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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do scars bother you?

They never really bother me but i know some people get self concious about them if they have them and some find them a turn off on others.

I noticed when playing round with filters for the new pic black and white shows up all the dozens on little scars that i have that normally dont show in pics.

The big ones obviously are always visible but the black and white shots made me realise just how many small ones there were.

So scars, strechmarks and other things do they bother you on yourself and do they bother you on others?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

No.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

My scars are only on the inside

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No."

Out of curiosity how about facial scarring?

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

No, I have my own. To me it shows the owner has 'lived'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No they don’t bother me, I’m interested in how some people get them. My scars are the reason I’m here and proof of survival. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do scars bother you?

They never really bother me but i know some people get self concious about them if they have them and some find them a turn off on others.

I noticed when playing round with filters for the new pic black and white shows up all the dozens on little scars that i have that normally dont show in pics.

The big ones obviously are always visible but the black and white shots made me realise just how many small ones there were.

So scars, strechmarks and other things do they bother you on yourself and do they bother you on others?"

They don't bother me and I have one or two. One particularly bad one on my arm when i got attacked with a knife. I'm hoping scars don't bother but I am self conscious about mine so thank you for this thread interested to see the responses

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" My scars are the reason I’m here and proof of survival. X "

Yeah some do have a story but its kind of amazing how many seem to be jist "bumped into something", "caught it on a brush" "tried to cook naked and it splashed" kinda thing

I get the feeling if i was a used car i couldnt say "one careful owner" :p

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Chics dig scar's

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

They used to I have extensive scarring from the knees down and around my right hips. I hated wearing shorts as they are quite noticeable. I got used to it in the end.

However over last summer I had four more incisions made and further complications. So I’m going to have to go through all the unease again. They look awful at the moment very angry.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I have quite a few scars. My survival badges x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I knew a lady once who's face had been badly burnt as a child and had left her with prominent scars covering much of her face. When she interacted with someone new their first instinct was to look at her and almost flinch away, happened a lot. But she was very confident herself and would have had a bit of fun with the person about looking at her funny and eventually this put them at ease and they never looked at her that way again. What I'm trying to say is that if you are scarred yourself and you try to hide it or it bothers you then people will pick up on that and then become conscious of how they act around you. But if you are confident and show people that it has absolutely no effect on you whatsoever then that should translate to how they see and treat you. I try to see people for what's inside anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No.

Out of curiosity how about facial scarring?"

They don’t bother me, have a few small ones on my forehead. They bothered a photographer though, he edited them out, thinking I’d want that. Had him put them back in the image. Had them since I was 1, I’ve never known my face without them.

Same as my knee scar. The scars show on some pics, but they’re always with me, so no point hiding them xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a rather large abdominal scar which I found bad enough but due to a large rapid weight loss, thyroid playing silly buggars. It now looks worse!! I clothe to cover x

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"No.

Out of curiosity how about facial scarring?"

Nope, no problem.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

I do feel a bit self conscious about mine as it’s quite long and noticeable. It doesn’t seem to have put anyone off though which makes me feel better about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" My scars are the reason I’m here and proof of survival. X

Yeah some do have a story but its kind of amazing how many seem to be jist "bumped into something", "caught it on a brush" "tried to cook naked and it splashed" kinda thing

I get the feeling if i was a used car i couldnt say "one careful owner" :p

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Ha ha, yes some of mine are like that x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" My scars are the reason I’m here and proof of survival. X

Yeah some do have a story but its kind of amazing how many seem to be jist "bumped into something", "caught it on a brush" "tried to cook naked and it splashed" kinda thing

I get the feeling if i was a used car i couldnt say "one careful owner" :p

Ha ha, yes some of mine are like that x

"

Im starting to get a collection on my shoulder blades which are summed up as "keeps forgetting they added a new lowhanging bracket" i swear about 4 of my work shirts have holes there now where my normal crouch walk catches it

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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Not at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No definitely not. I think scars can be quite sexy and it’s part of the person anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With this many miles on the clock there are bound to be a few knocks and scrapes..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all our bodies are like a tapestry for our life experiences, scars and the like are just part of the story behind the tapestry.

I only have a couple of small ones with a couple of little stories behind them. But some scars have important life changing events behind them. Each one is part of what makes every individual unique and some provide connections with others who have similar.

