FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to The Lounge

Help with the ladies

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't need actual help with the ladies but it's the actual meeting and getting responses, not 100% confident in talking about myself but everything else I'm confident with..

What should I be doing... Ahha...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ddibleMan
over a year ago

Exeter Bristol Salisbury

Drop the ahhaa

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women love talking about themselves, just keep asking questions and pretend you’re interested. You might have to listen to what they are actually saying though, but it will be worth it when you’re knee deep in clunge an hour later. Hope this helps.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Women love talking about themselves, just keep asking questions and pretend you’re interested. You might have to listen to what they are actually saying though, but it will be worth it when you’re knee deep in clunge an hour later. Hope this helps. "
Yeah good advice. Listen to them and just say to them "tell me everything".

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha pretend that I'm listening lol. I think I'm one of the few men that actually do listen, do ask questions and that, but kinda seems like someone better quickly snaps their attention

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women love talking about themselves, just keep asking questions and pretend you’re interested. You might have to listen to what they are actually saying though, but it will be worth it when you’re knee deep in clunge an hour later. Hope this helps. Yeah good advice. Listen to them and just say to them "tell me everything"."

If they ask you a question, say this evening isn’t about me it’s about you, then ask them about shoes. Never fails.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You posted on a public forum, so you sound confident enough. If it all goes quiet just look her in the eyes and draw her in for a kiss.....

Bob's your knob etc....

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

If they ask you a question, say this evening isn’t about me it’s about you, then ask them about shoes. Never fails. "

Haha shoes lol, I'll give it ago with the next message I get and let you know how it goes lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First thing you need to do is ignore the guys who try so hard to give funny answers and fail abysmally they haven't a clue.

Then you need to be yourself you want people who want to meet you not a persona just be honest with people and friendly. Not everyone is going to be interested so accept that but over all be you as its you who I presume you would like them to meet.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)


"I don't need actual help with the ladies but it's the actual meeting and getting responses, not 100% confident in talking about myself but everything else I'm confident with..

What should I be doing... Ahha... "

I've already bagged and tagged anyone local worth meeting, my advice is look further afield

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Then you need to be yourself you want people who want to meet you not a persona just be honest with people and friendly. Not everyone is going to be interested so accept that but over all be you as its you who I presume you would like them to meet. "

I am me and be myself, it's the only way for me to be haha, either hump it or lump it lol. Yeah I know only the right person's will message me and I aint everyone's cuppa tea, but the 20+looks and no messages a day. kinda says to me I must be doing something wrong lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First thing you need to do is ignore the guys who try so hard to give funny answers and fail abysmally they haven't a clue.

Then you need to be yourself you want people who want to meet you not a persona just be honest with people and friendly. Not everyone is going to be interested so accept that but over all be you as its you who I presume you would like them to meet. "

Come on, I saw you crack a smile at a few of the answers on here, admit it lady ?!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Then you need to be yourself you want people who want to meet you not a persona just be honest with people and friendly. Not everyone is going to be interested so accept that but over all be you as its you who I presume you would like them to meet.

I am me and be myself, it's the only way for me to be haha, either hump it or lump it lol. Yeah I know only the right person's will message me and I aint everyone's cuppa tea, but the 20+looks and no messages a day. kinda says to me I must be doing something wrong lol"

People look for various reasons its not always because they are interested in you often its through verifications (possibly to avoid people who have met people they dislike or habitual barebackers) so its not always doing something wrong. People also look to see who is posting what on the forums.

But if you feel you are doing something wrong then change it up make messages personal to the individual and not look like an impersonal message from someone going for the numbers.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top