FabSwingers.com forum: When you feel shit

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When one feels slightly ‘crap’ ... what does one do to cheer oneself up ??

Anyhoooooo

Seriously , I’ve just done the cliche comment thing by telling someone to have a bath

I’m not the cliche giver ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything involving avocado.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Large Gin and tonic!

Box chocolates

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Anything involving avocado..... "

Smashing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Large Gin and tonic!

Box chocolates

Cliche

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By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds

Watch a rom com, in my jammies.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Watch a rom com, in my jammies. "

Does it work ?

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By *cgkcCouple
over a year ago

Hitchin

Watch the Surfin' Bird episode of Family Guy.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Sunday funday. Go pub go brunch go shopping go for walk.

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By *oredShitlessxxxCouple
over a year ago

luton

Music and sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Watch the Surfin' Bird episode of Family Guy. "

Never watched it

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By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds

"Watch a rom com, in my jammies.

Does it work ?"

Yeah have a blub and a chuckle, gets the inside feelings out. Always feel better.

That or a long walk through the woods x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sunday funday. Go pub go brunch go shopping go for walk.

Walking I get

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Music and sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go spa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe cliche Floro but definitely works, for a short time anyway!

Though I feel like some boxing would work right now.

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m going to read a book. X

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

If I feel slightly crap nothing cheers me up and certainly not a bath.

I think telling people who feel rubbish to do something like go for a nice walk is slightly dismissive. Far better to give them a big hug, sit them down and tell them it's OK to feel awful for a bit but if it carries on to seek out the cause and if possible change that or seek professional help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When one feels slightly ‘crap’ ... what does one do to cheer oneself up ??

Anyhoooooo

Seriously , I’ve just done the cliche comment thing by telling someone to have a bath

I’m not the cliche giver ... "
slightly crap as in ill? A nice bath with scented candles and procecco

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last night i did a jigsaw ... its really good for making you put your phone down and get off social media and keeping your brain engaged enough that you cant spiral negative thoughts

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"When one feels slightly ‘crap’ ... what does one do to cheer oneself up ??

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Seriously , I’ve just done the cliche comment thing by telling someone to have a bath

I’m not the cliche giver ... "

Trek to the nearest hill or mountain and SCREAM like you've never screamed before........then leg it before farmer gets ya.....

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I either hide away till the mood passes or phone my friend. Guaranteed she can always snap me out of it and have me laughing in no time x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When one feels slightly ‘crap’ ... what does one do to cheer oneself up ??

Anyhoooooo

Seriously , I’ve just done the cliche comment thing by telling someone to have a bath

I’m not the cliche giver ... slightly crap as in ill? A nice bath with scented candles and procecco"

As in just meh

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When one feels slightly ‘crap’ ... what does one do to cheer oneself up ??

Anyhoooooo

Seriously , I’ve just done the cliche comment thing by telling someone to have a bath

I’m not the cliche giver ...

Trek to the nearest hill or mountain and SCREAM like you've never screamed before........then leg it before farmer gets ya.....

I may need a farmer to get me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I either hide away till the mood passes or phone my friend. Guaranteed she can always snap me out of it and have me laughing in no time x"

Good plan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shoooooooes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When one feels slightly ‘crap’ ... what does one do to cheer oneself up ??

Anyhoooooo

Seriously , I’ve just done the cliche comment thing by telling someone to have a bath

I’m not the cliche giver ... slightly crap as in ill? A nice bath with scented candles and procecco

As in just meh "
not ill then just not feeling it ,what about a movie ,a comedy liar liar or the mask or Bruce almighty

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"When one feels slightly ‘crap’ ... what does one do to cheer oneself up ??

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Seriously , I’ve just done the cliche comment thing by telling someone to have a bath

I’m not the cliche giver ... "

I imagine I have access to the button that blows up the world and I keep pushing it and close my eyes and watch it burn.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When one feels slightly ‘crap’ ... what does one do to cheer oneself up ??

