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By *aughty_nymph OP   Woman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Since when did fab become such hard work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deppends how hard u like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought the same thing when Ace didn't get, Shaun or Dennis.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport


"Since when did fab become such hard work

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Think it depends on the sunshine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been on and off for years, never known it to be so full of messers.

Here is hoping it's a phase

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since when did fab become such hard work

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I roll with the flow so not sure I understand your problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab’s an escape for me, it has never been hard work, it’s the way I procrastinate from doing hard work

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

Full of fools and liars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since when did fab become such hard work

Think it depends on the sunshine!"
or the moonlight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Full of fools and liars"

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

The only hard thing about fab is spotting the freaks in time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only hard thing about fab is spotting the freaks in time."

I make it easy and put it on my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found that it's me not taking it too seriously that makes it hard work; talking to too many men at once and not in the right frame of mind to meet anyone new.

I need a shake by the shoulders to liven myself up.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Since when did fab become such hard work

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but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might."

Carried away? What do you mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might."

They’ve got to separate the wheat from the chaff and there’s a lot of chaff to get through.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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I don’t find it hard work. If I did I would probably just hide for a while and hopefully come back refreshed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.

They’ve got to separate the wheat from the chaff and there’s a lot of chaff to get through."

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"The only hard thing about fab is spotting the freaks in time.

I make it easy and put it on my profile"

As I've always said if blokes where betting looking I'd be gay. Sadly they are and I'm not but it would help if everyone did that on there profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since when did fab become such hard work

Think it depends on the sunshine!or the moonlight "

Or the good times..

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.

Carried away? What do you mean? "
Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.

Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though."
value what are they cattle

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"Since when did fab become such hard work

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As with all place's it has its ups and downs. But I've not found it hard work to be honest. But then I suppose we all use the site in different ways.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.

Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though."

Ah right.

No, Op, right now I'm finding the site the most enjoyable I have in some time. I hope you find it less hard work soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.

They’ve got to separate the wheat from the chaff and there’s a lot of chaff to get through."

An awful lot, but I have strong arms and am bloody minded.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's why I play games on fab to take the pressure off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.

Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though."

If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded?

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By *otSoVanilla3Man
over a year ago

sevenoaks

Think there a a few who ruin it for the majority, make it an unenjoyable experience! Hopefully just a phase..

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.

Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.

If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded?"
They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.

Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.

If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded?"

To right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since when did fab become such hard work

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you’re not joking...

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon


"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.

Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.

If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour."

Maybe the want someone decent?

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By *aughty_nymph OP   Woman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I’m not the type to be arrogant and my profile is written the way it is to deter the weirdos

My veris say I’m friendly ha!

I wouldn’t drop my standards just for sex because it’s a swingers site. I have just never had to “work” at getting a conversation out of people who message first!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'd say it's still hard work to slog through hundreds of messages. Most of which are inane, some of which are disgusting, a few of which are violent or threatening.

Yes, I can find what I'm after, but the only way this place would be easy for me is if I had zero standards and time wasting didn't exist.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.

Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.

If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.

Maybe the want someone decent? "
So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?

In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit of hard work never hurt anybody!

So...

Fancy a shag op?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.

Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.

If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour."

You're talking quantity, when many women are more interested in quality

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By *ycra loutMan
over a year ago

york/Scarborough


"Full of fools and liars"

Agreed

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By *ussD1Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

I’m new to the site so intriguing reading the posts. For me it’s been hard work gettin to know people, but that’s to be expectedwhen you’re new.

I suppose it depends what you’re after and if the site can provide it in an accessible way.

Just a newbies take.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m not the type to be arrogant and my profile is written the way it is to deter the weirdos

My veris say I’m friendly ha!

I wouldn’t drop my standards just for sex because it’s a swingers site. I have just never had to “work” at getting a conversation out of people who message first! "

So why work at it? If there's no chat you're not compatible. Do the searching, it's easier.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"A bit of hard work never hurt anybody!

So...

Fancy a shag op? "

Somebody had to say it

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I’m new to the site so intriguing reading the posts. For me it’s been hard work gettin to know people, but that’s to be expectedwhen you’re new.

I suppose it depends what you’re after and if the site can provide it in an accessible way.

Just a newbies take.

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Men struggle to be seen here because there are so many of you compared to other demographics, particularly women. Unfortunately that doesn't change when you're not new.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.

Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.

If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.

Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?

In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable."

I'm looking for someone where there's evidence that they might be interested in me, not just any flesh hole, and someone I'll be safe with. Oh no, I'm so demanding!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to play the field not work in the field.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.

Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.

If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.

You're talking quantity, when many women are more interested in quality "
More men would mean more chance of finding somebody with "quality".

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By *ussD1Man
over a year ago

Gloucester


"I’m not the type to be arrogant and my profile is written the way it is to deter the weirdos

My veris say I’m friendly ha!

I wouldn’t drop my standards just for sex because it’s a swingers site. I have just never had to “work” at getting a conversation out of people who message first! "

Try expanding your age range. I’m 50 and I’m not able to chat to you. If you’re after a meet I get the age restrictions, if your after good conversation you may need to expand your demographic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.

Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.

If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.

Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?

In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable."
but if you have to filter thru 99 to get to the 1 it stops being fun and becomes work i know that would do my head in completelly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.

Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.

If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.

You're talking quantity, when many women are more interested in quality More men would mean more chance of finding somebody with "quality"."

Not necessarily!

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon


"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.

Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.

If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.

Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?

In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable."

Cherry picking? You mean only meeting the people they really want to? Shock horror that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.

Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.

If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour."

I'm not moaning; neither are the women with pics of them with gym rats. I'm doing rather well

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

You're all so far away too

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I’m not the type to be arrogant and my profile is written the way it is to deter the weirdos

My veris say I’m friendly ha!

I wouldn’t drop my standards just for sex because it’s a swingers site. I have just never had to “work” at getting a conversation out of people who message first!

So why work at it? If there's no chat you're not compatible. Do the searching, it's easier. "

Agreed with this. When I want to find someone I do the searching and it's not failed me yet. If the conversations are like drawing blood from a stone, cut your losses and move on to a better one. I've done it numerous times over the years, you don't gel with everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.

Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.

If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.

Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?

In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable."

Who doesn't cherry pick? Do you pick the low hanging fruit because it's easier.

I pick the men I feel the most attraction to, and I don't have low self-esteem.

Come on now, we're either deluded and have a high opinion of ourselves or we have low self esteem. Which one is it?

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By *aughty_nymph OP   Woman
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"A bit of hard work never hurt anybody!

So...

Fancy a shag op? "

I would

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.

Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.

If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.

Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?

In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.

Cherry picking? You mean only meeting the people they really want to? Shock horror that "
They're not if they're moaning when it is handed to them on a plate on here. I don't moan about this site and I'm a single guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m not the type to be arrogant and my profile is written the way it is to deter the weirdos

My veris say I’m friendly ha!

I wouldn’t drop my standards just for sex because it’s a swingers site. I have just never had to “work” at getting a conversation out of people who message first!

Try expanding your age range. I’m 50 and I’m not able to chat to you. If you’re after a meet I get the age restrictions, if your after good conversation you may need to expand your demographic. "

Being older doesn't guarantee riveting conversation.

Fancy a chat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing worth having came without effort...wise words..

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By *iss SinWoman
over a year ago

portchester

It’s not hard work, just don’t expect people to come to you, message first!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing worth having came without effort...wise words.."
i disagree never worked hard in my life got lots of things worth having

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.

Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.

If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.

Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?

In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable."

Are women not allowed to cherry pick? Should they perhaps just have sex with anyone that offers?

Everyone has options, what they choose to do with them if for them to decide.

