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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good afternoon.

Would you not meet with a women couple or male if they've met with a certain person. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes im really judgmental

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. If that person were having unprotected gang bangs, for instance.

Possibly, if said person were a total cunt. I would question their integrity and vulgar taste in women.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Yeah I would rule them out. What risks they want to expose themselves to is their own business, I can limit my risks by not meeting 3rd parties of people i judge to be above and beyond normal risky person.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think we all are. Even a little x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone told my husband they’d meet him but he has a veri from me. He told them he doesn’t meet, and that’s a darn shame considering he’s married to me

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Yes it's off putting but for others its enticing - good filter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends. If it was someone I knew to play unsafely then no.

I guess if they met people very different to me then I would question why they wanted to meet me.

If it was just someone I wasn't fond of then I'd go for it.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I would never meet someone if there was clear pissing up the lamppost drama between 2 people.

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

Mostly it doesn't bother me. Unless it would upset someone I know. I wouldn't ruin a friendship for a shag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. I wouldn’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been ostracised by a particular group on here after one of them had a falling out with a woman I’d met.

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

Yes, I judge people by the company they keep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve been ostracised by a particular group on here after one of them had a falling out with a woman I’d met. "

We need more details

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes im really judgmental"

This

I always read peoples verifications and look at who they've met.

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

Oh yes, as the post above some ppl don't talk to me now, all because I wouldn't ride the same bike.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. Just one person who I know irl. Deeply unpleasant person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find it to be a good filter

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was reading some profiles and alot have met the same person and the veries were really off putting and to honest rather disgusting. Hence why I asked x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh yes, as the post above some ppl don't talk to me now, all because I wouldn't ride the same bike..... "

People dont talk to you because you wouldn't meet somone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't understand the whole I'm not meeting you because you met them culture on fab or the 20 question brigade that are interested in what that person was like,who I meet is my business and the reasons I met them and anything else is our business if you don't like them don't meet them but don't condemn someone on the basis of who they have met in the past just because you have an issue with a particular fabber

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Judge the person on what’s in front of you, not who they’ve met.

They might have met someone you don’t agree with just in passing at a party and exchanged veris, or it might of been a one off where safe sex was practiced.

We were in an 8 person play scenario at the weekend. Not one veri passed between us, and for all you guys know there might not have been a condom in sight (there was plenty before we get criticised).

Ultimately, we can only be responsible for our own sexual health.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really try not to judge but unfortunately there are certain people on here I wouldn't go near with a ten foot barge pole.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"Good afternoon.

Would you not meet with a women couple or male if they've met with a certain person. X"

Try again, damn autocarrot

Yes!

When you know someone indulges frequently with multiple partners, yes I'm talking BB, then no I'm not following that act.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really try not to judge but unfortunately there are certain people on here I wouldn't go near with a ten foot barge pole. "

Totally agree with this and some weve seen play at clubs won't entertain were here for fun not to risk our health

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, their company is reflective of who they are, and as someone else said, I've been blocked by a few because I wouldn't meet a friend or two of theirs.

I'm good with that, saves me looking and then blocking those not compatible.

There's plenty more out there who are and have different friends.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Judge people however you like.

"Sexy photo" - is a judgement that they are sexy. When you tell that to people they never say "Only god can judge me, fuck off".

They only ever complain when a judgement is on the negative end of the spectrum. But if you feel negative dont ignore, maybe don't say it but dont ignore it or feel bad. If you cant feel negative about one person then you cant feel positive about another, you cant live in the middle judging nothing your whole life.

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"Oh yes, as the post above some ppl don't talk to me now, all because I wouldn't ride the same bike.....

People dont talk to you because you wouldn't meet somone?"

No....the fact I wouldn't ride a bike that's been through every tunnel in the fab world.....having millions veri,s dsnt make anyone an amazing shag.....just a shag....

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By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds

Sounds like a minefield, I suppose only certain in the know people have the information about others,whether that be hearsay or witnessed.

I imagine grudges and out of joint noses can colour people's judgement too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I probably wouldn’t meet a popular forumite that has met many others or has a queue waiting to meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve been ostracised by a particular group on here after one of them had a falling out with a woman I’d met. "

God, always gonna be bitches, just like back at school

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I probably wouldn’t meet a popular forumite that has met many others or has a queue waiting to meet them. "

Spill the beans!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good afternoon.

Would you not meet with a women couple or male if they've met with a certain person. X"

Sorry OP in answer to your question sadly its a yes from me. I really dislike this judgemental side of me but it's there and it's impacted enough for me to change my mind about people

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"Good afternoon.

Would you not meet with a women couple or male if they've met with a certain person. X"

Is this a specific certain person because don’t we need to know who it is before we can answer

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By *antasticMrFucksMan
over a year ago

Taunton


"Good afternoon.

Would you not meet with a women couple or male if they've met with a certain person. X"

Yes I always go through pics and veris and block people associated with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Good afternoon.

Would you not meet with a women couple or male if they've met with a certain person. X

Is this a specific certain person because don’t we need to know who it is before we can answer

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Can't say don't wanna be banned again x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I probably wouldn’t meet a popular forumite that has met many others or has a queue waiting to meet them.

Spill the beans! "

I second that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't understand the whole I'm not meeting you because you met them culture on fab or the 20 question brigade that are interested in what that person was like,who I meet is my business and the reasons I met them and anything else is our business if you don't like them don't meet them but don't condemn someone on the basis of who they have met in the past just because you have an issue with a particular fabber"

Why not? You do what you want and let everyone else do what they want. I wouldn’t condemn someone in public. I don’t think anyone does on here. I’ve not met someone because of who they’ve met before. My choice. Doesn’t affect anyone else.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Yes. Although not necessarily for the reasons you might think. I've ruled out some in the past simply because they're close friends with 'gossipy types'. Having overheard a phone conversation being loudly conducted on a packed train carriage once, whereby the 'lady' was positively crowing to her friend about who had attended a recent club night (and actually naming a minor sports celebrity), how many cocks this and that one had taken, and gleefully passing on various nuggets of gossip about other swingers' personal lives (including people I knew), without a care about who was in earshot, it caused me to seriously re-evaluate who I mix with, even socially.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

No I take each profile that messages on it’s own individual merit

I take my own responsibility over my sexual health

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I probably wouldn’t meet a popular forumite that has met many others or has a queue waiting to meet them.

Spill the beans!

I second that "

No beans to spill personally, as not met anyone from the forums in a sexual way. Just seen enough to know I wouldn’t want to get caught up in any drama.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I’ve been ostracised by a particular group on here after one of them had a falling out with a woman I’d met. "

Nice bum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I probably wouldn’t meet a popular forumite that has met many others or has a queue waiting to meet them.

Spill the beans!

I second that

No beans to spill personally, as not met anyone from the forums in a sexual way. Just seen enough to know I wouldn’t want to get caught up in any drama. "

All women love the drama, that’s just one of the basics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I probably wouldn’t meet a popular forumite that has met many others or has a queue waiting to meet them.

Spill the beans!

