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"How do you know it’s men pretending to be women?" This too. I'm sometimes, even now, accused of being fake/ a man. | |||
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"This site is getting seriously ridiculous. So many weird guys pretending to be girls. Admin should only let photo verified users to use the sight.... that would make this site much more safer and a fun place to be around." I dont find it a problem I do find it a curiosity , ive blocked and reported the same man 100s of times 3 times so far today , my anthropologist curiosity does mean I'm naturally curious about their motives and actions x | |||
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"How do you know it’s men pretending to be women?" Perhaps he’s got to the point of no return and upon sliding his hand down their knickers , found a little surprise   | |||
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"This site is getting seriously ridiculous. So many weird guys pretending to be girls. Admin should only let photo verified users to use the sight.... that would make this site much more safer and a fun place to be around. I dont find it a problem I do find it a curiosity , ive blocked and reported the same man 100s of times 3 times so far today , my anthropologist curiosity does mean I'm naturally curious about their motives and actions x" It's pretty obvious to me. They want something to wank over and men are easy pickings. | |||
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"All you can do is not talk sex or send pics. If you let them know that from the start they soon bugger off to look for someone else to give them wank fodder. And never send money." Indeed. I limit my chat around sex to logistics, only interesting if you're planning to meet. I get abuse for it sometimes, I suspect from the people who don't intend to meet and/or those who don't respect me. My block list must reach Asia by now. | |||
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"All you can do is not talk sex or send pics. If you let them know that from the start they soon bugger off to look for someone else to give them wank fodder. And never send money." You mean they're not really a Nigerian Princess?? | |||
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"I agree with all your comments and that we should do due diligence but come on if you want to meet other people should you not at least verify yourself to admin. You can still maintain your privacy as no one sees your verified image. " And website hacks never happen? And it's not possible to fake images (digitally or otherwise)? People need to take responsibility for themselves. | |||
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"I’m sorry if you find it that way. Just saying what I think a safer site should be like. " If you use the Reply + quote button, people know which post you are replying to. Welcome to the forum. | |||
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"How do you know it’s men pretending to be women?" Because they turned him down  | |||
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"Yes agree. To do that they have to make some greater effort which usually would put them off. Perhaps a video verification ? "Or you could be a responsible adult and do your own checks. | |||
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"I’m sorry if you find it that way. Just saying what I think a safer site should be like. If you use the Reply + quote button, people know which post you are replying to. Welcome to the forum. "Thank you. It’s my first post | |||
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"How do you know it’s men pretending to be women? Because they turned him down "It’s the other way round Mr. I turned down as in the end this specific user admitted that profile belongs to a guy | |||
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"Yes agree. To do that they have to make some greater effort which usually would put them off. Perhaps a video verification ?
Or you could be a responsible adult and do your own checks. "Yes you have a point but it absolutely wastes so much time but the time you realise that profile belong to someone else | |||
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"More toys thrown out of the pram by another rejected man! It the same old "you won't meet me so you must be fake" bullshit. "Bit harsh and I can see your personality being judgemental and talk with no substance behind. | |||
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"I agree with all your comments and that we should do due diligence but come on if you want to meet other people should you not at least verify yourself to admin. You can still maintain your privacy as no one sees your verified image. And website hacks never happen? And it's not possible to fake images (digitally or otherwise)? People need to take responsibility for themselves. " All true, but it would certainly drastically reduce the fakes if you had to have such tech know out in order to fake. The average fake "woman" looking for cheap wank chat would go elsewhere if there were barriers to being a fake. Anyhow, I believe single female profiles do now have to be photo verified. Certainly a friend of mine who joined recently wasn't allowed on until she did so. | |||
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"More toys thrown out of the pram by another rejected man! It the same old "you won't meet me so you must be fake" bullshit.
Bit harsh and I can see your personality being judgemental and talk with no substance behind. "What a hypocrite you are so judgemental yourself I can see why you were rejected petulance isn't an attractive trait. | |||
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"Yes agree. To do that they have to make some greater effort which usually would put them off. Perhaps a video verification ?
Or you could be a responsible adult and do your own checks.
Yes you have a point but it absolutely wastes so much time but the time you realise that profile belong to someone else "Such is life. You take risks, you check in a way that suits you. Anything worth doing is worth some investment of time. | |||
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"Now that did not happen to me mate. Looks like someone talking through experience. Lol " | |||
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"Yes agree. To do that they have to make some greater effort which usually would put them off. Perhaps a video verification ?
Or you could be a responsible adult and do your own checks.
Yes you have a point but it absolutely wastes so much time but the time you realise that profile belong to someone else "I can usually tell a fake profile within minutes of looking at it - use of tools such as Reverse Image is always recommended as well as some of the tools the site provides - so hardly a great deal of time wasted. Photo verification is not 100% reliable as a check either - but if you choose to take it as such why not just filter out those that aren't photo verified? Achieves the same as what you have suggested  | |||
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"More toys thrown out of the pram by another rejected man! It the same old "you won't meet me so you must be fake" bullshit. "How do you know he's not right? Why do you think there aren't men pretending to be women on here? I've had messages from women on couple's profiles I've suspected of being men. | |||
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"More toys thrown out of the pram by another rejected man! It the same old "you won't meet me so you must be fake" bullshit.
