FabSwingers.com forum: Instant turn off

By *hewifeandi OP Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Have you been reading a profile or looking at someone's pics and thinking she/he or they are hot then you come across one pic or comment that changes everything or maybe a Veri from someone you wouldn't personally like to meet yourself ?

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Yes I have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I most certainly have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yeah.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When looking at profile and photos when I think the site member is hot then I see them with a cigarette hanging from there mouth , very off putting

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By *hewifeandi OP Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Would anyone like to elaborate maybe give an example or two lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, all the time

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Definitely.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Yes.

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

The gaping fanny dribbling cum seems to have a negative effect on me..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you been reading a profile or looking at someone's pics and thinking she/he or they are hot then you come across one pic or comment that changes everything or maybe a Veri from someone you wouldn't personally like to meet yourself ?"

Yes it's definitely veris for me. Alot of fuck veris is a turn off as is playing with women who I deem to be 'risky'. I know it's my issue and not theirs and my judgmental attitude is a shame really as its put me off some very hot men who I get in well with. As I said in another thread, ignorance is bliss!

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

When someone inserts the word professional to describe themselves what does that actually mean ?

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By *eachPreacherMan
over a year ago

Kent/London

Yeah pretty often, most profiles I look at contain at least one thing that puts me off meeting

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By *hewifeandi OP Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Yes must admit I do have a mooch at the veris and have passed on a few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When someone inserts the word professional to describe themselves what does that actually mean ? "

That they have a job. Not students. Not unemployed. Or?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly, way too often. Sometimes, once it gets to kik/WhatsApp when things seem to be going great

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

More times than I can count

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

"When someone inserts the word professional to describe themselves what does that actually mean ?

That they have a job. Not students. Not unemployed. Or?"
All this time I thought they were just after my money

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

far too many times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many times

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Oh yes

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By *hewifeandi OP Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Lol starting to worry now how many ppl have been turned off by ours now ooouupppss lol Im sure there's been a few lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes constantly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The gaping fanny dribbling cum seems to have a negative effect on me.. "

Same here pal,not keen on it my self. Each to their own though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My one veri makes the girls pants drop!!!

(oh wait, is that banter......?)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My one veri makes the girls pants drop!!!

(oh wait, is that banter......?) "

This is too good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My one veri makes the girls pants drop!!!

(oh wait, is that banter......?) "

Veri's in general make me a bit pukey..... I know it's fab n all but I don't really need an instruction manual or to see the previous occupant of the vagina in question......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I see a “sexy” pic and the background is absolutely minging, clean your house! God if your place is like that, god knows what state you’re in! ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooooh oooh! Pick me! I'm the perfect example of a turn off!

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By *hewifeandi OP Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Ooooh oooh! Pick me! I'm the perfect example of a turn off!"

Haha yea I can see that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bareback pics on a single person's profile

Gaping Turkey neck foofs dripping with cum

Huge jungle pubes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jungle pubes!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly, it's a very wide open bum hole! Not a good sight at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mostly, it's a very wide open bum hole! Not a good sight at all "

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By *naquest321Man
over a year ago

Carlisle

Yes. a few things but I suppose I’m fussy. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, I most certainly have

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I told you that was a typo. I like women to SIT on my face

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

All the time but then folk say it to me too so swings and roundabouts really. Online or social profile vs who that person is varies massively

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As you would like an example, you see a profile and think "Ooh that person looks interesting"

Then you see them post in the forums and realise what a horrible person they are when they don't have the time to carefully craft an appealing profile or get the angle of their selfie just right.

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

Moany profiles and statuses are a huge turn off.

Or they start posting statuses about having a threesome etc with another girl he’s fucking all the while still trying to charm me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hundreds of times!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics of women's innards and dripping custard....puke-a-rama

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By *ilmissplumpyWoman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

'Smoker' does it for me every time. Only ever snogged the face off one smoker and all i could taste was ashtray both in my mouth and memory...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Smoker' does it for me every time. Only ever snogged the face off one smoker and all i could taste was ashtray both in my mouth and memory..."

So true!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Frequently...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Moany profiles and statuses are a huge turn off.

Or they start posting statuses about having a threesome etc with another girl he’s fucking all the while still trying to charm me.

And pics on single men’s profiles of them hanging out of some woman. Even if I liked them that puts me right off.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I always check out a profile, veris and pics that's how I get a feel for the person. Well that and chatting to them.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I'd say at least 99% of the people here get a no from me for one reason or another - it might be because of the way they are on the forums, their profile text and/or pics, or their veris (not so much the quantity but the content of both those left and received/displayed), or simply just because I don't find an attraction/connection with them.

It's human nature at work

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

All the damn time

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Really graphic veries put me off ,I don't need to know what you did on a meet,just that you are who you say and you turn up.

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By *hewifeandi OP Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"All the damn time"

Dries me faster than a Puddle of camel pissed in the Sahara lol that's tickled me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes a few times

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

The really judgemental stuff - saying women shouldn't have 'too many' veris or asking why there are so many 'ugly' women who think they can be so choosy. That kind of thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Frequently

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"All the damn time

Dries me faster than a Puddle of camel pissed in the Sahara lol that's tickled me

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By *hewifeandi OP Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"All the damn time

Dries me faster than a Puddle of camel pissed in the Sahara lol that's tickled me

Great pics to very sexy lady you are

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By *hewifeandi OP Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Have to say one of ours we share is men in lingerie and it seems to be very popular on here. Each to there own but not for us that,

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Men in lacy knickers. Instant and complete turnoff.

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By *hewifeandi OP Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Men in lacy knickers. Instant and complete turnoff.

