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By *inkyLondonpair OP   Couple
over a year ago

London

This is for those who are actively seeking bi guys, men, women or couples. If you don't meet bi guys at all, please ignore.

So, if a guy who has straight in his profile, but says he his bi when he messages you, what's your attitude compared to openly bi men

1. I wouldn't meet him

2. I'd be less likely to meet him.

3. It would make no difference.

4. I'd be more likely to meet him.

Just type a number.

Assume you would otherwise be open to meeting him. I'm trying to gauge attitudes to men on the down low.

We're a 2.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

1.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not actively seeking right now, but if I were, it wouldn't matter to me in the slightest.

So 3.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1.

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

1.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3

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By *rs-Naughty_Mr-CuddlesCouple
over a year ago

Nr coleford

2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2

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By *he Cheeky GirlsCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Dover and Benidorm

A hot 3.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 - I'd rather the honesty from the start

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By *achelNottmTV/TS
over a year ago

notts/derbys

2

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By *ubsteffTV/TS
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I think I’d go with 2, but it would depend on how hot he was because I’m shallow like that

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

1

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

How would you know as too many liars on here, pick a number any number will do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 sometimes 1, they're usually the type who add to trope of "bi men lie" which we're not fans off.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

1. Militantly so

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By *utterflyandArtificeCouple
over a year ago

Trowbridge

1. "Oh I am so straight, I am Fab Straight" - walk on bi ( see what I did there?

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria


"1. "Oh I am so straight, I am Fab Straight" - walk on bi ( see what I did there?

"

Ahem, run that past me again darling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm straight. Guys just dont do it for me. But I'm more than happy to chat to everyone...(doesnt make me easy).

I'm also someone who is not affraid to try a new experience..so if someone offers, Im more than happy to try (that said there are somethings I would never do).

If I do 'go' with a guy, CD, TV etc and enjoy the experience then fine...but if I try but find its not my cup of tea, that doesnt make me bi.

Also,(playing devils advocate here) surely its up to them how they see themselves, not for others to judge/lable?

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria


"I'm straight. Guys just dont do it for me. But I'm more than happy to chat to everyone...(doesnt make me easy).

I'm also someone who is not affraid to try a new experience..so if someone offers, Im more than happy to try (that said there are somethings I would never do).

If I do 'go' with a guy, CD, TV etc and enjoy the experience then fine...but if I try but find its not my cup of tea, that doesnt make me bi.

Also,(playing devils advocate here) surely its up to them how they see themselves, not for others to judge/lable?

"

Bi curious chocolate boy, but who cares as labels are for knickers and such.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m on this sight really to meet girls , I have straight on my profile simple because I find most girls say they won’t meet bi men ,

My self I have had the odd encounter with the male side ,TVs to tell the truth ,but it does say on my profile that I would meet trans girls xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm straight. Guys just dont do it for me. But I'm more than happy to chat to everyone...(doesnt make me easy).

I'm also someone who is not affraid to try a new experience..so if someone offers, Im more than happy to try (that said there are somethings I would never do).

If I do 'go' with a guy, CD, TV etc and enjoy the experience then fine...but if I try but find its not my cup of tea, that doesnt make me bi.

Also,(playing devils advocate here) surely its up to them how they see themselves, not for others to judge/lable?

Bi curious chocolate boy, but who cares as labels are for knickers and such. "

Time to update my profile then??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont like to ignore its rude

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

2. I'm not someone's second best to a woman or an experiment with their sexuality. It's not a complete'no' in some cases if he's what I'm attracted to then I may relent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm straight. Guys just dont do it for me. But I'm more than happy to chat to everyone...(doesnt make me easy).

I'm also someone who is not affraid to try a new experience..so if someone offers, Im more than happy to try (that said there are somethings I would never do).

If I do 'go' with a guy, CD, TV etc and enjoy the experience then fine...but if I try but find its not my cup of tea, that doesnt make me bi.