How do you know he's not right? Why do you think there aren't men pretending to be women on here? I've had messages from women on couple's profiles I've suspected of being men."Ah .. yes .. sorry about that  | |||
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"Yes agree. To do that they have to make some greater effort which usually would put them off. Perhaps a video verification ?
Or you could be a responsible adult and do your own checks.
Yes you have a point but it absolutely wastes so much time but the time you realise that profile belong to someone else
I can usually tell a fake profile within minutes of looking at it - use of tools such as Reverse Image is always recommended as well as some of the tools the site provides - so hardly a great deal of time wasted.
Photo verification is not 100% reliable as a check either - but if you choose to take it as such why not just filter out those that aren't photo verified? Achieves the same as what you have suggested "Fake pictures, certain kinds of demands or requests, stories not adding up, sometimes the wording (I read and think "women don't talk like that"). Then you ask for your own verification if necessary, and agree to meet in a public place first to minimise your risk. | |||
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"More toys thrown out of the pram by another rejected man! It the same old "you won't meet me so you must be fake" bullshit.
Bit harsh and I can see your personality being judgemental and talk with no substance behind.
What a hypocrite you are so judgemental yourself I can see why you were rejected petulance isn't an attractive trait. "He hasn't said he was rejected. You assumed that because he's questioning the person behind a profile. I've spoken to men who have been lured into conversations with men, pretending to be women. It happens. | |||
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"More toys thrown out of the pram by another rejected man! It the same old "you won't meet me so you must be fake" bullshit.
How do you know he's not right? Why do you think there aren't men pretending to be women on here? I've had messages from women on couple's profiles I've suspected of being men.
Ah .. yes .. sorry about that "Knew it was you all along | |||
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"More toys thrown out of the pram by another rejected man! It the same old "you won't meet me so you must be fake" bullshit.
How do you know he's not right? Why do you think there aren't men pretending to be women on here? I've had messages from women on couple's profiles I've suspected of being men.
Ah .. yes .. sorry about that
Knew it was you all along "It wasn't me ... it was the one eyed man  | |||
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"More toys thrown out of the pram by another rejected man! It the same old "you won't meet me so you must be fake" bullshit.
How do you know he's not right? Why do you think there aren't men pretending to be women on here? I've had messages from women on couple's profiles I've suspected of being men."Blokes want to get off by sex chat. There's a limited supply of women up for that, but if blokes pretend to be women, they can can get a pretty unlimited sex chat from other blokes. They might even lure in women/couples looking for other women. Though, of course, a lot of the women /couples they lure in will be fakes as well | |||
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"Yes agree. To do that they have to make some greater effort which usually would put them off. Perhaps a video verification ?
Or you could be a responsible adult and do your own checks.
Yes you have a point but it absolutely wastes so much time but the time you realise that profile belong to someone else
I can usually tell a fake profile within minutes of looking at it - use of tools such as Reverse Image is always recommended as well as some of the tools the site provides - so hardly a great deal of time wasted.
Photo verification is not 100% reliable as a check either - but if you choose to take it as such why not just filter out those that aren't photo verified? Achieves the same as what you have suggested " | |||
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"Yes agree. To do that they have to make some greater effort which usually would put them off. Perhaps a video verification ?
Or you could be a responsible adult and do your own checks.
Yes you have a point but it absolutely wastes so much time but the time you realise that profile belong to someone else
I can usually tell a fake profile within minutes of looking at it - use of tools such as Reverse Image is always recommended as well as some of the tools the site provides - so hardly a great deal of time wasted.
Photo verification is not 100% reliable as a check either - but if you choose to take it as such why not just filter out those that aren't photo verified? Achieves the same as what you have suggested
Fake pictures, certain kinds of demands or requests, stories not adding up, sometimes the wording (I read and think "women don't talk like that"). Then you ask for your own verification if necessary, and agree to meet in a public place first to minimise your risk. "Indeed The list goes on | |||
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"More toys thrown out of the pram by another rejected man! It the same old "you won't meet me so you must be fake" bullshit.
How do you know he's not right? Why do you think there aren't men pretending to be women on here? I've had messages from women on couple's profiles I've suspected of being men.
Blokes want to get off by sex chat. There's a limited supply of women up for that, but if blokes pretend to be women, they can can get a pretty unlimited sex chat from other blokes.
They might even lure in women/couples looking for other women. Though, of course, a lot of the women /couples they lure in will be fakes as well "I've definitely had a few men from couples account pretending to be the wife. They think we're stupid  | |||
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"Yes agree. To do that they have to make some greater effort which usually would put them off. Perhaps a video verification ?
Or you could be a responsible adult and do your own checks.
Yes you have a point but it absolutely wastes so much time but the time you realise that profile belong to someone else
I can usually tell a fake profile within minutes of looking at it - use of tools such as Reverse Image is always recommended as well as some of the tools the site provides - so hardly a great deal of time wasted.
Photo verification is not 100% reliable as a check either - but if you choose to take it as such why not just filter out those that aren't photo verified? Achieves the same as what you have suggested
Fake pictures, certain kinds of demands or requests, stories not adding up, sometimes the wording (I read and think "women don't talk like that"). Then you ask for your own verification if necessary, and agree to meet in a public place first to minimise your risk.
