FabSwingers.com forum: What's your biggest regret?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

not speaking up for myself for 40 years . I do now!

Choosing one girl over another(now ex-wife)often wonder what might have been with other girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leaving it so long to go backpacking...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really do regrets. The past is done, it can't be changed so why worry about it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the lies I've ever told.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Listening to the wrong people when I was very young x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Letting my late ex treat me how he did,even many years later my confidence is crap and i hate how i look

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By *cgkcCouple
over a year ago

Hitchin

I allowed a distance to develop between myself and my partner in crime, and I never got the chance to put it right.

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

Going back for one more shag after a break up.

Never go back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not joining the army because my ex didn’t want me to.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't have any regrets. Most of the things I've done or haven't done have been as a result of decisions made taking circumstances at the time in to account and my personality. Some are wrong in hindsight but that's life.

Looking back both of us would have liked to move to Spain years ago but again that's hindsight for you and if we *really* wanted to we would do it now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not joining the army because my ex didn’t want me to."

She may have saved your life, don't regret that one, you didn't miss much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I regret afew shitty things Ive done to another individual. I haven't been that person for a long time but still crosses my mind from time to time

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By *actilemale4uMan
over a year ago

London

"Letting my late ex treat me how he did,even many years later my confidence is crap and i hate how i look"

You looking fucking awesome in your posted photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Asking my Dad a few difficult questions before he died and always wondering what the answers would be?

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Letting my late ex treat me how he did,even many years later my confidence is crap and i hate how i look"

You look amazing!! we wouldn't kick you out of bed xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Letting my late ex treat me how he did,even many years later my confidence is crap and i hate how i look"

looks can be deceptive ..its whats on the inside that counts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not joining the army because my ex didn’t want me to.

She may have saved your life, don't regret that one, you didn't miss much

Good point well made. But that’s the problem with regret. It hard not to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting married and all the crap I've ever eaten.

Most recently leaving the job I loved for more money somewhere else

However regrets are pointless . You need to move forward and try to find positives

If I hadn't gone through with the wedding I wouldn't have my amazing sons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I regret the decades I spent hating myself.

I know I cant get it back but I turn 44 next month- a lot of time has been wasted!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I regret the decades I spent hating myself.

I know I cant get it back but I turn 44 next month- a lot of time has been wasted!"

44- whippersnapper

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

"I regret the decades I spent hating myself.

I know I cant get it back but I turn 44 next month- a lot of time has been wasted!"

You mean 26 and 3/4 surely..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I regret the decades I spent hating myself.

I know I cant get it back but I turn 44 next month- a lot of time has been wasted!

You mean 26 and 3/4 surely..

Haha I wish!

Turning 27 was one of the best years in my life - I wish I could go back knowing what I know now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I regret the decades I spent hating myself.

I know I cant get it back but I turn 44 next month- a lot of time has been wasted!

44- whippersnapper

My creaky joints say different rifl

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I regret the decades I spent hating myself.

I know I cant get it back but I turn 44 next month- a lot of time has been wasted!

44- whippersnapper

My creaky joints say different rifl"

You've got nearly twenty years before you reach my age. Don't waste any more time worrying about wasted time

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By *oleene HoneybeeWoman
over a year ago

on the naughty side of the street

For not saying I LOVE YOU more often to the people I loved but have sadly lost.

Always answer the phone, speak about your feelings and say you love them.

Before it to late x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Letting my late ex treat me how he did,even many years later my confidence is crap and i hate how i look"

You look beautiful to me...and from other threads on here I dont think I'm alone in thinking that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Putting my trust in someone that people had warned me about.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Not saying the things I should have said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Letting my late ex treat me how he did,even many years later my confidence is crap and i hate how i look

looks can be deceptive ..its whats on the inside that counts "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Joining this site as you get no response off anyone you message

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

... I've had a few, but then again, too few to mention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not listening to my gut where my ex was concerned. Never thought it would be me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"... I've had a few, but then again, too few to mention

try alcoholics anonymous...i presume theyre ex directory .. give em a call ..'hic'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not staying on at Uni after my HND to top up to degree- it would have meant I could switch careers and stay higher up the pay scale. Not for me really, but now for my child. But I was young, and couldn't see the bigger picture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I regret the decades I spent hating myself.