I second that

No beans to spill personally, as not met anyone from the forums in a sexual way. Just seen enough to know I wouldn’t want to get caught up in any drama.

All women love the drama, that’s just one of the basics. "

I prefer my drama away from the forums

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Oh does drama in the forums still happen?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I probably wouldn’t meet a popular forumite that has met many others or has a queue waiting to meet them.

Spill the beans!

I second that

No beans to spill personally, as not met anyone from the forums in a sexual way. Just seen enough to know I wouldn’t want to get caught up in any drama.

All women love the drama, that’s just one of the basics.

I prefer my drama away from the forums "

On the mean streets of down town Plymouth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I probably wouldn’t meet a popular forumite that has met many others or has a queue waiting to meet them.

Spill the beans!

I second that

No beans to spill personally, as not met anyone from the forums in a sexual way. Just seen enough to know I wouldn’t want to get caught up in any drama.

All women love the drama, that’s just one of the basics.

I prefer my drama away from the forums

On the mean streets of down town Plymouth."

Outside the old dance academy. Bit quieter down that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I probably wouldn’t meet a popular forumite that has met many others or has a queue waiting to meet them.

Spill the beans!

I second that

No beans to spill personally, as not met anyone from the forums in a sexual way. Just seen enough to know I wouldn’t want to get caught up in any drama.

All women love the drama, that’s just one of the basics.

I prefer my drama away from the forums

On the mean streets of down town Plymouth."

Or on the Hoe. Hoe on the Hoe drama.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I admit I am like this.

Not so much if the person had only met them once, but if they were friends with/had repeat meets with.

I know of at least one person who slags me off to others, who says I'm nothing like I am on the forums and I'm pretty much one big act. I ain't interested in spending time with those who can't see past the fakery and bullshit of this person, or even if they can, still wish to spend time with this creature, just for a fuck. I'll meet those with integrity and a good judge of character thanking you muchly.

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good afternoon.

Would you not meet with a women couple or male if they've met with a certain person. X"
of course I don't want to come after asama binladen......cmon really

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I couldn’t care less.... not my drama not my monkeys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I admit I am like this.

Not so much if the person had only met them once, but if they were friends with/had repeat meets with.

I know of at least one person who slags me off to others, who says I'm nothing like I am on the forums and I'm pretty much one big act. I ain't interested in spending time with those who can't see past the fakery and bullshit of this person, or even if they can, still wish to spend time with this creature, just for a fuck. I'll meet those with integrity and a good judge of character thanking you muchly.

P"

You’re a fake and a phoney and I wish I’d never laid eyes on you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty much anyone that plays bareback but not any one person really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve been ostracised by a particular group on here after one of them had a falling out with a woman I’d met.

God, always gonna be bitches, just like back at school "

Meh, let them craic on, doesn’t really effect me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve been ostracised by a particular group on here after one of them had a falling out with a woman I’d met.

Nice bum "

Why thankyou very much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not so much from a particular person, but what’s written in veris can put me off along with veri after veri from the same person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I admit I am like this.

Not so much if the person had only met them once, but if they were friends with/had repeat meets with.

I know of at least one person who slags me off to others, who says I'm nothing like I am on the forums and I'm pretty much one big act. I ain't interested in spending time with those who can't see past the fakery and bullshit of this person, or even if they can, still wish to spend time with this creature, just for a fuck. I'll meet those with integrity and a good judge of character thanking you muchly.

P

You’re a fake and a phoney and I wish I’d never laid eyes on you "

that's totally from family guy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I admit I am like this.

Not so much if the person had only met them once, but if they were friends with/had repeat meets with.

I know of at least one person who slags me off to others, who says I'm nothing like I am on the forums and I'm pretty much one big act. I ain't interested in spending time with those who can't see past the fakery and bullshit of this person, or even if they can, still wish to spend time with this creature, just for a fuck. I'll meet those with integrity and a good judge of character thanking you muchly.

P

You’re a fake and a phoney and I wish I’d never laid eyes on you

that's totally from family guy! "

It’s grease!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I try to do a little veri trailing and look out for certain warning signs and particular local people - including one local bike and another whose 'thing' is to pretend to be asleep while the men let themselves in and help themselves. I find that creepy and won't touch anyone with a barge pole if they've been involved with her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not so much from a particular person, but what’s written in veris can put me off along with veri after veri from the same person. "

I’m pretty sure my veri from a certain forumite will put people off but it was just a joke. Nobody touches the fringe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I admit I am like this.

Not so much if the person had only met them once, but if they were friends with/had repeat meets with.

I know of at least one person who slags me off to others, who says I'm nothing like I am on the forums and I'm pretty much one big act. I ain't interested in spending time with those who can't see past the fakery and bullshit of this person, or even if they can, still wish to spend time with this creature, just for a fuck. I'll meet those with integrity and a good judge of character thanking you muchly.

P

You’re a fake and a phoney and I wish I’d never laid eyes on you

that's totally from family guy!

It’s grease! "

In that case family guy nicked it from grease

I'm so cultured

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

My one absolute exclusion criteria would be if the person doesn't value their health and safety.

Otherwise, I won't pass judgement on who they've met. If they come across as someone thoughtful, flirty, fun, has a personality compatible to my own and I find them physically attractive, I would consider at least a social if the interest is there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not so much from a particular person, but what’s written in veris can put me off along with veri after veri from the same person.

I’m pretty sure my veri from a certain forumite will put people off but it was just a joke. Nobody touches the fringe "

Ah no chance, he’s like a god...I only wish I had a fringe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not so much from a particular person, but what’s written in veris can put me off along with veri after veri from the same person.

I’m pretty sure my veri from a certain forumite will put people off but it was just a joke. Nobody touches the fringe "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh yes, as the post above some ppl don't talk to me now, all because I wouldn't ride the same bike.....

People dont talk to you because you wouldn't meet somone?

No....the fact I wouldn't ride a bike that's been through every tunnel in the fab world.....having millions veri,s dsnt make anyone an amazing shag.....just a shag...."

Ahh ok so people wpuldnt speak to you because you speak derogativly about one of thier friends?

Thats much more understandable

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"Good afternoon.

Would you not meet with a women couple or male if they've met with a certain person. X"

it happens quite a lot.. I have had a few people not display a verification from me as apparently it would reflect badly on them.. They then wonder why I wont meet again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not so much from a particular person, but what’s written in veris can put me off along with veri after veri from the same person.

I’m pretty sure my veri from a certain forumite will put people off but it was just a joke. Nobody touches the fringe "

Not even with a French baguette.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not so much from a particular person, but what’s written in veris can put me off along with veri after veri from the same person.

I’m pretty sure my veri from a certain forumite will put people off but it was just a joke. Nobody touches the fringe

Not even with a French baguette. "

Oh no, I don’t want crumbs in my hair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading veri's would involve me not looking at profile pictures so that's me out then.

A person's history is theirs and theirs alone and I would like to think that if we get on, who they have met in the past will have no bearing on how they interact with me.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I’ve been ostracised by a particular group on here after one of them had a falling out with a woman I’d met.