Indeed The list goes on "Funnily enough, my friend who recently joined is 22, is very attractive, happy to put up face pics and up for sex with older men. You'd be convinced she was a fake. Which may be why they made her do a photo veri | |||
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"More toys thrown out of the pram by another rejected man! It the same old "you won't meet me so you must be fake" bullshit.
How do you know he's not right? Why do you think there aren't men pretending to be women on here? I've had messages from women on couple's profiles I've suspected of being men.
Blokes want to get off by sex chat. There's a limited supply of women up for that, but if blokes pretend to be women, they can can get a pretty unlimited sex chat from other blokes.
They might even lure in women/couples looking for other women. Though, of course, a lot of the women /couples they lure in will be fakes as well
I've definitely had a few men from couples account pretending to be the wife. They think we're stupid "Of course, I'm definitely the female here... | |||
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"Yes agree. To do that they have to make some greater effort which usually would put them off. Perhaps a video verification ?
Or you could be a responsible adult and do your own checks.
Yes you have a point but it absolutely wastes so much time but the time you realise that profile belong to someone else
I can usually tell a fake profile within minutes of looking at it - use of tools such as Reverse Image is always recommended as well as some of the tools the site provides - so hardly a great deal of time wasted.
Photo verification is not 100% reliable as a check either - but if you choose to take it as such why not just filter out those that aren't photo verified? Achieves the same as what you have suggested
Fake pictures, certain kinds of demands or requests, stories not adding up, sometimes the wording (I read and think "women don't talk like that"). Then you ask for your own verification if necessary, and agree to meet in a public place first to minimise your risk.
Indeed The list goes on
Funnily enough, my friend who recently joined is 22, is very attractive, happy to put up face pics and up for sex with older men.
You'd be convinced she was a fake. Which may be why they made her do a photo veri "Me? No. That's unusual for sure, but that's not what makes me think fake. | |||
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"More toys thrown out of the pram by another rejected man! It the same old "you won't meet me so you must be fake" bullshit.
How do you know he's not right? Why do you think there aren't men pretending to be women on here? I've had messages from women on couple's profiles I've suspected of being men.
Blokes want to get off by sex chat. There's a limited supply of women up for that, but if blokes pretend to be women, they can can get a pretty unlimited sex chat from other blokes.
They might even lure in women/couples looking for other women. Though, of course, a lot of the women /couples they lure in will be fakes as well
I've definitely had a few men from couples account pretending to be the wife. They think we're stupid
Of course, I'm definitely the female here... "Show us your fanny then | |||
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"More toys thrown out of the pram by another rejected man! It the same old "you won't meet me so you must be fake" bullshit.
How do you know he's not right? Why do you think there aren't men pretending to be women on here? I've had messages from women on couple's profiles I've suspected of being men.
Blokes want to get off by sex chat. There's a limited supply of women up for that, but if blokes pretend to be women, they can can get a pretty unlimited sex chat from other blokes.
They might even lure in women/couples looking for other women. Though, of course, a lot of the women /couples they lure in will be fakes as well
I've definitely had a few men from couples account pretending to be the wife. They think we're stupid
Of course, I'm definitely the female here...
Show us your fanny then "That, on the other hand, makes me think fake (not specifically in this instance, lol). | |||
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"More toys thrown out of the pram by another rejected man! It the same old "you won't meet me so you must be fake" bullshit.
How do you know he's not right? Why do you think there aren't men pretending to be women on here? I've had messages from women on couple's profiles I've suspected of being men.
Blokes want to get off by sex chat. There's a limited supply of women up for that, but if blokes pretend to be women, they can can get a pretty unlimited sex chat from other blokes.
They might even lure in women/couples looking for other women. Though, of course, a lot of the women /couples they lure in will be fakes as well
I've definitely had a few men from couples account pretending to be the wife. They think we're stupid
Of course, I'm definitely the female here...
Show us your fanny then "It's on the avater. Thats me. I love discussing in great detail girl on girl sex. U up for it hun? | |||
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"Yes agree. To do that they have to make some greater effort which usually would put them off. Perhaps a video verification ?
Or you could be a responsible adult and do your own checks.
Yes you have a point but it absolutely wastes so much time but the time you realise that profile belong to someone else
I can usually tell a fake profile within minutes of looking at it - use of tools such as Reverse Image is always recommended as well as some of the tools the site provides - so hardly a great deal of time wasted.
Photo verification is not 100% reliable as a check either - but if you choose to take it as such why not just filter out those that aren't photo verified? Achieves the same as what you have suggested
Fake pictures, certain kinds of demands or requests, stories not adding up, sometimes the wording (I read and think "women don't talk like that"). Then you ask for your own verification if necessary, and agree to meet in a public place first to minimise your risk.
Indeed The list goes on
Funnily enough, my friend who recently joined is 22, is very attractive, happy to put up face pics and up for sex with older men.
You'd be convinced she was a fake. Which may be why they made her do a photo veri
Me? No. That's unusual for sure, but that's not what makes me think fake. "Me either, can think of a very good example of someone who matches that perfectly and is obviously not fake - sometimes it comes down to pure gut instinct, but mostly they're easily spotted if you're not blinded by desperation to get a meet. | |||
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"More toys thrown out of the pram by another rejected man! It the same old "you won't meet me so you must be fake" bullshit.