Also,(playing devils advocate here) surely its up to them how they see themselves, not for others to judge/lable?

"

Try before you bi?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Very much 1 here (although may veer to a 2 if they are able to put across a compelling and credible reason why they are hiding their sexuality) - my reasoning being that if they are lying about their sexuality what else are they lying about (their marital status? Their attitude towards sexual health?)?

As for those that say they hide it because most women won't meet them if they openly display themselves as bisexual - two recent polls carried out by the OP actually suggested otherwise, with over 90% saying they either actively seek bisexual guys, or aren't bothered if they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 for me

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm not bothered about labels as our interests vary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm probably a 2. I generally turn down 'straight' blokes that contact me, unless they're particularly interesting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2

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By *WkinkymaleMan
over a year ago

Llandudno

2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3. I like when they drop it in like a wee added bonus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very much 1 here (although may veer to a 2 if they are able to put across a compelling and credible reason why they are hiding their sexuality) - my reasoning being that if they are lying about their sexuality what else are they lying about (their marital status? Their attitude towards sexual health?)?

As for those that say they hide it because most women won't meet them if they openly display themselves as bisexual - two recent polls carried out by the OP actually suggested otherwise, with over 90% saying they either actively seek bisexual guys, or aren't bothered if they are."

What if they lied about their age? Would that make you think they were lying about other things too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

probably about a 1.5

although i'm not actively seeking I may still entertain the odd message, although most I've talked to put me off by being way too forward, like has been said here a lot most cocks are better in person and I don't need to see a picture

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By *eetmyfootTV/TS
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

4

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

mostly 2, but it all depends on the message they send, if its wuu2 it doesn't matter what the profile says, where as if it is a decent message with real words, there is a much better chance.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Very much 1 here (although may veer to a 2 if they are able to put across a compelling and credible reason why they are hiding their sexuality) - my reasoning being that if they are lying about their sexuality what else are they lying about (their marital status? Their attitude towards sexual health?)?

As for those that say they hide it because most women won't meet them if they openly display themselves as bisexual - two recent polls carried out by the OP actually suggested otherwise, with over 90% saying they either actively seek bisexual guys, or aren't bothered if they are.

What if they lied about their age? Would that make you think they were lying about other things too?"

Yes it would - any lie that is uncovered would make me wonder what else there was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very much 1 here (although may veer to a 2 if they are able to put across a compelling and credible reason why they are hiding their sexuality) - my reasoning being that if they are lying about their sexuality what else are they lying about (their marital status? Their attitude towards sexual health?)?

As for those that say they hide it because most women won't meet them if they openly display themselves as bisexual - two recent polls carried out by the OP actually suggested otherwise, with over 90% saying they either actively seek bisexual guys, or aren't bothered if they are.

What if they lied about their age? Would that make you think they were lying about other things too?

Yes it would - any lie that is uncovered would make me wonder what else there was."

Have you never told a lie? If you had would you then lie about everything and anything afterwards?

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By *inkyLondonpair OP   Couple
over a year ago

London


"I'm straight. Guys just dont do it for me. But I'm more than happy to chat to everyone...(doesnt make me easy).

I'm also someone who is not affraid to try a new experience..so if someone offers, Im more than happy to try (that said there are somethings I would never do).

If I do 'go' with a guy, CD, TV etc and enjoy the experience then fine...but if I try but find its not my cup of tea, that doesnt make me bi.

Also,(playing devils advocate here) surely its up to them how they see themselves, not for others to judge/lable?

"

I don't agree.

For the purposes of this site, if you're willing to engage sexually with someone of the same sex you're at least bi curious.

It's not a matter of self defined personal identity, its a matter of saying what your sexual tastes are in terms of objective definitions to enable people to know if they are compatible with you.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Very much 1 here (although may veer to a 2 if they are able to put across a compelling and credible reason why they are hiding their sexuality) - my reasoning being that if they are lying about their sexuality what else are they lying about (their marital status? Their attitude towards sexual health?)?

