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"Do scars bother you? They never really bother me but i know some people get self concious about them if they have them and some find them a turn off on others. I noticed when playing round with filters for the new pic black and white shows up all the dozens on little scars that i have that normally dont show in pics. The big ones obviously are always visible but the black and white shots made me realise just how many small ones there were. So scars, strechmarks and other things do they bother you on yourself and do they bother you on others?" They don't bother me and I have one or two. One particularly bad one on my arm when i got attacked with a knife. I'm hoping scars don't bother but I am self conscious about mine so thank you for this thread interested to see the responses | |||
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" My scars are the reason I’m here and proof of survival. X " Yeah some do have a story but its kind of amazing how many seem to be jist "bumped into something", "caught it on a brush" "tried to cook naked and it splashed" kinda thing I get the feeling if i was a used car i couldnt say "one careful owner" :p | |||
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"No. Out of curiosity how about facial scarring?" They don’t bother me, have a few small ones on my forehead. They bothered a photographer though, he edited them out, thinking I’d want that. Had him put them back in the image. Had them since I was 1, I’ve never known my face without them. Same as my knee scar. The scars show on some pics, but they’re always with me, so no point hiding them xx | |||
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"No. Out of curiosity how about facial scarring?" Nope, no problem. | |||
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" My scars are the reason I’m here and proof of survival. X Yeah some do have a story but its kind of amazing how many seem to be jist "bumped into something", "caught it on a brush" "tried to cook naked and it splashed" kinda thing I get the feeling if i was a used car i couldnt say "one careful owner" :p " Ha ha, yes some of mine are like that x | |||
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" My scars are the reason I’m here and proof of survival. X Yeah some do have a story but its kind of amazing how many seem to be jist "bumped into something", "caught it on a brush" "tried to cook naked and it splashed" kinda thing I get the feeling if i was a used car i couldnt say "one careful owner" :p Ha ha, yes some of mine are like that x " Im starting to get a collection on my shoulder blades which are summed up as "keeps forgetting they added a new lowhanging bracket" i swear about 4 of my work shirts have holes there now where my normal crouch walk catches it | |||
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"Not at all. I have a few of my own on my back. " I've a large one on my back from spinal surgery and another on my neck from same | |||
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"For those woth scars how do ypu feel abput orhers touching, stroking and kissing rhem during sex? I think people naturally seek out "landmarks" on a lersons body and i notice the scars get a lot of attention during foreplay or afterglow closeness" Was very self conscious after key hole surgery last year, but Mr reassured me and now I’m not as self conscious xx | |||
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"For those woth scars how do ypu feel abput orhers touching, stroking and kissing rhem during sex? I think people naturally seek out "landmarks" on a lersons body and i notice the scars get a lot of attention during foreplay or afterglow closeness" Depends. My ex had a scar on his forehead. He couldn’t bear it to be touched. | |||
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"For those woth scars how do ypu feel abput orhers touching, stroking and kissing rhem during sex? I think people naturally seek out "landmarks" on a lersons body and i notice the scars get a lot of attention during foreplay or afterglow closeness Depends. My ex had a scar on his forehead. He couldn’t bear it to be touched. " Was he Harry Potter? Xxx | |||
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"For those woth scars how do ypu feel abput orhers touching, stroking and kissing rhem during sex? I think people naturally seek out "landmarks" on a lersons body and i notice the scars get a lot of attention during foreplay or afterglow closeness Depends. My ex had a scar on his forehead. He couldn’t bear it to be touched. " I've a biggie on my chest which I can't bear to be touched as it's super sensitive. Makes me heave to touch it myself | |||
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"For those woth scars how do ypu feel abput orhers touching, stroking and kissing rhem during sex? I think people naturally seek out "landmarks" on a lersons body and i notice the scars get a lot of attention during foreplay or afterglow closeness Depends. My ex had a scar on his forehead. He couldn’t bear it to be touched. Was he Harry Potter? Xxx" I’ve never seen Harry Potter. But nah he’d be too old | |||
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"For those woth scars how do ypu feel abput orhers touching, stroking and kissing rhem during sex? I think people naturally seek out "landmarks" on a lersons body and i notice the scars get a lot of attention during foreplay or afterglow closeness" I don’t think I’d like it. Drawing attention to it would make me feel uncomfortable and part of it is more sensitive than the rest so I wouldn’t want it to be touched or stroked either | |||
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"I hate my scars as they remind me of the shitty times I've had in my life. I've tried bio oil but they didn't fade. I don't like them being highlighted, I feel embarrassed about them. " I found Bio Oil didn’t work. I often get asked how I got mine and I hate talking about them but I feel like I have to justify them. | |||
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"I bet most wouldn’t be so phlegmatic over syphillis scars! " Slightly different to accidents or surgery! | |||
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"Doesn't bother in the slightest, just like wrinkles don't bother. Sign of living and experiencing life in my book " Yeah well said | |||
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"No they don’t bother me, I’m interested in how some people get them. My scars are the reason I’m here and proof of survival. X " Get this.. Scars are like the map which charts the road we ve travelled.. Nearly got mine hidden but then thought no this is me and this shows my survival | |||
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"my man says we all got lifes scars STRETCHMARKS are gods gift of wonderfull child birth happy marks .tummy scars normal from life assisting ops .caulie ears or broken nose sport .and if from fire ect you still here on fab .so live the fab life " So true | |||
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"If you have no scars, visible or not, then you haven't really lived." Why the need to put others down? Thats just like the "a real woman has curves only dogs like bones" kinda statement | |||
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"If you have no scars, visible or not, then you haven't really lived." Thanks. | |||
