FabSwingers.com forum: breaking the fab code

By *greygor OP Couple
over a year ago

birmingham

have got many pics up on profile .some with face showing .may have to take them down as some plonker came into my place of work when was with a customer .came over to open desk area and said quite openly you look as good in you uniform but i love your pics on fab .nealy fainted .lucky the customer had no idea .but when you see a faber in the real world surly you just pass them by .not engage in talk .unriten code what you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"have got many pics up on profile .some with face showing .may have to take them down as some plonker came into my place of work when was with a customer .came over to open desk area and said quite openly you look as good in you uniform but i love your pics on fab .nealy fainted .lucky the customer had no idea .but when you see a faber in the real world surly you just pass them by .not engage in talk .unriten code what you think?"
thats the rule to anyone with any common sense yes

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I agree. Some people are just indiscreet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have recognised people but would never say anything unless a polite hello if we had met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, to anyone with any decency.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oww how embarressing!!! Hope you blocked em staight away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats reason for war

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must be awful! Some people have no filter

I went to buy something for my car, I recognised the guy who served as being on Fab! Wouldn't dream of saying anything as he has a right to his privacy, and as good looking as he was I couldn't be one of them creepy people who message later with the whole "saw you today"

Nope, he stayed on my hotlist lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Must be awful! Some people have no filter

Nope, he stayed on my hotlist lol."

We’ve had this before had a guy message us “I saw you in Aldi yesterday”

We were a little freaked out lol

Doughnut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately fab doesn't have an idiot refusal feature.

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By *ussD1Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

Discretion discretion discretion.

Unless they have spoken to you and you know there’s a connection, then a discrete comment in passing could be exciting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On my old profile had two verifications off different guys, one saying they saw me in Asda and another one said they rode past me on his bike when I was running on the seafront!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On my old profile had two verifications off different guys, one saying they saw me in Asda and another one said they rode past me on his bike when I was running on the seafront!

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but did they come say hi?

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Its hardly brain surgery is it ok. There a similar thread running see my post on that. And yes take you face pics down. I show all mine and that's been a mistake I've run with for nearly 10 years. I can't move now with hearing the bladey shite. Sorry folks but bladey is a mith made up by ppl who haven't a clue who the fuck I am and by fuck it's tiring now....

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"On my old profile had two verifications off different guys, one saying they saw me in Asda and another one said they rode past me on his bike when I was running on the seafront!

Which old profile. Come on I'm getting on now your teabags and alway will be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On my old profile had two verifications off different guys, one saying they saw me in Asda and another one said they rode past me on his bike when I was running on the seafront!

Which old profile. Come on I'm getting on now your teabags and alway will be.

Fuck knows, I’ve had a few! I had to display them as well cos other guys were getting in a pissy sayibgbive met people when I said I wasn’t meeting. Had to show what they were from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On my old profile had two verifications off different guys, one saying they saw me in Asda and another one said they rode past me on his bike when I was running on the seafront!

but did they come say hi?"

Nope they didn’t speak to me at the time.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I don’t mind a message saying I was seen in a particular place. It’s not always me that they saw so just as well they didn’t say anything. I must have a few doppelgängers.

I’m sure they wouldn’t like it if you’d said the same to him!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hhmmmmmmmmm (thinking emoji)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was in Frankie and Benny's once and on the table next to us was a guy on his own minding his own business. When a woman with a small child walked over to him & said quite openly Hi I recognise you from fab. He looked so shocked and awkward because I was looking as she was so blase' about it.He mumbled something to her then she left.

Because I was sat near to him he said "there's some random strange people about..I quoted..That's Fab for you!.. we both smiled at each other..

I was with my friend at the time..True story.