As for those that say they hide it because most women won't meet them if they openly display themselves as bisexual - two recent polls carried out by the OP actually suggested otherwise, with over 90% saying they either actively seek bisexual guys, or aren't bothered if they are.

What if they lied about their age? Would that make you think they were lying about other things too?

Yes it would - any lie that is uncovered would make me wonder what else there was.

Have you never told a lie? If you had would you then lie about everything and anything afterwards?

"

Of course I have and anyone that says they haven't is frankly....well you get it

There's a difference though if you're lying about something as fundamental as your age, sexuality etc on here that it's only natural to question what else is being hidden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very much 1 here (although may veer to a 2 if they are able to put across a compelling and credible reason why they are hiding their sexuality) - my reasoning being that if they are lying about their sexuality what else are they lying about (their marital status? Their attitude towards sexual health?)?

As for those that say they hide it because most women won't meet them if they openly display themselves as bisexual - two recent polls carried out by the OP actually suggested otherwise, with over 90% saying they either actively seek bisexual guys, or aren't bothered if they are.

What if they lied about their age? Would that make you think they were lying about other things too?

Yes it would - any lie that is uncovered would make me wonder what else there was.

Have you never told a lie? If you had would you then lie about everything and anything afterwards?

Of course I have and anyone that says they haven't is frankly....well you get it

There's a difference though if you're lying about something as fundamental as your age, sexuality etc on here that it's only natural to question what else is being hidden "

I'm lying about mine. What else would you think I'm lying about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1

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By *inkyLondonpair OP   Couple
over a year ago

London


"Very much 1 here (although may veer to a 2 if they are able to put across a compelling and credible reason why they are hiding their sexuality) - my reasoning being that if they are lying about their sexuality what else are they lying about (their marital status? Their attitude towards sexual health?)?

As for those that say they hide it because most women won't meet them if they openly display themselves as bisexual - two recent polls carried out by the OP actually suggested otherwise, with over 90% saying they either actively seek bisexual guys, or aren't bothered if they are.

What if they lied about their age? Would that make you think they were lying about other things too?

Yes it would - any lie that is uncovered would make me wonder what else there was.

Have you never told a lie? If you had would you then lie about everything and anything afterwards?

Of course I have and anyone that says they haven't is frankly....well you get it

There's a difference though if you're lying about something as fundamental as your age, sexuality etc on here that it's only natural to question what else is being hidden

I'm lying about mine. What else would you think I'm lying about? "

So you're not straight. Why lie about that, as a woman

I'm intrigued

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By *gcw2014Couple
over a year ago

just outside of liverpool

2. chances are he's not bi and just wants fun with female half

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very much 1 here (although may veer to a 2 if they are able to put across a compelling and credible reason why they are hiding their sexuality) - my reasoning being that if they are lying about their sexuality what else are they lying about (their marital status? Their attitude towards sexual health?)?

As for those that say they hide it because most women won't meet them if they openly display themselves as bisexual - two recent polls carried out by the OP actually suggested otherwise, with over 90% saying they either actively seek bisexual guys, or aren't bothered if they are.

What if they lied about their age? Would that make you think they were lying about other things too?

Yes it would - any lie that is uncovered would make me wonder what else there was.

Have you never told a lie? If you had would you then lie about everything and anything afterwards?

Of course I have and anyone that says they haven't is frankly....well you get it

There's a difference though if you're lying about something as fundamental as your age, sexuality etc on here that it's only natural to question what else is being hidden

I'm lying about mine. What else would you think I'm lying about?

So you're not straight. Why lie about that, as a woman

I'm intrigued "

Because no one gives a shit if I lie and I don't contact couples saying I'm actually bi and would meet them, as I'm not looking to meet women on here.

I'm not actively bi, and I may never be again, but some men will fixate on it if I put it on my profile.