Anyhoooooo

Seriously , I’ve just done the cliche comment thing by telling someone to have a bath

I’m not the cliche giver ...

I imagine I have access to the button that blows up the world and I keep pushing it and close my eyes and watch it burn."

Fucked up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm feeling that way today too. Cleaning my kitchen to feel I've achieved something then going for a bath .

We all have off days, sometimes weeks or months. However things do get better.

It's always okay in the end. If it's not ok then it's not the end x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Endorphins! However you choose to procure them!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm feeling that way today too. Cleaning my kitchen to feel I've achieved something then going for a bath .

We all have off days, sometimes weeks or months. However things do get better.

It's always okay in the end. If it's not ok then it's not the end x"

Nice philosophy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Endorphins! However you choose to procure them!

Procure is such a good word

You word genie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I’m feeling crappy, I generally ring my best friend and tell her, then either go for coffee or lunch with her and end up hopelessly laughing

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Orgasm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anything involving avocado.....

Smashing

Smashing them onto your vagina (although, I'm not sure they wouldn't upset the ph balance).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm thinking about going back to bed when I've done the housework.

Or, I might do some of it, go to bed then finish it later.

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By *MP3Man
over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis

"Anything involving avocado.....

Smashing

Smashing them onto your vagina (although, I'm not sure they wouldn't upset the ph balance)."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anything involving avocado.....

Smashing

Smashing them onto your vagina (although, I'm not sure they wouldn't upset the ph balance).

People put them on their faces. What's the difference?

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By *arpePinguisWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

If I'm just having a meh day, shower, shave my legs, put fresh bedding on as well as clean PJ's and get back into bed feeling the awesome sensation on my legs! Combined with a mug of tea and a chick lit novel, I'm much better after a few hours.

If it's a mild depressive episode, my self care escalates as far as I can manage it- glass of water, then brush teeth, then wash face, shower if I can cope, wash hair next, then try to eat something nutritious that doesn't need much prep (fruit works well)

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

I buy underwear. Always cheers me up

Lex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anything involving avocado.....

Smashing

Smashing them onto your vagina (although, I'm not sure they wouldn't upset the ph balance)."

Smashing sounds so violent....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I felt like this the other night, stag run me a lovely bubble bath and I soaked in there forever. I put some of my favourite songs on and relaxed. I felt so much better after.

I guess it depends on why they are feeling the way they feel. Is it just a bad day or has something happened. Sometimes just meeting up for a coffee and a chat will make everything all good again x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Compilations if puppies, cats and baby elephants does the trick for me, love those videos on youtube lol

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By *MP3Man
over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis

"Anything involving avocado.....

Smashing

Smashing them onto your vagina (although, I'm not sure they wouldn't upset the ph balance).

People put them on their faces. What's the difference?"

When you said smash I was picturing something fairly vigorous

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

If I'm feeling really bad, then its try and arrange a little time away, remove myself from the reason.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’m going to meet someone for a snog

It’s all ok now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m going to meet someone for a snog

It’s all ok now

That was quick! is there a snog vending machine near you?

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

"I’m going to meet someone for a snog

It’s all ok now

Yeah that would work as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fresh air always helps me and keeping busy, occasionally going for a jog too or meeting friends

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Music or a video

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Music ,walk the dog,bubble bath....off for bath soon lol

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Just watched Priscilla Queen of the desert ... hilarious.. brilliant film..very upbeat

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

It depends what's making you feel crap to what will cheer you up a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what is making them feel shit, if I told my best friend to have a bath when she’s grieving for her Mum she’d kick my head in.

If it’s something trivial then music, walks, and the like can make you feel a bit better.

A bath is actually a good idea though, when I felt shit about that guy last year I didn’t bath or do anything other than brush my teeth for 3 days. Didn’t even brush my hair, I did feel better after a bath and washed my hair!

When I’m feeling particularly stressed or shit, I eat, and I eat crap foods.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just watched Priscilla Queen of the desert ... hilarious.. brilliant film..very upbeat"

Patrick Swayze

awesome film

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