Nice bum

Why thankyou very much "

No worries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good afternoon.

Would you not meet with a women couple or male if they've met with a certain person. X

it happens quite a lot.. I have had a few people not display a verification from me as apparently it would reflect badly on them.. They then wonder why I wont meet again "
I'm sorry I didn't mean it forgive me please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good afternoon.

Would you not meet with a women couple or male if they've met with a certain person. X"

I have to admit that if there’s something I find off-putting then sadly it puts me off as I’m sure I’m not everyone’s cup of tea... it happens. It’s not a judgement, per se but if the “tide is out then there’s no way we can swim”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not so much from a particular person, but what’s written in veris can put me off along with veri after veri from the same person.

I’m pretty sure my veri from a certain forumite will put people off but it was just a joke. Nobody touches the fringe

Not even with a French baguette.

Oh no, I don’t want crumbs in my hair. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not so much from a particular person, but what’s written in veris can put me off along with veri after veri from the same person.

I’m pretty sure my veri from a certain forumite will put people off but it was just a joke. Nobody touches the fringe

Ah no chance, he’s like a god...I only wish I had a fringe "

I wouldn’t kick him out of bed either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a confusion of definitions of choice = judging = judgemental which makes the discussion difficult at times even on this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not so much from a particular person, but what’s written in veris can put me off along with veri after veri from the same person.

I’m pretty sure my veri from a certain forumite will put people off but it was just a joke. Nobody touches the fringe

Ah no chance, he’s like a god...I only wish I had a fringe

I wouldn’t kick him out of bed either "

Me neither and beards are deal breakers for me!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I will happily admit to refraining from contacting people who have been with certain others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not so much from a particular person, but what’s written in veris can put me off along with veri after veri from the same person.

I’m pretty sure my veri from a certain forumite will put people off but it was just a joke. Nobody touches the fringe

Ah no chance, he’s like a god...I only wish I had a fringe

I wouldn’t kick him out of bed either

Me neither and beards are deal breakers for me! "

We could go together? #RoadTrip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not so much from a particular person, but what’s written in veris can put me off along with veri after veri from the same person.

I’m pretty sure my veri from a certain forumite will put people off but it was just a joke. Nobody touches the fringe

Ah no chance, he’s like a god...I only wish I had a fringe

I wouldn’t kick him out of bed either

Me neither and beards are deal breakers for me! "

He has a big beard. Probably full of baguette crumbs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not so much from a particular person, but what’s written in veris can put me off along with veri after veri from the same person.

I’m pretty sure my veri from a certain forumite will put people off but it was just a joke. Nobody touches the fringe

Ah no chance, he’s like a god...I only wish I had a fringe

I wouldn’t kick him out of bed either

Me neither and beards are deal breakers for me!

We could go together? #RoadTrip "

Just realised who you are! I can’t cope with name changes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's a confusion of definitions of choice = judging = judgemental which makes the discussion difficult at times even on this thread."

I bypassed something for you, Sir...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a man is so cuntstruck that he doesn't see the person behind the cunt, he's not the man for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not so much from a particular person, but what’s written in veris can put me off along with veri after veri from the same person.

I’m pretty sure my veri from a certain forumite will put people off but it was just a joke. Nobody touches the fringe

Ah no chance, he’s like a god...I only wish I had a fringe

I wouldn’t kick him out of bed either

Me neither and beards are deal breakers for me!

He has a big beard. Probably full of baguette crumbs. "

I can pretend to be a pigeon... #feedthebirds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a man is so cuntstruck that he doesn't see the person behind the cunt, he's not the man for me."

I do wish you’d be more frank and just say it as it is sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a man is so cuntstruck that he doesn't see the person behind the cunt, he's not the man for me."

I love that. I’m going to pinch that word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not so much from a particular person, but what’s written in veris can put me off along with veri after veri from the same person.

I’m pretty sure my veri from a certain forumite will put people off but it was just a joke. Nobody touches the fringe

Ah no chance, he’s like a god...I only wish I had a fringe

I wouldn’t kick him out of bed either

Me neither and beards are deal breakers for me!

We could go together? #RoadTrip

Just realised who you are! I can’t cope with name changes "

Apologies... needs must x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's a confusion of definitions of choice = judging = judgemental which makes the discussion difficult at times even on this thread."

I've been saying this for ages.

There's a difference between judging someone and making a judgement based on what you know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a man is so cuntstruck that he doesn't see the person behind the cunt, he's not the man for me."

Amen to this but I can’t use the C word anymore as some folk seem to find it more offensive coming from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not so much from a particular person, but what’s written in veris can put me off along with veri after veri from the same person.

I’m pretty sure my veri from a certain forumite will put people off but it was just a joke. Nobody touches the fringe

Ah no chance, he’s like a god...I only wish I had a fringe

I wouldn’t kick him out of bed either

Me neither and beards are deal breakers for me!

We could go together? #RoadTrip

Just realised who you are! I can’t cope with name changes "

Come on Nora, wake up. Change keeps the brain stimulated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a man is so cuntstruck that he doesn't see the person behind the cunt, he's not the man for me.

I love that. I’m going to pinch that word. "

It's been in my vocabulary for decades. I rarely needed to use it, until I joined here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not so much from a particular person, but what’s written in veris can put me off along with veri after veri from the same person.

I’m pretty sure my veri from a certain forumite will put people off but it was just a joke. Nobody touches the fringe

Ah no chance, he’s like a god...I only wish I had a fringe

I wouldn’t kick him out of bed either

Me neither and beards are deal breakers for me!

We could go together? #RoadTrip

Just realised who you are! I can’t cope with name changes

Come on Nora, wake up. Change keeps the brain stimulated. "

And you! At least you had the same pic so I knew who you were straight away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a man is so cuntstruck that he doesn't see the person behind the cunt, he's not the man for me.

I do wish you’d be more frank and just say it as it is sometimes. "

Sorry, I'll use less words next time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not so much from a particular person, but what’s written in veris can put me off along with veri after veri from the same person.

I’m pretty sure my veri from a certain forumite will put people off but it was just a joke. Nobody touches the fringe

Ah no chance, he’s like a god...I only wish I had a fringe

I wouldn’t kick him out of bed either

Me neither and beards are deal breakers for me!

We could go together? #RoadTrip

Just realised who you are! I can’t cope with name changes

Come on Nora, wake up. Change keeps the brain stimulated.

And you! At least you had the same pic so I knew who you were straight away "

All new pics so wrong again. Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a man is so cuntstruck that he doesn't see the person behind the cunt, he's not the man for me.

I do wish you’d be more frank and just say it as it is sometimes.

Sorry, I'll use less words next time "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not so much from a particular person, but what’s written in veris can put me off along with veri after veri from the same person.

I’m pretty sure my veri from a certain forumite will put people off but it was just a joke. Nobody touches the fringe

Ah no chance, he’s like a god...I only wish I had a fringe

I wouldn’t kick him out of bed either

Me neither and beards are deal breakers for me!

We could go together? #RoadTrip

Just realised who you are! I can’t cope with name changes

Come on Nora, wake up. Change keeps the brain stimulated.