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By *ilmissplumpyWoman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"Have to say one of ours we share is men in lingerie and it seems to be very popular on here. Each to there own but not for us that,"

Agreed, i like lingerie on ladies and lynx on men...

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By *hewifeandi OP Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Have to say one of ours we share is men in lingerie and it seems to be very popular on here. Each to there own but not for us that,

Agreed, i like lingerie on ladies and lynx on men..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Minimal profile text or very negative profile text that criticises either the men they are in competition with or the women they have previously messaged. Yes, I am criticising critical people, the irony is not lost on me.

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By *hewifeandi OP Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Minimal profile text or very negative profile text that criticises either the men they are in competition with or the women they have previously messaged. Yes, I am criticising critical people, the irony is not lost on me. "

You but we know what you mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men in lacy knickers. Instant and complete turnoff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely agree about the negative profiles...We use it to learn about you...being negative really isn’t sexy!! We all get the knobs on the messages, it’s all part of the package!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When the forum babes get a sniff of someone I spotted before them and cream over him publicly I lose interest.

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester

Sometimes a picture puts me off sometimes a crass comment but verifications from some people make me realise they have no standards and it rules them out instantly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is the 32nd pic on my profile, always put everyone off. Could make the first pic, but I do like to waste their time

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By *hewifeandi OP Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"It is the 32nd pic on my profile, always put everyone off. Could make the first pic, but I do like to waste their time

Hahaha atleast you're honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delusional females with delusional demands

. Need a reality check.

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By *halky90Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Slagging others off in the news feeds for whatever reason. Just seems very petty and childish to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Delusional females with delusional demands

. Need a reality check."

Sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ya because i feel that way everyone walks on by loll

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When the forum babes get a sniff of someone I spotted before them and cream over him publicly I lose interest. "

Forum popularity can be a double edged sword at times.

Have to admit after one such incident where “mister popular” tried to play too many forum women at one time and it all went tits up, meeting the current “in hottie” isn’t something I aspire to these days!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its a girl with a willy then il pass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When the forum babes get a sniff of someone I spotted before them and cream over him publicly I lose interest.

Forum popularity can be a double edged sword at times.

I must have missed that one... I wanna know who the mister popular is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When the forum babes get a sniff of someone I spotted before them and cream over him publicly I lose interest.

Forum popularity can be a double edged sword at times.

Not an attractive quality to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been cultivating the art of putting off all comers for 5 years. I managed 5 years without a meet so pretty successful

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By *arry WindsorMan
over a year ago

Heaton Park Manchester

"When someone inserts the word professional to describe themselves what does that actually mean ? "

It means they get paid for doing what they do. Amateur is the opposite it means they do what they do for no pay.

Anyone who who works for a living is a professional.

It could be suggested that putting the word professional in your profile smacks of a feeling of superiority or snobbery.

{Sits back and waits for the flack!}

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Yes, a lot. Even if it's questioning someone's judgement

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

What puts me off? How long have you got?

Any kind of drugs reference , e.g 420 friendly.

Couples profiles who don't have any pictures of the man.

Couples who want just the girls to play while the man watches.

Any profile that claims "safe sex always" but has bareback pictures.

Close ups of genitalia - male or female.

Cum dripping cocks or cum oozing out of any orifice.

Comments putting down other people to try and make themselves sound good.

Any reference to BBC - a man is much more than the colour of his skin and/or cock.

Put a code word in your message - no I can't be arsed with that!

Any profile that is full of demands and/or ranty.

That's it for starters but there is much more that can and does put me off. It's a miracle I've actually met anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Graphic veris put me off more than anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any reference to cleaning tools

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Its normally the the verification from the other guys on the ladies profile that put me off not so much the couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When someone inserts the word professional to describe themselves what does that actually mean ? "

I read that as ‘snob trying to attract snobs’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What puts me off? How long have you got?

Any kind of drugs reference , e.g 420 friendly.

Couples profiles who don't have any pictures of the man.

Couples who want just the girls to play while the man watches.

Any profile that claims "safe sex always" but has bareback pictures.

Close ups of genitalia - male or female.

Cum dripping cocks or cum oozing out of any orifice.

Comments putting down other people to try and make themselves sound good.

Any reference to BBC - a man is much more than the colour of his skin and/or cock.

Put a code word in your message - no I can't be arsed with that!

Any profile that is full of demands and/or ranty.

That's it for starters but there is much more that can and does put me off. It's a miracle I've actually met anyone

I’m with you on some of these.

Especially the full of demands one. Some people on here make me shudder they’re that far up their own arse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On our couples profile, getting messages from couples you think would be fun then seeing a certain person on their veris when you know that person has well over 100 veris and has barebacked most of them.. it just Nah.. forget it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures of feet, no offense to people who like them it just puts me straight off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The term ‘pussy destroyer’ is a definite turn off

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

"When someone inserts the word professional to describe themselves what does that actually mean ?

I read that as ‘snob trying to attract snobs’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many many times. X

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By *rystalTipsandAlistairCouple
over a year ago

Barnard Castle

"When someone inserts the word professional to describe themselves what does

that actually mean ? "

They work for CI5 and their boss is George Cowley!

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over a year ago

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

"When someone inserts the word professional to describe themselves what does

that actually mean ?

They work for CI5 and their boss is George Cowley!

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and drive about in fast ford capris

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By *rystalTipsandAlistairCouple
over a year ago

Barnard Castle

"When someone inserts the word professional to describe themselves what does

that actually mean ?

They work for CI5 and their boss is George Cowley!

and drive about in fast ford capris

Haha yes!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't no what you're talking about

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