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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Anal sex has been practiced throughout the centuries by both sexes in a hetero and homosexual manner.

There is no clear evolutionary advantage. So it can't be by biological design.

It's where some of the most disgusting fluids and gases the human body is capable of producing, come from. So you'd think it may be the last place someone would want to put a finger or more.

So what is it about bum sex that holds such fascination amongst many of us humans?

The only time I am remotely interest in man-on-man sex, is if I'm feeling in the mood for a little D/s, where I take on the role of "s". Its not often and its not unsafe.. but by gum it hits the spot with the right person, who knows what it is I need to enjoy the experience.

Talking about my "s" side makes me want to *Inner scream* with embarrassment as it's not something I'm usually open about. However, to give bum sex the place in the Trophy Cabinet it deserves.. I feel the need to explain, some things are just too important and you have to take a stand.

Taboo! Taboo of homosexuality! Taboo of bottom play! Taboo of actually enjoying it! That feeling of sluttyness. The feeling of total exposure and open legged vulnerability.

It does hurt. Usually the first couple of times, till you get accustomed to using your muscles, knowing when it's ok to relax and when it's not. My first hurt like Hell! An inner pain like the whole of my colon had just been stung. Desire and curiosity push us on though. If only I'd had a different 'first' and I may never have felt that pain at all.

There are differing levels of feeling and intensity dependant on how your most protected of crannies is being pummelled.

I used to worry if I was Gay. I didn't want to be, because I didn't fancy men, I only fancy women. Only like men for a bi annual botty prod.

As the predominantly heterosexual man in his prime that i am

I can say exactly the same for being the giver.

Only, it's more intimate with a woman, for me at any rate. It's not something I'd try to pull out the hat on a first meet. With someone I know though.. Eye contact during entry, reading for signs of discomfort or pleasure, slowing if need be, gently easing, stopping. Allowing her the time she needs to adjust to my size before I think to even begin to rolling my hips.

It's so very tight at the start, like fucking a clenched fist, but as she starts to relax and enjoy the slow, gentle, long, push and pulls.. the tightness fades away.

If D/s Roleplay is in effect, it's an immensely powerful and erotic tool in the ARSEnal of a Sexually Dominant person's handbook.

I find the intimacy, vulnerability, trust, sensation and exploration of it all one of the top five things in SEX. I feel very sorry for those of you who don't, can't or won't indulge in one up the bum.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please don’t feel sorry for me I’m cool with it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Please don’t feel sorry for me I’m cool with it

I can't help it Nora.. I'm a nice guy deep down.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Erm... Was there a question in there GK or just a long ode to bum love?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Please don’t feel sorry for me I’m cool with it

I can't help it Nora.. I'm a nice guy deep down."

Awwww thanks anyway

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Please don’t feel sorry for me I’m cool with it

I can't help it Nora.. I'm a nice guy deep inside my bum."

Ftfy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Erm... Was there a question in there GK or just a long ode to bum love?! "

A long Ode I believe.. I got bored of drivvle so decided to dribble.

Feel free to write whatever you like now

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Please don’t feel sorry for me I’m cool with it

I can't help it Nora.. I'm a nice guy deep inside my bum.

Ftfy"

Why! I didn't write that.. but I so should have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Please don’t feel sorry for me I’m cool with it

I can't help it Nora.. I'm a nice guy deep inside my bum.

Ftfy

Why! I didn't write that.. but I so should have

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

I’m very happy not taking it up the arse thanks. I don’t feel sorry for those that do, as I’m sure they want to do it

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I like pegging.

(What a useful contribution)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m very happy not taking it up the arse thanks. I don’t feel sorry for those that do, as I’m sure they want to do it

You have my pity regardless.. I'm a very nice guy deep down.. inside my bum.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like pegging.

(What a useful contribution)"

You're going to be inundated with pms now, I hope you know this

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"I’m very happy not taking it up the arse thanks. I don’t feel sorry for those that do, as I’m sure they want to do it

You have my pity regardless.. I'm a very nice guy deep down.. inside my bum."

You might want to remove your head from up there regardless of how nice it is

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m very happy not taking it up the arse thanks. I don’t feel sorry for those that do, as I’m sure they want to do it

You have my pity regardless.. I'm a very nice guy deep down.. inside my bum.

