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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How did you find yourself here?

I googled bi- curious a couple of years ago and this site came up. I joined and set my filters to women only. A couple of months later I changed them and thought I’d have a little peek at the men. Never intended meeting any men originally.

What’s your story?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had divorced and was bi - curious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mate told the lads down the pub how he was on here

So i joined

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Red and I had a chat about things ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had lost a regular partner and a man who I spoke to online told me about it.

I was apprehensive as I'm not a swinger, but he assured me I will find what I'm looking for here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found out through someone on another site.

I've tried to leave a few times but always get drawn back in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was looking for friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met someone on another site and he told me about it. I initially joined to meet people with him but soon realised I could have so much fun on my own.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I found out through someone on another site.

I've tried to leave a few times but always get drawn back in "

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really can't remember

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a guy on p of f and he was a swinger. Our conversation intrigued me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friend from another site suggested I try it out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I found out through someone on another site.

I've tried to leave a few times but always get drawn back in "

I can't find the fecking exit either and not for the want of trying

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"I found out through someone on another site.

I've tried to leave a few times but always get drawn back in "

Hotel California ... you can check out ... but you can never leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met my old fwb on another site about 8 years ago and he told me about it as somewhere that would allow me to explore my kinks. Been on and off since.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I migrated from another site. I started swinging at the tender age of 21 with a much older Fwb as he was a kinky fucker and I told him about the place down the road (liberty elites) so we joined the forum they had at that time and joined the club. Lots of libs members were on another swinger's site at the time and then eventually migrated here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone from another site I used to be on told me about it but I put it off for a while as I thought it was a site just to meet couples

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I was first on as part of s couple many years ago, then later I signed up so I could keep in touch with s friend who I met on another site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a random WhatsApp message from someone who claimed he'd met me in the pub the night before (he hadn't) and then he listed a load if other places he may have got my number from, including 'Fabs', which I then googled.

My partner and I were already at the stage where I was 'allowed' to have play dates, so this sparked an interest in exploring further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was bored after a break up ... googled swinging for a giggle and erm here I am ...lost my confidence for a while but it's gradually coming back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was already on another site and a large kik group and someone mentioned this one. I decided take a look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone I met from another site told me about it as he was moving too far away so said go take a look..... 5 years later I’m still here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of mr workmen told him about it, so he got me to sign us up x

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By *r GreyfoxMan
over a year ago

Newport

I thought it was something about swings

Been on and off here for years now great way to meet people and so addictive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was wandering the land, searching for my brother, solving problems, with no gun. But I had something no one else has ever seen...

I got lost in a blizzard and stumbled upon the place.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

[Removed by poster at 07/03/19 10:45:18]

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

A friend told me she had started swinging, and I joined a different site she was on.

I went on a meet from there and he directed me to here.

I pretty much left the other site immediately as this one is so much better, I have never looked back and I have no idea if the other site is even still going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't remember but I got Chlamydia for my troubles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't remember but I got Chlamydia for my troubles"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't remember but I got Chlamydia for my troubles"

Good find then eh?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can't remember but I got Chlamydia for my troubles"

Yeah sorry about that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't remember but I got Chlamydia for my troubles

Yeah sorry about that "

It was the bareback anal that did it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't remember but I got Chlamydia for my troubles

Good find then eh? "

That put me off meeting, I left then came back and am only here for forums

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can't remember but I got Chlamydia for my troubles

Yeah sorry about that

It was the bareback anal that did it"

Yeah probably. During that 30 man gangbang.

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By *intteaMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Probably through either a yahoo or msn chat room way back. Remember them?

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

During an ongoing mission of studying you earthlings, my craft crash landed here during a particularly violent thunderstorm and I have been stranded here ever since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably through either a yahoo or msn chat room way back. Remember them?"

I used aol chat rooms back in 2002 and met a few guys from there. Fab wasn’t around then.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I did a research paper a few years back about singing taxi drivers but mis typed cab singers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did a google search for Ryan Giggs, Lee Sharpe, Steve Mc Manaman and Marc Overmars....fab wingers

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Did a google search for Ryan Giggs, Lee Sharpe, Steve Mc Manaman and Marc Overmars....fab wingers "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab wingers ha ha love that!

