FabSwingers.com forum: Running it up the flagpole

By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

And seeing which way the wind is blowing.

I'm in my last year on Fab (probably). I am thinking of going out with a big bang by having a club based social/party. You never know, it might be the first one I organise where I actually get some sex too.

I am thinking of themes and wondered how people would feel about a burlesque theme. Fab folk as the acts?

The club would probably be Jaydees, because they were so fantastic helping with my birthday party.

I know lots of other forum socials happen now so I need to work out the optimal date for this shindig.

All thoughts welcome. If there's no interest I'll just slink off at the end of my year.

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over a year ago

"And seeing which way the wind is blowing.

I am thinking of themes and wondered how people would feel about a burlesque theme. Fab folk as the acts?

The club would probably be Jaydees, because they were so fantastic helping with my birthday party.

I know lots of other forum socials happen now so I need to work out the optimal date for this shindig.

All thoughts welcome. If there's no interest I'll just slink off at the end of my year.

What do the men get to wear if the theme is burlesque? (last year!)

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Sex you say? Can we practise first?

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"And seeing which way the wind is blowing.

I am thinking of themes and wondered how people would feel about a burlesque theme. Fab folk as the acts?

The club would probably be Jaydees, because they were so fantastic helping with my birthday party.

I know lots of other forum socials happen now so I need to work out the optimal date for this shindig.

All thoughts welcome. If there's no interest I'll just slink off at the end of my year.

What do the men get to wear if the theme is burlesque? (last year!)"

Men can do burlesque too. I'm an equity, diversity and inclusion champion.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Sex you say? Can we practise first?"

They say it makes perfect.

I'll be driving past you on Friday. You only need about two minutes, don't you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And seeing which way the wind is blowing.

I am thinking of themes and wondered how people would feel about a burlesque theme. Fab folk as the acts?

The club would probably be Jaydees, because they were so fantastic helping with my birthday party.

I know lots of other forum socials happen now so I need to work out the optimal date for this shindig.

All thoughts welcome. If there's no interest I'll just slink off at the end of my year.

What do the men get to wear if the theme is burlesque? (last year!)

Men can do burlesque too. I'm an equity, diversity and inclusion champion.

I can't pull Cixi out on demand.. She's more like The Hulk!

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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago

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"And seeing which way the wind is blowing.

I am thinking of themes and wondered how people would feel about a burlesque theme. Fab folk as the acts?

The club would probably be Jaydees, because they were so fantastic helping with my birthday party.

I know lots of other forum socials happen now so I need to work out the optimal date for this shindig.

All thoughts welcome. If there's no interest I'll just slink off at the end of my year.

Need help putting on your shoes lickety

SSS x

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"And seeing which way the wind is blowing.

I am thinking of themes and wondered how people would feel about a burlesque theme. Fab folk as the acts?

The club would probably be Jaydees, because they were so fantastic helping with my birthday party.

I know lots of other forum socials happen now so I need to work out the optimal date for this shindig.

All thoughts welcome. If there's no interest I'll just slink off at the end of my year.

What do the men get to wear if the theme is burlesque? (last year!)

Men can do burlesque too. I'm an equity, diversity and inclusion champion.

I can't pull Cixi out on demand.. She's more like The Hulk!"

There's plenty of prep time. My guess is the date will be something like September or November, depending when the other socials are scheduled.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

"I know lots of other forum socials happen now so I need to work out the optimal date for this shindig"

Swingy, One of the mods posted about this, Something about having a link or page where you can see all the forum/chatroom social so they don't clash,

It didn't get as much attention as it should of

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"And seeing which way the wind is blowing.

I am thinking of themes and wondered how people would feel about a burlesque theme. Fab folk as the acts?

The club would probably be Jaydees, because they were so fantastic helping with my birthday party.

I know lots of other forum socials happen now so I need to work out the optimal date for this shindig.

All thoughts welcome. If there's no interest I'll just slink off at the end of my year.

Need help putting on your shoes lickety

SSS x"

It is essential you are there, on bended-knee, tending to my footwear. I'd love to see you again, and meet your partner.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Sex you say? Can we practise first?

They say it makes perfect.

I'll be driving past you on Friday. You only need about two minutes, don't you?