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By *onandCouple
over a year ago

Cheadle

Just had an emergency hysterectomy so a few small scars but should heal xxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They add character

Part of your life story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all. I have a few of my own on my back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not at all. I have a few of my own on my back. "

I've a large one on my back from spinal surgery and another on my neck from same

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For those woth scars how do ypu feel abput orhers touching, stroking and kissing rhem during sex?

I think people naturally seek out "landmarks" on a lersons body and i notice the scars get a lot of attention during foreplay or afterglow closeness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I like mine they remind me of my mad youth days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They don't bother me in the slightest. I have my own and I've had people occasionally ask what they are. I'd rather they were openly curious than just stare.

Anyway, surely I it would be weird not to have accumulated a few permanent marks over a lifetime.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine used to bother me but most dont even see my scars on my arms and back and no one minds my stretch marks least they haven't said so. I dont mind scars on others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find scars attractive if anything.

They tell story's. Interesting ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For those woth scars how do ypu feel abput orhers touching, stroking and kissing rhem during sex?

I think people naturally seek out "landmarks" on a lersons body and i notice the scars get a lot of attention during foreplay or afterglow closeness"

Was very self conscious after key hole surgery last year, but Mr reassured me and now I’m not as self conscious xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For those woth scars how do ypu feel abput orhers touching, stroking and kissing rhem during sex?

I think people naturally seek out "landmarks" on a lersons body and i notice the scars get a lot of attention during foreplay or afterglow closeness"

Depends. My ex had a scar on his forehead. He couldn’t bear it to be touched.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Other people’s scars don’t bother me in the slightest. I sometimes get a little self conscious of my excessive tummy stretch marks but soon forget them. No one has ever remarked upon them that I know of. They’re as much a part of me as my smile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For those woth scars how do ypu feel abput orhers touching, stroking and kissing rhem during sex?

I think people naturally seek out "landmarks" on a lersons body and i notice the scars get a lot of attention during foreplay or afterglow closeness

Depends. My ex had a scar on his forehead. He couldn’t bear it to be touched. "

Was he Harry Potter? Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For those woth scars how do ypu feel abput orhers touching, stroking and kissing rhem during sex?

I think people naturally seek out "landmarks" on a lersons body and i notice the scars get a lot of attention during foreplay or afterglow closeness

Depends. My ex had a scar on his forehead. He couldn’t bear it to be touched. "

I've a biggie on my chest which I can't bear to be touched as it's super sensitive. Makes me heave to touch it myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For those woth scars how do ypu feel abput orhers touching, stroking and kissing rhem during sex?

I think people naturally seek out "landmarks" on a lersons body and i notice the scars get a lot of attention during foreplay or afterglow closeness

Depends. My ex had a scar on his forehead. He couldn’t bear it to be touched.

Was he Harry Potter? Xxx"

I’ve never seen Harry Potter. But nah he’d be too old

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull


"For those woth scars how do ypu feel abput orhers touching, stroking and kissing rhem during sex?

I think people naturally seek out "landmarks" on a lersons body and i notice the scars get a lot of attention during foreplay or afterglow closeness"

I don’t think I’d like it. Drawing attention to it would make me feel uncomfortable and part of it is more sensitive than the rest so I wouldn’t want it to be touched or stroked either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scars wouldn't bother me at all unless they're too sensitive to be touched and in areas that would make play awkward.

I'm quite grabby when Im really into it and the last thing I'd want to do is hurt someone.

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By *inxybWoman
over a year ago

Durham

I’m not a fan of my big scars but as they’re on my back I don’t really see them, but if I didn’t have them I’d not be living the life I do so I guess I’ve learnt to accept that they’re part of me.

The keyhole ones on my stomach don’t bother me in the slightest as they’re almost invisible!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate my scars as they remind me of the shitty times I've had in my life. I've tried bio oil but they didn't fade. I don't like them being highlighted, I feel embarrassed about them.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I (male) have too many to worry about them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have any scars, and they don't bother me on others.

My bad back bothers me more than my stretch marks

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

Scars are just life - the accidental ones, the necessary ones, even self inflicted ones - they all have a story to tell, from the mundane to the dramatic or sad. Very very few people have no scars at all of some sort and you never know when you might acquire some more!

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks


"I hate my scars as they remind me of the shitty times I've had in my life. I've tried bio oil but they didn't fade. I don't like them being highlighted, I feel embarrassed about them. "

I found Bio Oil didn’t work.