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By *ot-AshMan
over a year ago

London

I think i had a faulty sat nav as I got lost on the M25 for a couple of days took the wrong exit and some how ended up here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kind of one thing led to another. I started getting interested in the swinging scene back in the late 90s when Altavista has chatrooms. That evolved into using IRC and ICQ and then onto Yahoo and MSN chatrooms. Then I used a couple of other sites for a while and when there was a big exodus from them I discovered this site back in 2010. In the early years I mainly used the chatrooms and met a few people via them, the discovered the forum at the end of 2013 and by the beginning of 2014 stopped meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The usual tale of crazy ex, hospital stay, feeling stir crazy, reaching out to connect with people bish bosh boom here I am. Add an few occasionally deviations away from the place and a lot of alcohol and I'm still here!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Kind of one thing led to another. I started getting interested in the swinging scene back in the late 90s when Altavista has chatrooms. That evolved into using IRC and ICQ and then onto Yahoo and MSN chatrooms. Then I used a couple of other sites for a while and when there was a big exodus from them I discovered this site back in 2010. In the early years I mainly used the chatrooms and met a few people via them, the discovered the forum at the end of 2013 and by the beginning of 2014 stopped meeting "

Why don’t you meet anymore?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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A friend of sorts decided to encourage my predilection for moresomes and non-vanilla sex. I've been on here for a bloody age now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was here years ago when I was married to my first husband, we only joined for the webcams really, then when I split with him my sex drive went through the roof and rejoined, been here practically ever since!

Danish x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kind of one thing led to another. I started getting interested in the swinging scene back in the late 90s when Altavista has chatrooms. That evolved into using IRC and ICQ and then onto Yahoo and MSN chatrooms. Then I used a couple of other sites for a while and when there was a big exodus from them I discovered this site back in 2010. In the early years I mainly used the chatrooms and met a few people via them, the discovered the forum at the end of 2013 and by the beginning of 2014 stopped meeting

Why don’t you meet anymore?"

A long story best left untold

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I turned left at Friends Reunited.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Kind of one thing led to another. I started getting interested in the swinging scene back in the late 90s when Altavista has chatrooms. That evolved into using IRC and ICQ and then onto Yahoo and MSN chatrooms. Then I used a couple of other sites for a while and when there was a big exodus from them I discovered this site back in 2010. In the early years I mainly used the chatrooms and met a few people via them, the discovered the forum at the end of 2013 and by the beginning of 2014 stopped meeting

Why don’t you meet anymore?

A long story best left untold"

Sorry lovely . I did think that was a bit nosy once I’d typed it. You know what I’m like. Brain doesn’t engage with mouth/ fingers in time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kind of one thing led to another. I started getting interested in the swinging scene back in the late 90s when Altavista has chatrooms. That evolved into using IRC and ICQ and then onto Yahoo and MSN chatrooms. Then I used a couple of other sites for a while and when there was a big exodus from them I discovered this site back in 2010. In the early years I mainly used the chatrooms and met a few people via them, the discovered the forum at the end of 2013 and by the beginning of 2014 stopped meeting

Why don’t you meet anymore?

A long story best left untold

Sorry lovely . I did think that was a bit nosy once I’d typed it. You know what I’m like. Brain doesn’t engage with mouth/ fingers in time "

No worries it’s just not for forum consumption

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By *inn2000Woman
over a year ago

belfast

A friend recommended the site. I joined under a different profile which was far too provocative for me and the hundreds of messages scared the bejesus out of me so I left and reinvented myself. Also discovered message filters which helped lol. Having much more fun this time and not so scary but still has its moments!

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By *ightkitty4uWoman
over a year ago

Epsom

My fwb went off and got a girlfriend, I was moaning to a male friend at work about it. He told me about this site...