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

I'm never recognised with my clothes on

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I'm never recognised with my clothes on

Yes but come on when do you wear any

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

"I'm never recognised with my clothes on

Yes but come on when do you wear any

In the real world yes plus being a shirt arse i get under people's radar

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By *greygor OP Couple
over a year ago

birmingham

"Oww how embarressing!!! Hope you blocked em staight away."
i have no idea who it was or i would have messaged and told them that it was a stupid thing to do.i am not .but imagine that you where on here without partner knowing .and they heard that

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"On my old profile had two verifications off different guys, one saying they saw me in Asda and another one said they rode past me on his bike when I was running on the seafront!

Which old profile. Come on I'm getting on now your teabags and alway will be.

Fuck knows, I’ve had a few! I had to display them as well cos other guys were getting in a pissy sayibgbive met people when I said I wasn’t meeting. Had to show what they were from. "

Single blokes or rather the pricks have made fab so easy it's a joke. I love the thread moaning about I can't get a meet. Here an idea stop making me look so good or better still stop being a prick and expect woman to fall at your feet it's had my brain sergury is it.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I'm never recognised with my clothes on

Yes but come on when do you wear any

In the real world yes plus being a shirt arse i get under people's radar

Good answer

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Oww how embarressing!!! Hope you blocked em staight away.i have no idea who it was or i would have messaged and told them that it was a stupid thing to do.i am not .but imagine that you where on here without partner knowing .and they heard that"

Exactly. We met a guy at an organised social who turned out to live in the next street. He was married but his wife wasn't aware he was on here. We just kept our mouths firmly shut.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On my old profile had two verifications off different guys, one saying they saw me in Asda and another one said they rode past me on his bike when I was running on the seafront!

Which old profile. Come on I'm getting on now your teabags and alway will be.

Fuck knows, I’ve had a few! I had to display them as well cos other guys were getting in a pissy sayibgbive met people when I said I wasn’t meeting. Had to show what they were from. "

You don't HAVE to do anything on here

...you also do not have to justify your actions to anyone you do not know personally ...I think you maybe need to grow a thicker skin my friend

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"On my old profile had two verifications off different guys, one saying they saw me in Asda and another one said they rode past me on his bike when I was running on the seafront!

Which old profile. Come on I'm getting on now your teabags and alway will be.

Fuck knows, I’ve had a few! I had to display them as well cos other guys were getting in a pissy sayibgbive met people when I said I wasn’t meeting. Had to show what they were from.

You don't HAVE to do anything on here

...you also do not have to justify your actions to anyone you do not know personally ...I think you maybe need to grow a thicker skin my friend

Sorry but you obviously don't no her she can look after herself and far from anyone's fool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And would I wear a badge indicating I am a swinger in public ? Nooooo way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

.....aaaannd we're off!

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

".....aaaannd we're off!

Some things never change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".....aaaannd we're off!

Some things never change

About the badge comment ?

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By *bwlookingforfunWoman
over a year ago

crawley

Yep, had someone who turned up at my work place. It wasn't fun..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face pics publicly available on a website and people recognise them while out and about? Seriously?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people love to tell everyone every minute detail about their sex lives, they brag about it all the time on here. So of course they will tell everyone they shagged Doris and Herbert from number 73.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On my old profile had two verifications off different guys, one saying they saw me in Asda and another one said they rode past me on his bike when I was running on the seafront!

Which old profile. Come on I'm getting on now your teabags and alway will be.

Fuck knows, I’ve had a few! I had to display them as well cos other guys were getting in a pissy sayibgbive met people when I said I wasn’t meeting. Had to show what they were from.

You don't HAVE to do anything on here

...you also do not have to justify your actions to anyone you do not know personally ...I think you maybe need to grow a thicker skin my friend

Sorry but you obviously don't no her she can look after herself and far from anyone's fool."

So why complain about on here then

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"On my old profile had two verifications off different guys, one saying they saw me in Asda and another one said they rode past me on his bike when I was running on the seafront!

Which old profile. Come on I'm getting on now your teabags and alway will be.