I have the opposite problem to men who lie about being bi.

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By *heltenhamBiGuyMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

A 2 from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm straight. Guys just dont do it for me. But I'm more than happy to chat to everyone...(doesnt make me easy).

I'm also someone who is not affraid to try a new experience..so if someone offers, Im more than happy to try (that said there are somethings I would never do).

If I do 'go' with a guy, CD, TV etc and enjoy the experience then fine...but if I try but find its not my cup of tea, that doesnt make me bi.

Also,(playing devils advocate here) surely its up to them how they see themselves, not for others to judge/lable?

I don't agree.

For the purposes of this site, if you're willing to engage sexually with someone of the same sex you're at least bi curious.

It's not a matter of self defined personal identity, its a matter of saying what your sexual tastes are in terms of objective definitions to enable people to know if they are compatible with you.

"
After reading some of the posts, I'm beginning to see things in a different way

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Very much 1 here (although may veer to a 2 if they are able to put across a compelling and credible reason why they are hiding their sexuality) - my reasoning being that if they are lying about their sexuality what else are they lying about (their marital status? Their attitude towards sexual health?)?

As for those that say they hide it because most women won't meet them if they openly display themselves as bisexual - two recent polls carried out by the OP actually suggested otherwise, with over 90% saying they either actively seek bisexual guys, or aren't bothered if they are.

What if they lied about their age? Would that make you think they were lying about other things too?

Yes it would - any lie that is uncovered would make me wonder what else there was.

Have you never told a lie? If you had would you then lie about everything and anything afterwards?

Of course I have and anyone that says they haven't is frankly....well you get it

There's a difference though if you're lying about something as fundamental as your age, sexuality etc on here that it's only natural to question what else is being hidden

I'm lying about mine. What else would you think I'm lying about? "

Without wishing to take this off into a "when are you bi" tangent, are you though? You've stated enough times in the past that you've tried it once or twice, but have no intention of doing so again, but in the heat of the moment might do - I'd argue that's not necessarily lying about your sexuality and is in fact being pretty open and honest about it, in which case I can duck the second question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very much 1 here (although may veer to a 2 if they are able to put across a compelling and credible reason why they are hiding their sexuality) - my reasoning being that if they are lying about their sexuality what else are they lying about (their marital status? Their attitude towards sexual health?)?

As for those that say they hide it because most women won't meet them if they openly display themselves as bisexual - two recent polls carried out by the OP actually suggested otherwise, with over 90% saying they either actively seek bisexual guys, or aren't bothered if they are.

What if they lied about their age? Would that make you think they were lying about other things too?

Yes it would - any lie that is uncovered would make me wonder what else there was.

Have you never told a lie? If you had would you then lie about everything and anything afterwards?

Of course I have and anyone that says they haven't is frankly....well you get it

There's a difference though if you're lying about something as fundamental as your age, sexuality etc on here that it's only natural to question what else is being hidden

I'm lying about mine. What else would you think I'm lying about?

Without wishing to take this off into a "when are you bi" tangent, are you though? You've stated enough times in the past that you've tried it once or twice, but have no intention of doing so again, but in the heat of the moment might do - I'd argue that's not necessarily lying about your sexuality and is in fact being pretty open and honest about it, in which case I can duck the second question "

I change my mind like British weather. Today, and last night when I was with a man, I could have happily had a pussy on my face. Most of the time, and specifically on here, I don't think about women and I don't get the yearning. I don't see the point saying I'm bi on here, as it might make people think I'm here for women.

I'm very flakey when it comes to my sexual desires.

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By *inkyLondonpair OP   Couple
over a year ago

London


"Very much 1 here (although may veer to a 2 if they are able to put across a compelling and credible reason why they are hiding their sexuality) - my reasoning being that if they are lying about their sexuality what else are they lying about (their marital status? Their attitude towards sexual health?)?