I know I cant get it back but I turn 44 next month- a lot of time has been wasted!

44- whippersnapper

My creaky joints say different rifl

You've got nearly twenty years before you reach my age. Don't waste any more time worrying about wasted time

You're so right!

I'm a worrier

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I regret the decades I spent hating myself.

I know I cant get it back but I turn 44 next month- a lot of time has been wasted!

44- whippersnapper

My creaky joints say different rifl

You've got nearly twenty years before you reach my age. Don't waste any more time worrying about wasted time

You're so right!

I'm a worrier

Well you'll never be younger than you are today and if not now...when?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never regret my decisions you can't look back you have to look forward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Non, je ne regrette rien

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not emigrating a few years back the UK is just going to pot right now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not emigrating a few years back the UK is just going to pot right now. "

here here.if i were younger id be off to America

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By *ndy0001Man
over a year ago

leeds

"Asking my Dad a few difficult questions before he died and always wondering what the answers would be?"

Shame

Great boobs though

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

I have many but I try not to think about things that can’t be changed otherwise it would drive me loopy.

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By *ndy0001Man
over a year ago

leeds

"Not emigrating a few years back the UK is just going to pot right now. "

When you live abroad you might change your mind on that. Lots to rejoice in here.

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Allowing my ex wife to treat me the way she did for so many years and also meeting the ex wife aswell.

On the plus side I've got 2 amazing daughters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No regrets! No point in regretting something you can’t change. Always looking forward x

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By *herealdavidjonesMan
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

Before I had popped my cherry I was waiting for the right girl. One night out I sha_ed a bed with this girl that was a right dirty girl. We slept naked together she wanted to, and I refused. Why oh why did I turn her down!! She was fit, filthy and willing!!

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

"I don't really do regrets. The past is done, it can't be changed so why worry about it? "

Exactly this..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not emigrating a few years back the UK is just going to pot right now. "
and

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

..not taking any/enough photos of deceased relatives

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not being born woman: easy sex whenever you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Working too much when my ex fiancee was pregnant. The only regret I have as everything else I believe is fated to happen. Just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing but I like to embrace life and take a lot of opportunities that arise just because you never know ... would hate not to try doing new things and learning every day! That would be my only regret if I had one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as the butt hole surfers said its better to regret something you did than something you didnt do!!

only regret i have is a lovely girl i was seeing in my 20's...i loved the bones of her...i thought she didnt love me so i left her..found out years later that she was besotted with me and she was in bits when i moved away...

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Not finding my confidence and self worth until these recent few years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't really do regrets. The past is done, it can't be changed so why worry about it? "

Totally agree with that

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Not giving my ex wife the chance of a child before she sadly had to have a hysterectomy at 35yo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Time

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"All the lies I've ever told."

is that true?

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By *edMan
over a year ago

cambridgeshire

Regret that I couldn't recognise a come on when I was younger

Specially as now I think I can, there's less of them

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Work long hours when my kid's were small thought we needed the money ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Went to uni close to home instead of flying the nest to South wales

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That at 39 i still cannot do what i want when i want with my life

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

My biggest regret.(and I have a few) is something I wouldn't post on here. Even tho it was made out of naivety and love I should have made better choices.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Not giving my ex wife the chance of a child before she sadly had to have a hysterectomy at 35yo.

Sorry to hear about your ex wife's hysterectomy.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Work long hours when my kid's were small thought we needed the money ....

