FabSwingers.com forum: Private life question ?

By *ifferent69 OP Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

Quite simple...

If i,m attracted to someone and in daily contact with them.

Yet pretty sure their not at all attracted to me.

Is it best to say nothing ??

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

What's the worse that can happen!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask them for if they’d like a drink. What’s to lose?

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By *ifferent69 OP Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

Its a work thing..

Its a toughy ,will make work harder if did not go well.

God so annoyed ..... it had to be someone at work.

Would be a lot easier if in social circle.

Begs the question...

Could you actually see someone your not physically attracted to ??

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Could always ask them out for a drink as work friends and see what happens when your in a different environment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quite simple...

If i,m attracted to someone and in daily contact with them.

Yet pretty sure their not at all attracted to me.

Is it best to say nothing ??"

If you work with them I wouldn't.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"Quite simple...

If i,m attracted to someone and in daily contact with them.

Yet pretty sure their not at all attracted to me.

Is it best to say nothing ??"

Absolutely not,

I did that at school with a girl I thought was out of my league.

she died of cancer and then at the funeral her best friend said she really liked me.

Never ever again did I not say something after that date, sure I've been told no thanks but I've had some pleasant surprises.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask them and find out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its a work thing..

Its a toughy ,will make work harder if did not go well.

God so annoyed ..... it had to be someone at work.

Would be a lot easier if in social circle.

Begs the question...

Could you actually see someone your not physically attracted to ??"

You're hoping she'll fuck you even though she doesn't fancy you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quite simple...

If i,m attracted to someone and in daily contact with them.

Yet pretty sure their not at all attracted to me.

Is it best to say nothing ??

Absolutely not,

I did that at school with a girl I thought was out of my league.

she died of cancer and then at the funeral her best friend said she really liked me.

Never ever again did I not say something after that date, sure I've been told no thanks but I've had some pleasant surprises.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I think it's all about the context, which includes the appropriateness of how we'd behave and what the consequences may be.

As adults, it's for us each to decide how we behave, based upon our objectives as well as the contexts of the life that we live. As there are so many billions of people, I wouldn't become fixated upon someone and would generally rely on what an individual is really communicating to me. I'm friends with all genders, so it's reasonable to pursue friendships and explore, without making moves that aren't being invited.

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