FabSwingers.com forum: How you describe yourself

By *ax_uk_2009 OP Man
over a year ago

Wilmslow

In profiles most line items are self explanatory apart from “athletic/average/curvy etc”. I am about 11 stone in relatively good shape and call

myself average. It really is all about how you se yourself, I’d also call myself fabulous. I am interested what people see as these different labels and are they really important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I’m curvy. But, as someone pointed out on the forums a wee while back, curvy is actually for women with small waists, thick hips and a big chest and small legs. I’m therefore not curvy, I’m fat

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

Fat but there is not the option lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloody lovely

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Labels and debating them is massively important on here for some reason

I know what I am and what I’m not. That’s all I need to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would describe myself as voluptuous. That's not an option so I went for curvy.

I think my photos make it fairly obvious I'm not slim

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"Labels and debating them is massively important on here for some reason

I know what I am and what I’m not. That’s all I need to know. "

With this lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I describe myself as athletic because I believe I am. If others don't that's fine, make your own mind up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am what I am!....fairly average with a few curves....some in the right places, some not!! Don't think there is a tick box for that description?!! Lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use curvy because I have a big arse a small waist and medium to large size boobs and a pot belly, I go in and out so therefore I’m curvy! Pictures are your best guide.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I say curvy because I'm fatter than average but ample is such a shit word. I have a visible waist so curvy seems OK. I don't pay much attention to that though, just look at the pictures.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"I say curvy because I'm fatter than average but ample is such a shit word. I have a visible waist so curvy seems OK. I don't pay much attention to that though, just look at the pictures. "

Ample is a dreadful word. It conjures up images of large built, matronly old ladies. I can't imagine any of us want to be described in that way

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"I say curvy because I'm fatter than average but ample is such a shit word. I have a visible waist so curvy seems OK. I don't pay much attention to that though, just look at the pictures.

Ample is a dreadful word. It conjures up images of large built, matronly old ladies. I can't imagine any of us want to be described in that way

I describe myself as ample

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexy as fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd call myself sarcastic.....

......it's not all bout the physical

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Athletically average.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Average I guess?

If my tits were bigger than a b cup I'd sway more towards curvy as I have a big arse, a tummy and hips.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I don't think there is any other way to do size / shape descriptions.

Everyone will have their own perspective on their own body. I felt that curvy best described me.

Photos show that those curves are currently on the generous side, along with a tummy.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im fat but they dont have that so ive put large

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv described myself as accurately as I can on my profile details x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My curves are in the wrong place so I ticked ample as there's no fat option.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im fat but they dont have that so ive put large"

Fat and sexy if you want to put it in your works , xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welsh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've recently changed mine from athletic to average because some of the blokes on here would put me to shame lol I'm working on being able to change it back though

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Definitely athletic

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Sarcastic, short, more lumpy than curvy. Unless I'm poured in a corset and tied to within an inch of my life x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m fat ! What you see is what you get I can’t hide it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Large and in Charge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sarcastic, short, more lumpy than curvy. Unless I'm poured in a corset and tied to within an inch of my life x"

Shapely and sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are irrelevant. I've never looked at how someone describes themselves. I've got eyes. I know what I like. I look at pics not descriptors.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve put curvy as I have an hour glass figure. But I also have a big belly and bum but there’s no option to say that. Pics show me as I am x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

highly contagious (through your phone screen in a virus)

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I am fairly body confident but expressing that on fab is frowned on so I describe myself as average. Ultimately other people's opinion of me are worth less to me than my own opinion of myself and that isn't very popular either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

filthy gorgeous nasty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chunky hourglass.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am fairly body confident but expressing that on fab is frowned on so I describe myself as average. Ultimately other people's opinion of me are worth less to me than my own opinion of myself and that isn't very popular either

Because it's frowned on I put fabulous. I'm upset that fat people have commandeered this word. I'm not huge. But i like me. And i am fabulous

I don't have any issue with being unpopular and I'm not self deprecating to gain popularity or compliments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im between athletic and average i still have the shape of old with a layer of warming seal blubber for winter

Still got the chicken legs tho

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By *J RHEAMan
over a year ago

S West

Distinctly average

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because it's frowned on I put fabulous. I'm upset that fat people have commandeered this word. I'm not huge. But i like me. And i am fabulous

I don't have any issue with being unpopular and I'm not self deprecating to gain popularity or compliments. "

fabulous does not mean fat in my world

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By *J RHEAMan
over a year ago

S West

Because it's frowned on I put fabulous. I'm upset that fat people have commandeered this word. I'm not huge. But i like me. And i am fabulous

I don't have any issue with being unpopular and I'm not self deprecating to gain popularity or compliments. "

Cracking bum too :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because it's frowned on I put fabulous. I'm upset that fat people have commandeered this word. I'm not huge. But i like me. And i am fabulous

I don't have any issue with being unpopular and I'm not self deprecating to gain popularity or compliments. "

Oh and the worse thing I could describe myself as would be average. That's so mediocre and who in their right mind describes themselves as that???!!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Because it's frowned on I put fabulous. I'm upset that fat people have commandeered this word. I'm not huge. But i like me. And i am fabulous

I don't have any issue with being unpopular and I'm not self deprecating to gain popularity or compliments. "

Yeah I'm a stranger to the "rate me" threads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even I’m jealous of me.

