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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Has anybody else noticed that they have been blocked by women who they've never chatted with before?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It might be there settings mate,

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It might be there settings mate, "

Hmm I'm not sure about that

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

No.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes "

Maybe they blocked women

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sometimes it says I've been blocked and I've never seen them or talked to them before.

It's not the same message that comes up when women have blocked all men.

Hope I'm making sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, and couples.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I have only recently used the block button, and not often.

If I've come accross

someone with what I think is a bad attitude on the forum I block them.

They may never intend to message me but I know they will not be my kinda people so I block.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

Some people just block who they’re not interested in if they notice you’ve looked at them. We’ve done it before and people have done it to us. Saves time as if they’ve blocked you, you can’t message them. Don’t worry about it smile. Their loss and move on x

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Yep ...it's a way of ing out the people they're not interested in... nothing personal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

Sometimes I block men I don’t like the look of, sometimes I block men who are too local, or who I’ve seen on the forums and don’t wish to contact outwith the forums.

People block for plenty of reasons. Don’t worry about it.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


" Sometimes it says I've been blocked and I've never seen them or talked to them before.

It's not the same message that comes up when women have blocked all men.

Hope I'm making sense. "

I block lots of people I've never interacted with.

They appear on my local updates, negative status & off putting pics. Blocked.

I check Who's Near, and Who's Viewed me, if they don't meet my preferences. Blocked.

It's nothing personal, but it saves people wasting their time, and mine sending messages that will just get deleted

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I block people who make me cringe in the forums.

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Yes meny times some people are too quick to juge other before even getting to know the person there choice at the end of the day

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

The block button is a wonderful and underused feature on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been blocked a few times. It makes me feel badass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can people see if you have looked at there profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can people see if you have looked at there profile?"

Unless you have the option turned off, then yes.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"I block people who make me cringe in the forums. "

I'm not blocked, winning!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just clicked on a ladies profile and it said I'm blocked and wouldnt allow me to view the profile and another one, it allowed me to view the profile.. But said I was blocked when I clicked on the message thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you message me please

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


" Sometimes it says I've been blocked and I've never seen them or talked to them before.

It's not the same message that comes up when women have blocked all men.

Hope I'm making sense.

I block lots of people I've never interacted with.

They appear on my local updates, negative status & off putting pics. Blocked.

I check Who's Near, and Who's Viewed me, if they don't meet my preferences. Blocked.

It's nothing personal, but it saves people wasting their time, and mine sending messages that will just get deleted "

Same here...

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"I just clicked on a ladies profile and it said I'm blocked and wouldnt allow me to view the profile and another one, it allowed me to view the profile.. But said I was blocked when I clicked on the message thing. "

Then she's blocked all men from messaging her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have only recently used the block button, and not often.

If I've come accross

someone with what I think is a bad attitude on the forum I block them.

They may never intend to message me but I know they will not be my kinda people so I block."

Same.

I know I won't remember them in a day's time, so I want to make sure I don't waste any precious time on them in the future.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they've seen you in here on the forum and take a dislike for whatever reason or they know you from the real world.

I'm still dying to discover someone from the real world in here....

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Can people see if you have looked at there profile?"

Depends on your setting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've been blocked a few times. It makes me feel badass "

Haha

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"I just clicked on a ladies profile and it said I'm blocked and wouldnt allow me to view the profile and another one, it allowed me to view the profile.. But said I was blocked when I clicked on the message thing. "

Obviously the first one did a search and blocked you to stop you coming up in the search and the second is probably has settings set so your age, gender or something stops you messaging.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"The block button is a wonderful and underused feature on here. "

amen to this....

i dont see how some get so upset/annoyed if people clearly want nothing to do with them...

is it the challenge of "well i can change their minds...."

you get one chance to make a great first impression..... if that impression isn't a positive one, thats not really on them!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can you message me please "

Says you have blocked all men. I think I got that on mine too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the info Fabbers

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Since I ran my ‘am I on your hot list’ test that brought all sorts out of the wood work I block anyone who doesnt fit my tick list to prevent me being on their hot list and continually perving my pics.... it’s my prerogative to do so

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I see I'm not on the tick list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but i do it too so i dont care i love randomly blocking folks its good fun for the whole family

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I guess you ladies perv on guys and block the ones who you don't like the look of and hope the rest message you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have only recently used the block button, and not often.

