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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

morning all

we host regular partys here at home..large partys with around 20 cpls.4/5 single girls and the odd single bloke

regarding single guys,,we have a nightmare,,either in them actually turning up,yes we check verifications first,or if they do turn up they do 1 of two things,,,1 they freeze and just slope off without saying anything,or 2.just lose all control and there balls run away with their brains,jumping on and off women without being invited..we even had one who thought it was ok to use the same condom all night on all the women,we have a cpl of reliable guys who come regular and are fine,,but the girls want some variety and different options..getting to the end of our tether here..lol...heeeeeelp

al n rach xx

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

If anyone can work out why so many men do this I'd love to know. Had a couple of no-shows and last min cancellations for my mini GB on Wed which irks me as I could have invited other people.

It's a mystery!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tie em up naked control em that way xx

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Tie em up naked control em that way xx"

Taser and a pointy stick would come in handy too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah the peeps are bored and need fresh meat to play with? lol

Only kidding. I'd spend a lot more time checking verifications as if the guys you are getting either freeze/do a runner or are completely giddy then I'd question whether they have been involved in swinging before at all.

More research....and of course taser/water cannon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What two of the couples who regularly host parties near me do is find guys on recommendation of couples and single fems they have had at their previous parties. and that seems to work really well.. all the guys are respectful, turn up and look great :D

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Not sre wht you can do tbh...i sort of ventured into this territory earlier in the week...i think all too often single guys join cos they are horny, without thinking about what swinging is, generally(and this is a generalisation)women and couples give more thought before joining.

Word of mouth is all i can suggest, if you have that many couples who attend surely they have some suggestions of men who would enjoy the party and spoil no one elses fun?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"What two of the couples who regularly host parties near me do is find guys on recommendation of couples and single fems they have had at their previous parties. and that seems to work really well.. all the guys are respectful, turn up and look great :D"

I'll be doing that in future. I always check verifications but its not foolproof.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi al n rach how is your ricker??? Lol xxx i know and understand tottally where your coming from. I know few fellas if you wana pm me so feel free hun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet singles and when i have a party i pick one or two from the ones i have meet ... And to the couples i make it clear will be one or two singles there as some dont like it . Always worked ok .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"morning all

we host regular partys here at home..large partys with around 20 cpls.4/5 single girls and the odd single bloke"

Simple solution. Stop inviting odd single blokes and invite normal ones instead.

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By *ighly ProfessionalMan
over a year ago

peterborough

I agree with this forum, Im a single guy dont get on here much and would love to attend the occassional party. By the time i let my interest be known its normally full only to find out later the guys didnt turn up. If i say im coming ( no pun meant) im coming end off but we get a bad name because of all the TW guy on here. So my closing statement would be try me and the tw guys Man up and bugger off

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"morning all

we host regular partys here at home..large partys with around 20 cpls.4/5 single girls and the odd single bloke

regarding single guys,,we have a nightmare,,either in them actually turning up,yes we check verifications first,or if they do turn up they do 1 of two things,,,1 they freeze and just slope off without saying anything,or 2.just lose all control and there balls run away with their brains,jumping on and off women without being invited..we even had one who thought it was ok to use the same condom all night on all the women,we have a cpl of reliable guys who come regular and are fine,,but the girls want some variety and different options..getting to the end of our tether here..lol...heeeeeelp

al n rach xx"

you know that i know you from other places.. so you know that guys can behave and be normal in normal atmospheres... lol

so just invite me across instead....

seriously though... i know that a few people "try out" single guys at socials first.. in the respect that if they can mix and behave and work in an atmosphere like that, then they can work in a party atmosphere....

i think the same can be said with guys in clubs as well... where you will get those who can chat and just gel in, and those who wonder round like lost sheep or kids in a sweetie shop.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do you need single guys at a party?

"because ladies like a bit of variety" lol

I'm sure that married guys come with the same tools, well all the ones I know do

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do you need single guys at a party?

"because ladies like a bit of variety" lol

I'm sure that married guys come with the same tools, well all the ones I know do

because a lot of cpls wont let hubby play with the single girls

"

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"Tie em up naked control em that way xx

Taser and a pointy stick would come in handy too! "

dinnae forget the baw gag so they cannae complain

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Tie em up naked control em that way xx

Taser and a pointy stick would come in handy too!

dinnae forget the baw gag so they cannae complain "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do you need single guys at a party?

"because ladies like a bit of variety" lol

I'm sure that married guys come with the same tools, well all the ones I know do

because a lot of cpls wont let hubby play with the single girls

"

So they have to play with the blokes then??

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

You may already do this, why not arrange a social meet to get to know the guys a week or two before the party, if they would turn up for a social I think it gives you a good indication they'd turn up for a party, also gives you a chance to check out their conversation and social skills as well....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do you need single guys at a party?

"because ladies like a bit of variety" lol

I'm sure that married guys come with the same tools, well all the ones I know do

no,,but it saves the domestics when mr hubby slopes off with mrs single and mrs hubby didnt agree,,,yes i know it isnt up to us to sort out their rules,,but its up to us to sort the shite out later

because a lot of cpls wont let hubby play with the single girls

So they have to play with the blokes then?? "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do you need single guys at a party?