I often read your posts as though you have a low opinion of women, rightly or wrongly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was speaking to a guy on the phone last night and he asked how many messages I had and how many guys I was talking to. Last night I had 1,008 in my inbox and said I was talking to 4 men (including him) so that worked out at roughly 1 guy in 250 that met my requirements, but it’s all good, no hard work, just learn to read messages faster.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.

Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.

If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.

Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?

In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.

Who doesn't cherry pick? Do you pick the low hanging fruit because it's easier.

I pick the men I feel the most attraction to, and I don't have low self-esteem.

Come on now, we're either deluded and have a high opinion of ourselves or we have low self esteem. Which one is it?"
The self esteem is growing with the meets etc and building the delusion. They go hand in hand sometimes.

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By *aughty_nymph OP   Woman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I do message people first!

I’ve been on fab for years and have met a lot of people. I was merely noticing the dynamics of the site have changed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do message people first!

I’ve been on fab for years and have met a lot of people. I was merely noticing the dynamics of the site have changed "

Were taking back the power

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By *ussD1Man
over a year ago

Gloucester


"I do message people first!

I’ve been on fab for years and have met a lot of people. I was merely noticing the dynamics of the site have changed "

Is that because other forums have closed, like tumblr and that’s driven people to here?

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.

Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.

If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.

Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?

In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.

Are women not allowed to cherry pick? Should they perhaps just have sex with anyone that offers?

Everyone has options, what they choose to do with them if for them to decide.

I often read your posts as though you have a low opinion of women, rightly or wrongly. "
No of course they can I just don't think it can be healthy for some. They could possibly be happy if they hadn't lost a sense of reality.

I'm more of a feminist than you would think actually.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I don’t think I’ve noticed a change but then I’m not on here much either so my opinion isn’t worth much.

The problem seems to be that blokes would kill to get more than 1 message a day, women say that 20 messages are shit when they’re all from idiots and most blokes don’t believe them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.

Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.

If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.

Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?

In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.

Who doesn't cherry pick? Do you pick the low hanging fruit because it's easier.

I pick the men I feel the most attraction to, and I don't have low self-esteem.

Come on now, we're either deluded and have a high opinion of ourselves or we have low self esteem. Which one is it? The self esteem is growing with the meets etc and building the delusion. They go hand in hand sometimes. "

Whats the issue with women growing in confidence & meeting people that boost her self-esteem..?!

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..


"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.

Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.

If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.

Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?

In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.

Are women not allowed to cherry pick? Should they perhaps just have sex with anyone that offers?

Everyone has options, what they choose to do with them if for them to decide.

I often read your posts as though you have a low opinion of women, rightly or wrongly. No of course they can I just don't think it can be healthy for some. They could possibly be happy if they hadn't lost a sense of reality.

I'm more of a feminist than you would think actually."

But the same could be said of men I think.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"I'd say it's still hard work to slog through hundreds of messages. Most of which are inane, some of which are disgusting, a few of which are violent or threatening.

Yes, I can find what I'm after, but the only way this place would be easy for me is if I had zero standards and time wasting didn't exist. "

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.

Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.

If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.

Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?

In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.

Who doesn't cherry pick? Do you pick the low hanging fruit because it's easier.

I pick the men I feel the most attraction to, and I don't have low self-esteem.

Come on now, we're either deluded and have a high opinion of ourselves or we have low self esteem. Which one is it? The self esteem is growing with the meets etc and building the delusion. They go hand in hand sometimes.

Whats the issue with women growing in confidence & meeting people that boost her self-esteem..?!

"
No issue, aslong as they don't lose a sense of reality because that isn't healthy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.

Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.

If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.

Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?

In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.

Who doesn't cherry pick? Do you pick the low hanging fruit because it's easier.

I pick the men I feel the most attraction to, and I don't have low self-esteem.

Come on now, we're either deluded and have a high opinion of ourselves or we have low self esteem. Which one is it? The self esteem is growing with the meets etc and building the delusion. They go hand in hand sometimes.

Whats the issue with women growing in confidence & meeting people that boost her self-esteem..?!

"
shussh and get back in that kitchen where u belong i want breakfast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hear you! We previously left our old profile after 2 or 3 weeks as the constant messages from idiots and general rudeness was off putting.

We decided to try again, have tighter filters and be more ruthless with the old delete and block when a twat slips through the net. But it's still not much 'fun' and it's a good job we don't take it too seriously or *need* to do this.

So far I've:

Planned to meet one guy for a coffee who then cancelled on the day.

Met one man for a coffee who immediately text to say he'd like 'more' but stopped talking to me when I wasn't interested in seeing dick pics/engaging in dirty chat/swooning over him.

Built up good rapport with one guy who just stopped chatting and.removed himself from out friends list with no apparent reason.

Arranged for one guy to join us when we travelled to Cardiff on a mini break, only for him not to stand up.

So yeah OP, I totally hear you. Hopefully the market will refresh and you'll soon be knee deep in lovely suitors!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.

Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.

If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.

Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?

In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.

Who doesn't cherry pick? Do you pick the low hanging fruit because it's easier.

I pick the men I feel the most attraction to, and I don't have low self-esteem.

Come on now, we're either deluded and have a high opinion of ourselves or we have low self esteem. Which one is it? The self esteem is growing with the meets etc and building the delusion. They go hand in hand sometimes.

Whats the issue with women growing in confidence & meeting people that boost her self-esteem..?!

No issue, aslong as they don't lose a sense of reality because that isn't healthy."

And by sense of reality do you mean meeting men that would generally be out of their league...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t find it hard work. If I did I would probably just hide for a while and hopefully come back refreshed "

Seconded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.

Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.

If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.

Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?

In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.

Who doesn't cherry pick? Do you pick the low hanging fruit because it's easier.

I pick the men I feel the most attraction to, and I don't have low self-esteem.

Come on now, we're either deluded and have a high opinion of ourselves or we have low self esteem. Which one is it? The self esteem is growing with the meets etc and building the delusion. They go hand in hand sometimes. "

If they are getting more and more men from the top of the tree maybe that means they are desirable to those men.

Just because you don't fancy them, it doesn't mean men more attractive than you can't.

You don't find me attractive, because I'm fat, yet my long term partner does and he's a 10

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.

Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.

If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.

Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?

In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.

Who doesn't cherry pick? Do you pick the low hanging fruit because it's easier.

I pick the men I feel the most attraction to, and I don't have low self-esteem.

Come on now, we're either deluded and have a high opinion of ourselves or we have low self esteem. Which one is it? The self esteem is growing with the meets etc and building the delusion. They go hand in hand sometimes.

Whats the issue with women growing in confidence & meeting people that boost her self-esteem..?!

shussh and get back in that kitchen where u belong i want breakfast "

Oooop sorry, just popping my apron on now...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hear you! We previously left our old profile after 2 or 3 weeks as the constant messages from idiots and general rudeness was off putting.

We decided to try again, have tighter filters and be more ruthless with the old delete and block when a twat slips through the net. But it's still not much 'fun' and it's a good job we don't take it too seriously or *need* to do this.

So far I've:

Planned to meet one guy for a coffee who then cancelled on the day.

Met one man for a coffee who immediately text to say he'd like 'more' but stopped talking to me when I wasn't interested in seeing dick pics/engaging in dirty chat/swooning over him.

Built up good rapport with one guy who just stopped chatting and.removed himself from out friends list with no apparent reason.

Arranged for one guy to join us when we travelled to Cardiff on a mini break, only for him not to stand up.

So yeah OP, I totally hear you. Hopefully the market will refresh and you'll soon be knee deep in lovely suitors!

"

I get the "I don't do sex chat and pics" conversation out of the way from the start. That eliminates the wankers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.

Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.

If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.

Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?

In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.

