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Tinder discriminates against larger women?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I've been going through tinder and I can't help but notice they never show larger women, I'm more attracted to larger women but all they show is thin girls ... Do they not want larger women to find love?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sure, but on tinder?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do see them pop up on the rare occasion I'm the same I prefer curvy to bbw women the sex is normally great

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

What's the criteria for joining Tinder?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

https://youtu.be/bLoRPielarA

This is Tinder..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its more likely that due to verbal abuse from trolls or lack of matches , larger women arent really using tinder

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

If anybody can sign up how are they discriminating?

Are you saying Tinder take the profiles down?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"https://youtu.be/bLoRPielarA

This is Tinder.."

I nearly spat my drink out lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on Tinder and got loads of matches.

So people were seeing me.

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By *anana JoeMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"So I've been going through tinder and I can't help but notice they never show larger women, I'm more attracted to larger women but all they show is thin girls ... Do they not want larger women to find love?"

Its probably more the fact they choose not to join tinder do you think we should have a cattle style push and channel them all that way forcing them to sign up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see plenty on there, alot take close up pictures of their face though so its not always obvious. Also tinder works on a scoring system of sorts that rewards matchability so yeh in a way it does discriminate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"https://youtu.be/bLoRPielarA

This is Tinder..

I nearly spat my drink out lol. "

To be fair it could also be fab!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you put down some kind of preference that would eliminate fat women? Can't remember how it works to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They’re on there, cause I’ve met a few of them.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Yes they do, all the sites did at some point. Facebook even did it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Did you put down some kind of preference that would eliminate fat women? Can't remember how it works to be honest. "
there's no preferences or anything to set up. . if there was I'd be searching for larger women. But there's next to none when I search.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes they do, all the sites did at some point. Facebook even did it."

How did Facebook do it. You search by people you know don't you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did you put down some kind of preference that would eliminate fat women? Can't remember how it works to be honest. there's no preferences or anything to set up. . if there was I'd be searching for larger women. But there's next to none when I search."

Maybe the age group?

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field

Maybe the big girls are all out shagging like rabbits, instead of spending hours perfecting the selfie pout and best angle to make your Groucho Marx brows look awesome pose?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They’re on there, cause I’ve met a few of them. Beggars can't be choosers?

Oh they always make me beg, usually when they’re pegging me in the ass with no lube. Too much information."

Oh, I haven’t even started yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe the big girls are all out shagging like rabbits, instead of spending hours perfecting the selfie pout and best angle to make your Groucho Marx brows look awesome pose? "
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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Did you put down some kind of preference that would eliminate fat women? Can't remember how it works to be honest. there's no preferences or anything to set up. . if there was I'd be searching for larger women. But there's next to none when I search.

Maybe the age group?"
there is a age group thing but I leave that 18-99

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By *dores blackmenWoman
over a year ago

incognito mode ;-)

I thought I saw a Tinder for bbws advertising on hamster maybe they are all over there

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

Maybe just not locally to you choose to use it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see plenty on there, alot take close up pictures of their face though so its not always obvious. Also tinder works on a scoring system of sorts that rewards matchability so yeh in a way it does discriminate"

How does the scoring system work? Who does the scoring?

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"So I've been going through tinder and I can't help but notice they never show larger women, I'm more attracted to larger women but all they show is thin girls ... Do they not want larger women to find love?"

I have seen loads of Larger women on Tinder. but they know not a lot of men go for the LARGER lady, they do have to match.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city


"Yes they do, all the sites did at some point. Facebook even did it.

How did Facebook do it. You search by people you know don't you?"

Facebook worked a bit different at the start, and they would put the attractive college girls on it so that guys would sign up to contact them. It was ages before they switched to their "use your real identity" business, way after they had built up a massive userbase.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I was on tinder and I’m a hefer, to my knowledge I wasn’t hidden on there!

Danish x

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By *unningFoxWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Try Wooplus maybe but never had problems on Tinder really. Always plenty of matches

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"https://youtu.be/bLoRPielarA

This is Tinder..

I nearly spat my drink out lol. "

Brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I had tinder (I download and delete it every so often) there were plenty of ‘larger’ girls on there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How is that discrimination?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on tinder too and I'm chubby

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It must just be a northeast thing..... Been through it today for quite a while... No larger women.

Another thing I've noticed is there is always university students too ... I just don't get tinder am I missing something?