You might want to remove your head from up there regardless of how nice it is

Alrightythen..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Almost poetic OP.. I'm delighted you have found peace and happiness with your bum.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Almost poetic OP.. I'm delighted you have found peace and happiness with your bum. "

It's beautiful isn't it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Almost poetic OP.. I'm delighted you have found peace and happiness with your bum.

It's beautiful isn't it

Almost brought a tear to my eye..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good call love playing with a girls bum from cheeks to hole i find it very erotic tongues fingers toys cock

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Almost poetic OP.. I'm delighted you have found peace and happiness with your bum.

It's beautiful isn't it

Almost brought a tear to my eye.. "

More lube, that's the answer

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Almost poetic OP.. I'm delighted you have found peace and happiness with your bum.

It's beautiful isn't it

Almost brought a tear to my eye.. "

*Stifling the urge to say the obvious*

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Almost poetic OP.. I'm delighted you have found peace and happiness with your bum.

It's beautiful isn't it

Almost brought a tear to my eye..

More lube, that's the answer"

Thats your solution to everything isn't it.. I'd nibble her ear and grunt like a trufflepig, works everytime.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Erm... Was there a question in there GK or just a long ode to bum love?! "

I think he was lacking some muscle control and something leaked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Almost poetic OP.. I'm delighted you have found peace and happiness with your bum.

It's beautiful isn't it

Almost brought a tear to my eye..

More lube, that's the answer

Thats your solution to everything isn't it.. I'd nibble her ear and grunt like a trufflepig, works everytime."

Ha ha might have known there'd be a pun in there you pair of monkeys.

Grunting like a truffle pig.. wow.. that's oddly erotic!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Told you Monkey boy. You can't just slather a load of wd40 on and hope for the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You almost make me want to try it again, Op! I can't manage anal, far to painful, but I'm rather partial to pegging a man.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You almost make me want to try it again, Op! I can't manage anal, far to painful, but I'm rather partial to pegging a man. "

Really? I'm Really rather ok at it you know

Given I know exactly how it feels. Know what not to do.

Previous partners give you lots of foreplay first? Or just went straight for you? Don't feel like you have to answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still an anal virgin

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Good call love playing with a girls bum from cheeks to hole i find it very erotic tongues fingers toys cock "

Sorry man, wasn't ignoring, just missed post. I do too.. Though I have to pretty sure she knows what she's doing cleanliness wise, before I get my face too close

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Still an anal virgin

Slacker!

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

It's one of my favourite things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And I propose we nominate GK to be the next poet laureate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Still an anal virgin

Slacker!

Sheltered life

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's one of my favourite things

When you're wandering the West Midlands.. is it anywhere near my neck of the West Midlands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You almost make me want to try it again, Op! I can't manage anal, far to painful, but I'm rather partial to pegging a man.

Really? I'm Really rather ok at it you know

Given I know exactly how it feels. Know what not to do.

Previous partners give you lots of foreplay first? Or just went straight for you? Don't feel like you have to answer."

Both scenarios have occurred, neither were successful....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And I propose we nominate GK to be the next poet laureate

Don't, you'll make me cry..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You almost make me want to try it again, Op! I can't manage anal, far to painful, but I'm rather partial to pegging a man. "

Go on try again. Do it for the team!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Still an anal virgin

Slacker!

Sheltered life

No excuse. Next time you see a penis or a dildo.. I insist you jump on it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You almost make me want to try it again, Op! I can't manage anal, far to painful, but I'm rather partial to pegging a man.

Really? I'm Really rather ok at it you know

Given I know exactly how it feels. Know what not to do.

Previous partners give you lots of foreplay first? Or just went straight for you? Don't feel like you have to answer.

Both scenarios have occurred, neither were successful.... "

Have you given up? That's the ONLY question that matters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well these posts have turned me on , made me and made me wince all in a couple of minutes!!!!

Cuming from anal is insanely intense and the slow build up is so good!

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"It's one of my favourite things

When you're wandering the West Midlands.. is it anywhere near my neck of the West Midlands

Nope!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You almost make me want to try it again, Op! I can't manage anal, far to painful, but I'm rather partial to pegging a man.

Really? I'm Really rather ok at it you know

Given I know exactly how it feels. Know what not to do.

Previous partners give you lots of foreplay first? Or just went straight for you? Don't feel like you have to answer.

Both scenarios have occurred, neither were successful....

Have you given up? That's the ONLY question that matters."

