FabSwingers.com forum: Bored of fab??

By *heffcouple09 OP Couple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Hey everyone,

Is it just me or is fab just not the same anymore??

Why doesn't nobody want to engage in a decent conversation?

I enjoy the social side of things as much as the play but to me there has got to be some kind of mutual interests to get the chat flowing.

People who reply with one word answers piss me off!

Rant over and happy Sunday everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it

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By *esires of HertsCouple
over a year ago

Herts and London Borders

Maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love it

You haven’t always though

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By *heffcouple09 OP Couple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Maybe"

Love a good one word answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It regularly changes , but it’s dependent on how you feel.

It’s changed for me at the moment hence I spend less time on here. Forums are the same really - mails are the same but it’s actually me that’s not bothered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love it

You haven’t always though "

No but i live in the now

Yesterday is history

Tomorrow is a mystery

Today is a gift thats why its called present

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love it

You haven’t always though

No but i live in the now

Yesterday is history

Tomorrow is a mystery

Today is a gift thats why its called present

Seriously thoughtful quote

I’m being pedantic

It can be hard work - it’s so fucking cheesy at the moment that I come armed with crackers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love it

You haven’t always though

No but i live in the now

Yesterday is history

Tomorrow is a mystery

Today is a gift thats why its called present

Seriously thoughtful quote

I’m being pedantic

It can be hard work - it’s so fucking cheesy at the moment that I come armed with crackers "
it can be your right im just in a happy mood for now so taking advantage if it

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By *ardleedsMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm always up for some good conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use fab for the forums and couples profile to meet. I love fab but I do occasionally get fed up and leave but I always come back as I miss you lot so much x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gets better and better

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By *ornycplnorfolkMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Have to agree with you 100%

You can send out a plethora of respectful messages and people just can’t be bothered to reply.

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

I cba to chat to many people on here and would rather meet and socialise in person.

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I do through phases with it. Sometimes I get bored of it and leave it alone for weeks and months, but other times I really enjoy it, like now after a long break away. I've accepted to enjoy it when it's good and leave it alone when it feels like a chore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

......it's what you make of it. How entertaining others are depends on how you direct them.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you tried turning it off and on again?

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By *he Squire of Knotty AshMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Hey everyone,

Is it just me or is fab just not the same anymore??

Why doesn't nobody want to engage in a decent conversation?

I enjoy the social side of things as much as the play but to me there has got to be some kind of mutual interests to get the chat flowing.

People who reply with one word answers piss me off!

Rant over and happy Sunday everyone

Up your age range as a lot of older people can only talk about it and talk a lot about loads of other stuff too from knee pain to bunions and worse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you tried turning it off and on again?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you tried turning it off and on again?

Does that work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you tried turning it off and on again?

Does that work

It's worth a go. It works on most other things.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I'm too bored with fab to chat right now...

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By *hill44Man
over a year ago

hinckley

"Hey everyone,

Is it just me or is fab just not the same anymore??

Why doesn't nobody want to engage in a decent conversation?

I enjoy the social side of things as much as the play but to me there has got to be some kind of mutual interests to get the chat flowing.

People who reply with one word answers piss me off!

Rant over and happy Sunday everyone

Yes it can be hard messaging on here ,much better a face to face social I find

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

We love it for connecting with people we've met. Going to club events is perfect and chatting, paves the way for future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you tried turning it off and on again?"
if in doubt give it a clout

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

"I cba to chat to many people on here and would rather meet and socialise in person."
i cracked the screen on my phone so its not 100% clear. I read that as would rather meet and socialise in prison!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s what you make of it. Sometimes it can be exceptionally rewarding. There are however many occasions it can be tough.

I enjoy it, the forums can bring some light hearted relief at times.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I've been happy enough here for a few years.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

Bored of Fab? Bored of life,is what I say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bored of fab?

Switch it off. Then don't switch it back on again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I habe stopped actively looking for meets so I end up going with the flow and occasionall chatting with people without the pressure of trying to chase the elusive meet.

When my mojo is back, things might change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey everyone,

Is it just me or is fab just not the same anymore??

Why doesn't nobody want to engage in a decent conversation?

I enjoy the social side of things as much as the play but to me there has got to be some kind of mutual interests to get the chat flowing.

People who reply with one word answers piss me off!

Rant over and happy Sunday everyone

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I agree one or two word answers are a nightmare but many women in their initial replies don't have more time than to say thanks until of course you generate some kind of rapor and then conversation ensues ,it takes two to create good conversation

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

"I cba to chat to many people on here and would rather meet and socialise in person.

i cracked the screen on my phone so its not 100% clear. I read that as would rather meet and socialise in prison!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep intending to leave as I'm really not feeling it at all anymore, then somebody talks me in to staying but each time I do stay I then start feeling like I'm more motivated to leave.

One of these days I will leave....

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

I've mostly noticed it's not the site. It's where I live and the demographics thereof. I've pretty much given up on trying to message people to arrange meets, sick of writing thoughtful messages that languish, unread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe

Love a good one word answer

Good

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By *onderstuff73mMan
over a year ago

Brum

"I've mostly noticed it's not the site. It's where I live and the demographics thereof. I've pretty much given up on trying to message people to arrange meets, sick of writing thoughtful messages that languish, unread. "

It’s the same a little further up the M5 too. People say you get what you put in to FAB...I disagree.

But, that said, I appreciate what it’s like for us blokes and how inundated women get.

Just think it’s a shame everyone gets tarred with the same brush, that’s all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been on and off here for years and there has been a definite shift in how interaction plays out, maybe it’s just me older and wiser, it’s getting more difficult to get anything going, I find the forum the best place to be, even if it’s just for a nosey, I know there are many that love it now and I am still a regular every day, but it has changed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I habe stopped actively looking for meets so I end up going with the flow and occasionall chatting with people without the pressure of trying to chase the elusive meet.

When my mojo is back, things might change."

I’m a bit like that at the moment, think we’ll just meet at clubs now MrsC x

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

Just seem to pop in and out of fabland at the moment. Too many things in everyday life to deal with at the moment.

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

"Hey everyone,

Is it just me or is fab just not the same anymore??

Why doesn't nobody want to engage in a decent conversation?

I enjoy the social side of things as much as the play but to me there has got to be some kind of mutual interests to get the chat flowing.

People who reply with one word answers piss me off!

Rant over and happy Sunday everyone

If you don't like the way someone converses delete block move on.. simples.

The day I stop enjoying fab (for whatever reason ) I'm off... I'm here for fun not to add to the stress of the real world.

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago

London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact

It’s the same a little further up the M5 too. People say you get what you put in to FAB...I disagree.

But, that said, I appreciate what it’s like for us blokes and how inundated women get.

Just think it’s a shame everyone gets tarred with the same brush, that’s all. "
but on the other hand, where i live there is a saturation of profiles so it could also work against us in that way too maybe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could use a good saturation of my profile.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just need that South Yorkshire spirit back, most OG FAB and club swingers simply expect the same respect for play time that we give, some newer swingers unfortunately haven’t had that respectful play pleasure. Enjoy who or what you play with when you do...remember you are absolutely fucking FABulous xxxx

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

It’s the same a little further up the M5 too. People say you get what you put in to FAB...I disagree.

But, that said, I appreciate what it’s like for us blokes and how inundated women get.

Just think it’s a shame everyone gets tarred with the same brush, that’s all. but on the other hand, where i live there is a saturation of profiles so it could also work against us in that way too maybe? "

Where you live (London/Essex) is where I've had the best results when it comes to meeting people... So yeah either dumb luck or maybe that part of the world is friendlier!

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