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"If you have no scars, visible or not, then you haven't really lived." Oh well, I haven't really lived then | |||
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"If you have no scars, visible or not, then you haven't really lived. Oh well, I haven't really lived then " Dont worry i'll fetch my cane and the antiseptic cream Go get your pants off | |||
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"If you have no scars, visible or not, then you haven't really lived. Thanks. " Have you never burnt your arm on a cooker shelf? | |||
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"I don't take much notice of scars. If there was a big one that looked like it was from an operation I might be nosy and ask what the OP was. One of my old regular partners has scars from bowel surgery and was worried the first time he undressed in front of me, covering them with his hands. So, I moved his hands and kissed them, before I sucked his cock." Somone once asked me if my chest scar was from surgery i couldnt help but laughing thinking what the hell kind of operation that would have been and how bad the surgeon would have had to be | |||
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"If you have no scars, visible or not, then you haven't really lived. Oh well, I haven't really lived then Dont worry i'll fetch my cane and the antiseptic cream Go get your pants off " Done | |||
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"If you have no scars, visible or not, then you haven't really lived. Thanks. Have you never burnt your arm on a cooker shelf?" Yep. I've no visible scars though | |||
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"If you have no scars, visible or not, then you haven't really lived. Thanks. Have you never burnt your arm on a cooker shelf? Yep. I've no visible scars though " And to be honest that just says I'm a clumsy fuck. Not exactly a sign of really living! | |||
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"I have few scars, one of which is on my neck. Fairly often people will ask how it happened, it doesn’t bother me one bit " I must say as somone on my hotlist ive never noticed a scar on you! Admitedly my focus may no y have been on your neck though | |||
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"I have few scars, one of which is on my neck. Fairly often people will ask how it happened, it doesn’t bother me one bit I must say as somone on my hotlist ive never noticed a scar on you! Admitedly my focus may no y have been on your neck though" it’s not actually in any of my pics | |||
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"I have few scars, one of which is on my neck. Fairly often people will ask how it happened, it doesn’t bother me one bit I must say as somone on my hotlist ive never noticed a scar on you! Admitedly my focus may no y have been on your neck though it’s not actually in any of my pics " Well you absolutley dont have any scars on your bum, im sure about that | |||
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"I have few scars, one of which is on my neck. Fairly often people will ask how it happened, it doesn’t bother me one bit I must say as somone on my hotlist ive never noticed a scar on you! Admitedly my focus may no y have been on your neck though it’s not actually in any of my pics Well you absolutley dont have any scars on your bum, im sure about that " You’re correct | |||
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"I have few scars, one of which is on my neck. Fairly often people will ask how it happened, it doesn’t bother me one bit I must say as somone on my hotlist ive never noticed a scar on you! Admitedly my focus may no y have been on your neck though it’s not actually in any of my pics Well you absolutley dont have any scars on your bum, im sure about that You’re correct " Although it is better to be safe than sorry. I really should check in person :p | |||
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"I have few scars, one of which is on my neck. Fairly often people will ask how it happened, it doesn’t bother me one bit I must say as somone on my hotlist ive never noticed a scar on you! Admitedly my focus may no y have been on your neck though it’s not actually in any of my pics Well you absolutley dont have any scars on your bum, im sure about that You’re correct Although it is better to be safe than sorry. I really should check in person :p " Cheeky | |||
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"Do scars bother you? They never really bother me but i know some people get self concious about them if they have them and some find them a turn off on others. I noticed when playing round with filters for the new pic black and white shows up all the dozens on little scars that i have that normally dont show in pics. The big ones obviously are always visible but the black and white shots made me realise just how many small ones there were. So scars, strechmarks and other things do they bother you on yourself and do they bother you on others?" I have one on my face. As a child, not so great, as children can be cruel. I did have plastic surgery at 16 but only to reduce the scare so it’s still there. I’m not bothered about it and forget it’s there till people notice and point it out (usually a few years after I’ve met them!) | |||
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"Scars don't bother me in the slightest on other people in fact I find them rather sexy much of the time, but strangely as soon as I got a big gnarly one myself I had it tattooed over " Ha ha if I got all my scars covered with tattoos, I reckon there would only be my nose and toes without ink lol | |||
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"I have quite a few scars, one of which is very obvious and bothered me a little, but have since got another which has gone hypertrophic and looks quite raised and angry which I am very conscious of; I have been using bio oil for the past 7 months to no avail and recently started using ‘Scar Gel’ and within 2 weeks I have seen an improvement. I like to see them on others as they tell a story and make me feel better lol" I was told to rub the bio oil in quite vigorously, not gently. To break down the scar tissue. Twice a day for 15 minutes. Scar is now just a faint flat white line. I have other scars that are raised and white but no-one has ever mentioned them which I find a bit odd. | |||
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"I have quite a few scars, one of which is very obvious and bothered me a little, but have since got another which has gone hypertrophic and looks quite raised and angry which I am very conscious of; I have been using bio oil for the past 7 months to no avail and recently started using ‘Scar Gel’ and within 2 weeks I have seen an improvement. I like to see them on others as they tell a story and make me feel better lol I was quite rigorous with the rubbing in of the bio oil, but doesn’t seem to have done much. Scar Gel has definitely faded it within a couple of weeks; going to keep using it for the recommended 2 months and see how it goes. I was told to rub the bio oil in quite vigorously, not gently. To break down the scar tissue. Twice a day for 15 minutes. Scar is now just a faint flat white line. I have other scars that are raised and white but no-one has ever mentioned them which I find a bit odd. " | |||
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