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By *tephenBunChowMan
over a year ago

Haywards heath/Waterlooville

Found a thread on it on the Lovehoney forum and joined. The rest is history.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was chatting to someone on pof. He explained that he had more pics on another site and if I wanted, i could join up and have a peek... so i did. And I've been on and off here ever since

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I don’t know how I ended up here, there’s been some kind of dreadful mistake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a blindfold put over my eyes,gagged and thrown into a van by what sounded like a woman....

That's how I'm here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A very good friend of mine is on here and suggested I join too. So here I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friend told me about it

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Single, not wanting a relationship (at that point in time) but looking for a fwb or nsa. Felt it a more honest way to go about it than using a mainstream site like pof. Also liked that I could be anonymous as I'm quite private about my sex life.

Three and a half years later I'm still stuck here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was trying to think of ideas to spice up my sex life and stumbled on the site. I had never heard of it before. It worked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was accident i slipped and fell cock first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on another similar site and searched for others and I decided to stay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to use a chat app where a couple profile I came across listed fab swingers as a site they used. One curious search later and I’ve been here ever since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where am I?

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By *inkSwingCouple
over a year ago

Preston

Google I think

Swing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Drove up the street took second exit at the roundabout then took third road on the left and here i am.

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By *ulfilthmentMan
over a year ago

Just around the corner

I used another thread and a fellow member suggested Fab. The rest is history.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I didn't open the account it was done for me. At the time I'd been seeing someone for a few mths that I met on match. We were in the pub one evening and started talking about fantasies at which point I mentioned mmf. I told him about a conversation I'd had with someone I went out for a drink with from pof who was a swinger and mentioned fab.

The next day he opened a couples account and it was all down hill from there on.

Made me realise that the thought of something can be very different than the reality (on his part). I didn't know him that well and all his insecurities came out. He ended up totally losing the plot and finished the relationship.

I lost something that could have been good...so if you're reading this Spencer..I'm sorry!!

At that point I should have walked away from here but I didn't in a way I also regret that for many reasons.

In my delusion I thought finding an exclusive guy to travel this journey with would be easy. However to date I've not found one who ticks my boxes let alone two.

I've learnt that you really cannot trust what people tell you. Which is a real shame as I've changed though being on here not for the best either.

Xx

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I was out on a night out and complained to a good friend I'd not had sex for ages and didnt want a 'boyfriend'. She showed me fab. A month later she'd persuaded me to go to a club and then I joined fab on the way home x

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

Some guy off another site recommended it to me.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Pillow talk with an ex. We wanted to try clubs so did a bit of googling and ended up here.

Used to frequent the old MSN groups chat rooms as a single but never met anyone as was too busy chasing girls in the real world. Then life suddenly gets busy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Marriage ended after no sex for 2 years and I REALLY wanted sex. Google told me this was the place to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I heard about it on some fet site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone on a kik group chat recommended for a 3sum...still a dream for me

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"During an ongoing mission of studying you earthlings, my craft crash landed here during a particularly violent thunderstorm and I have been stranded here ever since

"

And how very us ladies are that you did

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

My FWB wrote the website on my hand with the instructions ‘ go have some fun’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy I’d met from another site sent me a link to his profile on here. Once I’d gotten over the OMG what kind of site is this, what’s he doing on here - my curiosity got the better of me - I stayed he departed...

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

Friends on other sites pointed me to this sites direction.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Someone I got chatting with from another site said this was the place for me. As I’m not a swinger I thought he might be wrong. It appears I was wrong as I wasn’t the only person that isn’t a swinger. I suppose I have him to thank for meeting Swing, our paths would never have crossed without Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A man on Match, an injury, a little light stalking...

You'd need a good 20 minutes to get the whole story.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here, bisexual and looking for like minds, not just sexually but in how they think... Some great people on here, beats all other social media as we can be ourselves totally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met someone from another adult type site and he told me that here would suit me. I wasn’t sure to start with at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex boss told me about fab when I left the company. We're still friends on here 7 years later

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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A conversation with a man on a course in a hotel bar in the wee hours after alcohol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A conversation in the good old MSN chat rooms years ago , a friend directed me here

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