How do you know he's not right? Why do you think there aren't men pretending to be women on here? I've had messages from women on couple's profiles I've suspected of being men.
Blokes want to get off by sex chat. There's a limited supply of women up for that, but if blokes pretend to be women, they can can get a pretty unlimited sex chat from other blokes.
They might even lure in women/couples looking for other women. Though, of course, a lot of the women /couples they lure in will be fakes as well
I've definitely had a few men from couples account pretending to be the wife. They think we're stupid
Of course, I'm definitely the female here...
Show us your fanny then
It's on the avater. Thats me.
I love discussing in great detail girl on girl sex. U up for it hun? "I luv nothing more than gorgeous pointy fingernails in my pussy. It's so feminine, it makes me feel so sexy. (or, watch out for people who don't really get female anatomy, lol) | |||
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"Yes agree. To do that they have to make some greater effort which usually would put them off. Perhaps a video verification ?
Or you could be a responsible adult and do your own checks.
Yes you have a point but it absolutely wastes so much time but the time you realise that profile belong to someone else
I can usually tell a fake profile within minutes of looking at it - use of tools such as Reverse Image is always recommended as well as some of the tools the site provides - so hardly a great deal of time wasted.
Photo verification is not 100% reliable as a check either - but if you choose to take it as such why not just filter out those that aren't photo verified? Achieves the same as what you have suggested
Fake pictures, certain kinds of demands or requests, stories not adding up, sometimes the wording (I read and think "women don't talk like that"). Then you ask for your own verification if necessary, and agree to meet in a public place first to minimise your risk.
Indeed The list goes on
Funnily enough, my friend who recently joined is 22, is very attractive, happy to put up face pics and up for sex with older men.
You'd be convinced she was a fake. Which may be why they made her do a photo veri
Me? No. That's unusual for sure, but that's not what makes me think fake.
Me either, can think of a very good example of someone who matches that perfectly and is obviously not fake - sometimes it comes down to pure gut instinct, but mostly they're easily spotted if you're not blinded by desperation to get a meet."Well yes, I perhaps put it too high, but certainly attractive young women wanting sex with older men is enough to raise suspicions
The biggest indicator for me is a single woman immediately wanting to talk in detail about sex. | |||
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"More toys thrown out of the pram by another rejected man! It the same old "you won't meet me so you must be fake" bullshit.
How do you know he's not right? Why do you think there aren't men pretending to be women on here? I've had messages from women on couple's profiles I've suspected of being men.
Blokes want to get off by sex chat. There's a limited supply of women up for that, but if blokes pretend to be women, they can can get a pretty unlimited sex chat from other blokes.
They might even lure in women/couples looking for other women. Though, of course, a lot of the women /couples they lure in will be fakes as well
I've definitely had a few men from couples account pretending to be the wife. They think we're stupid
Of course, I'm definitely the female here...
Show us your fanny then
It's on the avater. Thats me.
I love discussing in great detail girl on girl sex. U up for it hun?
I luv nothing more than gorgeous pointy fingernails in my pussy. It's so feminine, it makes me feel so sexy.
(or, watch out for people who don't really get female anatomy, lol) "A good way to respond to a fake woman would be to say "sorry, but I am not really looking for women at the moment. I really want a man in (area they come from)" See how many then out themselves... | |||
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"More toys thrown out of the pram by another rejected man! It the same old "you won't meet me so you must be fake" bullshit.
How do you know he's not right? Why do you think there aren't men pretending to be women on here? I've had messages from women on couple's profiles I've suspected of being men.
Blokes want to get off by sex chat. There's a limited supply of women up for that, but if blokes pretend to be women, they can can get a pretty unlimited sex chat from other blokes.
They might even lure in women/couples looking for other women. Though, of course, a lot of the women /couples they lure in will be fakes as well
I've definitely had a few men from couples account pretending to be the wife. They think we're stupid
Of course, I'm definitely the female here...
Show us your fanny then
It's on the avater. Thats me.
I love discussing in great detail girl on girl sex. U up for it hun?
I luv nothing more than gorgeous pointy fingernails in my pussy. It's so feminine, it makes me feel so sexy.
(or, watch out for people who don't really get female anatomy, lol)
A good way to respond to a fake woman would be to say "sorry, but I am not really looking for women at the moment. I really want a man in (area they come from)"
See how many then out themselves... " | |||
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"More toys thrown out of the pram by another rejected man! It the same old "you won't meet me so you must be fake" bullshit.
How do you know he's not right? Why do you think there aren't men pretending to be women on here? I've had messages from women on couple's profiles I've suspected of being men.
Blokes want to get off by sex chat. There's a limited supply of women up for that, but if blokes pretend to be women, they can can get a pretty unlimited sex chat from other blokes.
They might even lure in women/couples looking for other women. Though, of course, a lot of the women /couples they lure in will be fakes as well
I've definitely had a few men from couples account pretending to be the wife. They think we're stupid
Of course, I'm definitely the female here...
Show us your fanny then
It's on the avater. Thats me.