Who doesn't cherry pick? Do you pick the low hanging fruit because it's easier.

I pick the men I feel the most attraction to, and I don't have low self-esteem.

Come on now, we're either deluded and have a high opinion of ourselves or we have low self esteem. Which one is it? The self esteem is growing with the meets etc and building the delusion. They go hand in hand sometimes.

Whats the issue with women growing in confidence & meeting people that boost her self-esteem..?!

shussh and get back in that kitchen where u belong i want breakfast

Oooop sorry, just popping my apron on now... "
good girl

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

May be after you have been on here a few years you find Fab becomes stale and just possibly Fab becomes bored of you.

We have been on fab for 6 years now but suddenly struggle to get meets, if we bother to post a meet request we get little or no interest yet that was not always the case.

We have tried different approaches such as messaging others but that also has recently proved fruitless.

Our conclusion is that as we have got older and wiser we know what we like and our style of meeting seems to have gone out of fashion, couple with us falling out of a lot of people's age range makes us wonder if it is time to leave.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.

Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.

If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.

Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?

In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.

Who doesn't cherry pick? Do you pick the low hanging fruit because it's easier.

I pick the men I feel the most attraction to, and I don't have low self-esteem.

Come on now, we're either deluded and have a high opinion of ourselves or we have low self esteem. Which one is it? The self esteem is growing with the meets etc and building the delusion. They go hand in hand sometimes.

Whats the issue with women growing in confidence & meeting people that boost her self-esteem..?!

No issue, aslong as they don't lose a sense of reality because that isn't healthy.

And by sense of reality do you mean meeting men that would generally be out of their league...?"
Sometimes and maybe men that wouldn't date them. I don't like them being used & abused. I know what men are like i used to work with 500 of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I get the "I don't do sex chat and pics" conversation out of the way from the start. That eliminates the wankers."

As do I, doesn't stop them trying though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since when did fab become such hard work

"

I think it ebbs and flows.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Don't knock the chaff too much, they have needs too. Not talking about liars etc.

I think fab has always had cycles of increased wasters being common - it's probably linked to factors outside of here

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.

Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.

If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour."

That doesn’t really help if 95 of them aren’t worth meeting though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.

Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.

If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.

Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?

In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.

Who doesn't cherry pick? Do you pick the low hanging fruit because it's easier.

I pick the men I feel the most attraction to, and I don't have low self-esteem.

Come on now, we're either deluded and have a high opinion of ourselves or we have low self esteem. Which one is it? The self esteem is growing with the meets etc and building the delusion. They go hand in hand sometimes.

Whats the issue with women growing in confidence & meeting people that boost her self-esteem..?!

No issue, aslong as they don't lose a sense of reality because that isn't healthy.

And by sense of reality do you mean meeting men that would generally be out of their league...? Sometimes and maybe men that wouldn't date them. I don't like them being used & abused. I know what men are like i used to work with 500 of them. "

Did it occur to you the women are using the men too?

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.

Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.

If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.

Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?

In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.

Are women not allowed to cherry pick? Should they perhaps just have sex with anyone that offers?

Everyone has options, what they choose to do with them if for them to decide.

I often read your posts as though you have a low opinion of women, rightly or wrongly. No of course they can I just don't think it can be healthy for some. They could possibly be happy if they hadn't lost a sense of reality.

I'm more of a feminist than you would think actually."

Actually what you're talking about is a worse kind of misogyny...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't knock the chaff too much, they have needs too. Not talking about liars etc.

I think fab has always had cycles of increased wasters being common - it's probably linked to factors outside of here"

Someone's chaff is another person's wheat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.

Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.

If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.

Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?

In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.

Who doesn't cherry pick? Do you pick the low hanging fruit because it's easier.

I pick the men I feel the most attraction to, and I don't have low self-esteem.

Come on now, we're either deluded and have a high opinion of ourselves or we have low self esteem. Which one is it? The self esteem is growing with the meets etc and building the delusion. They go hand in hand sometimes.

Whats the issue with women growing in confidence & meeting people that boost her self-esteem..?!

No issue, aslong as they don't lose a sense of reality because that isn't healthy."

And do you think the men on here have a healthy sense of reality?

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By *heffcouple09Couple
over a year ago

Sheffield

I find it hard work and quite frankly I'm bored, put so much time and effort into it with very little reward back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I found that it's me not taking it too seriously that makes it hard work; talking to too many men at once and not in the right frame of mind to meet anyone new.

I need a shag by the shoulders to liven myself up."

Is that a pub kaitlyn ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.

Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.

If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.

Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?

In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.

Who doesn't cherry pick? Do you pick the low hanging fruit because it's easier.

I pick the men I feel the most attraction to, and I don't have low self-esteem.

Come on now, we're either deluded and have a high opinion of ourselves or we have low self esteem. Which one is it? The self esteem is growing with the meets etc and building the delusion. They go hand in hand sometimes.

Whats the issue with women growing in confidence & meeting people that boost her self-esteem..?!

No issue, aslong as they don't lose a sense of reality because that isn't healthy.

And do you think the men on here have a healthy sense of reality? "
hope i dont the real worlds shite in comparison

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

On this or my couples profile I don’t think it’s hard work at all

But I don’t rely solely on fab I go to clubs and social so I think it makes a difference

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

Stevenage


"Since when did fab become such hard work

"

You’re not gonna be everyone’s cup of tea, don’t let it get to you..

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.

Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.

If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.

Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?

In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.

Who doesn't cherry pick? Do you pick the low hanging fruit because it's easier.

I pick the men I feel the most attraction to, and I don't have low self-esteem.

Come on now, we're either deluded and have a high opinion of ourselves or we have low self esteem. Which one is it? The self esteem is growing with the meets etc and building the delusion. They go hand in hand sometimes.

Whats the issue with women growing in confidence & meeting people that boost her self-esteem..?!

No issue, aslong as they don't lose a sense of reality because that isn't healthy.

And by sense of reality do you mean meeting men that would generally be out of their league...? Sometimes and maybe men that wouldn't date them. I don't like them being used & abused. I know what men are like i used to work with 500 of them.

Did it occur to you the women are using the men too? "
Possibly but then they wouldn't be moaning would they.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.

Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.

If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.

Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?

In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.

Are women not allowed to cherry pick? Should they perhaps just have sex with anyone that offers?

Everyone has options, what they choose to do with them if for them to decide.

I often read your posts as though you have a low opinion of women, rightly or wrongly. No of course they can I just don't think it can be healthy for some. They could possibly be happy if they hadn't lost a sense of reality.

I'm more of a feminist than you would think actually.

Actually what you're talking about is a worse kind of misogyny...

"
Behave yourself! How? Please elaborate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.

Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.

If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.

Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?

In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.

Who doesn't cherry pick? Do you pick the low hanging fruit because it's easier.

I pick the men I feel the most attraction to, and I don't have low self-esteem.

Come on now, we're either deluded and have a high opinion of ourselves or we have low self esteem. Which one is it? The self esteem is growing with the meets etc and building the delusion. They go hand in hand sometimes.

Whats the issue with women growing in confidence & meeting people that boost her self-esteem..?!

No issue, aslong as they don't lose a sense of reality because that isn't healthy.

And by sense of reality do you mean meeting men that would generally be out of their league...? Sometimes and maybe men that wouldn't date them. I don't like them being used & abused. I know what men are like i used to work with 500 of them.

Did it occur to you the women are using the men too? Possibly but then they wouldn't be moaning would they."
corse they would i met shit loads last year and still moaned like fuck about it

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.

Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.

If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.

Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?

In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.

Who doesn't cherry pick? Do you pick the low hanging fruit because it's easier.

I pick the men I feel the most attraction to, and I don't have low self-esteem.