If that!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Oh.... Why is it your last year

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

""I know lots of other forum socials happen now so I need to work out the optimal date for this shindig"

Swingy, One of the mods posted about this, Something about having a link or page where you can see all the forum/chatroom social so they don't clash,

It didn't get as much attention as it should of "

I won't be able to avoid all the parties. Lots of folk won't want to come (most don't know me anymore, although some might come to see the back of me). Others will be put off by distance and costs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was disappointed not to make your 50th, so hopefully I can make this one

burlesque sounds like a fun idea!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can definitely pull off burlesque.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Oh.... Why is it your last year

I marked 9 years since losing my 'virginity' again last month (at the STP) and I will have been on Fab for 9 years come September. Lickety is 7 years old this week. It's all diminishing returns now. Each year I have fewer and fewer meets and more people see me as their spinster aunt than as a sexually appealing woman.

I think a decade is a good enough stab at this and my birthday party was fantastic (even though I was practically the only person who didn't have sex).

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I was disappointed not to make your 50th, so hopefully I can make this one

burlesque sounds like a fun idea!"

I can see you with nipple tassels.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I can definitely pull off burlesque. "

You really can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was disappointed not to make your 50th, so hopefully I can make this one

burlesque sounds like a fun idea!

I can see you with nipple tassels.

I’ll get practicing my nipple tassel twirling!

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I was disappointed not to make your 50th, so hopefully I can make this one

burlesque sounds like a fun idea!

I can see you with nipple tassels.

I’ll get practicing my nipple tassel twirling!"

I understand it's a gentle bounce up and down, rather than trying to gyrate, to get them to twirl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was disappointed not to make your 50th, so hopefully I can make this one

burlesque sounds like a fun idea!

I can see you with nipple tassels.

I’ll get practicing my nipple tassel twirling!

I understand it's a gentle bounce up and down, rather than trying to gyrate, to get them to twirl.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Last year is a bit crap.

The last time I went to Jaydees was actually for your party (in one of my reincarnations) I think. I remember a gazebo. And being outside on one of the benches. Vaguelyish.

Yep, I can do it! Not sure I can pull off burlesque though. And that's not a self deprecating, faux modest thing.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

But, but.. I don't want you to go

Who else can nuzzle into my cleavage quite the way you do

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Last year is a bit crap.

The last time I went to Jaydees was actually for your party (in one of my reincarnations) I think. I remember a gazebo. And being outside on one of the benches. Vaguelyish.

Yep, I can do it! Not sure I can pull off burlesque though. And that's not a self deprecating, faux modest thing.

There was barbecue in the afternoon and evening, a live band, DJ and dancing and bubbly. I haven't been back since my party.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of the hottest performers I’ve seen have been boylesquers, my fav was a gladiator, but also a monk and a naval officer x Haha, always made sure we had Male performers at our shows- so guys, you can do this

no excuse xx

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

" But, but.. I don't want you to go

Who else can nuzzle into my cleavage quite the way you do

That PeachFuzz pair!

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Some of the hottest performers I’ve seen have been boylesquers, my fav was a gladiator, but also a monk and a naval officer x Haha, always made sure we had Male performers at our shows- so guys, you can do this

no excuse xx"

It would give me no end of a treat and a send-off too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't go wrong with a pirate theme. Everybody loves pirates.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"You can't go wrong with a pirate theme. Everybody loves pirates."

Ooh! If it's September then we could look at having close to Talk Like A Pirate Day.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"And seeing which way the wind is blowing.

I am thinking of themes and wondered how people would feel about a burlesque theme. Fab folk as the acts?

The club would probably be Jaydees, because they were so fantastic helping with my birthday party.

I know lots of other forum socials happen now so I need to work out the optimal date for this shindig.

All thoughts welcome. If there's no interest I'll just slink off at the end of my year.

My face just did this

Still one of my favourite Fab days out, and someone I have so much respect for.

The forums won't be the same without you.

The theme sounds splendid. I shall forsake my trademark dress code and come suitably booted and suited for such a wonderful celebration.

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By *heBirminghamWeekendMan
over a year ago

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Last year is a bit crap.

The last time I went to Jaydees was actually for your party (in one of my reincarnations) I think. I remember a gazebo. And being outside on one of the benches. Vaguelyish.

Yep, I can do it! Not sure I can pull off burlesque though. And that's not a self deprecating, faux modest thing.

There was barbecue in the afternoon and evening, a live band, DJ and dancing and bubbly. I haven't been back since my party.

It was a great day ..but I don’t remember the live band ???

Jaydees again for a shingdig would be great ... I would make the trip for sure

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"And seeing which way the wind is blowing.

I am thinking of themes and wondered how people would feel about a burlesque theme. Fab folk as the acts?

The club would probably be Jaydees, because they were so fantastic helping with my birthday party.

I know lots of other forum socials happen now so I need to work out the optimal date for this shindig.

All thoughts welcome. If there's no interest I'll just slink off at the end of my year.

My face just did this

Still one of my favourite Fab days out, and someone I have so much respect for.