Fuck knows, I’ve had a few! I had to display them as well cos other guys were getting in a pissy sayibgbive met people when I said I wasn’t meeting. Had to show what they were from.

You don't HAVE to do anything on here

...you also do not have to justify your actions to anyone you do not know personally ...I think you maybe need to grow a thicker skin my friend

Sorry but you obviously don't no her she can look after herself and far from anyone's fool.

So why complain about on here then

Becouse we all like a moan now and then and nobody has any right to tell anyone how to use this site. Even less so the few of us with many years in.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"On my old profile had two verifications off different guys, one saying they saw me in Asda and another one said they rode past me on his bike when I was running on the seafront!

Which old profile. Come on I'm getting on now your teabags and alway will be.

Fuck knows, I’ve had a few! I had to display them as well cos other guys were getting in a pissy sayibgbive met people when I said I wasn’t meeting. Had to show what they were from.

You don't HAVE to do anything on here

...you also do not have to justify your actions to anyone you do not know personally ...I think you maybe need to grow a thicker skin my friend

Sorry but you obviously don't no her she can look after herself and far from anyone's fool.

So why complain about on here then

And that eye rolling shit is just patronising but hey I'm sure she'll tell you that herself when she notices you posts.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"On my old profile had two verifications off different guys, one saying they saw me in Asda and another one said they rode past me on his bike when I was running on the seafront!

Which old profile. Come on I'm getting on now your teabags and alway will be.

Fuck knows, I’ve had a few! I had to display them as well cos other guys were getting in a pissy sayibgbive met people when I said I wasn’t meeting. Had to show what they were from.

You don't HAVE to do anything on here

...you also do not have to justify your actions to anyone you do not know personally ...I think you maybe need to grow a thicker skin my friend

Sorry but you obviously don't no her she can look after herself and far from anyone's fool.

So why complain about on here then

Becouse we all like a moan now and then and nobody has any right to tell anyone how to use this site. Even less so the few of us with many years in."

Am I reading that right, you think people who have been on the site a long time shouldn't be challenged?

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"On my old profile had two verifications off different guys, one saying they saw me in Asda and another one said they rode past me on his bike when I was running on the seafront!

Which old profile. Come on I'm getting on now your teabags and alway will be.

Fuck knows, I’ve had a few! I had to display them as well cos other guys were getting in a pissy sayibgbive met people when I said I wasn’t meeting. Had to show what they were from.

You don't HAVE to do anything on here

...you also do not have to justify your actions to anyone you do not know personally ...I think you maybe need to grow a thicker skin my friend

Sorry but you obviously don't no her she can look after herself and far from anyone's fool.

So why complain about on here then

Becouse we all like a moan now and then and nobody has any right to tell anyone how to use this site. Even less so the few of us with many years in.

Am I reading that right, you think people who have been on the site a long time shouldn't be challenged? "

No your not my apologies I put it badly. And no idea why I even care to be honest.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

In which case lets get back to the OP

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By *r_BlueEyesMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I had to maybe my face pics off public because I'd seen a few clients on here but at no point would I say anything to anyone especially in public

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By *greygor OP Couple
over a year ago

birmingham

"In which case lets get back to the OP

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thank you i am not put off from fab site as most know and play the game .but at the time it happen i was half way through a loan proposal request .and hit wrong key .had to restart asking same questions [not very profesonal]have got over it now .but no more please eh ha ha

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By *lbethereMan
over a year ago

Manchester

That’s exactly why my face isn’t on my profile. There have been people who question why it not too, mind boggling!!

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By *od ThrusterMan
over a year ago

Newport Pagnell

"Some people love to tell everyone every minute detail about their sex lives, they brag about it all the time on here. So of course they will tell everyone they shagged Doris and Herbert from number 73. "

Doris and Herbert are swingers? I'll say hello at the bingo on Thursday!