I often get asked how I got mine and I hate talking about them but I feel like I have to justify them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love personal flaws make folk unique

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

After my recent operation, I am now sporting a 10” souvenir.

It’s not wanted but it’s part of me now, so take it or leave it.

Mrs M

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By *greygorCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

my man says we all got lifes scars STRETCHMARKS are gods gift of wonderfull child birth happy marks .tummy scars normal from life assisting ops .caulie ears or broken nose sport .and if from fire ect you still here on fab .so live the fab life

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By *onandCouple
over a year ago

Cheadle

Had a laparoscopic hysterectomy 10 weeks ago and healing very nicely. Hope they heal nicely for the holidays.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I was very self conscious about the scars from my first surgery until my most recent surgery. The first ones are tiny and have faded. The most recent one is large and obvious, but is a sign of what I've been through and is nothing to be ashamed about. Although it gets me some sometimes comical reactions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't bother in the slightest, just like wrinkles don't bother. Sign of living and experiencing life in my book

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By *uartz24Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

I have 11 scars, most are small, biggest is about 6-7” middle of my stomach.

Worse things in life to worry about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bet most wouldn’t be so phlegmatic over syphillis scars!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I bet most wouldn’t be so phlegmatic over syphillis scars! "

Slightly different to accidents or surgery!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't bother in the slightest, just like wrinkles don't bother. Sign of living and experiencing life in my book "

Yeah well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scars on other people don't bother me at all and to be honest I hardly notice them unless they are big ones but I'd be more intruged how and why but would never ask in fear of making someone uncomfortable . I do have a rather prominent cesarian scar which I really hate and am really paranoid about ...luckily it hides in underwear but very noticeable when naked ....hubby loves it and reasures me it isn't that bad but you know how critical we are of our own body's .

Mrs xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No they don’t bother me, I’m interested in how some people get them. My scars are the reason I’m here and proof of survival. X "

Get this.. Scars are like the map which charts the road we ve travelled.. Nearly got mine hidden but then thought no this is me and this shows my survival

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my man says we all got lifes scars STRETCHMARKS are gods gift of wonderfull child birth happy marks .tummy scars normal from life assisting ops .caulie ears or broken nose sport .and if from fire ect you still here on fab .so live the fab life "

So true

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By *rtraymondo76Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

If you have no scars, visible or not, then you haven't really lived.

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

I have a scar that runs from the base of my cock upwards it's about 4in long. I think it looks ugly, no one has ever mentioned it so must be just me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you have no scars, visible or not, then you haven't really lived."

Why the need to put others down?

Thats just like the "a real woman has curves only dogs like bones" kinda statement

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By *randMrsBlondeCouple
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

So relieved to read these comments on this thread. I have quite a prominent scar from my neck to my butt crack on my back and I am very paranoid about it. To the point of even contemplating telling potential playmates before getting naked as it makes me feel so self conscious, but I don’t feel quite so bad after reading the comments on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have no scars, visible or not, then you haven't really lived."

Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have no scars, visible or not, then you haven't really lived."

Oh well, I haven't really lived then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you have no scars, visible or not, then you haven't really lived.

Oh well, I haven't really lived then "

Dont worry i'll fetch my cane and the antiseptic cream

Go get your pants off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't take much notice of scars.

If there was a big one that looked like it was from an operation I might be nosy and ask what the OP was.

One of my old regular partners has scars from bowel surgery and was worried the first time he undressed in front of me, covering them with his hands. So, I moved his hands and kissed them, before I sucked his cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have no scars, visible or not, then you haven't really lived.

Thanks. "

Have you never burnt your arm on a cooker shelf?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't take much notice of scars.

If there was a big one that looked like it was from an operation I might be nosy and ask what the OP was.

One of my old regular partners has scars from bowel surgery and was worried the first time he undressed in front of me, covering them with his hands. So, I moved his hands and kissed them, before I sucked his cock."

Somone once asked me if my chest scar was from surgery i couldnt help but laughing thinking what the hell kind of operation that would have been and how bad the surgeon would have had to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have no scars, visible or not, then you haven't really lived.

Oh well, I haven't really lived then

Dont worry i'll fetch my cane and the antiseptic cream

Go get your pants off "

Done

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By *cgkcCouple
over a year ago

Hitchin

Where there are imperfections, so there is beauty.

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By *rinthiaMan
over a year ago

dundee

Scars are nature’s way of kicking you up the arse and telling to to make the most of the life you have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have no scars, visible or not, then you haven't really lived.