And you! At least you had the same pic so I knew who you were straight away

All new pics so wrong again. Haha"

Really? Haha. I’ll get me coat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not so much from a particular person, but what’s written in veris can put me off along with veri after veri from the same person.

I’m pretty sure my veri from a certain forumite will put people off but it was just a joke. Nobody touches the fringe

Ah no chance, he’s like a god...I only wish I had a fringe

I wouldn’t kick him out of bed either

Me neither and beards are deal breakers for me!

We could go together? #RoadTrip

Just realised who you are! I can’t cope with name changes

Come on Nora, wake up. Change keeps the brain stimulated.

And you! At least you had the same pic so I knew who you were straight away

All new pics so wrong again. Haha

Really? Haha. I’ll get me coat "

Left the old pics on my phone and added ones I’ve taken this year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a man is so cuntstruck that he doesn't see the person behind the cunt, he's not the man for me."

You're my new hero. You put it so much better than I could.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"If a man is so cuntstruck that he doesn't see the person behind the cunt, he's not the man for me."

A very original expression there!

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By *hatterbox 2Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

yes definately if we know someone has met a certain person(s) who we know have slept with anyone.We will not meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's a confusion of definitions of choice = judging = judgemental which makes the discussion difficult at times even on this thread.

I bypassed something for you, Sir... "

Confusion then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To a degree yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a man is so cuntstruck that he doesn't see the person behind the cunt, he's not the man for me."

"Cuntstruck" . I love this x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good afternoon.

Would you not meet with a women couple or male if they've met with a certain person. X"

Yes. As I'm judgemental as fuck!!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"If a man is so cuntstruck that he doesn't see the person behind the cunt, he's not the man for me."

Or if the man is just a cunt

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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"To a degree yes. "

I suppose it all depends on the reason I didn't like the person they had met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a few women I know of who won't meet guys who've met me. One of them even contacts them, meets them for a coffee and then turns around and says "I can't play with you as you've met her". Fucking surreal.

I tend to avoid guys who've met certain women as I can't be doing with the drama. Or I'll meet them and won't verify.

I have my reasons for not meeting guys who play with certain people. I'd rather just say to them that they're not my type. No need to be cunty

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over a year ago


"There are a few women I know of who won't meet guys who've met me. One of them even contacts them, meets them for a coffee and then turns around and says "I can't play with you as you've met her". Fucking surreal.

I tend to avoid guys who've met certain women as I can't be doing with the drama. Or I'll meet them and won't verify.

I have my reasons for not meeting guys who play with certain people. I'd rather just say to them that they're not my type. No need to be cunty"

That's definitely out of jealousy as you are gorgeous

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I can only think of one person that this would apply too who literally isn't fussy who they meet. I don't want to meet their meets.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

I do to be honest have a couple of people on fab that if someone has met I wont meet.. But that's because they have met family members of mine.. and I would rather not share that closely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to check people's veris and yes, there are a few instances where I wouldn't meet. For example, anyone who has met the lady specialising in bareback van "tours" around the country - if a bloke is willing to stick his cock in her after she has taken 20 other loads already that night, then he really isn't the kind of guy I would enjoy hanging out with.

There is also a local couple who do bareback parties and I block anyone who veris them.

I have no interest in men who follow the "any hole is a goal" format and verifications often show this.

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By *anana JoeMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Good afternoon.

Would you not meet with a women couple or male if they've met with a certain person. X"

Some yes I would avoid for various reasons but in the main for sex related health reasons.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Short answer; no.

Long answer; We all find different things attractive and hold different values as being important, one person's insufferable twunt is another's adorable rogue.

If someone enjoys the company of someone that I don't like then that's up to them, I respect people enough that they're capable of making their own choices.

If I like someone then I will want to meet them, irrespective of their history. I'm not sleeping with their past meets, just them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a man is so cuntstruck that he doesn't see the person behind the cunt, he's not the man for me.

Or if the man is just a cunt "

That too

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By *sm81Couple
over a year ago

warwickshire

I don't see how it makes a difference either way, it's like saying in the real world you won't talk to someone because he/she knows so and so. It's a little silly as I think you should take people at face value rather than going off pictures bb and veris. We have photos of bb but it's between myself and husband only and he has had vesectomy, with others we play safe but just going off pictures nobody would know this and that's where people obviously jump to conclusions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To a degree.

There was one local woman who would advertise for bareback meets and she had hundreds of Veri's in just a few months so I made a note of anybody that had met her. ( as far as I know she's not on the site anymore so I hope I'm not being indiscreet).

But I wouldn't simply rule someone out just because I didn't find the other people they've met with attractive unless there was an exceptional reason.

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over a year ago


"I don't see how it makes a difference either way, it's like saying in the real world you won't talk to someone because he/she knows so and so. It's a little silly as I think you should take people at face value rather than going off pictures bb and veris. We have photos of bb but it's between myself and husband only and he has had vesectomy, with others we play safe but just going off pictures nobody would know this and that's where people obviously jump to conclusions "

I don’t meet couples so that’s irrelevant to me really but I’m sure people would take that into account with your pics if you’re a couple, I’m sure I would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see how it makes a difference either way, it's like saying in the real world you won't talk to someone because he/she knows so and so. It's a little silly as I think you should take people at face value rather than going off pictures bb and veris. We have photos of bb but it's between myself and husband only and he has had vesectomy, with others we play safe but just going off pictures nobody would know this and that's where people obviously jump to conclusions "

What it comes down to a penis in me I will be discerning about where it's been. I'll also want to talk to the person putting his penis in me, and I'll look at who he met to determine if I think we are compatible.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Yes

There are many that we would choose not to meet after reading their veris from those that we most definitely wouldn’t.

There are lots of game players too.

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over a year ago


"Yes

There are many that we would choose not to meet after reading their veris from those that we most definitely wouldn’t.

There are lots of game players too."

See I understand obviously wanting to have a little nose at who people have been with I do this

What I've never understood is people that won't meet with someone because they've been with other people that they don't fancy. I just don't understand that.

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By *sm81Couple
over a year ago

warwickshire


"I don't see how it makes a difference either way, it's like saying in the real world you won't talk to someone because he/she knows so and so. It's a little silly as I think you should take people at face value rather than going off pictures bb and veris. We have photos of bb but it's between myself and husband only and he has had vesectomy, with others we play safe but just going off pictures nobody would know this and that's where people obviously jump to conclusions

What it comes down to a penis in me I will be discerning about where it's been. I'll also want to talk to the person putting his penis in me, and I'll look at who he met to determine if I think we are compatible. "

That's fair enough but how do you know you're compatible with someone just by who they have met, surely a lot more goes into it than just that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be unlikely to meet someone who gets & displays a verification after every meet with a person, regardless of who it is. It just feels like there's more to it & I don't want to get in the way of that.