I love discussing in great detail girl on girl sex. U up for it hun? "Yea, I love making a pussy drip for me. Got any toys? | |||
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"More toys thrown out of the pram by another rejected man! It the same old "you won't meet me so you must be fake" bullshit.
How do you know he's not right? Why do you think there aren't men pretending to be women on here? I've had messages from women on couple's profiles I've suspected of being men.
Blokes want to get off by sex chat. There's a limited supply of women up for that, but if blokes pretend to be women, they can can get a pretty unlimited sex chat from other blokes.
They might even lure in women/couples looking for other women. Though, of course, a lot of the women /couples they lure in will be fakes as well
I've definitely had a few men from couples account pretending to be the wife. They think we're stupid
Of course, I'm definitely the female here...
Show us your fanny then
It's on the avater. Thats me.
I love discussing in great detail girl on girl sex. U up for it hun?
Yea, I love making a pussy drip for me. Got any toys? "I still have a complete Buzz Lightyear with all the accessories ... and the battery hasn't run out yet .. any use? | |||
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"Yes agree. To do that they have to make some greater effort which usually would put them off. Perhaps a video verification ?
Or you could be a responsible adult and do your own checks.
Yes you have a point but it absolutely wastes so much time but the time you realise that profile belong to someone else
I can usually tell a fake profile within minutes of looking at it - use of tools such as Reverse Image is always recommended as well as some of the tools the site provides - so hardly a great deal of time wasted.
Photo verification is not 100% reliable as a check either - but if you choose to take it as such why not just filter out those that aren't photo verified? Achieves the same as what you have suggested
Fake pictures, certain kinds of demands or requests, stories not adding up, sometimes the wording (I read and think "women don't talk like that"). Then you ask for your own verification if necessary, and agree to meet in a public place first to minimise your risk.
Indeed The list goes on
Funnily enough, my friend who recently joined is 22, is very attractive, happy to put up face pics and up for sex with older men.
You'd be convinced she was a fake. Which may be why they made her do a photo veri
Me? No. That's unusual for sure, but that's not what makes me think fake.
Me either, can think of a very good example of someone who matches that perfectly and is obviously not fake - sometimes it comes down to pure gut instinct, but mostly they're easily spotted if you're not blinded by desperation to get a meet.
Well yes, I perhaps put it too high, but certainly attractive young women wanting sex with older men is enough to raise suspicions
The biggest indicator for me is a single woman immediately wanting to talk in detail about sex. "And asking to talk on kik right away, where they'll either ask for pics or money straight away, or direct you to a pay to access webcam site. The ones asking for money to be sent might be men or women as they don't need to show proof. | |||
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"More toys thrown out of the pram by another rejected man! It the same old "you won't meet me so you must be fake" bullshit.
How do you know he's not right? Why do you think there aren't men pretending to be women on here? I've had messages from women on couple's profiles I've suspected of being men.
Blokes want to get off by sex chat. There's a limited supply of women up for that, but if blokes pretend to be women, they can can get a pretty unlimited sex chat from other blokes.
They might even lure in women/couples looking for other women. Though, of course, a lot of the women /couples they lure in will be fakes as well
I've definitely had a few men from couples account pretending to be the wife. They think we're stupid
Of course, I'm definitely the female here...
Show us your fanny then
It's on the avater. Thats me.
I love discussing in great detail girl on girl sex. U up for it hun?
Yea, I love making a pussy drip for me. Got any toys?
I still have a complete Buzz Lightyear with all the accessories ... and the battery hasn't run out yet .. any use?"That was your boyfriend's right? | |||
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"More toys thrown out of the pram by another rejected man! It the same old "you won't meet me so you must be fake" bullshit.
How do you know he's not right? Why do you think there aren't men pretending to be women on here? I've had messages from women on couple's profiles I've suspected of being men.
Blokes want to get off by sex chat. There's a limited supply of women up for that, but if blokes pretend to be women, they can can get a pretty unlimited sex chat from other blokes.
They might even lure in women/couples looking for other women. Though, of course, a lot of the women /couples they lure in will be fakes as well
I've definitely had a few men from couples account pretending to be the wife. They think we're stupid
Of course, I'm definitely the female here...
Show us your fanny then
It's on the avater. Thats me.
I love discussing in great detail girl on girl sex. U up for it hun?
Yea, I love making a pussy drip for me. Got any toys? "Actually I really want to (censored due to vomit inducing nature of activity) with your (censored because my eyes are burning). Bet that really makes you gush. | |||
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"More toys thrown out of the pram by another rejected man! It the same old "you won't meet me so you must be fake" bullshit.
How do you know he's not right? Why do you think there aren't men pretending to be women on here? I've had messages from women on couple's profiles I've suspected of being men.
Blokes want to get off by sex chat. There's a limited supply of women up for that, but if blokes pretend to be women, they can can get a pretty unlimited sex chat from other blokes.
They might even lure in women/couples looking for other women. Though, of course, a lot of the women /couples they lure in will be fakes as well
I've definitely had a few men from couples account pretending to be the wife. They think we're stupid
Of course, I'm definitely the female here...
Show us your fanny then
It's on the avater. Thats me.
I love discussing in great detail girl on girl sex. U up for it hun?
Yea, I love making a pussy drip for me. Got any toys?
I still have a complete Buzz Lightyear with all the accessories ... and the battery hasn't run out yet .. any use?
