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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I guess this is primarily aimed at the single folk here ...

Has being on Fab made you undateable away from the site ?

Have you found a way of balancing a Fab life with a dating life ?

Is Fab a stepping stone back into dating or is it a placebo in itself ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im undatable full stop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not Fab that’s made me undateable, it’s my crap personality and a face like a cows arse.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I've never dated. I get what I need off here, mostly x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

I don't have either.

No.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"I guess this is primarily aimed at the single folk here ...

Has being on Fab made you undateable away from the site ? "

No. Not with the people I would want to date.


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Have you found a way of balancing a Fab life with a dating life ?

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I’m single, so I currently don’t have to balance the two.


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Is Fab a stepping stone back into dating or is it a placebo in itself ?"

No. It’s just fun, like anything else I’d choose to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im undatable full stop "

As am I, as am I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I may be 'tainted' in the eyes of some but they aren't people I would have any interest in.

I don't date and if I did I wouldn't have the time or energy to have a fab life as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just can't do the dating thing! Last time I tried to stick my tongue down his ear before pudding came! Went down like a fat kid on a see saw! I mean, I thought a wet willy before pudding was appropiate! He assured me it most certainly is not!

So, not doing that again, too risky!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I just can't do the dating thing! Last time I tried to stick my tongue down his ear before pudding came!"

that made me chuckle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dating is complicated and I just don't think I can cope with the rejection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im undatable full stop "

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes because it's too easy just to stay here..

No because I don't do both at the same time..

No it's one or the other.. soon to be the other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand why fab would change a person?

Then again I don't tend to fuck hundreds of ppl on here and I treat fabbers with the same respect as a date, they are a date tbf, juat without the boring shit about careers and sperm count.....

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I don't want to date, I haven't got the energy for it.

I like to just choose my experiences off here, at least I can be straight up from the get go and so can the people I meet with hopefully.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

It seems I can't do either to be honest.

Men seem to have lost all their social skills as far as I am concerned, as they have absolutely no concept how to speak to the opposite sex unless it is to hint about having sex! I have tried everything, but things have gone backward, but I have no idea how to change it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess this is primarily aimed at the single folk here ...

Has being on Fab made you undateable away from the site ?

Have you found a way of balancing a Fab life with a dating life ?

Is Fab a stepping stone back into dating or is it a placebo in itself ?"

Probably

No

Placebo

I don't seem to have much luck with either. I would love to find someone to have a relationship with who is as deviant and kinky as me. People who I meet that are compatible sexually only seem to be looking for sex and people who want to date me just don't do it for me in the bedroom. A few men off here have told me they wouldn't date a woman who's been on here as we are only good for sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would it not be a case of blurred lines, looking for a relationship and being on fabs?

I’m not saying you can’t be on both I’m just thinking for me I’d be either in the not dating mode looking for sex on fabs or looking for a relationship so don’t want to be on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was undateable before I joined Fab.

I have no time or headspace for a relationship and it wouldn't be fair on a man to ask for commitment.

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By *unningFoxWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

O think I’m undatable as I’m one of those “romantic and with dirty mind”. I’m too dirty for dating and tend to rush things but too romantic for this place Difficult to find a guy who can handle both and all my “curves” haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought so... but this site is full of wonderful surprises

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never dated in my life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saw the thread title...

Thought this is the place for me

Then realised it was just another Sydney university survey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah my own issues are what makes me undateable plus long list of requirements, i'm too picky for the most part.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not really looking to date. I like my life the way it is, for the most part.

Fab's more of a dirty little secret for me, which is part of the appeal...

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

I found you can't date and be on here really. You can become dateable if you leave but otherwise the same guys as on here find you on dating sites and pester you for sex there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the single life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just can't do the dating thing! Last time I tried to stick my tongue down his ear before pudding came! Went down like a fat kid on a see saw! I mean, I thought a wet willy before pudding was appropiate! He assured me it most certainly is not!

So, not doing that again, too risky!"

omg he must be mad a wet willy is appropriate any time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like the single life. "

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

In using fab as a dating site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im undatable full stop "

Me too.

Too many isheeeewws

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Im undatable full stop

Me too.

Too many isheeeewws "

Dateable by a mental health therapist?

You think you’ve got problems, I’m only dateable by a mental health therapist with bad eyesight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im undatable full stop

Me too.

Too many isheeeewws

Dateable by a mental health therapist?

You think you’ve got problems, I’m only dateable by a mental health therapist with bad eyesight "

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Tbh I've given up thinking about it

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