As for those that say they hide it because most women won't meet them if they openly display themselves as bisexual - two recent polls carried out by the OP actually suggested otherwise, with over 90% saying they either actively seek bisexual guys, or aren't bothered if they are.

What if they lied about their age? Would that make you think they were lying about other things too?

Yes it would - any lie that is uncovered would make me wonder what else there was.

Have you never told a lie? If you had would you then lie about everything and anything afterwards?

Of course I have and anyone that says they haven't is frankly....well you get it

There's a difference though if you're lying about something as fundamental as your age, sexuality etc on here that it's only natural to question what else is being hidden

I'm lying about mine. What else would you think I'm lying about?

Without wishing to take this off into a "when are you bi" tangent, are you though? You've stated enough times in the past that you've tried it once or twice, but have no intention of doing so again, but in the heat of the moment might do - I'd argue that's not necessarily lying about your sexuality and is in fact being pretty open and honest about it, in which case I can duck the second question

I change my mind like British weather. Today, and last night when I was with a man, I could have happily had a pussy on my face. Most of the time, and specifically on here, I don't think about women and I don't get the yearning. I don't see the point saying I'm bi on here, as it might make people think I'm here for women.

I'm very flakey when it comes to my sexual desires. "

Isn't bi curious more accurate then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3

Makes no difference to me. I get why some guys wouldn’t put that on their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very much 1 here (although may veer to a 2 if they are able to put across a compelling and credible reason why they are hiding their sexuality) - my reasoning being that if they are lying about their sexuality what else are they lying about (their marital status? Their attitude towards sexual health?)?

As for those that say they hide it because most women won't meet them if they openly display themselves as bisexual - two recent polls carried out by the OP actually suggested otherwise, with over 90% saying they either actively seek bisexual guys, or aren't bothered if they are.

What if they lied about their age? Would that make you think they were lying about other things too?

Yes it would - any lie that is uncovered would make me wonder what else there was.

Have you never told a lie? If you had would you then lie about everything and anything afterwards?

Of course I have and anyone that says they haven't is frankly....well you get it

There's a difference though if you're lying about something as fundamental as your age, sexuality etc on here that it's only natural to question what else is being hidden

I'm lying about mine. What else would you think I'm lying about?

Without wishing to take this off into a "when are you bi" tangent, are you though? You've stated enough times in the past that you've tried it once or twice, but have no intention of doing so again, but in the heat of the moment might do - I'd argue that's not necessarily lying about your sexuality and is in fact being pretty open and honest about it, in which case I can duck the second question

I change my mind like British weather. Today, and last night when I was with a man, I could have happily had a pussy on my face. Most of the time, and specifically on here, I don't think about women and I don't get the yearning. I don't see the point saying I'm bi on here, as it might make people think I'm here for women.

I'm very flakey when it comes to my sexual desires.

Isn't bi curious more accurate then? "

No. I'm not curious about women, I just find it very rare that I want one. When I do I know exactly what I want to do with her.

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By *avidberksMan
over a year ago

Wokingham

i don't consider myself bi, but in an mmf i have sucked cock and had my cock sucked by the other guy. But i don't meet single guys as I'm not interested in them. should i be more upfront about my willingness to join in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm straight. Guys just dont do it for me. But I'm more than happy to chat to everyone...(doesnt make me easy).

I'm also someone who is not affraid to try a new experience..so if someone offers, Im more than happy to try (that said there are somethings I would never do).

If I do 'go' with a guy, CD, TV etc and enjoy the experience then fine...but if I try but find its not my cup of tea, that doesnt make me bi.

Also,(playing devils advocate here) surely its up to them how they see themselves, not for others to judge/lable?

I don't agree.

For the purposes of this site, if you're willing to engage sexually with someone of the same sex you're at least bi curious.

It's not a matter of self defined personal identity, its a matter of saying what your sexual tastes are in terms of objective definitions to enable people to know if they are compatible with you.