Come on now, we're either deluded and have a high opinion of ourselves or we have low self esteem. Which one is it? The self esteem is growing with the meets etc and building the delusion. They go hand in hand sometimes.

Whats the issue with women growing in confidence & meeting people that boost her self-esteem..?!

No issue, aslong as they don't lose a sense of reality because that isn't healthy.

And do you think the men on here have a healthy sense of reality? "
Some do, some don't but I would say it affects women more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since when did fab become such hard work

"

since all the fit ladys were just guys having a wank an never sending me messages back. Playin 2 much and I don't wanna play I joined to FUCK

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By *icegentglosMan
over a year ago

Gloucester

Always has been for a guy like myself. Ignored, messed about, abused etc etc. But one keeps trying, being polite and non pushy and when it works, it works well.

Shame there’s an influx of time wasters and ghosters atvthe moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since when did fab become such hard work

since all the fit ladys were just guys having a wank an never sending me messages back. Playin 2 much and I don't wanna play I joined to FUCK"

I think your profile name is going to be a small problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always has been for a guy like myself. Ignored, messed about, abused etc etc. But one keeps trying, being polite and non pushy and when it works, it works well.

Shame there’s an influx of time wasters and ghosters atvthe moment. "

There’s men that timewaste too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can be hard because I make it that way... If I was less fussy I would be having a hell of alot more naughty fun

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"Since when did fab become such hard work

"

Hello you!

I find that when it stops being fun, it's time for a break. It shouldn't feel like a chore!

K x

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"Since when did fab become such hard work

since all the fit ladys were just guys having a wank an never sending me messages back. Playin 2 much and I don't wanna play I joined to FUCK"

Nicely put, good luck with tht one

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I’m not the type to be arrogant and my profile is written the way it is to deter the weirdos

My veris say I’m friendly ha!

I wouldn’t drop my standards just for sex because it’s a swingers site. I have just never had to “work” at getting a conversation out of people who message first!

Try expanding your age range. I’m 50 and I’m not able to chat to you. If you’re after a meet I get the age restrictions, if your after good conversation you may need to expand your demographic. "

And if she does that, she will get plagued by people she doesn't want to meet asking for meets, they don't want just chat in my experience. They think if you have a chat with them they are owed something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since when did fab become such hard work

since all the fit ladys were just guys having a wank an never sending me messages back. Playin 2 much and I don't wanna play I joined to FUCK"
phwoooaaarrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.

Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.

If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.

Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?

In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.

Who doesn't cherry pick? Do you pick the low hanging fruit because it's easier.

I pick the men I feel the most attraction to, and I don't have low self-esteem.

Come on now, we're either deluded and have a high opinion of ourselves or we have low self esteem. Which one is it? The self esteem is growing with the meets etc and building the delusion. They go hand in hand sometimes.

Whats the issue with women growing in confidence & meeting people that boost her self-esteem..?!

No issue, aslong as they don't lose a sense of reality because that isn't healthy.

And by sense of reality do you mean meeting men that would generally be out of their league...? Sometimes and maybe men that wouldn't date them. I don't like them being used & abused. I know what men are like i used to work with 500 of them.

Did it occur to you the women are using the men too? Possibly but then they wouldn't be moaning would they."

I don't see that many women moaning. Who would be moaning about fucking loads of hot men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since when did fab become such hard work

since all the fit ladys were just guys having a wank an never sending me messages back. Playin 2 much and I don't wanna play I joined to FUCK

Nicely put, good luck with tht one "

Thank its appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since I joined

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By *ussD1Man
over a year ago

Gloucester


"It can be hard because I make it that way... If I was less fussy I would be having a hell of alot more naughty fun"

Stay fussy. Never ever drop your standards. It ain’t worth it.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.

Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.

If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.

Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?

In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.

Who doesn't cherry pick? Do you pick the low hanging fruit because it's easier.

I pick the men I feel the most attraction to, and I don't have low self-esteem.

Come on now, we're either deluded and have a high opinion of ourselves or we have low self esteem. Which one is it? The self esteem is growing with the meets etc and building the delusion. They go hand in hand sometimes.

Whats the issue with women growing in confidence & meeting people that boost her self-esteem..?!

No issue, aslong as they don't lose a sense of reality because that isn't healthy.

And by sense of reality do you mean meeting men that would generally be out of their league...? Sometimes and maybe men that wouldn't date them. I don't like them being used & abused. I know what men are like i used to work with 500 of them.

Did it occur to you the women are using the men too? Possibly but then they wouldn't be moaning would they."

I’m a bit confused, you start by saying women shouldn’t cherry pick as some of us are in the lower leagues and are only doing it for an ego boost, then you are saying we shouldn’t meet these men because you feel we are being used and you want to protect us? So which is it? Are we ego boosting or being used?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I’m not the type to be arrogant and my profile is written the way it is to deter the weirdos

My veris say I’m friendly ha!

I wouldn’t drop my standards just for sex because it’s a swingers site. I have just never had to “work” at getting a conversation out of people who message first!

Try expanding your age range. I’m 50 and I’m not able to chat to you. If you’re after a meet I get the age restrictions, if your after good conversation you may need to expand your demographic.

And if she does that, she will get plagued by people she doesn't want to meet asking for meets, they don't want just chat in my experience. They think if you have a chat with them they are owed something. "

Plenty of people under 50 are capable of stringing sentences together, and plenty of people over 50 aren't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.

Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.

If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.

Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?

In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.

Are women not allowed to cherry pick? Should they perhaps just have sex with anyone that offers?

Everyone has options, what they choose to do with them if for them to decide.

I often read your posts as though you have a low opinion of women, rightly or wrongly. No of course they can I just don't think it can be healthy for some. They could possibly be happy if they hadn't lost a sense of reality.

I'm more of a feminist than you would think actually."

I had a good giggle at that last statement.

You're telling us how women on here are acting, what they are thinking and how they should think.

Yeah, you're not a feminist.

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By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds


"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.

Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.

If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.

Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?

In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.

Who doesn't cherry pick? Do you pick the low hanging fruit because it's easier.

I pick the men I feel the most attraction to, and I don't have low self-esteem.

Come on now, we're either deluded and have a high opinion of ourselves or we have low self esteem. Which one is it? The self esteem is growing with the meets etc and building the delusion. They go hand in hand sometimes.

Whats the issue with women growing in confidence & meeting people that boost her self-esteem..?!

No issue, aslong as they don't lose a sense of reality because that isn't healthy."

But it is their reality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m not the type to be arrogant and my profile is written the way it is to deter the weirdos

My veris say I’m friendly ha!

I wouldn’t drop my standards just for sex because it’s a swingers site. I have just never had to “work” at getting a conversation out of people who message first!

Try expanding your age range. I’m 50 and I’m not able to chat to you. If you’re after a meet I get the age restrictions, if your after good conversation you may need to expand your demographic.

And if she does that, she will get plagued by people she doesn't want to meet asking for meets, they don't want just chat in my experience. They think if you have a chat with them they are owed something.

Plenty of people under 50 are capable of stringing sentences together, and plenty of people over 50 aren't. "

That's right I talk in sentences all the time and I'm not 50 no way! And some really old people are in homes and can't talk in sentences at all

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By *icegentglosMan
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Always has been for a guy like myself. Ignored, messed about, abused etc etc. But one keeps trying, being polite and non pushy and when it works, it works well.

Shame there’s an influx of time wasters and ghosters atvthe moment.

There’s men that timewaste too "

Agreed and there probably the worst as there’s lots of them. They also pretend to be couples and display pics of unaware wife/gfs. That’s not nice.

Still we keep trying eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since when did fab become such hard work

since all the fit ladys were just guys having a wank an never sending me messages back. Playin 2 much and I don't wanna play I joined to FUCK"

Gotta say it.............your cock looks like a shar-pei puppy ...where's the beef

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.

Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.

If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.

Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?

In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.

Who doesn't cherry pick? Do you pick the low hanging fruit because it's easier.

I pick the men I feel the most attraction to, and I don't have low self-esteem.

Come on now, we're either deluded and have a high opinion of ourselves or we have low self esteem. Which one is it? The self esteem is growing with the meets etc and building the delusion. They go hand in hand sometimes.

Whats the issue with women growing in confidence & meeting people that boost her self-esteem..?!

No issue, aslong as they don't lose a sense of reality because that isn't healthy.

But it is their reality. "

I didn’t even need to scroll up to see who that was

If people who aren’t overly attractive (like me) get a confidence boost from the attention on fab, does it really have any affect on anyone but themselves? Some people can make huge demands on fab, it’s up to you if you go along with them. If someone thinks they’re attractive and you don’t, don’t message them. It’s honestly as easy as that. No need to tear others down just because you think it’s got to their head or whatever.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I think, for both genders, it's a question of perception versus reality - if you choose to see the site as hard work it will seem that way, however have the right approach and attitude to it and whilst it won't be "easy" it will seem less daunting.

For women that means using filters and accepting that they are likely to be deluged with shallow interest, but learning to see past it to those that do "get" it and who are looking for the same as them.

For men it means accepting they will not get replies to every message and that they need to make their profiles and pics as appealing as possible and not bombard every woman or couple within a certain radius just to get a meet.

For couples it's a combination of both the above.

For everyone it's about finding a formula and approach that works for them on an individual basis and if something isn't working for them, or the site feels like an effort, altering that approach accordingly.

Setting expectations correctly is another key element to getting maximum enjoyment from the site - and that's not saying standards should be lowered at all, more that for men if you expect to be knee deep in meets despite a crappy profile, you're going to be disappointed, and similarly for women, expect every message you get to be appealing and what you are looking for the disappointment will be similar.

There are a lot of people of all categories that just don't appear to "get" the site and how it works (and not saying you are one of them OP), but there are also a lot who do "get" it and it's those people that get the most from the site and find it a *mostly* enjoyable experience.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.

Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.

If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.

Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?

In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.

Who doesn't cherry pick? Do you pick the low hanging fruit because it's easier.

I pick the men I feel the most attraction to, and I don't have low self-esteem.

Come on now, we're either deluded and have a high opinion of ourselves or we have low self esteem. Which one is it? The self esteem is growing with the meets etc and building the delusion. They go hand in hand sometimes.

Whats the issue with women growing in confidence & meeting people that boost her self-esteem..?!

No issue, aslong as they don't lose a sense of reality because that isn't healthy.

And by sense of reality do you mean meeting men that would generally be out of their league...? Sometimes and maybe men that wouldn't date them. I don't like them being used & abused. I know what men are like i used to work with 500 of them.

Did it occur to you the women are using the men too? Possibly but then they wouldn't be moaning would they.

I’m a bit confused, you start by saying women shouldn’t cherry pick as some of us are in the lower leagues and are only doing it for an ego boost, then you are saying we shouldn’t meet these men because you feel we are being used and you want to protect us? So which is it? Are we ego boosting or being used?

"
They just need to realise why the men are meeting them sometimes. Aslong as they do they won't be vulnerable. Reality hits hard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I often read your posts as though you have a low opinion of women, rightly or wrongly. No of course they can I just don't think it can be healthy for some. They could possibly be happy if they hadn't lost a sense of reality.

I'm more of a feminist than you would think actually.

I had a good giggle at that last statement.

You're telling us how women on here are acting, what they are thinking and how they should think.

Yeah, you're not a feminist. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.

Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.

If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.

Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?

In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.

Who doesn't cherry pick? Do you pick the low hanging fruit because it's easier.

I pick the men I feel the most attraction to, and I don't have low self-esteem.

Come on now, we're either deluded and have a high opinion of ourselves or we have low self esteem. Which one is it? The self esteem is growing with the meets etc and building the delusion. They go hand in hand sometimes.

Whats the issue with women growing in confidence & meeting people that boost her self-esteem..?!

No issue, aslong as they don't lose a sense of reality because that isn't healthy.

And by sense of reality do you mean meeting men that would generally be out of their league...? Sometimes and maybe men that wouldn't date them. I don't like them being used & abused. I know what men are like i used to work with 500 of them.

Did it occur to you the women are using the men too? Possibly but then they wouldn't be moaning would they.

I’m a bit confused, you start by saying women shouldn’t cherry pick as some of us are in the lower leagues and are only doing it for an ego boost, then you are saying we shouldn’t meet these men because you feel we are being used and you want to protect us? So which is it? Are we ego boosting or being used?

They just need to realise why the men are meeting them sometimes. Aslong as they do they won't be vulnerable. Reality hits hard."

You say you're looking out for these poor women but you said yourself you've had sex with 6/10s in clubs. Do you not feel bad for them? And why do you feel it's unhealthy for people to have sex with others who you feel are out of their league? You're only talking on a physical level, which is shallow. Is that healthy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I often read your posts as though you have a low opinion of women, rightly or wrongly. No of course they can I just don't think it can be healthy for some. They could possibly be happy if they hadn't lost a sense of reality.

I'm more of a feminist than you would think actually.

I had a good giggle at that last statement.

You're telling us how women on here are acting, what they are thinking and how they should think.

Yeah, you're not a feminist.

"

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"

I often read your posts as though you have a low opinion of women, rightly or wrongly. No of course they can I just don't think it can be healthy for some. They could possibly be happy if they hadn't lost a sense of reality.

I'm more of a feminist than you would think actually.

I had a good giggle at that last statement.

You're telling us how women on here are acting, what they are thinking and how they should think.

Yeah, you're not a feminist.

"

There’s a bit of “mansplaining” in there too, just to add patronising to the anti-feminist stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since when did fab become such hard work

Think it depends on the sunshine!or the moonlight

Or the good times.."
let's face the music

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.

Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.

If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.

Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?

In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.

Are women not allowed to cherry pick? Should they perhaps just have sex with anyone that offers?

Everyone has options, what they choose to do with them if for them to decide.

I often read your posts as though you have a low opinion of women, rightly or wrongly. No of course they can I just don't think it can be healthy for some. They could possibly be happy if they hadn't lost a sense of reality.

I'm more of a feminist than you would think actually.

I had a good giggle at that last statement.

You're telling us how women on here are acting, what they are thinking and how they should think.

Yeah, you're not a feminist. "
Said more of a feminist than you think, never said I am 1.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"Since when did fab become such hard work

"

You close yourself off and turn people away.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"

I'm more of a feminist than you would think actually.

I had a good giggle at that last statement.

You're telling us how women on here are acting, what they are thinking and how they should think.

Yeah, you're not a feminist. Said more of a feminist than you think, never said I am 1. "

Giggling even more. That makes no sense.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.

Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.

If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.

Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?

In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.

Who doesn't cherry pick? Do you pick the low hanging fruit because it's easier.

I pick the men I feel the most attraction to, and I don't have low self-esteem.

Come on now, we're either deluded and have a high opinion of ourselves or we have low self esteem. Which one is it? The self esteem is growing with the meets etc and building the delusion. They go hand in hand sometimes.

Whats the issue with women growing in confidence & meeting people that boost her self-esteem..?!

No issue, aslong as they don't lose a sense of reality because that isn't healthy.

And by sense of reality do you mean meeting men that would generally be out of their league...? Sometimes and maybe men that wouldn't date them. I don't like them being used & abused. I know what men are like i used to work with 500 of them.

Did it occur to you the women are using the men too? Possibly but then they wouldn't be moaning would they.