If I've come accross

someone with what I think is a bad attitude on the forum I block them.

They may never intend to message me but I know they will not be my kinda people so I block."

I do the same. Also if I think a guy will sleep with anyone on the site with no standards then I block them too. I know it’s harsh but....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been blocked .... it’s alright

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I've noted it

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

I have based off of forum posts before. A bit of a 'if you're going to be a tit then you're not seeing my tits' kind of thing I suppose...

Not saying that that's what this is OP, just that more things could get you a block. People are fickle.

V x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah some people judge very quickly.

For instance I once jokingly asked a woman to marry me and she took it litterally no matter what I said after that was no good and she blocked me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get blocked from stuff I’ve written on the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah some people judge very quickly.

For instance I once jokingly asked a woman to marry me and she took it litterally no matter what I said after that was no good and she blocked me. "
leason learned?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be women randomly blocking men in their area, so they don't see their profiles, just in case they know that person, or wanting to keep their meets a distance from their locality. I know of a few who do this. It's not personal, just their preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could be women randomly blocking men in their area, so they don't see their profiles, just in case they know that person, or wanting to keep their meets a distance from their locality. I know of a few who do this. It's not personal, just their preference "

I used to do that a lot

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I think you’re taking it too personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anybody else noticed that they have been blocked by women who they've never chatted with before? "

If you are talking about forum people blocking, could be they didn't like something you've posted. I've been blocked a lot. I don't always realise, until i click on a random profile and see I can't view it. It happens to most. I just counter block, when I notice

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"Could be women randomly blocking men in their area, so they don't see their profiles, just in case they know that person, or wanting to keep their meets a distance from their locality. I know of a few who do this. It's not personal, just their preference "

I have a 20mile exclusion zone!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah some people judge very quickly.

For instance I once jokingly asked a woman to marry me and she took it litterally no matter what I said after that was no good and she blocked me. leason learned?"

Yeah I'm learning to stay off fab when I'm d*unk lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Has anybody else noticed that they have been blocked by women who they've never chatted with before?

If you are talking about forum people blocking, could be they didn't like something you've posted. I've been blocked a lot. I don't always realise, until i click on a random profile and see I can't view it. It happens to most. I just counter block, when I notice "

Yes forum women and some who I have found when searching for locals.

Counter block haha I like that

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By *icosaurvoMan
over a year ago

Church Crookham

Yes some women demanded to meet me one night late in a leyby for some fun I said to get I was unavailable and not into meeting randoms I’ve never spoken too she said I was a waster and blocked me lol. No

I just valued respect and safety and like to get to know people first.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"I have only recently used the block button, and not often.

If I've come accross

someone with what I think is a bad attitude on the forum I block them.

They may never intend to message me but I know they will not be my kinda people so I block."

This for us too along with if they have veris from others that we wouldn’t wish to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I think there are a number of women who blocked me because of the crap I post on the forum, because of my profile text or because of my age, sexuality, marital status or simply not finding me remotely attractive enough. My biggest surprise was that there weren’t more, but I’ve realised that’s because I’m pretty irrelevant to those that haven’t.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anybody else noticed that they have been blocked by women who they've never chatted with before?

If you are talking about forum people blocking, could be they didn't like something you've posted. I've been blocked a lot. I don't always realise, until i click on a random profile and see I can't view it. It happens to most. I just counter block, when I notice

Yes forum women and some who I have found when searching for locals.

Counter block haha I like that

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Stops them from potentially having a sneaky peak, when I'm offline

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

If they have a reference to 420 then that’s instablock territory.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I've noted it due to it happening to me a lot loll"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but i've had three women block me immediately after reading/deleting my message.

