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By *m389 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bromley

Are you any good at it?

I suck balls at it. I’m that joe that can only say “hey, how’s your day” then follow with awkward silence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's the craic Joe? Good day? How's the family? You still with your girl? How's work treating you? Is that a new hair cut?

If I'm flagging ill ask questions lol but I usually take the piss which generally puts people at ease

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Useless at it - it isn't a strong point

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By *oney to the beeWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I think some confuse can't do it with can't be bothered to do it at times. If you are interested and I mean really interested in someone you make the effort and take an interest in them I knows I do.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I can talk bollox for England on a good day, even gaffa tape won't shut me up sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like it a lot of the time. If someone is naturally chatty it's easy to reciprocate, but that strained, awkward and stilted thing that you do at weddings/christenings/the school gate is tedious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm quite chatty and generally do ok but as Hepatica said, it depends who you're talking to, if they are not the same it can be hard work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im ok if talking about something im interested in but can't be bothered if someone is boring me

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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It depends on where and when. Put me in a shop and I will probably end up talking to someone within minutes. Put me at a social engagement and I will struggle

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

I can zone out ...or in as required....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy the chatting... I'd much rather meet people and be good friends than just a shag! A friendship can last forever a shag only lasts half hour... hour? 2 hours?

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By *m389 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bromley

I become very self conscious, to the point I’m like ‘yea she knows I’m just trying small talk ‘

It’s like lying to someone when they expecting to be lied to.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"Are you any good at it?

I suck balls at it. I’m that joe that can only say “hey, how’s your day” then follow with awkward silence."

God no I can’t do small talk at all and it drives me nuts when I have to drive the conversation

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester

I think just about everyone can if they make the effort after all if you can speak you can chat well unless you are lazy.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I think some confuse can't do it with can't be bothered to do it at times. If you are interested and I mean really interested in someone you make the effort and take an interest in them I knows I do."

Exactly! Totally bored of the 'how r u?' messages,

I would understand if I had a blank profile, but if they can't find something from it to speak about, I am so not desired to respond.

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