I'm really not that bothered about trying again, I don't want to risk an injury. Maybe my bum just wasn't meant for such activity...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like your owning up to vulnerability bit. It's a big thing to have another part of someone inside you.

Im a very reluctant partaker of up the bum mind I have to be quite overcome with desire, but not having cum yet or you have no chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surprising I haven't known many men socially that don't like anal.

As a huge lover of anal play myself I'd say it's the most pleasurable experience you can have with a woman, if they are into it too.

Aside from anal play, anal penetration is the best feeling ever and always leads to the most intense orgasms.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's one of my favourite things

When you're wandering the West Midlands.. is it anywhere near my neck of the West Midlands

Nope! "

Bollocks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Still an anal virgin

Slacker!

Sheltered life

No excuse. Next time you see a penis or a dildo.. I insist you jump on it."

I’ve had a big dildo up there but just not the real thing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like your owning up to vulnerability bit. It's a big thing to have another part of someone inside you.

Im a very reluctant partaker of up the bum mind I have to be quite overcome with desire, but not having cum yet or you have no chance

You said my name once in hottest men on Fab thread

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well these posts have turned me on , made me and made me wince all in a couple of minutes!!!!

Cuming from anal is insanely intense and the slow build up is so good!"

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well i love it up the arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surprising I haven't known many men socially that don't like anal.

As a huge lover of anal play myself I'd say it's the most pleasurable experience you can have with a woman, if they are into it too.

In my opinion, aside from anal play, anal penetration is the best feeling ever and always leads to the most intense orgasms."

FTFY

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"well i love it up the arse

You ran away last time I stared at your bum in the Forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well i love it up the arse

Good on you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well i love it up the arse

You ran away last time I stared at your bum in the Forum."

forum shmorum,, yum yum,I like it up the bum

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"well i love it up the arse

You ran away last time I stared at your bum in the Forum.

forum shmorum,, yum yum,I like it up the bum"

I'm talking to you, you bum fun thread thief!

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By *rgasmicChemistryCouple
over a year ago

east coast

You legend Op

I like H to rimm me but as soon as her fingers start playing

boom I’m done I last about 2 minutes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its a real gathering of butt fuckers on here eh

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You legend Op

I like H to rimm me but as soon as her fingers start playing

boom I’m done I last about 2 minutes

J "

Legend? Oh please

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"its a real gathering of butt fuckers on here eh

More of a gathering than yours you thread terrorarse!

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Told you Monkey boy. You can't just slather a load of wd40 on and hope for the best

Wd40?

Although I guess the tube applicator would be of benefit...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"its a real gathering of butt fuckers on here eh

More of a gathering than yours you thread terrorarse!

ha! but on my thread no one mentions wd40

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Told you Monkey boy. You can't just slather a load of wd40 on and hope for the best

Wd40?

Although I guess the tube applicator would be of benefit... "

"Grunt like a trufflepig"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m chuckling at the line “bi annual botty prod”..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m chuckling at the line “bi annual botty prod”..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m chuckling at the line “bi annual botty prod”..

lol,,i know,,lol,,twice a year,,lol,,yer kidding

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Told you Monkey boy. You can't just slather a load of wd40 on and hope for the best

Wd40?

Although I guess the tube applicator would be of benefit...

"Grunt like a trufflepig""

I think I'm doing it wrong, I've never made that noise

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m chuckling at the line “bi annual botty prod”..

lol,,i know,,lol,,twice a year,,lol,,yer kidding

Depends entirely on how I'm feeling, but it's not far off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m chuckling at the line “bi annual botty prod”..

lol,,i know,,lol,,twice a year,,lol,,yer kidding

“Botty prod” did it for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hilarious thread

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I like pegging.

(What a useful contribution)"

I'm talking to a guy who likes to be pegged.

I have no experience but hey new experiences are what I joined fab for so it's a definate possibility.

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

I can only hope one day I'll be in the right place at the right time to give it a go

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like pegging.

(What a useful contribution)

I'm talking to a guy who likes to be pegged.

I have no experience but hey new experiences are what I joined fab for so it's a definate possibility.

You are awesome!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can only hope one day I'll be in the right place at the right time to give it a go"

That's the spirit

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I like pegging.

(What a useful contribution)

I'm talking to a guy who likes to be pegged.

I have no experience but hey new experiences are what I joined fab for so it's a definate possibility.

You are awesome!

Aww thank you

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