No dick pic, no pet names, just a regular message with a picture attached. I'm used to people reading and not replying, makes sense not to bother if you're not interested, but outright blocking me just seems a little OTT maybe I made them dryer than a butt-first slide down a sand dune, who knows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blocking really isn't personal, in many ways I like it... if local girls block me, it saves me having to sift through their profiles if I'm looking for a new potential meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anybody else noticed that they have been blocked by women who they've never chatted with before? "

Yup lol

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

I usually return the favour if they block me and just block them in return so they can't see my profile even if they decide to unlock...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block racists who pretend they aint racist

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Blocked you just because of this post...

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

These threads have me clicking on all the names to see if I am blocked

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Blocked you just because of this post..."

I see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually return the favour if they block me and just block them in return so they can't see my profile even if they decide to unlock..."

But then you miss out on the chance to see them coming crawling back

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"These threads have me clicking on all the names to see if I am blocked "

There is no way we would block you and your 150 centimetres of amzing most secretert and sexy of society .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anybody else noticed that they have been blocked by women who they've never chatted with before? "

Maybe its something you have posted its happened to a lot of people on certain threads over the years.

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By *isa2018Couple
over a year ago

East Northamptonshire

I think 'Block' carries the wrong connotations and would have been better called 'Hide' as that is what it's used for really.

We can browse and look back at those that have winked/looked at us. If they are not what we are looking for then we will block them so we don't interact in searches. To us it is just a way of hiding those we have no immediate interest in or our preferences don't align.

We also block people that are too local to us too, as we have a rule that we won't meet people in our own small town due to having public facing jobs.

I'm sure some people must wonder what is going on when they are in the middle of looking at our profile, at the same time we view theirs, decide they are not of interest to us and hit the block button.

There is no malice in it, there is just no point in having those individuals potentially wink or message us if they're profile doesn't interest us.

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I have never used my block button but understand why some forum users have blocked me. I think...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anybody else noticed that they have been blocked by women who they've never chatted with before? "

I block a lot. If someone annoys me in the forum I block. I block all people nearby. I block for loads of reasons. I wouldn’t take it personally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anybody else noticed that they have been blocked by women who they've never chatted with before? "

Were you hoping to chat or perhaps meet someone who has made it clear they want no correspondence from you?

Counter block them, that'll teach them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you sure they blocked you?

you messaged me a few times the other night saying I had blocked you and I very obviously had not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block women who pop up on my local updates whose statuses or photos make me or .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you sure they blocked you?

you messaged me a few times the other night saying I had blocked you and I very obviously had not"

Now we're getting somewhere!

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

I block because I can, I'm not afraid to use the button.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I didn't think I would get so. Many replies to this.

Thanks to everyone who replied. I'm going to put it down to me being in their area, my profile and things I have posted in forums.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are you sure they blocked you?

you messaged me a few times the other night saying I had blocked you and I very obviously had not"

That was just me being d*unk

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"I block women who pop up on my local updates whose statuses or photos make me or ."

Oh my status is proper shite too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I block women who pop up on my local updates whose statuses or photos make me or .

Oh my status is proper shite too "
That's pretty awful in fairness. I'll let it slide though as you have wings

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Has anybody else noticed that they have been blocked by women who they've never chatted with before? "

Mate , we’ve been blocked by half the forum !

Not only would we never speak one to one with them , least of all ever even want to meet them , but it’s just the way it is .

Don’t worry about it , at least it saves you wasting your time messaging them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Has anybody else noticed that they have been blocked by women who they've never chatted with before?

Mate , we’ve been blocked by half the forum !

Not only would we never speak one to one with them , least of all ever even want to meet them , but it’s just the way it is .

Don’t worry about it , at least it saves you wasting your time messaging them "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just noticed I can't message some people because I'm not a site supporter.

Good job I like the forums so much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people are to pushy and dint respect no one so to avoid arguments better block.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"Just noticed I can't message some people because I'm not a site supporter.

Good job I like the forums so much "

It's a setting on you profile you can blanket block certain groups ie no verifications not site supporters.0

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just noticed I can't message some people because I'm not a site supporter.

Good job I like the forums so much

It's a setting on you profile you can blanket block certain groups ie no verifications not site supporters.0 "

Ohh, I didn't know you could blanket block groups of people.

That explained alot

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