The forums won't be the same without you.

The theme sounds splendid. I shall forsake my trademark dress code and come suitably booted and suited for such a wonderful celebration.

We've got 11 months before I press delete. Or not. There is a (probably) in the opener.

Minds can change. My sex life might suddenly take off and I'll be too busy to type in my password and press the delete button.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Last year is a bit crap.

The last time I went to Jaydees was actually for your party (in one of my reincarnations) I think. I remember a gazebo. And being outside on one of the benches. Vaguelyish.

Yep, I can do it! Not sure I can pull off burlesque though. And that's not a self deprecating, faux modest thing.

There was barbecue in the afternoon and evening, a live band, DJ and dancing and bubbly. I haven't been back since my party.

It was a great day ..but I don’t remember the live band ???

Jaydees again for a shingdig would be great ... I would make the trip for sure "

50s band in the tent bit. It was my favourite thing about the whole party.

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By *heBirminghamWeekendMan
over a year ago

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Last year is a bit crap.

The last time I went to Jaydees was actually for your party (in one of my reincarnations) I think. I remember a gazebo. And being outside on one of the benches. Vaguelyish.

Yep, I can do it! Not sure I can pull off burlesque though. And that's not a self deprecating, faux modest thing.

There was barbecue in the afternoon and evening, a live band, DJ and dancing and bubbly. I haven't been back since my party.

It was a great day ..but I don’t remember the live band ???

Jaydees again for a shingdig would be great ... I would make the trip for sure

50s band in the tent bit. It was my favourite thing about the whole party.

During the bbq in the afternoon?

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

It was a great day ..but I don’t remember the live band ???

Jaydees again for a shingdig would be great ... I would make the trip for sure

50s band in the tent bit. It was my favourite thing about the whole party.

During the bbq in the afternoon?"

No, in the evening when we were all so beautifully dressed up. DJ in the main bit and live band in the tent bit.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

" But, but.. I don't want you to go

Who else can nuzzle into my cleavage quite the way you do

That PeachFuzz pair!

Well I know I can always count on them for a cheeky nuzzle

Damn lady! If you're determined to go, then it's only fitting we see you off with one hell off a night, a blaze of glory.

I will gladly done one of my burlesque outfits and shake my sassy ass round the joint with you xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tina was a great 'act' but that was the year before your birthday bash.

If I could, I'd arrange a bi MMF for you. With popping candy. You're a star.

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By *heBirminghamWeekendMan
over a year ago

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So is there a big bash being organised ?

Remember the Rugby World Cup runs from 20 September to 2 November - so if you can try to arrange it before or after please

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By *eplicant JoWoman
over a year ago

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I love burlesque

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

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"Oh.... Why is it your last year

I think a decade is a good enough stab at this and my birthday party was fantastic (even though I was practically the only person who didn't have sex).

Well I will do my best to be there x

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Tina was a great 'act' but that was the year before your birthday bash.

If I could, I'd arrange a bi MMF for you. With popping candy. You're a star.

That was Hotty's and Luke's joint birthday masqued ball. That was a great evening.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I’d definitely make the effort to join you all! Sounds like my kinda party.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"So is there a big bash being organised ?

Remember the Rugby World Cup runs from 20 September to 2 November - so if you can try to arrange it before or after please

Thank you! That's really useful information. Is there a time difference for the screening of the matches? If not then it might work, like that Birmingham Weekend, with people watching before clubbing.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Oh.... Why is it your last year

I think a decade is a good enough stab at this and my birthday party was fantastic (even though I was practically the only person who didn't have sex).

Well I will do my best to be there x "

You are always welcome.

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By *heBirminghamWeekendMan
over a year ago

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"So is there a big bash being organised ?

Remember the Rugby World Cup runs from 20 September to 2 November - so if you can try to arrange it before or after please

Japan is +9 hours - so most of the pool matches appear to kick off in the time window of 5.45am - 11.15am

Certainly shouldn’t interfere with any afternoon/evening clubbing

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"So is there a big bash being organised ?

Remember the Rugby World Cup runs from 20 September to 2 November - so if you can try to arrange it before or after please

Japan is +9 hours - so most of the pool matches appear to kick off in the time window of 5.45am - 11.15am

Certainly shouldn’t interfere with any afternoon/evening clubbing

I won't get people to travel down with those times. It was fun everyone watching the match together, turning into butterflies and dancing at Xstasia.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Bumping for ideas and suggestions for dates.

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By *heBirminghamWeekendMan
over a year ago

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"Bumping for ideas and suggestions for dates.

Bump...

Do you have a preferred date?

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