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Are threesomes overrated ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’ve never had a threesome, always been just short of getting the numbers together, (usually 2 short etc). But I’ve thought long and hard about the logistics of a threesome, both MMF and MFF, mainly MFF though.

Now the MFF is a multitasking issue, I think I would run into. I’d be concerned about neglecting one lady while the other is getting some of Devon’s finest and having the time of her life, I’d feel l would need to reassure the lady waiting patiently that I’d get to her presently. I like to keep eye contact with the one on the receiving end, but this would get confusing if I was talking to the other, then they’d say ‘Who me ?’ and I’d say ‘No, the other one!’ But then say the ladies started getting it on and I wasn’t needed, I’d feel like a spare prick.

Then there’s the MMF, now I’m an open minded, liberal bloke, but for thd DP with the lady would it be frowned upon, if I bought a piece of plastic to slide between are balls, so there was no bollock on bollock action ?!

So my question to those sexually pioneers out there in Fabland, is did it live up to expectations and did you run into logistically problems you didn’t envisage. Or did you think never again I’ll stick with one on one ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really is a minefield and best avoided.

Last one I participated in was with an ex fwb and his mate, we got carried away and matey was ignored. Neither of us noticed when he left

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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I suppose it does help if two or all three people are Bi friendly, Although it does still work if neither are bi

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It really is a minefield and best avoided.

Last one I participated in was with an ex fwb and his mate, we got carried away and matey was ignored. Neither of us noticed when he left "

Yeah, that’s my concern, if she was more into the other bloke I don’t think my fragile ego could take it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t worry about either of the ladies feeling neglected by you in a FFM as usually the guy is more of s spare wheel if both women are truely bi

In my exsperience that is but that is usually my main reason for doing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither of mine were, I had a blast.

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By *riggler90Couple
over a year ago

Essex and Dublin

I love a good mff! I'm a bisexual lady so if I'm enjoying some willy then lady can be happily sat on my face. They can even kiss which is like a sexy triangle. Of course sometimes it doesn't go so well and if Im in a club and Im getting left out I'll either whine like an abandoned puppy (joking) or leave them to it and find some alternative action to join in with (not joking)

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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I've been present while two ladies played then joined in, Three became four within minutes, Only the ladies were bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn’t worry about either of the ladies feeling neglected by you in a FFM as usually the guy is more of s spare wheel if both women are truely bi

In my exsperience that is but that is usually my main reason for doing it "

I wouldn't mind being a spare wheel in a mff, plus a could always watch during those moments when my penis isn't needed lol

Go for it Tame, you'll not know fully till you try it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It really is a minefield and best avoided.

Last one I participated in was with an ex fwb and his mate, we got carried away and matey was ignored. Neither of us noticed when he left

Yeah, that’s my concern, if she was more into the other bloke I don’t think my fragile ego could take it. "

Have you tried a club? Could be a good way to dip your toes as it were.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

no they are not overrated. I enjoy them but my preference is me and three guys just works best for me. One of my gentlemen friends got a mardy on as me and the other woman werent paying him any attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve never had a threesome, always been just short of getting the numbers together, (usually 2 short etc). But I’ve thought long and hard about the logistics of a threesome, both MMF and MFF, mainly MFF though.

Now the MFF is a multitasking issue, I think I would run into. I’d be concerned about neglecting one lady while the other is getting some of Devon’s finest and having the time of her life, I’d feel l would need to reassure the lady waiting patiently that I’d get to her presently. I like to keep eye contact with the one on the receiving end, but this would get confusing if I was talking to the other, then they’d say ‘Who me ?’ and I’d say ‘No, the other one!’ But then say the ladies started getting it on and I wasn’t needed, I’d feel like a spare prick.

Then there’s the MMF, now I’m an open minded, liberal bloke, but for thd DP with the lady would it be frowned upon, if I bought a piece of plastic to slide between are balls, so there was no bollock on bollock action ?!

So my question to those sexually pioneers out there in Fabland, is did it live up to expectations and did you run into logistically problems you didn’t envisage. Or did you think never again I’ll stick with one on one ? "

I’m only interested in MFM and my one and only one so far was so worth it!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never experienced it myself. If everyone involved is bi and fancies each other then there can't be much chance of anyone being left out surely? That's the scenario I would be most comfortable with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It really is a minefield and best avoided.

Last one I participated in was with an ex fwb and his mate, we got carried away and matey was ignored. Neither of us noticed when he left

Yeah, that’s my concern, if she was more into the other bloke I don’t think my fragile ego could take it. "

I refuse to believe you have a fragile ego

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet chat first socially then if all on the same page go for it, we always have lots of fun mmmf

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

There is a certain sense of fun playing a three some.