I also won't meet anyone who writes or displays explicit verifications. I don't need to know how much you made her squirt humblebrag verifications too, they can fuck off as well...I just went off on a slight tangent there

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I don't see how it makes a difference either way, it's like saying in the real world you won't talk to someone because he/she knows so and so. It's a little silly as I think you should take people at face value rather than going off pictures bb and veris. We have photos of bb but it's between myself and husband only and he has had vesectomy, with others we play safe but just going off pictures nobody would know this and that's where people obviously jump to conclusions

What it comes down to a penis in me I will be discerning about where it's been. I'll also want to talk to the person putting his penis in me, and I'll look at who he met to determine if I think we are compatible.

That's fair enough but how do you know you're compatible with someone just by who they have met, surely a lot more goes into it than just that "

If someone is a bit skanky, has shit morals (but is a cracking swinger) and has had every Tom Dick and Harry up their asshole, then those people aren't for me.

Some guys just like an easy hoop no matter what they say.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"Yes

There are many that we would choose not to meet after reading their veris from those that we most definitely wouldn’t.

There are lots of game players too.

See I understand obviously wanting to have a little nose at who people have been with I do this

What I've never understood is people that won't meet with someone because they've been with other people that they don't fancy. I just don't understand that. "

There are at least two couples on here that we have seen in action at the clubs.

They lure other couples in then the Male works on getting the other couples female hammered so that their wives can jump the guys.

Having seeing both it and the aftermath, it’s not good.

There is an example of someone that having a veri from will mean they aren’t for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep.

Just as women state "bbc only" ,im the opposite.

If i see a perspective meet that has pix of her with bbc or veries from bi men then its bye bye.

And as a disclaimer ,i'll add what most put; "sorry,just my preference"

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Yes

There are many that we would choose not to meet after reading their veris from those that we most definitely wouldn’t.

There are lots of game players too.

See I understand obviously wanting to have a little nose at who people have been with I do this

What I've never understood is people that won't meet with someone because they've been with other people that they don't fancy. I just don't understand that.

There are at least two couples on here that we have seen in action at the clubs.

They lure other couples in then the Male works on getting the other couples female hammered so that their wives can jump the guys.

Having seeing both it and the aftermath, it’s not good.

There is an example of someone that having a veri from will mean they aren’t for us."

That's really not ok!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes

There are many that we would choose not to meet after reading their veris from those that we most definitely wouldn’t.

There are lots of game players too.

See I understand obviously wanting to have a little nose at who people have been with I do this

What I've never understood is people that won't meet with someone because they've been with other people that they don't fancy. I just don't understand that.

There are at least two couples on here that we have seen in action at the clubs.

They lure other couples in then the Male works on getting the other couples female hammered so that their wives can jump the guys.

Having seeing both it and the aftermath, it’s not good.

There is an example of someone that having a veri from will mean they aren’t for us."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep.

Just as women state "bbc only" ,im the opposite.

If i see a perspective meet that has pix of her with bbc or veries from bi men then its bye bye.

And as a disclaimer ,i'll add what most put; "sorry,just my preference"

"

I don't understand why you wouldn't go with a woman who had been with a black man that doesn't make any sense to me whatsoever. Also it doesn't mean that she hasn't it just means that she hasn't publicly declared it on her profile!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I probably wouldn’t meet a popular forumite that has met many others or has a queue waiting to meet them. "

But didn't you?

Anyway, I'd agree with the first part. And yes, I wouldn't meet someone if they had met certain others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes

There are many that we would choose not to meet after reading their veris from those that we most definitely wouldn’t.

There are lots of game players too.

See I understand obviously wanting to have a little nose at who people have been with I do this

What I've never understood is people that won't meet with someone because they've been with other people that they don't fancy. I just don't understand that.

There are at least two couples on here that we have seen in action at the clubs.

They lure other couples in then the Male works on getting the other couples female hammered so that their wives can jump the guys.

Having seeing both it and the aftermath, it’s not good.

There is an example of someone that having a veri from will mean they aren’t for us.

"

I think I'm being a bit thick but I still don't quite understand.

So do you mean you've seen a couple take advantage of other people in clubs and you wouldn't meet the people that have been taken advantage of.

Like I said I think I'm just being a bit thick but I just don't quite get it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I probably wouldn’t meet a popular forumite that has met many others or has a queue waiting to meet them.

But didn't you?

Anyway, I'd agree with the first part. And yes, I wouldn't meet someone if they had met certain others."

Not in a sexual way. I keep that separate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes

There are many that we would choose not to meet after reading their veris from those that we most definitely wouldn’t.

There are lots of game players too.

See I understand obviously wanting to have a little nose at who people have been with I do this

What I've never understood is people that won't meet with someone because they've been with other people that they don't fancy. I just don't understand that.

There are at least two couples on here that we have seen in action at the clubs.

They lure other couples in then the Male works on getting the other couples female hammered so that their wives can jump the guys.

Having seeing both it and the aftermath, it’s not good.

There is an example of someone that having a veri from will mean they aren’t for us.

I think I'm being a bit thick but I still don't quite understand.

So do you mean you've seen a couple take advantage of other people in clubs and you wouldn't meet the people that have been taken advantage of.

Like I said I think I'm just being a bit thick but I just don't quite get it."

You and me both! I'm wondering what the aftermath is too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there's only one person on here I'm not a huge fan of. I wouldn't hold it against someone else if they had met that person. We all make mistakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes

There are many that we would choose not to meet after reading their veris from those that we most definitely wouldn’t.

There are lots of game players too.

See I understand obviously wanting to have a little nose at who people have been with I do this

What I've never understood is people that won't meet with someone because they've been with other people that they don't fancy. I just don't understand that.

There are at least two couples on here that we have seen in action at the clubs.

They lure other couples in then the Male works on getting the other couples female hammered so that their wives can jump the guys.

Having seeing both it and the aftermath, it’s not good.

There is an example of someone that having a veri from will mean they aren’t for us.

I think I'm being a bit thick but I still don't quite understand.

So do you mean you've seen a couple take advantage of other people in clubs and you wouldn't meet the people that have been taken advantage of.

Like I said I think I'm just being a bit thick but I just don't quite get it.

You and me both! I'm wondering what the aftermath is too."

that's a relief because if I am being a little bit thick then at least I'm not the only one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont meet enough people for it to be a problem. Cant always read people's veri's anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont meet enough people for it to be a problem. Cant always read people's veri's anyway. "

Word.

I'm also really not that interested in what other people are doing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep.

Just as women state "bbc only" ,im the opposite.

If i see a perspective meet that has pix of her with bbc or veries from bi men then its bye bye.

And as a disclaimer ,i'll add what most put; "sorry,just my preference"

"

Its not a preference though is it its racism. If it was preference it would be for the person not the person they have met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work on the principle of 7 degrees of separation, so everyone is connected to everyone on here so it’s safer not to meet at all.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"Yes

There are many that we would choose not to meet after reading their veris from those that we most definitely wouldn’t.

There are lots of game players too.

See I understand obviously wanting to have a little nose at who people have been with I do this

What I've never understood is people that won't meet with someone because they've been with other people that they don't fancy. I just don't understand that.

There are at least two couples on here that we have seen in action at the clubs.

