FabSwingers.com forum: Newbies and not sure or just looking

By *lder A Wiser Passion OP Woman
over a year ago

morecambe

Ok Newbies not sure or just looking?

Now this is some thing to to think about for those who message

This is why before you message some one you have to do your home work and read thier pfile in full frist

Work out from thier pfile how you should message them

Now Ive come cross many on here who dont read pfiles in full just the bottom bit

You only 15 secounds to win someone if you dont in that time afte that is hrad work can be done but half the time you lost the morment

Now if your to full on right away some will be put off by it and if thier new

Rember folk talk and there awful lot out there in the main stream who dont lkie what we doing

Rember folk talk about bad experiences and that is what the press pick on

Now the main stream press dont lkie what we doing

Which why folk must do thier home work

Now a good lot of folk do read pfiles in full message folk in the right way now cos of toss pot on here have hrad time of it cos of those who message folk in wrong way cos they havnt dotn there home work

Now to some of the newbies men i met in my time from here most have listen to my adive and gone on to find meets and have come back to me and said thank you for your adive

These are the things i say to them never asume anything go along with the flow make freinds frist

Rember all are at diffent levels of this do you home work in full be fore your message folk

Then I finaly I tell them this it all not going to happen over night it take time to find what your looking for and you have to find your feet

Then I tell them not to belive all what you red in papers

By *eeroybrownMan
over a year ago

aldershot

Clearly there are people that message despite being in the profile owners "f-off, not interested" list and personally, I've never seen the point.

We all have our likes and dislikes so why bother being a dick and ignoring those likes/dislikes as it's not going to get you anywhere...

Just move on and approach somebody who's profile you fit in with - and take it like an adult if you get ignored or a "no thanks"

Just my opinion