Thanks.

Have you never burnt your arm on a cooker shelf?"

Yep. I've no visible scars though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have no scars, visible or not, then you haven't really lived.

Thanks.

Have you never burnt your arm on a cooker shelf?

Yep. I've no visible scars though "

And to be honest that just says I'm a clumsy fuck. Not exactly a sign of really living!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have stretch marks on my cock..... I try to hide them by looking at hot girls on fab and staying erect.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have few scars, one of which is on my neck. Fairly often people will ask how it happened, it doesn’t bother me one bit

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have few scars, one of which is on my neck. Fairly often people will ask how it happened, it doesn’t bother me one bit "

I must say as somone on my hotlist ive never noticed a scar on you!

Admitedly my focus may no y have been on your neck though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have few scars, one of which is on my neck. Fairly often people will ask how it happened, it doesn’t bother me one bit

I must say as somone on my hotlist ive never noticed a scar on you!

Admitedly my focus may no y have been on your neck though"

it’s not actually in any of my pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have few scars, one of which is on my neck. Fairly often people will ask how it happened, it doesn’t bother me one bit

I must say as somone on my hotlist ive never noticed a scar on you!

Admitedly my focus may no y have been on your neck though

it’s not actually in any of my pics "

Well you absolutley dont have any scars on your bum, im sure about that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have few scars, one of which is on my neck. Fairly often people will ask how it happened, it doesn’t bother me one bit

I must say as somone on my hotlist ive never noticed a scar on you!

Admitedly my focus may no y have been on your neck though

it’s not actually in any of my pics

Well you absolutley dont have any scars on your bum, im sure about that "

You’re correct

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have few scars, one of which is on my neck. Fairly often people will ask how it happened, it doesn’t bother me one bit

I must say as somone on my hotlist ive never noticed a scar on you!

Admitedly my focus may no y have been on your neck though

it’s not actually in any of my pics

Well you absolutley dont have any scars on your bum, im sure about that

You’re correct "

Although it is better to be safe than sorry. I really should check in person :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have few scars, one of which is on my neck. Fairly often people will ask how it happened, it doesn’t bother me one bit

I must say as somone on my hotlist ive never noticed a scar on you!

Admitedly my focus may no y have been on your neck though

it’s not actually in any of my pics

Well you absolutley dont have any scars on your bum, im sure about that

You’re correct

Although it is better to be safe than sorry. I really should check in person :p "

Cheeky

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I don't mind scars at all, I wouldn't refer to them to let it was appropriate during the conversation somehow. Some of them I actually quite like especially if they have an interesting story.

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

I have one that didn't heal well (my fault, I was back in the gym a few days later rather than let it heal).

Cancer is a shit boring story. So I tell everyone I got it in a knife fight when I was rescuing blind baby dolphins from ninja pirates.. pretty sure everyone believes me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, scars don't put me off, have enough of my own from stretchmarks to surgery scars.

I find them interesting.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Nah I don't care, one of my exes had a 5 or 6 inch scar across her face, i never cared, stopped seeing it really.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I forget I have mine which is pretty funny considering it's about 10cm long. But then it's been there since I was 2 months old.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Also not bothered by them on others. In fact I enjoy hearing the stories behind them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got a few scars each with there own story, i love scars my.own amd others

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By *asterslittlewhoreCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I love mine, 8 or 9 inches across my middle, i love the wee dots from the staples too , mine is wiggly so i used to say itvwas a shark bite

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By *horehouseprincessWoman
over a year ago

small town near Munich

Most people have some, me included. They dont bother me

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By *onandCouple
over a year ago

Cheadle

Forgot I had a boob job 20 years ago...... not bothered in the slightest xxx

I am happy fuck what other people think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I have some crackers in places that some might think would lead me to be self conscious about them but no, they’re part of me.

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING

I,m pretty self conscious of mine (serious burns) so only showing a few as public.

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By *inkerbell67Woman
over a year ago

Clacton on sea essex

9inch scare down my middle and 4inch at side ,my war wounds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m looking for the right tattoo to cover my appendix scar, it doesn’t bother me with people I know and you can hardly see it I’m told but to me it stands out and hate it on new meets. I quite like scars on others though, it’s character and tells a story, just not on me

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By *halky90Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

I got a few. I like them tbf.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

I have a few mental scar's

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

I don't care if people have scars from accidents or even self inflicted. I slept with a lovely girl who was a self harmer and it didn't put me off.