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By *J RHEAMan
over a year ago

S West

I don't have an ego that needs massaging :p I am, I'm not overly good looking, nor ugly.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Because it's frowned on I put fabulous. I'm upset that fat people have commandeered this word. I'm not huge. But i like me. And i am fabulous

I don't have any issue with being unpopular and I'm not self deprecating to gain popularity or compliments.

Oh and the worse thing I could describe myself as would be average. That's so mediocre and who in their right mind describes themselves as that???!!!"

. Well I'm clearly not in my right mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because it's frowned on I put fabulous. I'm upset that fat people have commandeered this word. I'm not huge. But i like me. And i am fabulous

I don't have any issue with being unpopular and I'm not self deprecating to gain popularity or compliments.

Oh and the worse thing I could describe myself as would be average. That's so mediocre and who in their right mind describes themselves as that???!!!"

I've put average! I was slim back when I was Nell and now I'm a bit bigger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy, short and funny

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I’m content with ample as there is a lot of me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I am curvy I've big boobs, bum and belly but still have an hourglass figure. Just bigger

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I've put Athletic

But I seem to get told an awful lot, yeah by men, that I'm Curvy?

I think people's definitions need working on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because it's frowned on I put fabulous. I'm upset that fat people have commandeered this word. I'm not huge. But i like me. And i am fabulous

I don't have any issue with being unpopular and I'm not self deprecating to gain popularity or compliments.

Oh and the worse thing I could describe myself as would be average. That's so mediocre and who in their right mind describes themselves as that???!!!

. Well I'm clearly not in my right mind"

I'd be worried if you were

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty slender with bumps where needed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because it's frowned on I put fabulous. I'm upset that fat people have commandeered this word. I'm not huge. But i like me. And i am fabulous

I don't have any issue with being unpopular and I'm not self deprecating to gain popularity or compliments.

Oh and the worse thing I could describe myself as would be average. That's so mediocre and who in their right mind describes themselves as that???!!!"

right mind has obviously taken a holiday!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Descriptions are subjective and photos can be deceptive. The only true way of knowing is meeting face to face.

If you’re that hung up on size details then don’t meet online.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welsh and proud!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because it's frowned on I put fabulous. I'm upset that fat people have commandeered this word. I'm not huge. But i like me. And i am fabulous

I don't have any issue with being unpopular and I'm not self deprecating to gain popularity or compliments.

Oh and the worse thing I could describe myself as would be average. That's so mediocre and who in their right mind describes themselves as that???!!!

right mind has obviously taken a holiday!"

Well you've given up apparently so average would work for you. It's not exactly a way of selling yourself is it?

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By *arry WindsorMan
over a year ago

Heaton Park Manchester

I'd describe myself as having a vacancy for a fuck buddy or friend with benefits!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Average

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"filthy gorgeous nasty

oops forgot to mention,disgusting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put pretty as that’s what Mr says I am

I get confused about the definition of curvy as I have curves and get told I’m curvy, but only have small boobs, so put average xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if i had a pound for every girl that found me unattractive-

eventually they would find me attractive!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no option for 'work in progress'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because it's frowned on I put fabulous. I'm upset that fat people have commandeered this word. I'm not huge. But i like me. And i am fabulous

I don't have any issue with being unpopular and I'm not self deprecating to gain popularity or compliments.

Oh and the worse thing I could describe myself as would be average. That's so mediocre and who in their right mind describes themselves as that???!!!

right mind has obviously taken a holiday!

Well you've given up apparently so average would work for you. It's not exactly a way of selling yourself is it?

I’m not looking to sell myself though so yes I think average is a word that best describes my body type, which is the context it’s relating to on here.

It certainly doesn’t describe my personality or looks which are fabulous...

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

"filthy gorgeous nasty

oops forgot to mention,disgusting

You’re a classy honey kissy huggy lovey dovey ghetto princess

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I've described myself as accurately as possible.

Much as labels may make people squeamish on here, it's the only way of communicating with any relative degree of accuracy who we are and what we look like. In keeping with that, I'm athletic, because I am!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bearded, scarred and tattooed

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By *orgotten22Woman
over a year ago

out in the sticks in the north east england

Kinky submissive curvy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a baby giraffe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm an average red head with green eyes and curves in the right place. Nice legs and nice rack

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi I'm P, and I'm a dancing on ice addict.

Just back from work and watching the final on catch up so shhhhhhh.

Physically I ain't got a clue what I am. Small n squishy with boney bits I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s subjective ... size I mean

My profile is accurate - I’m as big as a house

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

I'd have said I was more voluptuous or top heavy I suppose... Depends on the day you ask me. Fabulous seemed vague enough for people to look at pics and make their own minds up.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve tried to ensure that I’m described as repugnantly as possible- I still don’t think it’s accurate enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I’m curvy. But, as someone pointed out on the forums a wee while back, curvy is actually for women with small waists, thick hips and a big chest and small legs. I’m therefore not curvy, I’m fat

You have an amazing body!! Def not fat!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would describe myself as average as curvy can sometimes be misconstrued as meaning fat. My lack of confidence definitely determines my view of my body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly have no idea what i class as anymore. I used to be 25 stone and a bbw, and now i have no idea. Im size 12/14

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think trogladyte covers all the options...

Wanders back into the man cave

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