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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There's the stereotype of the creepy guys on here, lurking around sending "wanna fuck" messages or proclaiming you to be the best looking girl on the site.

But do guys get the same from women? Are there women out there who do similar things?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"There's the stereotype of the creepy guys on here, lurking around sending "wanna fuck" messages or proclaiming you to be the best looking girl on the site.

But do guys get the same from women? Are there women out there who do similar things? "

I do it all the time. 98 per cent success rate so far ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, around 26-36 London area, messaging at 2am

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"There's the stereotype of the creepy guys on here, lurking around sending "wanna fuck" messages or proclaiming you to be the best looking girl on the site.

But do guys get the same from women? Are there women out there who do similar things? "

They wish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Errrrrmmmm no

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Ah fuck is that creepy? I thought I was being friendly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really, I’ve had one that was a bit weird, but not creepy. But generally messages from single women are always rather lovely and never crude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah fuck is that creepy? I thought I was being friendly."

Corrrr look at those Betties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not really, I’ve had one that was a bit weird, but not creepy. But generally messages from single women are always rather lovely and never crude. "

I apologised for that

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I often wonder, how many messages do you send before you give up?

I have someone that comes to my area quite frequently and every time he messages me despite the fact I have never replied, so how long do you keep trying to engage?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often wonder, how many messages do you send before you give up?

I have someone that comes to my area quite frequently and every time he messages me despite the fact I have never replied, so how long do you keep trying to engage? "

Until you block him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your not "verified" are you considered creepy?

"You need to be verified" well how the fuck do I get verified if no one wants to meet if your not verified

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I often wonder, how many messages do you send before you give up?

I have someone that comes to my area quite frequently and every time he messages me despite the fact I have never replied, so how long do you keep trying to engage?

Until you block him. "

I know what you are saying, but my block list only incorporates people who have been abusive, I'm currently in the zone of just ignoring 99% of my messages just now so it doesn't bother me, I was just pondering how long do you continue to pursue, that was all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened a couple times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah...might make life more interesting if they did..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I might do it and see how it goes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I might start sending out Nice dick messages.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"If your not "verified" are you considered creepy?

"You need to be verified" well how the fuck do I get verified if no one wants to meet if your not verified "

No. That's not what this is about.

Find someone who'll meet unverified people, go on cam, go to a social or a club.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Send a few over and I’ll let you know

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"There's the stereotype of the creepy guys on here, lurking around sending "wanna fuck" messages or proclaiming you to be the best looking girl on the site.

But do guys get the same from women? Are there women out there who do similar things? "

we can only wish

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I might start sending out Nice dick messages."

I send those to friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often wonder, how many messages do you send before you give up?

I have someone that comes to my area quite frequently and every time he messages me despite the fact I have never replied, so how long do you keep trying to engage? "

I get an almost daily message from the same person, being going on for at least a year...

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

We've had a few couples doing this no idea which half for sure or if it's both... Usually at 1am when Wade is working and in certain parts of the North of England

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I might start sending out Nice dick messages."

I wonder what the response would be. I might too

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By *ddit...Man
over a year ago

Land of the giants... ;-)


"There's the stereotype of the creepy guys on here, lurking around sending "wanna fuck" messages or proclaiming you to be the best looking girl on the site.

But do guys get the same from women? Are there women out there who do similar things? "

No... I don't get messages often... I do from old friends.. but not from new friends xx

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By *ream3.14159Man
over a year ago

Here & there


"I might do it and see how it goes. "

Stop it now you're creeping me out, it ain't funny anymore

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By *ream3.14159Man
over a year ago

Here & there


"I might start sending out Nice dick messages.

I wonder what the response would be. I might too "

You too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's the stereotype of the creepy guys on here, lurking around sending "wanna fuck" messages or proclaiming you to be the best looking girl on the site.

But do guys get the same from women? Are there women out there who do similar things? "

The majority of first messages i get from women are

"Hi"

"X"

"Xxx"

""

Not sure if it counts as creepy or just lazy at least the dudes bothered to use words lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be lucky to get a message.

When I first joined it wasn't too bad to be fair... But recently it is absolutely dire. The area I'm in literally is full self obsessed needy vile things that want to call themselves human beings and then they plaster status's talking about "how good things are".

Then you have the people that talk to you one minute then cast you off the next.

It is just a shallow site with shallow minded people.

But I think I am being all emo tonight and know its not always like this.

Waiting for someone to actually send something nice to me. I'd even take filters off if I wasn't so scared of guys asking to pump me to timbucktwo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send first messages if I like the look of someone, hopefully they're not creepy....

*hides pan with bunny inside...*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's the stereotype of the creepy guys on here, lurking around sending "wanna fuck" messages or proclaiming you to be the best looking girl on the site.

But do guys get the same from women? Are there women out there who do similar things?

I do it all the time. 98 per cent success rate so far ....

"

Feel free to creepy message me. My inbox needs the love.

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By *sprey6Man
over a year ago

Here!


"I often wonder, how many messages do you send before you give up?

I have someone that comes to my area quite frequently and every time he messages me despite the fact I have never replied, so how long do you keep trying to engage? "

I know how much mail ladies and couples get so I normally take the hint when 2 messages have been read but no reply x

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By *eeroybrownMan
over a year ago

aldershot

Hah, most of us wish

(actually, despite popular belief I'd bet there are lots of us that would give a big "no thanks" )

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Hah, most of us wish

(actually, despite popular belief I'd bet there are lots of us that would give a big "no thanks" ) "

Ha. The really, truly creepy stuff... can occasionally be the stuff of nightmares. Or at least gagging because

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