I’m a bit confused, you start by saying women shouldn’t cherry pick as some of us are in the lower leagues and are only doing it for an ego boost, then you are saying we shouldn’t meet these men because you feel we are being used and you want to protect us? So which is it? Are we ego boosting or being used?

They just need to realise why the men are meeting them sometimes. Aslong as they do they won't be vulnerable. Reality hits hard.

You say you're looking out for these poor women but you said yourself you've had sex with 6/10s in clubs. Do you not feel bad for them? And why do you feel it's unhealthy for people to have sex with others who you feel are out of their league? You're only talking on a physical level, which is shallow. Is that healthy?"
I'm not looking for a relationship. I make that clear. A lot of single women are on here even if they say they aren't.. They use this as some kind of alternative dating site.

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire


"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.

Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.

If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.

Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?

In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.

Are women not allowed to cherry pick? Should they perhaps just have sex with anyone that offers?

Everyone has options, what they choose to do with them if for them to decide.

I often read your posts as though you have a low opinion of women, rightly or wrongly. No of course they can I just don't think it can be healthy for some. They could possibly be happy if they hadn't lost a sense of reality.

I'm more of a feminist than you would think actually.

I had a good giggle at that last statement.

You're telling us how women on here are acting, what they are thinking and how they should think.

Yeah, you're not a feminist. Said more of a feminist than you think, never said I am 1. "

WTH?!!! That doesn’t make any sense!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's partly because of kik. Lots of people use that for purely picture and video gratification. then when someone in a group mentions fab (which inevitably happens) all the pic collectors join thinking it'll be easy sex or a new way of getting pics off people. They end up talking the talk but then cant actually meet.

I did have a point but got lost in my own thought process

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.

Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.

If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.

Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?

In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.

Who doesn't cherry pick? Do you pick the low hanging fruit because it's easier.

I pick the men I feel the most attraction to, and I don't have low self-esteem.

Come on now, we're either deluded and have a high opinion of ourselves or we have low self esteem. Which one is it? The self esteem is growing with the meets etc and building the delusion. They go hand in hand sometimes.

Whats the issue with women growing in confidence & meeting people that boost her self-esteem..?!

No issue, aslong as they don't lose a sense of reality because that isn't healthy.

And by sense of reality do you mean meeting men that would generally be out of their league...? Sometimes and maybe men that wouldn't date them. I don't like them being used & abused. I know what men are like i used to work with 500 of them.

Did it occur to you the women are using the men too? Possibly but then they wouldn't be moaning would they.

I’m a bit confused, you start by saying women shouldn’t cherry pick as some of us are in the lower leagues and are only doing it for an ego boost, then you are saying we shouldn’t meet these men because you feel we are being used and you want to protect us? So which is it? Are we ego boosting or being used?

They just need to realise why the men are meeting them sometimes. Aslong as they do they won't be vulnerable. Reality hits hard.

You say you're looking out for these poor women but you said yourself you've had sex with 6/10s in clubs. Do you not feel bad for them? And why do you feel it's unhealthy for people to have sex with others who you feel are out of their league? You're only talking on a physical level, which is shallow. Is that healthy? I'm not looking for a relationship. I make that clear. A lot of single women are on here even if they say they aren't.. They use this as some kind of alternative dating site. "

Oh and of course all the single men on here are unattached too! People can use the site however the hell they like in my opinion (as long as they are not harming anyone else)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s simply not hard work at all if you use the tools available, yes we are in a world that people expect instant gratification, instant results etc, can you imagine what it was like before the internet? (Before our time) you’d contact people by post wait for a reply and picture in the post a couple of weeks later it would show up and you didn’t like them! Then start all over again...... tedious

Anyone, anyone can make this site work

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.

Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.

If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.

Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?

In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.

Are women not allowed to cherry pick? Should they perhaps just have sex with anyone that offers?

Everyone has options, what they choose to do with them if for them to decide.

I often read your posts as though you have a low opinion of women, rightly or wrongly. No of course they can I just don't think it can be healthy for some. They could possibly be happy if they hadn't lost a sense of reality.

I'm more of a feminist than you would think actually.

I had a good giggle at that last statement.

You're telling us how women on here are acting, what they are thinking and how they should think.

Yeah, you're not a feminist. Said more of a feminist than you think, never said I am 1.

WTH?!!! That doesn’t make any sense!!"
I agree with some feminist ideas but not all. I'm like a libertarian on gender equality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's me that is hard work. I'm put off people very quickly or I lack confidence to just go for it

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.

Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.

If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.

Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?

In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.

Who doesn't cherry pick? Do you pick the low hanging fruit because it's easier.

I pick the men I feel the most attraction to, and I don't have low self-esteem.

Come on now, we're either deluded and have a high opinion of ourselves or we have low self esteem. Which one is it? The self esteem is growing with the meets etc and building the delusion. They go hand in hand sometimes.

Whats the issue with women growing in confidence & meeting people that boost her self-esteem..?!

No issue, aslong as they don't lose a sense of reality because that isn't healthy.

And by sense of reality do you mean meeting men that would generally be out of their league...? Sometimes and maybe men that wouldn't date them. I don't like them being used & abused. I know what men are like i used to work with 500 of them.

Did it occur to you the women are using the men too? Possibly but then they wouldn't be moaning would they.

I’m a bit confused, you start by saying women shouldn’t cherry pick as some of us are in the lower leagues and are only doing it for an ego boost, then you are saying we shouldn’t meet these men because you feel we are being used and you want to protect us? So which is it? Are we ego boosting or being used?

They just need to realise why the men are meeting them sometimes. Aslong as they do they won't be vulnerable. Reality hits hard.

You say you're looking out for these poor women but you said yourself you've had sex with 6/10s in clubs. Do you not feel bad for them? And why do you feel it's unhealthy for people to have sex with others who you feel are out of their league? You're only talking on a physical level, which is shallow. Is that healthy? I'm not looking for a relationship. I make that clear. A lot of single women are on here even if they say they aren't.. They use this as some kind of alternative dating site.

Oh and of course all the single men on here are unattached too! People can use the site however the hell they like in my opinion (as long as they are not harming anyone else) "
I know they can they I just like letting them know that some men will promise you the world for a fuck. A lot of women know this but some don't it seems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.

Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.

If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.

Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?

In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.

Are women not allowed to cherry pick? Should they perhaps just have sex with anyone that offers?

Everyone has options, what they choose to do with them if for them to decide.

I often read your posts as though you have a low opinion of women, rightly or wrongly. No of course they can I just don't think it can be healthy for some. They could possibly be happy if they hadn't lost a sense of reality.

I'm more of a feminist than you would think actually.

I had a good giggle at that last statement.

You're telling us how women on here are acting, what they are thinking and how they should think.

Yeah, you're not a feminist. Said more of a feminist than you think, never said I am 1.

WTH?!!! That doesn’t make any sense!! I agree with some feminist ideas but not all. I'm like a libertarian on gender equality."

You're either a feminist or you're not. There's no inbetween.

You cannot pick and choose what aspects of feminism you agree with and claim that you're kind of a feminist.

You're just a man with an opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never found it hard work. I'm very good a picking out those not worth my effort though. I really wouldn't bother if it gave me a headache. I'm far too lazy for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd say it's still hard work to slog through hundreds of messages. Most of which are inane, some of which are disgusting, a few of which are violent or threatening.

