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By *onnyb87 OP   Man
over a year ago

conwy

What's the best way to ask a partner if they would like to swing without them ending the relationship?asking for a friend

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Have an open and honest discussion with them in which you explain why you think it might be fun and a good idea for your relationship whilst all the time being prepared to accept, and respect, that they might say no - it really is that simple.

Some people bring it up as fantasy talk as a first step to gauge interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try the Mojo Upgrade site. You each answer questions about fantasies but the site only gives results where you both say yes to the same thing.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I would suggest that if you feel a partner might end a relationship over a request to try something sexual it's probably best not to suggest it.

work on getting to know the person better first and ensuring your relationship is secure enough for you both to be honest about things you'd like to try and secure enough to withstand refusals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would suggest that if you feel a partner might end a relationship over a request to try something sexual it's probably best not to suggest it.

work on getting to know the person better first and ensuring your relationship is secure enough for you both to be honest about things you'd like to try and secure enough to withstand refusals "

I'm never sure the best way to do this. It feels like chicken and egg.

If you mention it soon into the relationship it's easier to part if you're not compatible.

If you mention it later you're already 'in love' and it's harder to split when you realise one needs sex 4 times a day and the other only 4 times a year.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I would suggest that if you feel a partner might end a relationship over a request to try something sexual it's probably best not to suggest it.

work on getting to know the person better first and ensuring your relationship is secure enough for you both to be honest about things you'd like to try and secure enough to withstand refusals

I'm never sure the best way to do this. It feels like chicken and egg.

If you mention it soon into the relationship it's easier to part if you're not compatible.

If you mention it later you're already 'in love' and it's harder to split when you realise one needs sex 4 times a day and the other only 4 times a year."

I'm assuming probably wrongly, that this is an established relationship. I should know better

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