That was your boyfriend's right?"But this is the Male of the couple | |||
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"More toys thrown out of the pram by another rejected man! It the same old "you won't meet me so you must be fake" bullshit.
How do you know he's not right? Why do you think there aren't men pretending to be women on here? I've had messages from women on couple's profiles I've suspected of being men.
Blokes want to get off by sex chat. There's a limited supply of women up for that, but if blokes pretend to be women, they can can get a pretty unlimited sex chat from other blokes.
They might even lure in women/couples looking for other women. Though, of course, a lot of the women /couples they lure in will be fakes as well
I've definitely had a few men from couples account pretending to be the wife. They think we're stupid
Of course, I'm definitely the female here...
Show us your fanny then
It's on the avater. Thats me.
I love discussing in great detail girl on girl sex. U up for it hun?
Yea, I love making a pussy drip for me. Got any toys?
I still have a complete Buzz Lightyear with all the accessories ... and the battery hasn't run out yet .. any use?
That was your boyfriend's right?
But this is the Male of the couple "No!! It can't possibly be  | |||
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"More toys thrown out of the pram by another rejected man! It the same old "you won't meet me so you must be fake" bullshit.
How do you know he's not right? Why do you think there aren't men pretending to be women on here? I've had messages from women on couple's profiles I've suspected of being men.
Blokes want to get off by sex chat. There's a limited supply of women up for that, but if blokes pretend to be women, they can can get a pretty unlimited sex chat from other blokes.
They might even lure in women/couples looking for other women. Though, of course, a lot of the women /couples they lure in will be fakes as well
I've definitely had a few men from couples account pretending to be the wife. They think we're stupid
Of course, I'm definitely the female here...
Show us your fanny then
It's on the avater. Thats me.
I love discussing in great detail girl on girl sex. U up for it hun?
Yea, I love making a pussy drip for me. Got any toys?
Actually I really want to (censored due to vomit inducing nature of activity) with your (censored because my eyes are burning). Bet that really makes you gush. "
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"More toys thrown out of the pram by another rejected man! It the same old "you won't meet me so you must be fake" bullshit.
How do you know he's not right? Why do you think there aren't men pretending to be women on here? I've had messages from women on couple's profiles I've suspected of being men.
Blokes want to get off by sex chat. There's a limited supply of women up for that, but if blokes pretend to be women, they can can get a pretty unlimited sex chat from other blokes.
They might even lure in women/couples looking for other women. Though, of course, a lot of the women /couples they lure in will be fakes as well
I've definitely had a few men from couples account pretending to be the wife. They think we're stupid
Of course, I'm definitely the female here...
Show us your fanny then
It's on the avater. Thats me.
I love discussing in great detail girl on girl sex. U up for it hun?
Yea, I love making a pussy drip for me. Got any toys?
I still have a complete Buzz Lightyear with all the accessories ... and the battery hasn't run out yet .. any use?
That was your boyfriend's right?
But this is the Male of the couple
No!! It can't possibly be " | |||
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"More toys thrown out of the pram by another rejected man! It the same old "you won't meet me so you must be fake" bullshit.
How do you know he's not right? Why do you think there aren't men pretending to be women on here? I've had messages from women on couple's profiles I've suspected of being men.
Blokes want to get off by sex chat. There's a limited supply of women up for that, but if blokes pretend to be women, they can can get a pretty unlimited sex chat from other blokes.
They might even lure in women/couples looking for other women. Though, of course, a lot of the women /couples they lure in will be fakes as well
I've definitely had a few men from couples account pretending to be the wife. They think we're stupid
Of course, I'm definitely the female here...
Show us your fanny then
It's on the avater. Thats me.
I love discussing in great detail girl on girl sex. U up for it hun?
Yea, I love making a pussy drip for me. Got any toys?