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By *irkydirkyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

It’s because the majority only show their face

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Try Wooplus maybe but never had problems on Tinder really. Always plenty of matches "
I'm going to try wooplus fingers crossed

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By *J RHEAMan
over a year ago

S West

A larger woman is easy to spot on Tinder, always a face close up, maybe with boobs in it.

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

Perhaps there too big for the average phone screen.

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By *idingawayCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

No one seems to talk on tinder. I prefer fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No one seems to talk on tinder. I prefer fab "
no one seems to talk on anything to be honest ... The forums on fab are pretty much the only place to get a conversation going.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Plenty of big gals on Tinder. When I last went on Tinder though I broke it and ran out of men to swipe. Fat girls are fussy.

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By *arpePinguisWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"Maybe the big girls are all out shagging like rabbits, instead of spending hours perfecting the selfie pout and best angle to make your Groucho Marx brows look awesome pose? "

Yeah, Tinder's far too public, I don't mind being their secret shame in hotel rooms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It must just be a northeast thing..... Been through it today for quite a while... No larger women.

Another thing I've noticed is there is always university students too ... I just don't get tinder am I missing something?

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What don’t you get about that? Are you in a university town? What ages are you looking at? Students want to date/hook up too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't and have never seen it as a shame being seen with a large woman....

I've shown affection to a large girlfriend before in public and kissed and cuddled in front of people. .... There's no shame in liking larger women.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It must just be a northeast thing..... Been through it today for quite a while... No larger women.

Another thing I've noticed is there is always university students too ... I just don't get tinder am I missing something?

What don’t you get about that? Are you in a university town? What ages are you looking at? Students want to date/hook up too. "
I've got settings on ages 18-55+ and it's just the whole of Newcastle .... Nearly every woman is in uni or something it's bizarre.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It must just be a northeast thing..... Been through it today for quite a while... No larger women.

Another thing I've noticed is there is always university students too ... I just don't get tinder am I missing something?

What don’t you get about that? Are you in a university town? What ages are you looking at? Students want to date/hook up too. I've got settings on ages 18-55+ and it's just the whole of Newcastle .... Nearly every woman is in uni or something it's bizarre."

Uni or something? Sounds about right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't and have never seen it as a shame being seen with a large woman....

I've shown affection to a large girlfriend before in public and kissed and cuddled in front of people. .... There's no shame in liking larger women."

You’re a true hero x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't and have never seen it as a shame being seen with a large woman....

I've shown affection to a large girlfriend before in public and kissed and cuddled in front of people. .... There's no shame in liking larger women.

You’re a true hero x"
I now have Enrique eglesias - hero stuck in my head haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plenty of big gals on Tinder. When I last went on Tinder though I broke it and ran out of men to swipe. Fat girls are fussy."

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By *mstillere2Man
over a year ago

middleport

A pulse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should be more men out there like you..... maybe try changing your profile choices ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some good news on tinder, managed to find what I'm looking for and we've started a conversation and damn she has the nicest blue eyes I've ever seen x

After a couple of hours a few larger women started appearing.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"What's the criteria for joining Tinder?"

desperation........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been on tinder but its shit every1 just interested in pics. Here it's better but most of the ladys are blokes really so ignore messages so it's still a mission to find a fuck

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Been on tinder but its shit every1 just interested in pics. Here it's better but most of the ladys are blokes really so ignore messages so it's still a mission to find a fuck"

Must be awful for you. Your name is such a turn on too.

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"I see plenty on there, alot take close up pictures of their face though so its not always obvious. Also tinder works on a scoring system of sorts that rewards matchability so yeh in a way it does discriminate"

Bingo. A) Tinder weights results according to popularity and attractiveness. When your account is new or has been deactivated then reactivated you start off with the top tier and if you don't get responses or you swipe right on everyone you get pushed down the list. A lot of 'super users' suggest creating a new account every couple of months to keep getting seen.

Also sometime Tinder just feeds you horrors! I've seen sexier faces in deep sea trawler by-catch.

Also what you say about the 'flattering angles' is true. Most of the tinder/pof/okc dates I've ever been on there has been an element of catfishing going on. But not so bad I had to make a sharp exit lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been talking to this girl for a while she's pretty decent and can hold a conversation, we're currently talking about teas and mentioning how good I am at making Tea haha... Shes saying that she likes loose tea and gets them from curious leaves in town ... Which could end up being a date location hopefully

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