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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do anyone else find it hard to get private conversations on this site? Or is it just me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just you and 27,861 men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No its quite easy

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Not just you. It is quite difficult because there are so many different ideas of what a conversation is.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I see haha

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Yeah I do

It's frustrating isn't it Bloggs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There probably about 500 guys per one woman here. Literally it looks like a sausage party. If You add the fact that more than half of these guys are assholes then You have perfect recipe for your problem. Patience is the key

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find yourself a catfish, they'll talk all day long......

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I see haha "

Reply and quote helps us know who you're answering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm never sure what people mean when they send messages asking if I want to chat. Like genuinely, what do you converse about ?

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

Nope.

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By *airytaleOfNewPorkMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Engage with the forums fella, keep plugging away and treat people the right way.... And you'll get to chat with people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah its just you

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'm never sure what people mean when they send messages asking if I want to chat. Like genuinely, what do you converse about ?"

We often say we will chat and that's when they stop replying

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not just you. It is quite difficult because there are so many different ideas of what a conversation is."

Well I don't try for dirty chat,but maybe I should because clean isn't working for me on Fab. I like getting to know someone and chatting about anything in general.. But I rarely get a reply to my messages and if I do.. I find myself having to keep asking questions to get a reply and soon as I stop asking them questions the conversation ends.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Not just you. It is quite difficult because there are so many different ideas of what a conversation is.

Well I don't try for dirty chat,but maybe I should because clean isn't working for me on Fab. I like getting to know someone and chatting about anything in general.. But I rarely get a reply to my messages and if I do.. I find myself having to keep asking questions to get a reply and soon as I stop asking them questions the conversation ends. "

Same here. If its one sided its not a conversation. Don't go for dirty chat, you'll only end up in conversations with men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not just you. It is quite difficult because there are so many different ideas of what a conversation is.

Well I don't try for dirty chat,but maybe I should because clean isn't working for me on Fab. I like getting to know someone and chatting about anything in general.. But I rarely get a reply to my messages and if I do.. I find myself having to keep asking questions to get a reply and soon as I stop asking them questions the conversation ends. "

Just learn from each conversation and slowly build yourself into a conversational ninja

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t. There are plenty of mad buggers willing to chat, even with me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah I do

It's frustrating isn't it Bloggs?

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Oh, come on it must be easy for women. I imagine you are getting bombed with messages.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm never sure what people mean when they send messages asking if I want to chat. Like genuinely, what do you converse about ?"

Means let's chat and get to know each other and eventually meet up for a coffee and maybe sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just you and 27,861 men"

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"Just you and 27,861 men"

true!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find any text chat hard work, on here you reply to a woman and she has a dozen messages come in between her line and your reply so it goes unnoticed.

Even once was going to do a repair for a woman on here, gave her a price, my address and my email, about a week later she apologised and said it got swamped, asked if I would still do it, I replied yes, it went unread for 2 days so I deleted it from sent and forgot about it.

Text conversations are never very natural, it's a weird concept.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes we get a few messages and other times we don’t get any, we generally wait to be messaged...there is normally some tumble going through the old inbox for days on end

Danish x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do women ever message men first?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find any text chat hard work, on here you reply to a woman and she has a dozen messages come in between her line and your reply so it goes unnoticed.

Even once was going to do a repair for a woman on here, gave her a price, my address and my email, about a week later she apologised and said it got swamped, asked if I would still do it, I replied yes, it went unread for 2 days so I deleted it from sent and forgot about it.

Text conversations are never very natural, it's a weird concept."

It sure is weird but it seems to be working for some men, because some have said, they met up with women through this app and have never been to socials or swinging clubs. I just wish I knew what they were saying to women lol.

Sometimes I get into a conversation and just as I'm starting to enjoy the convo... She stops chatting And I'm left wondering what did I say wrong.

I know women get lots of messages, but I would feel so ignorant if I done that to anyone. I just wouldn't do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find any text chat hard work, on here you reply to a woman and she has a dozen messages come in between her line and your reply so it goes unnoticed.

Even once was going to do a repair for a woman on here, gave her a price, my address and my email, about a week later she apologised and said it got swamped, asked if I would still do it, I replied yes, it went unread for 2 days so I deleted it from sent and forgot about it.