Yes, I can find what I'm after, but the only way this place would be easy for me is if I had zero standards and time wasting didn't exist. "

Or just block everyone and search yourself surely that’s the solution right

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

No one ever talks about the poor poor men who are 2s messaging women who are 5s, and what this does to their self esteem. Won't someone take care of the fragile men who can't take care of themselves?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since when did fab become such hard work

since all the fit ladys were just guys having a wank an never sending me messages back. Playin 2 much and I don't wanna play I joined to FUCK

Gotta say it.............your cock looks like a shar-pei puppy ...where's the beef "

It gets beefyer when ladys put it in there mouths believe. Urs not do this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since when did fab become such hard work

since all the fit ladys were just guys having a wank an never sending me messages back. Playin 2 much and I don't wanna play I joined to FUCK

Gotta say it.............your cock looks like a shar-pei puppy ...where's the beef

It gets beefyer when ladys put it in there mouths believe. Urs not do this?"

Get the iron out

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

Since ppl labelled it a fuck sites

Since non swingers joined

Total decline over last 5 yrs..... which is kinda shit really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since when did fab become such hard work

since all the fit ladys were just guys having a wank an never sending me messages back. Playin 2 much and I don't wanna play I joined to FUCK

Gotta say it.............your cock looks like a shar-pei puppy ...where's the beef

It gets beefyer when ladys put it in there mouths believe. Urs not do this?"

That's ok if u like men tho as theres lots on here that like other men too. 1 of them on here likes me but I told him I'm not into guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think there a a few who ruin it for the majority, make it an unenjoyable experience! Hopefully just a phase.."
Switch that around and you would be right!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Since when did fab become such hard work

since all the fit ladys were just guys having a wank an never sending me messages back. Playin 2 much and I don't wanna play I joined to FUCK

Gotta say it.............your cock looks like a shar-pei puppy ...where's the beef

It gets beefyer when ladys put it in there mouths believe. Urs not do this?"

You're not selling yourself here.

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area


"Since when did fab become such hard work

"

Since alway (for me at least)... but it's worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it hard work finding a woman to meet , I know I’m not available all the time and that usually includes weekdays which makes it very hard , and as I’m married and wife didn’t play , have children too usual it just afternoons after work when I’m free ,,,,

So if any of you girls out there live in the pennine area , Halifax, Huddersfield, Oldham area or east Cheshire and greater Manchester feel fre to message me if your free that time of day and can accommodate ,,,,,

Nowt wrong with a bit of advertising, lol

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree


"I'd say it's still hard work to slog through hundreds of messages. Most of which are inane, some of which are disgusting, a few of which are violent or threatening.

Yes, I can find what I'm after, but the only way this place would be easy for me is if I had zero standards and time wasting didn't exist. "

I’ve had a few dark messages, like there’s no way I’m going to even going to read the whole thing let alone reply - block, delete, repeat.

What is wrong with some people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since when did fab become such hard work

since all the fit ladys were just guys having a wank an never sending me messages back. Playin 2 much and I don't wanna play I joined to FUCK

Gotta say it.............your cock looks like a shar-pei puppy ...where's the beef

It gets beefyer when ladys put it in there mouths believe. Urs not do this?

You're not selling yourself here. "

I'm the one that grows in a mouth tho, it's that other guy that doesnt

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.

Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.

If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.

Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?

In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.

Are women not allowed to cherry pick? Should they perhaps just have sex with anyone that offers?

Everyone has options, what they choose to do with them if for them to decide.

I often read your posts as though you have a low opinion of women, rightly or wrongly. No of course they can I just don't think it can be healthy for some. They could possibly be happy if they hadn't lost a sense of reality.

I'm more of a feminist than you would think actually.

I had a good giggle at that last statement.

You're telling us how women on here are acting, what they are thinking and how they should think.

Yeah, you're not a feminist. "

Basically my point.

A feminist recognises a woman's right and ability to do what she chooses when she wants and with who she wants. None of your (blondes) posts ever even come close to recognising that.

I could cite several threads where you do the exact opposite, this being one of them.

Everything about your attitude is misogynistic. That's what I mean

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Since when did fab become such hard work

since all the fit ladys were just guys having a wank an never sending me messages back. Playin 2 much and I don't wanna play I joined to FUCK

Gotta say it.............your cock looks like a shar-pei puppy ...where's the beef

It gets beefyer when ladys put it in there mouths believe. Urs not do this?

You're not selling yourself here.

I'm the one that grows in a mouth tho, it's that other guy that doesnt"

I don't give a monkey's. You're coming across as unpleasant, arrogant, unable to have a basic conversation, etc.

I'd swerve for all of those reasons even if your penis excited me. Which it does not.

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By *ross-eyed MaryMan
over a year ago

Salisbury


"Since when did fab become such hard work

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Since it became a popularity contest for singles.

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By *aughty_nymph OP   Woman
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"Since ppl labelled it a fuck sites

Since non swingers joined

Total decline over last 5 yrs..... which is kinda shit really"

Yes! This

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By *aughty_nymph OP   Woman
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"Since when did fab become such hard work

Since it became a popularity contest for singles. "

Not sure what you mean?

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.

Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.

If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.

Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?

In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.

Are women not allowed to cherry pick? Should they perhaps just have sex with anyone that offers?

Everyone has options, what they choose to do with them if for them to decide.

I often read your posts as though you have a low opinion of women, rightly or wrongly. No of course they can I just don't think it can be healthy for some. They could possibly be happy if they hadn't lost a sense of reality.

I'm more of a feminist than you would think actually.

I had a good giggle at that last statement.

You're telling us how women on here are acting, what they are thinking and how they should think.

Yeah, you're not a feminist.

Basically my point.

A feminist recognises a woman's right and ability to do what she chooses when she wants and with who she wants. None of your (blondes) posts ever even come close to recognising that.

I could cite several threads where you do the exact opposite, this being one of them.

Everything about your attitude is misogynistic. That's what I mean "
I never said I'm a feminist though. Your progressive attitude must affect your ability to comprehend what I'm saying sometimes then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The actual site is more often than not hard work not the offshoots such as clubs.Clubs are more straightforward. Go visit,

get down and dirty or not, but always stimulating in some way, also Face to face many things can be seen or sensed and detoured around, but on the site that is not the case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Yeah, you're not a feminist.

Basically my point.

A feminist recognises a woman's right and ability to do what she chooses when she wants and with who she wants. None of your (blondes) posts ever even come close to recognising that.

I could cite several threads where you do the exact opposite, this being one of them.

Everything about your attitude is misogynistic. That's what I mean "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since ppl labelled it a fuck sites

Since non swingers joined

Total decline over last 5 yrs..... which is kinda shit really

Yes! This "

Yes, it's now a hook up site. Sometimes it feels like you can't move for 'straight' men wanting phone wanks/group wanks etc, not to mention the glory holes, fuck and go meets and general kinkstering.

I feel that in being inclusive to a broader audience, it has lost its core ethos a bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since when did fab become such hard work

since all the fit ladys were just guys having a wank an never sending me messages back. Playin 2 much and I don't wanna play I joined to FUCK"

Yeah, me too

I joined for the meat

These messers need to quit wiv their messin'

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By *ross-eyed MaryMan
over a year ago

Salisbury


"Since ppl labelled it a fuck sites

Since non swingers joined

Total decline over last 5 yrs..... which is kinda shit really

Yes! This

Yes, it's now a hook up site. Sometimes it feels like you can't move for 'straight' men wanting phone wanks/group wanks etc, not to mention the glory holes, fuck and go meets and general kinkstering.

I feel that in being inclusive to a broader audience, it has lost its core ethos a bit."

You forgot women looking for surrogate boyfriends/husbands.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.

Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.

If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.

Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?

In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.

Are women not allowed to cherry pick? Should they perhaps just have sex with anyone that offers?

Everyone has options, what they choose to do with them if for them to decide.

I often read your posts as though you have a low opinion of women, rightly or wrongly. No of course they can I just don't think it can be healthy for some. They could possibly be happy if they hadn't lost a sense of reality.