They lure other couples in then the Male works on getting the other couples female hammered so that their wives can jump the guys.

Having seeing both it and the aftermath, it’s not

good.

There is an example of someone that having a veri from will mean they aren’t for us.

I think I'm being a bit thick but I still don't quite understand.

So do you mean you've seen a couple take advantage of other people in clubs and you wouldn't meet the people that have been taken advantage of.

Like I said I think I'm just being a bit thick but I just don't quite get it.

You and me both! I'm wondering what the aftermath is too.

that's a relief because if I am being a little bit thick then at least I'm not the only one! "

The aftermath was the fem of one of the couples walking in to find her man in action with one of the fems then storming out closely followed by her man and the other fem.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I work on the principle of 7 degrees of separation, so everyone is connected to everyone on here so it’s safer not to meet at all."

I think sometimes that might actually be true. I'll try and play that now with a few friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I work on the principle of 7 degrees of separation, so everyone is connected to everyone on here so it’s safer not to meet at all.

I think sometimes that might actually be true. I'll try and play that now with a few friends. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes

There are many that we would choose not to meet after reading their veris from those that we most definitely wouldn’t.

There are lots of game players too.

See I understand obviously wanting to have a little nose at who people have been with I do this

What I've never understood is people that won't meet with someone because they've been with other people that they don't fancy. I just don't understand that.

There are at least two couples on here that we have seen in action at the clubs.

They lure other couples in then the Male works on getting the other couples female hammered so that their wives can jump the guys.

Having seeing both it and the aftermath, it’s not

good.

There is an example of someone that having a veri from will mean they aren’t for us.

I think I'm being a bit thick but I still don't quite understand.

So do you mean you've seen a couple take advantage of other people in clubs and you wouldn't meet the people that have been taken advantage of.

Like I said I think I'm just being a bit thick but I just don't quite get it.

You and me both! I'm wondering what the aftermath is too.

that's a relief because if I am being a little bit thick then at least I'm not the only one!

The aftermath was the fem of one of the couples walking in to find her man in action with one of the fems then storming out closely followed by her man and the other fem."

Unsavoury, but the male of the 'victim' should stick to boundaries. They haven't got him pissed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I work on the principle of 7 degrees of separation, so everyone is connected to everyone on here so it’s safer not to meet at all.

I think sometimes that might actually be true. I'll try and play that now with a few friends. "

On the other hand I quite like the ‘Fuck It’ principle too. If I fancy you I’d like to meet you, otherwise I wouldn’t. I vacillate between the two

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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Yes. I wouldn’t meet people if they have met certain other people. I’m also put off by the people that are working down their list

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

There are a couple of members who are on my hotlist that regularly partake in bareback gangbangs. I have them on my hotlist so that I see who is verifying them, I then block these people.

The reason I do this is because condoms aren’t 100% safe. Even though the risk is small, I’d rather not take a chance meeting someone who has had bareback sex with someone that regularly barebacks 15-20 men per session, multiple times per week

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Yep.

Just as women state "bbc only" ,im the opposite.

If i see a perspective meet that has pix of her with bbc or veries from bi men then its bye bye.

And as a disclaimer ,i'll add what most put; "sorry,just my preference"

Its not a preference though is it its racism. If it was preference it would be for the person not the person they have met. "

Interesting that you call that racism, what would you call the bi guy 'thing'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they have sex veris from anyone on Fab then nooooo way I'll meet them. Swingers hump anything!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep.

Just as women state "bbc only" ,im the opposite.

If i see a perspective meet that has pix of her with bbc or veries from bi men then its bye bye.

And as a disclaimer ,i'll add what most put; "sorry,just my preference"

Its not a preference though is it its racism. If it was preference it would be for the person not the person they have met.

Interesting that you call that racism, what would you call the bi guy 'thing'? "

Homophobia?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they have sex veris from anyone on Fab then nooooo way I'll meet them. Swingers hump anything!!"

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Yes. I wouldn’t meet people if they have met certain other people. I’m also put off by the people that are working down their list "

Isn't that why a lot of people have a hot list?

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Yep.

Just as women state "bbc only" ,im the opposite.

If i see a perspective meet that has pix of her with bbc or veries from bi men then its bye bye.

And as a disclaimer ,i'll add what most put; "sorry,just my preference"

Its not a preference though is it its racism. If it was preference it would be for the person not the person they have met.

Interesting that you call that racism, what would you call the bi guy 'thing'?

Homophobia?"

Possibly...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see how it makes a difference either way, it's like saying in the real world you won't talk to someone because he/she knows so and so. It's a little silly as I think you should take people at face value rather than going off pictures bb and veris. We have photos of bb but it's between myself and husband only and he has had vesectomy, with others we play safe but just going off pictures nobody would know this and that's where people obviously jump to conclusions

What it comes down to a penis in me I will be discerning about where it's been. I'll also want to talk to the person putting his penis in me, and I'll look at who he met to determine if I think we are compatible.

That's fair enough but how do you know you're compatible with someone just by who they have met, surely a lot more goes into it than just that "

Because I like to try to meet men with integrity and a sense of decorum. If he's had sex with someone who does underhanded acts for instance, or talks about the men she has met in a derogatory manner, and he knows what she's like, I would prefer to not be in his company, regardless of how beautiful he may be.

I asked someone once why he met a certain woman and he said it was because she got him into clubs.

From then on I became a little more Sherlock Holmes about the men I let in my pussy.

My pussy, my rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see how it makes a difference either way, it's like saying in the real world you won't talk to someone because he/she knows so and so. It's a little silly as I think you should take people at face value rather than going off pictures bb and veris. We have photos of bb but it's between myself and husband only and he has had vesectomy, with others we play safe but just going off pictures nobody would know this and that's where people obviously jump to conclusions

What it comes down to a penis in me I will be discerning about where it's been. I'll also want to talk to the person putting his penis in me, and I'll look at who he met to determine if I think we are compatible.

That's fair enough but how do you know you're compatible with someone just by who they have met, surely a lot more goes into it than just that

Because I like to try to meet men with integrity and a sense of decorum. If he's had sex with someone who does underhanded acts for instance, or talks about the men she has met in a derogatory manner, and he knows what she's like, I would prefer to not be in his company, regardless of how beautiful he may be.

I asked someone once why he met a certain woman and he said it was because she got him into clubs.

From then on I became a little more Sherlock Holmes about the men I let in my pussy.

My pussy, my rules."

Pussy power rocks!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I work on the principle of 7 degrees of separation, so everyone is connected to everyone on here so it’s safer not to meet at all.

I think sometimes that might actually be true. I'll try and play that now with a few friends. "

I don't mind meeting men who have met women who have met men I've met. Or men who have met women I know. It's bound to happen eventually. Actually, I've looked at verification from some forum user and gone ooh she met xx too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see how it makes a difference either way, it's like saying in the real world you won't talk to someone because he/she knows so and so. It's a little silly as I think you should take people at face value rather than going off pictures bb and veris. We have photos of bb but it's between myself and husband only and he has had vesectomy, with others we play safe but just going off pictures nobody would know this and that's where people obviously jump to conclusions

What it comes down to a penis in me I will be discerning about where it's been. I'll also want to talk to the person putting his penis in me, and I'll look at who he met to determine if I think we are compatible.