"because ladies like a bit of variety" lol

I'm sure that married guys come with the same tools, well all the ones I know do

no,,but it saves the domestics when mr hubby slopes off with mrs single and mrs hubby didnt agree,,,yes i know it isnt up to us to sort out their rules,,but its up to us to sort the shite out later

because a lot of cpls wont let hubby play with the single girls

So they have to play with the blokes then?? "

no but it saves the domestics when mr hubby slopes off with mrs single and mrs hubby didnt agree,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know a single guy who is reliable and behaves;-), not sure about the distance though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

point him our way hunni xxxx

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By *amslam1000Man
over a year ago

willenhall


"point him our way hunni xxxx"

i'm reliable and non pushy been to parties and got varies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tie em up naked control em that way xx

Taser and a pointy stick would come in handy too!

dinnae forget the baw gag so they cannae complain "

Aye the one I use on you keeps my ears healthy xx

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By *UNCHBOXMan
over a year ago

folkestone


"morning all

we host regular partys here at home..large partys with around 20 cpls.4/5 single girls and the odd single bloke

regarding single guys,,we have a nightmare,,either in them actually turning up,yes we check verifications first,or if they do turn up they do 1 of two things,,,1 they freeze and just slope off without saying anything,or 2.just lose all control and there balls run away with their brains,jumping on and off women without being invited..we even had one who thought it was ok to use the same condom all night on all the women,we have a cpl of reliable guys who come regular and are fine,,but the girls want some variety and different options..getting to the end of our tether here..lol...heeeeeelp

al n rach xx"

Are your parties the sort where there is a charge to attend? or is it invite but maybe bring some food/drink?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"morning all

we host regular partys here at home..large partys with around 20 cpls.4/5 single girls and the odd single bloke

regarding single guys,,we have a nightmare,,either in them actually turning up,yes we check verifications first,or if they do turn up they do 1 of two things,,,1 they freeze and just slope off without saying anything,or 2.just lose all control and there balls run away with their brains,jumping on and off women without being invited..we even had one who thought it was ok to use the same condom all night on all the women,we have a cpl of reliable guys who come regular and are fine,,but the girls want some variety and different options..getting to the end of our tether here..lol...heeeeeelp

al n rach xx

Are your parties the sort where there is a charge to attend? or is it invite but maybe bring some food/drink?

"

nope,all free,just bring ya own booze

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By *UNCHBOXMan
over a year ago

folkestone

Im not sure how you go about selecting the single guys for you parties. The ones i have been to, a couple ive met before have vouched for my behaviour, and so have got an invite. Ive been to one party before where every single guy was sent an list of acceptable and unacceptable behaviour - maybe you could do that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just an Idea, but why not, when looking at peoples veris, mail those how left the veri...... you can ask a few questions and maybe get more of an idea as to what they were like......

Slightly underhanded as I am pretty sure all those who have left me veris would still say good things about me.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"morning all

we host regular partys here at home..large partys with around 20 cpls.4/5 single girls and the odd single bloke

regarding single guys,,we have a nightmare,,either in them actually turning up,yes we check verifications first,or if they do turn up they do 1 of two things,,,1 they freeze and just slope off without saying anything,or 2.just lose all control and there balls run away with their brains,jumping on and off women without being invited..we even had one who thought it was ok to use the same condom all night on all the women,we have a cpl of reliable guys who come regular and are fine,,but the girls want some variety and different options..getting to the end of our tether here..lol...heeeeeelp

al n rach xx"

Hi Al n Rach

I dont know the format for your parties, and I think eveyone has problems with guys that dont turn up. The couples we invite, the husbands like to watch more than play, this means that the single guys are actually monitored, many couples play differently, my hubby wanders from room to room ensuring everything is ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"morning all

we host regular partys here at home..large partys with around 20 cpls.4/5 single girls and the odd single bloke

regarding single guys,,we have a nightmare,,either in them actually turning up,yes we check verifications first,or if they do turn up they do 1 of two things,,,1 they freeze and just slope off without saying anything,or 2.just lose all control and there balls run away with their brains,jumping on and off women without being invited..we even had one who thought it was ok to use the same condom all night on all the women,we have a cpl of reliable guys who come regular and are fine,,but the girls want some variety and different options..getting to the end of our tether here..lol...heeeeeelp

al n rach xx

Hi Al n Rach

I dont know the format for your parties, and I think eveyone has problems with guys that dont turn up. The couples we invite, the husbands like to watch more than play, this means that the single guys are actually monitored, many couples play differently, my hubby wanders from room to room ensuring everything is ok."

tee he, beats the football eh?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

maybe they are just phased by it and find the couples not very sociable... bit daunting just arriving and maybe standing a lot on their own.

just maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"maybe they are just phased by it and find the couples not very sociable... bit daunting just arriving and maybe standing a lot on their own.

just maybe"

give all the singles a teeshirt with a target and the slogan 'You're it' on it... that should put 'em at ease

Wolf

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"maybe they are just phased by it and find the couples not very sociable... bit daunting just arriving and maybe standing a lot on their own.

just maybe

give all the singles a teeshirt with a target and the slogan 'You're it' on it... that should put 'em at ease

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"maybe they are just phased by it and find the couples not very sociable... bit daunting just arriving and maybe standing a lot on their own.

just maybe

give all the singles a teeshirt with a target and the slogan 'You're it' on it... that should put 'em at ease

Wolf

"

amazingly apparently we dont have that situation!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I know I am probably about to teach you to suck an egg, but...

Look for guys who go to swinging clubs on a regular basis... they tend not to bottle it when the cold light of reality dawns.

Obviously guys who attend other parties or hold their own.

Guys who have been around the scene for a while.... sorry newbies.

Guys who haven't got a foot long wish list on their profile.

Guy who are prepared to meet you prior for a drink and chat... with other guys their too. No harm checking them all out in one go.

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