I'm more of a feminist than you would think actually.

I had a good giggle at that last statement.

You're telling us how women on here are acting, what they are thinking and how they should think.

Yeah, you're not a feminist.

Basically my point.

A feminist recognises a woman's right and ability to do what she chooses when she wants and with who she wants. None of your (blondes) posts ever even come close to recognising that.

I could cite several threads where you do the exact opposite, this being one of them.

Everything about your attitude is misogynistic. That's what I mean I never said I'm a feminist though. Your progressive attitude must affect your ability to comprehend what I'm saying sometimes then. "

If by progressive attitude you mean being able to read when you use the words "I'm more of a feminist" then yes.

Comprehending what you're saying generally isn't difficult, I do wonder sometimes though if you actually understand what you're saying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since when did fab become such hard work

since all the fit ladys were just guys having a wank an never sending me messages back. Playin 2 much and I don't wanna play I joined to FUCK

Gotta say it.............your cock looks like a shar-pei puppy ...where's the beef

It gets beefyer when ladys put it in there mouths believe. Urs not do this?

You're not selling yourself here.

I'm the one that grows in a mouth tho, it's that other guy that doesnt

I don't give a monkey's. You're coming across as unpleasant, arrogant, unable to have a basic conversation, etc.

I'd swerve for all of those reasons even if your penis excited me. Which it does not. "

I see what's happening as Im not stupid. Ur not a man pretending to be a lady cos ur verifications say so but I think u only got into dark mode when I started having chew with the guy who needs viagra.

R u 2 seeing each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The actual site is more often than not hard work not the offshoots such as clubs.Clubs are more straightforward. Go visit,

get down and dirty or not, but always stimulating in some way, also Face to face many things can be seen or sensed and detoured around, but on the site that is not the case."
This has absolutely nothing to do with ratios. I would rather there be 10 genuine women on here and five of them have no interest in me than what has to be waded through to get to the gems. Thats why clubs are better and thats been said many times here. My definition of a genuine woman someone who is kind and humble even if they are not interested in joining up with me.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Since when did fab become such hard work

but you're a woman, it should be the best site ever. If you get carried away as a woman though it might.

Carried away? What do you mean? Some women get a bit deluded from the attention on here and think their value has skyrocketed. Not saying that is the case for the OP though.

If those women are getting the attention they ask for, who is deluded? They're not though, they are moaning about how hard work the site is when the ratio is about 100-1 in their favour.

Maybe the want someone decent? So not 1 decent man out of 100 on here then? Or are they cherry picking and looking for people to boost self esteem?

In turn the people they seek might have a sense of reality and more options themselves hence becoming flakey or unreliable.

Are women not allowed to cherry pick? Should they perhaps just have sex with anyone that offers?

Everyone has options, what they choose to do with them if for them to decide.

I often read your posts as though you have a low opinion of women, rightly or wrongly. No of course they can I just don't think it can be healthy for some. They could possibly be happy if they hadn't lost a sense of reality.

I'm more of a feminist than you would think actually.

I had a good giggle at that last statement.

You're telling us how women on here are acting, what they are thinking and how they should think.

Yeah, you're not a feminist.

Basically my point.

A feminist recognises a woman's right and ability to do what she chooses when she wants and with who she wants. None of your (blondes) posts ever even come close to recognising that.

I could cite several threads where you do the exact opposite, this being one of them.

Everything about your attitude is misogynistic. That's what I mean I never said I'm a feminist though. Your progressive attitude must affect your ability to comprehend what I'm saying sometimes then.

If by progressive attitude you mean being able to read when you use the words "I'm more of a feminist" then yes.

Comprehending what you're saying generally isn't difficult, I do wonder sometimes though if you actually understand what you're saying. "
Saying I'm more of a feminist than you think doesn't equate to saying I'm an actual feminist. no you're frequently wrong and quick to judge assuming I'm a bigot etc when I have veris off bisexual couples when I have just played Straight.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Since when did fab become such hard work

since all the fit ladys were just guys having a wank an never sending me messages back. Playin 2 much and I don't wanna play I joined to FUCK

Gotta say it.............your cock looks like a shar-pei puppy ...where's the beef

It gets beefyer when ladys put it in there mouths believe. Urs not do this?

You're not selling yourself here.

I'm the one that grows in a mouth tho, it's that other guy that doesnt

I don't give a monkey's. You're coming across as unpleasant, arrogant, unable to have a basic conversation, etc.

I'd swerve for all of those reasons even if your penis excited me. Which it does not.

I see what's happening as Im not stupid. Ur not a man pretending to be a lady cos ur verifications say so but I think u only got into dark mode when I started having chew with the guy who needs viagra.

R u 2 seeing each other"

Never met the man.

It might just be possible that I'm a real woman who thinks you're being a jerk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since when did fab become such hard work

since all the fit ladys were just guys having a wank an never sending me messages back. Playin 2 much and I don't wanna play I joined to FUCK

Gotta say it.............your cock looks like a shar-pei puppy ...where's the beef

It gets beefyer when ladys put it in there mouths believe. Urs not do this?

You're not selling yourself here. "

In a swing he'll probaly be gone soon once he realises that it's not hook a fuck

Him and his wrinkly member

Pal welcome to the forums where genuine likeminded people chat banter and have a good old laugh and are not just int in getting there penis wet

The exits over there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since when did fab become such hard work

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yep got to agree..hard work lately and ive been on an off this site for about 10 yrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since when did fab become such hard work

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It's what you allow it to be.....

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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Fabs not hard work people are, Use the site tools and your own intelligence/intuition to avoid people you find hard work,

Loads of people are doing just fine on here doing just that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since when did fab become such hard work

since all the fit ladys were just guys having a wank an never sending me messages back. Playin 2 much and I don't wanna play I joined to FUCK

Gotta say it.............your cock looks like a shar-pei puppy ...where's the beef

It gets beefyer when ladys put it in there mouths believe. Urs not do this?

You're not selling yourself here.

In a swing he'll probaly be gone soon once he realises that it's not hook a fuck

Him and his wrinkly member

Pal welcome to the forums where genuine likeminded people chat banter and have a good old laugh and are not just int in getting there penis wet

The exits over there "

But you commented on his cock? Body shaming?

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By *ross-eyed MaryMan
over a year ago

Salisbury

Fab is a great tool for swingers who've met at clubs to keep in touch with each other. That's about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since ppl labelled it a fuck sites

Since non swingers joined

Total decline over last 5 yrs..... which is kinda shit really

Yes! This

Yes, it's now a hook up site. Sometimes it feels like you can't move for 'straight' men wanting phone wanks/group wanks etc, not to mention the glory holes, fuck and go meets and general kinkstering.

I feel that in being inclusive to a broader audience, it has lost its core ethos a bit.

You forgot women looking for surrogate boyfriends/husbands. "
So maybe the site should just be for couples? I'm ok with that, if it makes things more streamlined.This is coming from a straight single man who interacts with couples on Fab. No conspiracy theories here but more people = more potential revenue for site. Fab cannot be all things to all men which unfortunately by accident or design it sells itself as.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab is a great tool for swingers who've met at clubs to keep in touch with each other. That's about it. "

And for seeing your sexy pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since when did fab become such hard work

since all the fit ladys were just guys having a wank an never sending me messages back. Playin 2 much and I don't wanna play I joined to FUCK

Gotta say it.............your cock looks like a shar-pei puppy ...where's the beef

It gets beefyer when ladys put it in there mouths believe. Urs not do this?

That's ok if u like men tho as theres lots on here that like other men too. 1 of them on here likes me but I told him I'm into guys"
come on sweetheart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My work here is done

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