Actually I really want to (censored due to vomit inducing nature of activity) with your (censored because my eyes are burning). Bet that really makes you gush. "My panties are soaked! You're pretty good at this for a woman | |||
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"This site is getting seriously ridiculous. So many weird guys pretending to be girls. Admin should only let photo verified users to use the sight.... that would make this site much more safer and a fun place to be around. I dont find it a problem I do find it a curiosity , ive blocked and reported the same man 100s of times 3 times so far today , my anthropologist curiosity does mean I'm naturally curious about their motives and actions x It's pretty obvious to me. They want something to wank over and men are easy pickings." Apparently not in this case he wants straight dads to cum in his ass , so sets up a ladys profile Some also do it so they can hook up with bi ladies and others do it because ???? This above one , reported and deleted another twice about the 125th Time so far this year I feel sorry for admin and the mods ,due to his obsessive selfish behaviour xxx | |||
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"I really don't get it just talk to them on the phone/cam and QED "Pretty much so. If your suspicions are raised and they refuse to confirm they are female, dump em. | |||
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"I really don't get it just talk to them on the phone/cam and QED "Some are shy, and don't give their number out for privacy reasons. Some verified female profiles say that, so why shouldn't fake ones get away with it? | |||
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"This site is getting seriously ridiculous. So many weird guys pretending to be girls. Admin should only let photo verified users to use the sight.... that would make this site much more safer and a fun place to be around. I dont find it a problem I do find it a curiosity , ive blocked and reported the same man 100s of times 3 times so far today , my anthropologist curiosity does mean I'm naturally curious about their motives and actions x It's pretty obvious to me. They want something to wank over and men are easy pickings. Apparently not in this case he wants straight dads to cum in his ass , so sets up a ladys profile Some also do it so they can hook up with bi ladies and others do it because ???? This above one , reported and deleted another twice about the 125th Time so far this year I feel sorry for admin and the mods ,due to his obsessive selfish behaviour xxx " He's a trier, you gotta give him that. I thought admin made new female accounts photo verify now. | |||
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"This site is getting seriously ridiculous. So many weird guys pretending to be girls. Admin should only let photo verified users to use the sight.... that would make this site much more safer and a fun place to be around. I dont find it a problem I do find it a curiosity , ive blocked and reported the same man 100s of times 3 times so far today , my anthropologist curiosity does mean I'm naturally curious about their motives and actions x It's pretty obvious to me. They want something to wank over and men are easy pickings. Apparently not in this case he wants straight dads to cum in his ass , so sets up a ladys profile Some also do it so they can hook up with bi ladies and others do it because ???? This above one , reported and deleted another twice about the 125th Time so far this year I feel sorry for admin and the mods ,due to his obsessive selfish behaviour xxx " I think there's three categories of men pretending to be women. 1. Gay /bi men who like getting unknowing straight guys to talk sex with them. 2. Guys who want to talk sex with women and think they will have more chance if they pretend to be a woman. 3. Guys who just want sex chat and don't care up with and know they will get lots of guys up for sex talk with a woman. | |||
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"I really don't get it just talk to them on the phone/cam and QED
Some are shy, and don't give their number out for privacy reasons. Some verified female profiles say that, so why shouldn't fake ones get away with it?"I don't give my number out. I'm meet and photo verified so it doesn't come up much, but I'm happy to take a live picture sometimes. I don't give out my face picture straight away, but I'd rethink that if I seriously thought someone might think me fake. | |||
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Pretty much so. If your suspicions are raised and they refuse to confirm they are female, dump em. "It cuts to the chase so they are either a bloke shy or an on line thrill seeker (Which is the most common one) who have no intention of meeting. I don't go with the fake tag as I am pretty sure there are real people behind every profile ok they might have the sex wrong so are more deceitful than anything else and 3/4 of the site lie in one way or other. So if people are not going to meet fine that's their thing better to find out early and then chat to people who do. | |||
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"More toys thrown out of the pram by another rejected man! It the same old "you won't meet me so you must be fake" bullshit.
Bit harsh and I can see your personality being judgemental and talk with no substance behind.
What a hypocrite you are so judgemental yourself I can see why you were rejected petulance isn't an attractive trait. "You just showed your character once more. Judgemental with no substance. You wouldn’t know what my scenario was but jumping in to conclusions about rejections. I wasn’t rejected and I rejected a male pretending to be a lady. End of story. If you have no meaningfull input i suggest you don’t make more comments to show your judgmental character. | |||
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"Yes agree. To do that they have to make some greater effort which usually would put them off. Perhaps a video verification ?
Or you could be a responsible adult and do your own checks.
Yes you have a point but it absolutely wastes so much time but the time you realise that profile belong to someone else
Such is life. You take risks, you check in a way that suits you. Anything worth doing is worth some investment of time. "Yes very true. | |||
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"This site is getting seriously ridiculous. So many weird guys pretending to be girls. Admin should only let photo verified users to use the sight.... that would make this site much more safer and a fun place to be around. I dont find it a problem I do find it a curiosity , ive blocked and reported the same man 100s of times 3 times so far today , my anthropologist curiosity does mean I'm naturally curious about their motives and actions x It's pretty obvious to me. They want something to wank over and men are easy pickings. Apparently not in this case he wants straight dads to cum in his ass , so sets up a ladys profile Some also do it so they can hook up with bi ladies and others do it because ???? This above one , reported and deleted another twice about the 125th Time so far this year I feel sorry for admin and the mods ,due to his obsessive selfish behaviour xxx " I hadn't thought about it until recently - but the bi/gay guy setting up a fake woman's profile to attract the attentions of straight guys for sex chat makes perfect sense. Others I guess do it for the attention that they can't get as a single guy. | |||
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"Yes agree. To do that they have to make some greater effort which usually would put them off. Perhaps a video verification ?
Or you could be a responsible adult and do your own checks.
Yes you have a point but it absolutely wastes so much time but the time you realise that profile belong to someone else
I can usually tell a fake profile within minutes of looking at it - use of tools such as Reverse Image is always recommended as well as some of the tools the site provides - so hardly a great deal of time wasted.m
Very good point. I’ll do that in the future.
Photo verification is not 100% reliable as a check either - but if you choose to take it as such why not just filter out those that aren't photo verified? Achieves the same as what you have suggested " | |||
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"More toys thrown out of the pram by another rejected man! It the same old "you won't meet me so you must be fake" bullshit.
How do you know he's not right? Why do you think there aren't men pretending to be women on here? I've had messages from women on couple's profiles I've suspected of being men."Thank you Kaitlyn. That’s exactly my point. | |||
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"I really don't get it just talk to them on the phone/cam and QED
Pretty much so. If your suspicions are raised and they refuse to confirm they are female, dump em.