"

I disagree with the sexuality tick box on profiles. It's irrelevant.

The sexuality on my profile is wrong. If I say I'm bi it tends to attract the kind of people I don't want to meet.

The 'looking for' information is all that's needed.

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By *uryWhipMan
over a year ago

Harringay

1.

Have been messaged by straight guys but just for banter really. Im still perturbed by straight guys who wink and fab me.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I'm straight. Guys just dont do it for me. But I'm more than happy to chat to everyone...(doesnt make me easy).

I'm also someone who is not affraid to try a new experience..so if someone offers, Im more than happy to try (that said there are somethings I would never do).

If I do 'go' with a guy, CD, TV etc and enjoy the experience then fine...but if I try but find its not my cup of tea, that doesnt make me bi.

Also,(playing devils advocate here) surely its up to them how they see themselves, not for others to judge/lable?

I don't agree.

For the purposes of this site, if you're willing to engage sexually with someone of the same sex you're at least bi curious.

It's not a matter of self defined personal identity, its a matter of saying what your sexual tastes are in terms of objective definitions to enable people to know if they are compatible with you.

I disagree with the sexuality tick box on profiles. It's irrelevant.

The sexuality on my profile is wrong. If I say I'm bi it tends to attract the kind of people I don't want to meet.

The 'looking for' information is all that's needed. "

And as I've said before in response to this suggestion - the "looking for" information would be exactly the same as defining your sexuality.

Single guy puts he's looking for men = bisexual

Single lady puts she's looking for women = bisexual

So no different from what there is now.

The *only* place it would make a difference would be for couples where it would create ambiguity.

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By * bi 2Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

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over a year ago


"I'm straight. Guys just dont do it for me. But I'm more than happy to chat to everyone...(doesnt make me easy).

I'm also someone who is not affraid to try a new experience..so if someone offers, Im more than happy to try (that said there are somethings I would never do).

If I do 'go' with a guy, CD, TV etc and enjoy the experience then fine...but if I try but find its not my cup of tea, that doesnt make me bi.

Also,(playing devils advocate here) surely its up to them how they see themselves, not for others to judge/lable?

I don't agree.

For the purposes of this site, if you're willing to engage sexually with someone of the same sex you're at least bi curious.

It's not a matter of self defined personal identity, its a matter of saying what your sexual tastes are in terms of objective definitions to enable people to know if they are compatible with you.

I disagree with the sexuality tick box on profiles. It's irrelevant.

The sexuality on my profile is wrong. If I say I'm bi it tends to attract the kind of people I don't want to meet.

The 'looking for' information is all that's needed.

And as I've said before in response to this suggestion - the "looking for" information would be exactly the same as defining your sexuality.

Single guy puts he's looking for men = bisexual

Single lady puts she's looking for women = bisexual

So no different from what there is now.

The *only* place it would make a difference would be for couples where it would create ambiguity."

If I just said I was looking for men they'd assume I was straight not bi.

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

2

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over a year ago

Can we do decimal places ? A 1.5 ...

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"

I disagree with the sexuality tick box on profiles. It's irrelevant.

The sexuality on my profile is wrong. If I say I'm bi it tends to attract the kind of people I don't want to meet.

The 'looking for' information is all that's needed.

And as I've said before in response to this suggestion - the "looking for" information would be exactly the same as defining your sexuality.

Single guy puts he's looking for men = bisexual

Single lady puts she's looking for women = bisexual

So no different from what there is now.

The *only* place it would make a difference would be for couples where it would create ambiguity.

If I just said I was looking for men they'd assume I was straight not bi. "

And that's my point exactly - using the "looking for" field would be no different from using the sexuality field, so your suggestion is invalid, apart from possibly to couples where it would just create ambiguity.

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over a year ago

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By *aked_magicMan
over a year ago

the gutter looking at the stars (UAE)

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over a year ago

Ramsgate

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over a year ago

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