If it’s light and great fun it can be stunning.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

I had some good ones and some bad ones.

I think it mostly down to the 3 people involved.

I do like FFM over an MMF.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now the MFF is a multitasking issue, I think I would run into. I’d be concerned about neglecting one lady while the other is getting some of Devon’s finest and having the time of her life, I’d feel l would need to reassure the lady waiting patiently that I’d get to her presently. I like to keep eye contact with the one on the receiving end, but this would get confusing if I was talking to the other, then they’d say ‘Who me ?’ and I’d say ‘No, the other one!’ "

Deli counter style tickets should prevent any confusion.

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By *am4CamWoman
over a year ago

Fairy Land

I have had some great threesomes, but in all honesty, I’ve had more passably acceptable ones.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


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Then there’s the MMF, now I’m an open minded, liberal bloke, but for thd DP with the lady would it be frowned upon, if I bought a piece of plastic to slide between are balls, so there was no bollock on bollock action ?! "

Had three fab meet threesomes, two were great, the other, meh, that's all I'll say. The multitasking was the hardest part, two cocks to entertain at the same time but got the hang of it by the third time, not overrated.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

I can but dream of being able to contribute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had one. Maybe it’s something I should do before I’m 40 but with me and two guys.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Now the MFF is a multitasking issue, I think I would run into. I’d be concerned about neglecting one lady while the other is getting some of Devon’s finest and having the time of her life, I’d feel l would need to reassure the lady waiting patiently that I’d get to her presently. I like to keep eye contact with the one on the receiving end, but this would get confusing if I was talking to the other, then they’d say ‘Who me ?’ and I’d say ‘No, the other one!’

Deli counter style tickets should prevent any confusion. "

Always thinking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m too shy for that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It really is a minefield and best avoided.

Last one I participated in was with an ex fwb and his mate, we got carried away and matey was ignored. Neither of us noticed when he left

Yeah, that’s my concern, if she was more into the other bloke I don’t think my fragile ego could take it.

I refuse to believe you have a fragile ego "

I’d storm off in a huff, not that they would notice!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Never experienced it myself. If everyone involved is bi and fancies each other then there can't be much chance of anyone being left out surely? That's the scenario I would be most comfortable with. "

But then, you’re always going to fancy someone more than the other.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I think it's best not to overthink these things. I don't have much experience but the times I have been indulged have been just amazing. Especially the mff where the guys knew each other and 1 was a regular lover of mine Both straight but neither had any issues with cock rub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never experienced it myself. If everyone involved is bi and fancies each other then there can't be much chance of anyone being left out surely? That's the scenario I would be most comfortable with.

But then, you’re always going to fancy someone more than the other. "

Definitely a ticket system then, or an egg timer

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Never experienced it myself. If everyone involved is bi and fancies each other then there can't be much chance of anyone being left out surely? That's the scenario I would be most comfortable with.

But then, you’re always going to fancy someone more than the other.

Definitely a ticket system then, or an egg timer "

The countdown clock

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Never experienced it myself. If everyone involved is bi and fancies each other then there can't be much chance of anyone being left out surely? That's the scenario I would be most comfortable with.

But then, you’re always going to fancy someone more than the other.

Definitely a ticket system then, or an egg timer "

What are you logistic coordinator from threesomes or something ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never experienced it myself. If everyone involved is bi and fancies each other then there can't be much chance of anyone being left out surely? That's the scenario I would be most comfortable with.

But then, you’re always going to fancy someone more than the other.

Definitely a ticket system then, or an egg timer

What are you logistic coordinator from threesomes or something ? "

Now that should totally be a job!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never experienced it myself. If everyone involved is bi and fancies each other then there can't be much chance of anyone being left out surely? That's the scenario I would be most comfortable with.

But then, you’re always going to fancy someone more than the other.

Definitely a ticket system then, or an egg timer

The countdown clock "

Yes!

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

Well I'm just off to meet up with a lovely couple, all I can say is you need to try harder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'm just off to meet up with a lovely couple, all I can say is you need to try harder "

Have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s on my list

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well I'm just off to meet up with a lovely couple, all I can say is you need to try harder "

I don’t try at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had any logistical problems and definitely not over rated.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Are two couples in the same room a better option..so no one gets left out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are two couples in the same room a better option..so no one gets left out"

No. It's better to be the centre of attention

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

you make me laugh op. How do you think some of us cope with gangbangs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"you make me laugh op. How do you think some of us cope with gangbangs"

I don’t like queuing, so they’re not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From my experiences of them I think they are overrated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had some really good fmf experiences that mainly fall into 2 categories.