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I’ve had people telling me that they’ve gone to my place of work looking for me. Instant block. Now I don’t share what I do with anyone unless it is someone I’ve met a few times.

How disgustingly intrusive is that?

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By *lbethereMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I did message a lady once and told them I’d seen them in Morrison’s but obviously (to me anyway) wouldn’t approach them. She said “you should have said hi’ I think that is a one off, it’s rarer for people to have that opinion than thinking ‘what the Fxxk is this person doing’! She looked a lot smaller too lol she told me ‘yes I’m am a short arse’ nice people as it turns out. Still I’d never approach any one on here unless they asked me to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Face pics publicly available on a website and people recognise them while out and about? Seriously?"

I’m yet to have someone recognise me in public. I did have a guy that lives near me ask if I wanted to meet in a nearby pub. That pub is my local but I’ve taken a few fab guys there anyway. I was expecting to see him last night when I did the pub quiz. My housemates know I’m on here so wouldn’t be a shock if he had spoken to me.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I have been approached in public although subtly, when I fellow fabbers I would never approach them in public.

I think the best thing to do is treat them like a complete stranger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there really any need to have naughty pics with face on show anyway..I dont understand why folk do this..you just need to hold down on a pic and download it. It could then be handed around your work or kids school and so on..you.have a responsibility for other people not just yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The answer is to look blankly and say "what is fab" small photos are not 100% id quality

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Bloody indiscreet, but that's the risk with public face pics. I'd hope that the majority of folk would simply keep their mouth shut and say nothing, or at least not react if they recognised you, but not everyone has the common sense to do that.

I don't even let celebrities know I've recognised them out somewhere ffs... Just let them enjoy their day/night in peace.

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By *od ThrusterMan
over a year ago

Newport Pagnell

"I think the best thing to do is treat them like a complete stranger. "

Which is what they are! Would you approach someone and say "Hello, I've seen you on Facebook". I know I wouldn't as it would just be odd and stalkerish. No different here.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I agree. Some people are just indiscreet. "

I sometimes walk round town in ma Ace Winger T-shirt, but sadly no women have flung themselves at ma feet begging for sex, yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree. Some people are just indiscreet.

I sometimes walk round town in ma Ace Winger T-shirt, but sadly no women have flung themselves at ma feet begging for sex, yet

Yep, sorry about that Iwent round in an Ace Winger T-Shirt before you and gave disapointing to poor sex, so ruining your reputation

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

My ex had this when she was out with her kids. It freaked her out so much that we deleted our couples and singles profiles completely and stopped swinging for 6 months altogether.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I agree. Some people are just indiscreet.

I sometimes walk round town in ma Ace Winger T-shirt, but sadly no women have flung themselves at ma feet begging for sex, yet

Yep, sorry about that Iwent round in an Ace Winger T-Shirt before you and gave disapointing to poor sex, so ruining your reputation

Well at least I can hold my head high in the knowledge that I have a stalker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg that’s awful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there really any need to have naughty pics with face on show anyway..I dont understand why folk do this..you just need to hold down on a pic and download it. It could then be handed around your work or kids school and so on..you.have a responsibility for other people not just yourself."

Haha happened to me at work to differentiate me from the other guys with the same name I'm now "carter big dick"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone should know this is the number 1 unwritten rule however I am starting to think it should be at the top of everyone's profile page in big red letters.

I've been reconised at the bus stop. When I said you must have the wrong person he shows me my profile pic. Some people just don't think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone should know this is the number 1 unwritten rule however I am starting to think it should be at the top of everyone's profile page in big red letters.

I've been reconised at the bus stop. When I said you must have the wrong person he shows me my profile pic. Some people just don't think. "

If it’s someone I’ve chatted to then cool, not so cool if it’s someone that’s just looked at my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On my old profile had two verifications off different guys, one saying they saw me in Asda and another one said they rode past me on his bike when I was running on the seafront!

Which old profile. Come on I'm getting on now your teabags and alway will be.