It cuts to the chase so they are either a bloke shy or an on line thrill seeker (Which is the most common one) who have no intention of meeting.
I don't go with the fake tag as I am pretty sure there are real people behind every profile ok they might have the sex wrong so are more deceitful than anything else and 3/4 of the site lie in one way or other.
So if people are not going to meet fine that's their thing better to find out early and then chat to people who do. "In my view if you ask respectfully for confirmation they are female and they refuse there's a good 90% chance they're a bloke. Of the other 10%, given that the problem of false women is well known, a real woman refusing to provide confirmation she is female (and this can be done in many ways without compromising her safety), is so unreasonable as to be not worth meeting. | |||
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"I agree with all your comments and that we should do due diligence but come on if you want to meet other people should you not at least verify yourself to admin. You can still maintain your privacy as no one sees your verified image. " Many would leave the site if they had to do this. We would leave. However we arent photo verified to admin and we have managed lots of meets ! | |||
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"This site is getting seriously ridiculous. So many weird guys pretending to be girls. Admin should only let photo verified users to use the sight.... that would make this site much more safer and a fun place to be around. I dont find it a problem I do find it a curiosity , ive blocked and reported the same man 100s of times 3 times so far today , my anthropologist curiosity does mean I'm naturally curious about their motives and actions x It's pretty obvious to me. They want something to wank over and men are easy pickings. Apparently not in this case he wants straight dads to cum in his ass , so sets up a ladys profile Some also do it so they can hook up with bi ladies and others do it because ???? This above one , reported and deleted another twice about the 125th Time so far this year I feel sorry for admin and the mods ,due to his obsessive selfish behaviour xxx He's a trier, you gotta give him that. I thought admin made new female accounts photo verify now. " He's certainly a Trier, reported another 4 times this afternoon lol | |||
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"This site is getting seriously ridiculous. So many weird guys pretending to be girls. Admin should only let photo verified users to use the sight.... that would make this site much more safer and a fun place to be around." im not photo verified but im orgasm verified much better | |||
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"Yes agree. To do that they have to make some greater effort which usually would put them off. Perhaps a video verification ?
Or you could be a responsible adult and do your own checks.
Yes you have a point but it absolutely wastes so much time but the time you realise that profile belong to someone else
I can usually tell a fake profile within minutes of looking at it - use of tools such as Reverse Image is always recommended as well as some of the tools the site provides - so hardly a great deal of time wasted.
Photo verification is not 100% reliable as a check either - but if you choose to take it as such why not just filter out those that aren't photo verified? Achieves the same as what you have suggested
Fake pictures, certain kinds of demands or requests, stories not adding up, sometimes the wording (I read and think "women don't talk like that"). Then you ask for your own verification if necessary, and agree to meet in a public place first to minimise your risk.
Indeed The list goes on
Funnily enough, my friend who recently joined is 22, is very attractive, happy to put up face pics and up for sex with older men.
You'd be convinced she was a fake. Which may be why they made her do a photo veri
Me? No. That's unusual for sure, but that's not what makes me think fake.
Me either, can think of a very good example of someone who matches that perfectly and is obviously not fake - sometimes it comes down to pure gut instinct, but mostly they're easily spotted if you're not blinded by desperation to get a meet.":Usually a new account. :Few or no details in profile :No pic or dubious looking pic :No verified meets :Wanting to suck your cock before you've even greeted each other. :If it's an old account with no verified meets even more likely to be fake or they are not serious so block anyway. If in doubt ask for a phone number and request a direct conversation just to say hi. If they refuse just block. | |||
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"Yes agree. To do that they have to make some greater effort which usually would put them off. Perhaps a video verification ?
Or you could be a responsible adult and do your own checks.
Yes you have a point but it absolutely wastes so much time but the time you realise that profile belong to someone else
I can usually tell a fake profile within minutes of looking at it - use of tools such as Reverse Image is always recommended as well as some of the tools the site provides - so hardly a great deal of time wasted.
Photo verification is not 100% reliable as a check either - but if you choose to take it as such why not just filter out those that aren't photo verified? Achieves the same as what you have suggested
Fake pictures, certain kinds of demands or requests, stories not adding up, sometimes the wording (I read and think "women don't talk like that"). Then you ask for your own verification if necessary, and agree to meet in a public place first to minimise your risk.
Indeed The list goes on
Funnily enough, my friend who recently joined is 22, is very attractive, happy to put up face pics and up for sex with older men.
You'd be convinced she was a fake. Which may be why they made her do a photo veri
Me? No. That's unusual for sure, but that's not what makes me think fake.
Me either, can think of a very good example of someone who matches that perfectly and is obviously not fake - sometimes it comes down to pure gut instinct, but mostly they're easily spotted if you're not blinded by desperation to get a meet.
:Usually a new account.
:Few or no details in profile
:No pic or dubious looking pic
:No verified meets
:Wanting to suck your cock before you've even greeted each other.
:If it's an old account with no verified meets even more likely to be fake or they are not serious so block anyway.
If in doubt ask for a phone number and request a direct conversation just to say hi. If they refuse just block."I would also add fake female profiles are often in there early 20's or teens. | |||
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