Seen a bdsm inflicted scar of a horrible word though recently and I think it's the dumbest fucking thing I've ever seen in my life. A major hard on killer that does put me off.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport


"Do scars bother you?

They never really bother me but i know some people get self concious about them if they have them and some find them a turn off on others.

I noticed when playing round with filters for the new pic black and white shows up all the dozens on little scars that i have that normally dont show in pics.

The big ones obviously are always visible but the black and white shots made me realise just how many small ones there were.

So scars, strechmarks and other things do they bother you on yourself and do they bother you on others?"

I have one on my face. As a child, not so great, as children can be cruel. I did have plastic surgery at 16 but only to reduce the scare so it’s still there. I’m not bothered about it and forget it’s there till people notice and point it out (usually a few years after I’ve met them!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not bothered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am very aware of my cs scar as its a bit lopsided but i always wear corsets when playing to cover it and don't like anyone touching my tummy...it's not stopped me having fun though.If it bothers anyone they can always find someone else. I'm a bit like Morrisons Wonky veg...still tasty no matter how it looks

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By *eriousGuyABCMan
over a year ago

( WEST OF ) Chippenham ish

No, scars of any sort are ok with me. Have a few of my own some of which are accidents some intentional from play

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By *thLincsCpleCouple
over a year ago

Barton upon Humber

I have quite a few scars, one of which is very obvious and bothered me a little, but have since got another which has gone hypertrophic and looks quite raised and angry which I am very conscious of; I have been using bio oil for the past 7 months to no avail and recently started using ‘Scar Gel’ and within 2 weeks I have seen an improvement. I like to see them on others as they tell a story and make me feel better lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was bottled when I was in my mid 20s and for about 10 years later I was paranoid that lads would think I was a scally who enjoyed a fight. OK now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scars don't bother me in the slightest on other people in fact I find them rather sexy much of the time, but strangely as soon as I got a big gnarly one myself I had it tattooed over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have scars and stretch marks, I’m not bothered about them, I’m not bothered about them on people either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, I find scars interesting,there is always a story.

I have scars, operation scars and stretchmarks. I love them.

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By *uxomBloomsWoman
over a year ago

Near Tunbridge Wells

Scars are just part of life and can also be quite sexy sometimes.

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By *thLincsCpleCouple
over a year ago

Barton upon Humber


"Scars don't bother me in the slightest on other people in fact I find them rather sexy much of the time, but strangely as soon as I got a big gnarly one myself I had it tattooed over "

Ha ha if I got all my scars covered with tattoos, I reckon there would only be my nose and toes without ink lol

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By *upremexMan
over a year ago

liverpool. huyton. near yewtree

Not at all. If you get close enough to my face" and many won't. I have a scar under my eye, I was bitten by a dog as a child and almost lost my eye. The older you get the less scars show and I have been lucky that way and scars are apart of someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My scars are only on the inside "

That's deep, man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have quite a few scars, one of which is very obvious and bothered me a little, but have since got another which has gone hypertrophic and looks quite raised and angry which I am very conscious of; I have been using bio oil for the past 7 months to no avail and recently started using ‘Scar Gel’ and within 2 weeks I have seen an improvement. I like to see them on others as they tell a story and make me feel better lol"

I was told to rub the bio oil in quite vigorously, not gently. To break down the scar tissue. Twice a day for 15 minutes. Scar is now just a faint flat white line.

I have other scars that are raised and white but no-one has ever mentioned them which I find a bit odd.

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By *thLincsCpleCouple
over a year ago

Barton upon Humber


"I have quite a few scars, one of which is very obvious and bothered me a little, but have since got another which has gone hypertrophic and looks quite raised and angry which I am very conscious of; I have been using bio oil for the past 7 months to no avail and recently started using ‘Scar Gel’ and within 2 weeks I have seen an improvement. I like to see them on others as they tell a story and make me feel better lol

I was quite rigorous with the rubbing in of the bio oil, but doesn’t seem to have done much. Scar Gel has definitely faded it within a couple of weeks; going to keep using it for the recommended 2 months and see how it goes.

I was told to rub the bio oil in quite vigorously, not gently. To break down the scar tissue. Twice a day for 15 minutes. Scar is now just a faint flat white line.

I have other scars that are raised and white but no-one has ever mentioned them which I find a bit odd. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No iv loads

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