Fuck knows, I’ve had a few! I had to display them as well cos other guys were getting in a pissy sayibgbive met people when I said I wasn’t meeting. Had to show what they were from.

You don't HAVE to do anything on here

...you also do not have to justify your actions to anyone you do not know personally ...I think you maybe need to grow a thicker skin my friend

Sorry but you obviously don't no her she can look after herself and far from anyone's fool.

So why complain about on here then

Becouse we all like a moan now and then and nobody has any right to tell anyone how to use this site. Even less so the few of us with many years in."

I never told anyone what they should or should do if you read my initial comment again...and time served has nothing to do with it...once a moaner always a moaner...and it actually a very good filter to know who one should keep away from with regard to meeting

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By *ruly50Woman
over a year ago

ely

When I first joined I was chatting to someone and made the mistake of telling them where I worked/live and they just turned up unannounced one night. Totally shitty thing to do embarrass me in front of my staff. But it taught me a lesson which I suppose I deserved for being so naive.

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By *greygor OP Couple
over a year ago

birmingham

thank you for all the comments on here an private ,it has not put me off fab .have met many lovely fabbers .and will meet more [i hope] if the guy reads this he prop realizes he made a mistake .love you guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol , that’s a good reason why I don’t have any face pics for public view , can sent private if need be x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have recognised people but would never say anything unless a polite hello if we had met"

Exactly that!

I met a couple for a social once, then a couple of weeks later I saw them at the local cinema with a couple of other people.

now there is no way I would have gone up to them.

The lady did pop over and say a quick hello on her own right at the end and said thank you for not saying anything in front of her friends.

When I said that of course I wouldn't that's why I thought it was best not to say anything or show that I recognised you but I appreciate you coming over to say hello.

And yes I was in the cinema alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On my old profile had two verifications off different guys, one saying they saw me in Asda and another one said they rode past me on his bike when I was running on the seafront!

Which old profile. Come on I'm getting on now your teabags and alway will be.

Fuck knows, I’ve had a few! I had to display them as well cos other guys were getting in a pissy sayibgbive met people when I said I wasn’t meeting. Had to show what they were from.

You don't HAVE to do anything on here

...you also do not have to justify your actions to anyone you do not know personally ...I think you maybe need to grow a thicker skin my friend

Sorry but you obviously don't no her she can look after herself and far from anyone's fool.

So why complain about on here then

Becouse we all like a moan now and then and nobody has any right to tell anyone how to use this site. Even less so the few of us with many years in.

Am I reading that right, you think people who have been on the site a long time shouldn't be challenged? "

it is an open forum on this site, every member has a right to their own views

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had it been a non "long standing forum member" the replies would have been far less fawning...

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I would be mortified if someone came up to me and said something, you just don’t do you?! I’ve had messages from people I have spoken to saying they saw me but thankfully never came over to me. I’ve seen someone on here that I know, is never tell her I’ve seen her on here, I have blocked her though in case she’s seen me. I’d rather keep this side of me private.

Besides, a lot of the time I’m with my sprogs, the of someone saying something to me in front of my kids is awful.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Had it been a non "long standing forum member" the replies would have been far less fawning..."

You don't no when to quit do you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was marshalling at a bike show last year was recognised got verified got inundated by messages actually glad the person has left the site luckily I had two scary looking punks acting as bodyguards lolol

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Ok lets get back to the OP please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People must do a tonne of studying of the pictures. Ive seen lots of faces on here but doubt I would recognise any of them if I fell over them in the street.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"People must do a tonne of studying of the pictures. Ive seen lots of faces on here but doubt I would recognise any of them if I fell over them in the street.

You get a nack of clocking who ppl are by the body bits you see. It's fucking bizarre recognising somebody at a club becouse they got a cute nipple it's funny as fuck

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"People must do a tonne of studying of the pictures. Ive seen lots of faces on here but doubt I would recognise any of them if I fell over them in the street.