A) dominant male directing actions of 2 submissive females

B) 2 females having fun sharing a male

When it hasn't worked, is when I haven't really been compatible with the other female. I like to share and take turns regularly (swaps) regularly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not had one yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll have one with you and Dash, Tame.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'll have one with you and Dash, Tame."

Okay, I’m definitely bringing the piece of plastic then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll have one with you and Dash, Tame.

Okay, I’m definitely bringing the piece of plastic then. "

You can stay up the mouth end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We very very recently found a new partner, it was a magnificent experience again and I’m not exaggerating when I say that finding a woman that fancies both of us and we both fancy her can lead to the most intense spontaneous fuck fest imaginable.

No tame, not overrated if all three are in lust.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Yes.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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I’ve never had one so I’ve got no idea.

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By *aycee70Couple
over a year ago

Eastbourne

Had loads MMF, far easier to sort, couples 4 people have to like or someone's taking one for the team. As for the bi bit, never had a prob.

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By *oonloverWoman
over a year ago

bognor regis

Mfm I find hard work tbh would love to try FMF though as love the ladies and love watching hubby with another fem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not great with sharing, so for me even numbers work the best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3somes are so good. I cant decide which I like best tho mmf or mff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer mfm ....two men paying me attention mmmm please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coming Into contact with another man in a mmf isn't gay at all unless one if you is

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

Definitely bi mmf....playmates bi so never play straight....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your balls are gonna touch

Its inevitable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve only done FFF and that wasn’t overrated

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By *oc1066Man
over a year ago

Belfast

As a single guy, I've been luck enough to meet some great couples, and MFM have been great fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve never had a threesome, always been just short of getting the numbers together, (usually 2 short etc). But I’ve thought long and hard about the logistics of a threesome, both MMF and MFF, mainly MFF though.

Now the MFF is a multitasking issue, I think I would run into. I’d be concerned about neglecting one lady while the other is getting some of Devon’s finest and having the time of her life, I’d feel l would need to reassure the lady waiting patiently that I’d get to her presently. I like to keep eye contact with the one on the receiving end, but this would get confusing if I was talking to the other, then they’d say ‘Who me ?’ and I’d say ‘No, the other one!’ But then say the ladies started getting it on and I wasn’t needed, I’d feel like a spare prick.

Then there’s the MMF, now I’m an open minded, liberal bloke, but for thd DP with the lady would it be frowned upon, if I bought a piece of plastic to slide between are balls, so there was no bollock on bollock action ?!

So my question to those sexually pioneers out there in Fabland, is did it live up to expectations and did you run into logistically problems you didn’t envisage. Or did you think never again I’ll stick with one on one ? "

No, they are fab!

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

I love MMF threasomes especially with bi guys ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've actually done 2 dicks in 8ne pussy and im.not bi

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By *eep80Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough

Definitely not over rated , but only when everyone is on the same page

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Not over rated, but the first time was a learning curve, I didn't realise there was such a knack to DP!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not over rated, but the first time was a learning curve, I didn't realise there was such a knack to DP! "
yea there is we should practice

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By *eep80Man
over a year ago

middlesbrough

Guy with the biggest legs on top lol is the knack

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've actually done 2 dicks in 8ne pussy and im.not bi"

No one said you were.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It really is a minefield and best avoided.

Last one I participated in was with an ex fwb and his mate, we got carried away and matey was ignored. Neither of us noticed when he left

Yeah, that’s my concern, if she was more into the other bloke I don’t think my fragile ego could take it.

Have you tried a club? Could be a good way to dip your toes as it were."

Which one do you club first?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are posh, we have a bloke in a tuxedo waving a stick about to ensure the 3some is properly conducted to a thrilling climax

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

3 some scab sometimes be more hot than foursomes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather have a twosome.

Or a foursome or moresome - even numbers ensure no one's left out

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

Not overrated at all. FFM definitely the way forward (but I guess I would say that)

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By *reshcouple2000Couple
over a year ago

Fleet

We've had one and it was better than we could ever have imagined! It probably helped that we knew her, and that both females are bi. It was unexpected but there was no awkwardness at all and we were all careful not to take any liberties. It was beautiful and can't wait for next time!

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By *rtraymondo76Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"We've had one and it was better than we could ever have imagined! It probably helped that we knew her, and that both females are bi. It was unexpected but there was no awkwardness at all and we were all careful not to take any liberties. It was beautiful and can't wait for next time! "

Now that sounds like fun and well orchestrated. I've done MFM which is great with the two guys on the same wavelength. Need to get involved in a good FMF and be piggy in the middle to try out the differences.

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