle pig noises

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"The forum is VIP only, the best looking and best at sex

Waiting to be thrown out any minute now "

That's just a rumour - have been here three years and they've not rumbled me yet

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"They are too cliquey for must that's why

They really aren't. I've not been on very long at all in grand scheme of things. I've been shown lots of kindness, compassion, empathy, love and patience by many regular forum users. That's not Cliquey behaviour in my book.

It's the truffle pig noises"

Don't forget the cold faces

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are too cliquey for must that's why

They really aren't. I've not been on very long at all in grand scheme of things. I've been shown lots of kindness, compassion, empathy, love and patience by many regular forum users. That's not Cliquey behaviour in my book.

It's the truffle pig noises"

Thought as much.. *Squuuiuuweeeeeesaaallllllll*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are too cliquey for must that's why

They really aren't. I've not been on very long at all in grand scheme of things. I've been shown lots of kindness, compassion, empathy, love and patience by many regular forum users. That's not Cliquey behaviour in my book.

It's the truffle pig noises

Don't forget the cold faces"

*Ghengis shows Gemini the warm face*

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By *he Cheeky GirlsCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Dover and Benidorm


"You could try going into the ‘introductions’ forum, it’s where new people introduce themselves

Don't I have to pay for that?

No its jist down below on the list

Yea just next to the free beer and jam isle.

There's an island of free beer and jam?!

Hang on, did you hear about this on a note written in crayon? "
and

Yes, but it was your handwriting.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"Apparently there are thousands of people using this site.. So how come I keep seeing the same users in the forums? I hardly ever see anyone new popping up.

Onky a few people use the forums.

Most just use the profiles ans messages unlike us sad bastards they have friends in real life tk talk to"

Oh lordy that made me laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apparently there are thousands of people using this site.. So how come I keep seeing the same users in the forums? I hardly ever see anyone new popping up. "

Most ppl just wanna perv or hook up. Forum is more specialist and mostly filled with "addicts" (in the nicest possible way).....

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"A lot of people aren't even aware the forums exist."

I was on the site for nearly two years before I found the fora.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"They are too cliquey for must that's why

They really aren't. I've not been on very long at all in grand scheme of things. I've been shown lots of kindness, compassion, empathy, love and patience by many regular forum users. That's not Cliquey behaviour in my book.

It's the truffle pig noises

Thought as much.. *Squuuiuuweeeeeesaaallllllll*"

*shivers*

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"You could try going into the ‘introductions’ forum, it’s where new people introduce themselves

Don't I have to pay for that?

No its jist down below on the list

Yea just next to the free beer and jam isle.

There's an island of free beer and jam?!

Hang on, did you hear about this on a note written in crayon? and

Yes, but it was your handwriting. "

Curses, foiled!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

The Lounge has always been good for cake, biscuits and toast. Courtney used to throw the odd apple in. When did pizza deliveries start?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people are busy chatting or meeting people. Or wanking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s worldwide right? You get match with preferences xxx

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Check out the who's near...and the forums... totally different people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most people are busy chatting or meeting people. Or wanking. "

I just got sent a pic of someone holding a green fruit object in Denmark and I'm not sure if it's an avocado or a really green papaya.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apparently there are thousands of people using this site.. So how come I keep seeing the same users in the forums? I hardly ever see anyone new popping up. "

Pop a status inviting people to come join you, in here. See how that fairs. Like an open day event, there's a chap on here with pizza.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a forum?

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull


"Apparently there are thousands of people using this site.. So how come I keep seeing the same users in the forums? I hardly ever see anyone new popping up. "

Different people use the Forums at different times, to fit in around work, shift patterns, home life, holidays and personal choice.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"There is a forum?

"

There's no decorum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apparently there are thousands of people using this site.. So how come I keep seeing the same users in the forums? I hardly ever see anyone new popping up. "

New people do post but they often get jumped on and made fun of, or bitched at for asking questions that The Clique don't approve of.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

What surprises me most is that some people seem to be on here constantly. I don’t know how they find the time.

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By *rozacMan
over a year ago

london


"Some people spend more time in chat than in the forums, some spend more time sending faf messages and wanking over hot pics than being in the chat rooms and some spend more time wanging their walnut whip out and bustin rhymes in the forums than faffing people.

"

The last part intrigues me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can you imagine what it would be like if all the members used the forums, be a fricken minefield of chat

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Threads would soon close with the 170 odd cap on them

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

Only a tiny % of fab users use the forum. Of them you have your hard core posters. These are not necessarily swingers or involved in the scene, but just like posting regularly. The forums are not exactly welcoming to new people. There certainly is a clique. I have often been shot down for suggesting how the forums can be made friendlier. The irony is certainly not lost on me.

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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago

The South

There should be a cake forum!!!

M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only a tiny % of fab users use the forum. Of them you have your hard core posters. These are not necessarily swingers or involved in the scene, but just like posting regularly. The forums are not exactly welcoming to new people. There certainly is a clique. I have often been shot down for suggesting how the forums can be made friendlier. The irony is certainly not lost on me."
I've been on here for a few months now but don't come on here regularly and I totally agree with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There should be a cake forum!!!

M"

Cake central. Com

No need for any thanks

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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"Or:

Fab is like a bus.

The chat rooms are the front of the bus where everybody moons.

The back of the bus is the forums where all the cool kids hang out.

Those who are neither are stuck at the bus stop."

And the ones who meet and fuck or go to swingers clubs got of at the first stop

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By *ing_Wookie_RodeoMan
over a year ago

stockport wasteland

Girls that look like you is the reason I come on the forums, I also use the chatrooms, don't really message people faffy poop

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By *ing_Wookie_RodeoMan
over a year ago

stockport wasteland

Get involved name of the game, every part of the site. I don't really get In box's unless I've met people in clubs so forums and chat room open doors to talk to people using the site to let them know we are actual people and we are good people and not just meet beaters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There should be a cake forum!!!

M"

It’s called The Lounge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

research suggests people on this forum are all attractive and handsome..its not rocket surgery

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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago

The South


"There should be a cake forum!!!

M

It’s called The Lounge "

I'll get my fat backside in here more often then.

I do like a bit of cake.

E

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see lots of new people "popping up" but the regulars scare the shit out of them and they scarper. Only the thick skinned stick around. We are a good bunch really, we even socialise and occasionally get naked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see lots of new people "popping up" but the regulars scare the shit out of them and they scarper. Only the thick skinned stick around. We are a good bunch really, we even socialise and occasionally get naked "

The naked thing only happens on full moons these days now though. In a leap year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apparently there are thousands of people using this site.. So how come I keep seeing the same users in the forums? I hardly ever see anyone new popping up. "
forums is like a lily club you're either in or not lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apparently there are thousands of people using this site.. So how come I keep seeing the same users in the forums? I hardly ever see anyone new popping up. forums is like a lily club you're either in or not lol"
lil

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By *he Cheeky GirlsCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Dover and Benidorm


"research suggests people on this forum are all attractive and handsome..its not rocket surgery "

A marvelous piece of brain science.

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