You get a nack of clocking who ppl are by the body bits you see. It's fucking bizarre recognising somebody at a club becouse they got a cute nipple it's funny as fuck

Sadly the boat is rarely as you imaged it

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

People

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Why would anyone put you in that position I may say how nice you looked to pay you a complement but never mention fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had it been a non "long standing forum member" the replies would have been far less fawning...

You don't no when to quit do you

Quit? Did not know it was a competition on here? ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd never put anyone in that position, that really is a Cuntish thing to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Face pics publicly available on a website and people recognise them while out and about? Seriously?"

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

Guess it solely depends on the individuals. I speak to people who I've met on fab in real life. They wouldn't say it as blatantly as that though ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Face pics publicly available on a website and people recognise them while out and about? Seriously?"

Tbf even generously saying theres 40k active members thats 0.07% of the population. Im sure someone more dedicated could actually wprk put the % chance of bumping into each other

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By *greygor OP Couple
over a year ago

birmingham

"Face pics publicly available on a website and people recognise them while out and about? Seriously?

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well i [we] are regular members of chams and angels and sinners cinema .i do not meet there with face covered .so many folks would recognise me [us] just as i would know many if i saw them .my op was about the manor of the aproach on the day .unlike many on fab we do meet .and have a up to date profile and status .with no disrepect ment or intended you have you profile locked out .that is your choice .but how do folks know if they would like to engage further with you.fully understand you my not wish to put face pics up .thank you for taking part on forum .kxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s all tits, arses, pussys and cocks. I wouldn’t recognise anyone if I was on a fabswinger nudist beach let alone fully clothed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just emphasises why I don't have my face on show, some people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And that's why I don't have face pics in public or even friends only, and never will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what about going to clubs or group socials? People can recognise you there and could come up to you in the street at another time. You dont cover your head there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just emphasises why I don't have my face on show, some people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So what about going to clubs or group socials? People can recognise you there and could come up to you in the street at another time. You dont cover your head there. "

True, however here you have some control over the situation... Plus my face is easily forgettable so I'm banking on a club night no fucker will remember

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So what about going to clubs or group socials? People can recognise you there and could come up to you in the street at another time. You dont cover your head there.

True, however here you have some control over the situation... Plus my face is easily forgettable so I'm banking on a club night no fucker will remember

I’m sure that is not true. I’m shit with remembering people anyway.

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By *greygor OP Couple
over a year ago

birmingham

"So what about going to clubs or group socials? People can recognise you there and could come up to you in the street at another time. You dont cover your head there.

True, however here you have some control over the situation... Plus my face is easily forgettable so I'm banking on a club night no fucker will remember

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dont think so witchy one you be remembered for sure

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By *anana JoeMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Its actions like this that does make you think again on naming and shaming rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Face pics publicly available on a website and people recognise them while out and about? Seriously?

well i [we] are regular members of chams and angels and sinners cinema .i do not meet there with face covered .so many folks would recognise me [us] just as i would know many if i saw them .my op was about the manor of the aproach on the day .unlike many on fab we do meet .and have a up to date profile and status .with no disrepect ment or intended you have you profile locked out .that is your choice .but how do folks know if they would like to engage further with you.fully understand you my not wish to put face pics up .thank you for taking part on forum .kxx"

At a club night you will only come into contact with maybe 50 to 100 people. You also see their faces as they are at the same club.

On a website with thousands of members there's no way of knowing who has seen your face pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its actions like this that does make you think again on naming and shaming rules.

Naming and shaming for speaking to someone? What on earth for?

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By *greygor OP Couple
over a year ago

birmingham

well we been talking all week to some fockers that like walking they mad keen for a meet today .for stroll in woods ,had half day from work .15 mins before meet there female takes bad .or hell knows .just makes it so bad for genuine people as we thinking about just club meets from now on .

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