That's fair enough but how do you know you're compatible with someone just by who they have met, surely a lot more goes into it than just that

Because I like to try to meet men with integrity and a sense of decorum. If he's had sex with someone who does underhanded acts for instance, or talks about the men she has met in a derogatory manner, and he knows what she's like, I would prefer to not be in his company, regardless of how beautiful he may be.

I asked someone once why he met a certain woman and he said it was because she got him into clubs.

From then on I became a little more Sherlock Holmes about the men I let in my pussy.

My pussy, my rules.

Pussy power rocks!! "

You get that the irony is that its the other pussy shes judging not the penis.

So pussy power seems a little contradictory a phrase to use to cheer whats esentialy slut shaming

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I don't see how it makes a difference either way, it's like saying in the real world you won't talk to someone because he/she knows so and so. It's a little silly as I think you should take people at face value rather than going off pictures bb and veris. We have photos of bb but it's between myself and husband only and he has had vesectomy, with others we play safe but just going off pictures nobody would know this and that's where people obviously jump to conclusions

What it comes down to a penis in me I will be discerning about where it's been. I'll also want to talk to the person putting his penis in me, and I'll look at who he met to determine if I think we are compatible.

That's fair enough but how do you know you're compatible with someone just by who they have met, surely a lot more goes into it than just that

Because I like to try to meet men with integrity and a sense of decorum. If he's had sex with someone who does underhanded acts for instance, or talks about the men she has met in a derogatory manner, and he knows what she's like, I would prefer to not be in his company, regardless of how beautiful he may be.

I asked someone once why he met a certain woman and he said it was because she got him into clubs.

From then on I became a little more Sherlock Holmes about the men I let in my pussy.

My pussy, my rules."

Wise words

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"Yes. I wouldn’t meet people if they have met certain other people. I’m also put off by the people that are working down their list

Isn't that why a lot of people have a hot list?"

I’m sure it is for some people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see how it makes a difference either way, it's like saying in the real world you won't talk to someone because he/she knows so and so. It's a little silly as I think you should take people at face value rather than going off pictures bb and veris. We have photos of bb but it's between myself and husband only and he has had vesectomy, with others we play safe but just going off pictures nobody would know this and that's where people obviously jump to conclusions

What it comes down to a penis in me I will be discerning about where it's been. I'll also want to talk to the person putting his penis in me, and I'll look at who he met to determine if I think we are compatible.

That's fair enough but how do you know you're compatible with someone just by who they have met, surely a lot more goes into it than just that

Because I like to try to meet men with integrity and a sense of decorum. If he's had sex with someone who does underhanded acts for instance, or talks about the men she has met in a derogatory manner, and he knows what she's like, I would prefer to not be in his company, regardless of how beautiful he may be.

I asked someone once why he met a certain woman and he said it was because she got him into clubs.

From then on I became a little more Sherlock Holmes about the men I let in my pussy.

My pussy, my rules."

Brilliant!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see how it makes a difference either way, it's like saying in the real world you won't talk to someone because he/she knows so and so. It's a little silly as I think you should take people at face value rather than going off pictures bb and veris. We have photos of bb but it's between myself and husband only and he has had vesectomy, with others we play safe but just going off pictures nobody would know this and that's where people obviously jump to conclusions

What it comes down to a penis in me I will be discerning about where it's been. I'll also want to talk to the person putting his penis in me, and I'll look at who he met to determine if I think we are compatible.

That's fair enough but how do you know you're compatible with someone just by who they have met, surely a lot more goes into it than just that

Because I like to try to meet men with integrity and a sense of decorum. If he's had sex with someone who does underhanded acts for instance, or talks about the men she has met in a derogatory manner, and he knows what she's like, I would prefer to not be in his company, regardless of how beautiful he may be.

I asked someone once why he met a certain woman and he said it was because she got him into clubs.

From then on I became a little more Sherlock Holmes about the men I let in my pussy.

My pussy, my rules.

Pussy power rocks!!

You get that the irony is that its the other pussy shes judging not the penis.

So pussy power seems a little contradictory a phrase to use to cheer whats esentialy slut shaming"

I was referring to the ‘my pussy, my rules’ and please stop taking everything so bloody seriously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see how it makes a difference either way, it's like saying in the real world you won't talk to someone because he/she knows so and so. It's a little silly as I think you should take people at face value rather than going off pictures bb and veris. We have photos of bb but it's between myself and husband only and he has had vesectomy, with others we play safe but just going off pictures nobody would know this and that's where people obviously jump to conclusions

What it comes down to a penis in me I will be discerning about where it's been. I'll also want to talk to the person putting his penis in me, and I'll look at who he met to determine if I think we are compatible.

That's fair enough but how do you know you're compatible with someone just by who they have met, surely a lot more goes into it than just that

Because I like to try to meet men with integrity and a sense of decorum. If he's had sex with someone who does underhanded acts for instance, or talks about the men she has met in a derogatory manner, and he knows what she's like, I would prefer to not be in his company, regardless of how beautiful he may be.

I asked someone once why he met a certain woman and he said it was because she got him into clubs.

From then on I became a little more Sherlock Holmes about the men I let in my pussy.

My pussy, my rules.

Pussy power rocks!!

You get that the irony is that its the other pussy shes judging not the penis.

So pussy power seems a little contradictory a phrase to use to cheer whats esentialy slut shaming"

I read it the opposite. That *he* is the one at fault. He's the type of man to use a woman to get into clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see how it makes a difference either way, it's like saying in the real world you won't talk to someone because he/she knows so and so. It's a little silly as I think you should take people at face value rather than going off pictures bb and veris. We have photos of bb but it's between myself and husband only and he has had vesectomy, with others we play safe but just going off pictures nobody would know this and that's where people obviously jump to conclusions

What it comes down to a penis in me I will be discerning about where it's been. I'll also want to talk to the person putting his penis in me, and I'll look at who he met to determine if I think we are compatible.

That's fair enough but how do you know you're compatible with someone just by who they have met, surely a lot more goes into it than just that

Because I like to try to meet men with integrity and a sense of decorum. If he's had sex with someone who does underhanded acts for instance, or talks about the men she has met in a derogatory manner, and he knows what she's like, I would prefer to not be in his company, regardless of how beautiful he may be.

I asked someone once why he met a certain woman and he said it was because she got him into clubs.

From then on I became a little more Sherlock Holmes about the men I let in my pussy.

My pussy, my rules.

Pussy power rocks!!

You get that the irony is that its the other pussy shes judging not the penis.

So pussy power seems a little contradictory a phrase to use to cheer whats esentialy slut shaming"

Hang on a minute. I'm not slut shaming, or pussy judging. It's the person who owns the pussy I'm talking about and the men who gave sex with the person, not how she uses her vagina.