There's never enough (unless your lucky) money or time especially with a young family...we got to do what we got to do x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not travelling before I hit my forties and staying fat and unit up until now !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not getting my driving licence when I was younger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not applying myself academically when I was younger, I wanted to be the same as the majority and go into the workplace....bigger picture = missed opportunities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh man, what to choose. It would be either not having the courage to leave either of the abusive relationships I was in, or dismissing my concentration problems as 'Miserable teenager not interested in things' and waiting till i'm nearly 25 to do anything about it.

I could be midway through a PhD right now if i'd bothe_ed to address it as a teen. ah well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lying....

Truth pays

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No point regretting, just working on making the future different, I won't curse it by saying 'better'

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

I have many regrets.I guess a lack of confidence has and is still holding me back in life , things in my childhood didn’t help , not knowing where I fit in then and now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Letting my late ex treat me how he did,even many years later my confidence is crap and i hate how i look"

Be confident

You look amaxing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regret it's like a rocking chair, you go backwards and forwards but never get anywhere...

My regret, it's not for sharing.

But for those who regret, the past cannot be changed, the future that's for us all to choose

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I have many regrets.I guess a lack of confidence has and is still holding me back in life , things in my childhood didn’t help , not knowing where I fit in then and now "

I think it's good to accept that we can't always fit in and to be yourself is just fine x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not kicking the crap out of my ex’s new partner and taking my eldest son before they got sick of him and dumped him on my doorstep.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"No point regretting, just working on making the future different, I won't curse it by saying 'better'"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try not to think about things I regret from my past.

I look forward to the future.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Not stood my ground and said to my father that I WAS going to train to become a commercial airline pilot.

That is the biggest, and probably only regret I have...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not stood my ground and said to my father that I WAS going to train to become a commercial airline pilot.

That is the biggest, and probably only regret I have... "

It's never too late to follow your dream.

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

Getting married in 1992.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Joining loll

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My biggest regret is not telling enough ppl to f-off ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't regret too much ..but ..I had tickets booked to spend a couple of months backpacking ....then fell pregnant. Instead of just going on my travels I stayed with the bloke and married him, only to send the prick back to his mum's 10 months later ... ahhh hindsight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I was stronger when I split from my ex husband in terms of having the kids, I understand the reasons they stayed with him as it kept them in their routines as two of them are autistic and he was the stay at home parent but I wish I fought to have them and stay in the house but I can’t live by that, it would just eat me up too much, they are happy enough where they are which is the most important thing but yeah, that’s my one big regret.

Danish x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wasting my time for people doesn't deserved it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wasting my time for people doesn't deserved it"

Ditto

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

"I have many regrets.I guess a lack of confidence has and is still holding me back in life , things in my childhood didn’t help , not knowing where I fit in then and now

I think it's good to accept that we can't always fit in and to be yourself is just fine x"
. I accept that I am not going to fit in but I am trying and it’s not easy but then I guess life was never meant to be easy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not going travelling before I became a parent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"not speaking up for myself for 40 years . I do now!

Choosing one girl over another(now ex-wife)often wonder what might have been with other girl

Life is really too short to be having regrets, but, if I had to pick something, then it would be not grabbing the chance to trek through the Himalayas when I was a strapping young chap. I was offe_ed the opportunity to spend 6 months there hiking through the region, for no other reason than just for the he’ll of it. I decided not to go and spent some time in the French/Swiss Alps instead. Broke my back a few years later so huge trekking adventures are not an option now

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I have a handful of regrets.I think most people do, if they are honest.

I do think if you can learn from your regrets then they aren't wasted time/experiences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Caring about what others think!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not having confidence in myself and always doubting everything i did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I regret not spending more time with my Dad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

9.11

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not emigrating to Australia when i had the opportunity to do so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well seeing how this site is these days it has to be letting my six pack go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I shouldn't have just had that blueberry hot cross bun....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have one big one related to a work screw up. However the long term consequences were much better than I could have hoped. It convinces me karma doesn’t exist, because I didn’t deserve my good fortune.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well seeing how this site is these days it has to be letting my six pack go"

a barrel is worth more than a six pack

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