Text conversations are never very natural, it's a weird concept.

It sure is weird but it seems to be working for some men, because some have said, they met up with women through this app and have never been to socials or swinging clubs. I just wish I knew what they were saying to women lol.

Sometimes I get into a conversation and just as I'm starting to enjoy the convo... She stops chatting And I'm left wondering what did I say wrong.

I know women get lots of messages, but I would feel so ignorant if I done that to anyone. I just wouldn't do it. "

I have a few guys that message me lots and I have no interest in. Because I stupidly entered into a conversation, I’m now finding it hard to say I’m not interested in talking anymore. My short answers are not giving them any hints. What do u do? They are nice guys, that’s the hard part.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find any text chat hard work, on here you reply to a woman and she has a dozen messages come in between her line and your reply so it goes unnoticed.

Even once was going to do a repair for a woman on here, gave her a price, my address and my email, about a week later she apologised and said it got swamped, asked if I would still do it, I replied yes, it went unread for 2 days so I deleted it from sent and forgot about it.

Text conversations are never very natural, it's a weird concept.

It sure is weird but it seems to be working for some men, because some have said, they met up with women through this app and have never been to socials or swinging clubs. I just wish I knew what they were saying to women lol.

Sometimes I get into a conversation and just as I'm starting to enjoy the convo... She stops chatting And I'm left wondering what did I say wrong.

I know women get lots of messages, but I would feel so ignorant if I done that to anyone. I just wouldn't do it.

I have a few guys that message me lots and I have no interest in. Because I stupidly entered into a conversation, I’m now finding it hard to say I’m not interested in talking anymore. My short answers are not giving them any hints. What do u do? They are nice guys, that’s the hard part. "

That's how all my tinder conversations end

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find any text chat hard work, on here you reply to a woman and she has a dozen messages come in between her line and your reply so it goes unnoticed.

Even once was going to do a repair for a woman on here, gave her a price, my address and my email, about a week later she apologised and said it got swamped, asked if I would still do it, I replied yes, it went unread for 2 days so I deleted it from sent and forgot about it.

Text conversations are never very natural, it's a weird concept.

It sure is weird but it seems to be working for some men, because some have said, they met up with women through this app and have never been to socials or swinging clubs. I just wish I knew what they were saying to women lol.

Sometimes I get into a conversation and just as I'm starting to enjoy the convo... She stops chatting And I'm left wondering what did I say wrong.

I know women get lots of messages, but I would feel so ignorant if I done that to anyone. I just wouldn't do it.

I have a few guys that message me lots and I have no interest in. Because I stupidly entered into a conversation, I’m now finding it hard to say I’m not interested in talking anymore. My short answers are not giving them any hints. What do u do? They are nice guys, that’s the hard part. "

Oof I'm not sure what you can do, if they're not getting the hint from short answers. If you blocked them it would be like kicking puppies, so idk sorry can't help you with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find any text chat hard work, on here you reply to a woman and she has a dozen messages come in between her line and your reply so it goes unnoticed.

Even once was going to do a repair for a woman on here, gave her a price, my address and my email, about a week later she apologised and said it got swamped, asked if I would still do it, I replied yes, it went unread for 2 days so I deleted it from sent and forgot about it.

Text conversations are never very natural, it's a weird concept.

It sure is weird but it seems to be working for some men, because some have said, they met up with women through this app and have never been to socials or swinging clubs. I just wish I knew what they were saying to women lol.

Sometimes I get into a conversation and just as I'm starting to enjoy the convo... She stops chatting And I'm left wondering what did I say wrong.

I know women get lots of messages, but I would feel so ignorant if I done that to anyone. I just wouldn't do it.

I have a few guys that message me lots and I have no interest in. Because I stupidly entered into a conversation, I’m now finding it hard to say I’m not interested in talking anymore. My short answers are not giving them any hints. What do u do? They are nice guys, that’s the hard part.

Oof I'm not sure what you can do, if they're not getting the hint from short answers. If you blocked them it would be like kicking puppies, so idk sorry can't help you with that. "

I’m usually very honest from the start if someone messaged and I politely decline. It’s the ones that ask a question and I answer and then it turns into a conversation. I’m then stuck and they usually are the ones that message me whenever I’m online.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sounds like it sucks for ladies to

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