I am 100% judging the man's choices in who he has sex with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see how it makes a difference either way, it's like saying in the real world you won't talk to someone because he/she knows so and so. It's a little silly as I think you should take people at face value rather than going off pictures bb and veris. We have photos of bb but it's between myself and husband only and he has had vesectomy, with others we play safe but just going off pictures nobody would know this and that's where people obviously jump to conclusions

What it comes down to a penis in me I will be discerning about where it's been. I'll also want to talk to the person putting his penis in me, and I'll look at who he met to determine if I think we are compatible.

That's fair enough but how do you know you're compatible with someone just by who they have met, surely a lot more goes into it than just that

Because I like to try to meet men with integrity and a sense of decorum. If he's had sex with someone who does underhanded acts for instance, or talks about the men she has met in a derogatory manner, and he knows what she's like, I would prefer to not be in his company, regardless of how beautiful he may be.

I asked someone once why he met a certain woman and he said it was because she got him into clubs.

From then on I became a little more Sherlock Holmes about the men I let in my pussy.

My pussy, my rules.

Pussy power rocks!!

You get that the irony is that its the other pussy shes judging not the penis.

So pussy power seems a little contradictory a phrase to use to cheer whats esentialy slut shaming

I read it the opposite. That *he* is the one at fault. He's the type of man to use a woman to get into clubs."

Yup. I couldn't care less how many men she had fucked, it was her attitude that made me question why he was attracted to her.

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

I try not to juge people but if they have upset someone I know would be a big no thanks no matter how sexy they look just cos they meet other people and have good verified from other would meet maybe social 1st

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see how it makes a difference either way, it's like saying in the real world you won't talk to someone because he/she knows so and so. It's a little silly as I think you should take people at face value rather than going off pictures bb and veris. We have photos of bb but it's between myself and husband only and he has had vesectomy, with others we play safe but just going off pictures nobody would know this and that's where people obviously jump to conclusions

What it comes down to a penis in me I will be discerning about where it's been. I'll also want to talk to the person putting his penis in me, and I'll look at who he met to determine if I think we are compatible.

That's fair enough but how do you know you're compatible with someone just by who they have met, surely a lot more goes into it than just that

Because I like to try to meet men with integrity and a sense of decorum. If he's had sex with someone who does underhanded acts for instance, or talks about the men she has met in a derogatory manner, and he knows what she's like, I would prefer to not be in his company, regardless of how beautiful he may be.

I asked someone once why he met a certain woman and he said it was because she got him into clubs.

From then on I became a little more Sherlock Holmes about the men I let in my pussy.

My pussy, my rules.

Pussy power rocks!!

You get that the irony is that its the other pussy shes judging not the penis.

So pussy power seems a little contradictory a phrase to use to cheer whats esentialy slut shaming

Hang on a minute. I'm not slut shaming, or pussy judging. It's the person who owns the pussy I'm talking about and the men who gave sex with the person, not how she uses her vagina.

I am 100% judging the man's choices in who he has sex with.

"

I think he was referring to my comment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see how it makes a difference either way, it's like saying in the real world you won't talk to someone because he/she knows so and so. It's a little silly as I think you should take people at face value rather than going off pictures bb and veris. We have photos of bb but it's between myself and husband only and he has had vesectomy, with others we play safe but just going off pictures nobody would know this and that's where people obviously jump to conclusions

What it comes down to a penis in me I will be discerning about where it's been. I'll also want to talk to the person putting his penis in me, and I'll look at who he met to determine if I think we are compatible.

That's fair enough but how do you know you're compatible with someone just by who they have met, surely a lot more goes into it than just that

Because I like to try to meet men with integrity and a sense of decorum. If he's had sex with someone who does underhanded acts for instance, or talks about the men she has met in a derogatory manner, and he knows what she's like, I would prefer to not be in his company, regardless of how beautiful he may be.

I asked someone once why he met a certain woman and he said it was because she got him into clubs.

From then on I became a little more Sherlock Holmes about the men I let in my pussy.

My pussy, my rules.

Pussy power rocks!!

You get that the irony is that its the other pussy shes judging not the penis.

So pussy power seems a little contradictory a phrase to use to cheer whats esentialy slut shaming

Hang on a minute. I'm not slut shaming, or pussy judging. It's the person who owns the pussy I'm talking about and the men who gave sex with the person, not how she uses her vagina.

I am 100% judging the man's choices in who he has sex with.

I think he was referring to my comment. "

I think he was talking about me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For all you idiots saying im either racist or homophobic then sleep easy.

I wont knowingly have sex with a woman who's had sex with a non white or a bi bloke.

"deal with it"

If you have an issue with this then you need to reprimand 20% of women who state similar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For all you idiots saying im either racist or homophobic then sleep easy.

I wont knowingly have sex with a woman who's had sex with a non white or a bi bloke.

"deal with it"

If you have an issue with this then you need to reprimand 20% of women who state similar."

I don't think there was any need for you to be so offensive!

I don't think anybody called you racist! it just seems like an odd thing that you wouldn't sleep with a woman who have slept with a black man. you put it out there so people asked you about it I don't understand what the problem is?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For all you idiots saying im either racist or homophobic then sleep easy.

I wont knowingly have sex with a woman who's had sex with a non white or a bi bloke.

"deal with it"

If you have an issue with this then you need to reprimand 20% of women who state similar."

Why do you feel the need to say it? You could turn people down for any number of reasons and they'd never need to know the real reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good afternoon.

Would you not meet with a women couple or male if they've met with a certain person. X"

Which certain person are we talking about? Does she have a van?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For all you idiots saying im either racist or homophobic then sleep easy.

I wont knowingly have sex with a woman who's had sex with a non white or a bi bloke.

"deal with it"

If you have an issue with this then you need to reprimand 20% of women who state similar."

This makes a great filter. Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For all you idiots saying im either racist or homophobic then sleep easy.

I wont knowingly have sex with a woman who's had sex with a non white or a bi bloke.

"deal with it"

If you have an issue with this then you need to reprimand 20% of women who state similar.

This makes a great filter. Thank you "

My thoughts exactly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For all you idiots saying im either racist or homophobic then sleep easy.

I wont knowingly have sex with a woman who's had sex with a non white or a bi bloke.

"deal with it"

If you have an issue with this then you need to reprimand 20% of women who state similar.

This makes a great filter. Thank you "

Absolutely

"20% of women who state similar". I'd be interested to know where you got this figure from and curious to know the percentage of women on here who haven't met bbc or bi men. You're options must be rather limited

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The bottom line is you only no what people tell you da da daaaaaa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The bottom line is you only no what people tell you da da daaaaaa"
know

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Not read the whole thread. (I skimmed)

The ‘van lady’ comment made me lol.

Truth be told, the swinging community talk to each other.

I’ve had more men than i’d Like to count say ‘I’ve had a woman in my inbox bitching about you saying she won’t meet me because I see you’ most of my veris are social ones and I like to think I can be a friend to all. I’m glad that they are enough of a friend to tell me, I respect that but it’s Sad behaviour.

Makes me realise that an ‘jezebel’ and ‘Real name’ are very VERY different people.

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