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By *ral Extraordinaire OP   Man
over a year ago

Kent

On fabs people will use discreet username that doesnt reveal who they are .

Then your given there kik ....where their full name reveals who they are . Human nature kicks in and you search it on fbook .Is it wrong ..hmmm not sure ?

If your looking to 'play' with someone ,you have a cheeky check to see if they look like the pics on fabs as nothing worse than turning up to a person whos 10st heavier than photos..which has happened a few times to me !!!

On the postive note iv messaged the lady and told her to change her kik coz you are easy to trace and it reveals to much . Which she was very grateful considering her family situation !

What mistakes do you know people make ?

Have you found someone via them revealing to much which has lead to a few shocks..eg... knows your family ect ect ?

Do you go all out to trace more info before meeting ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. My kik name isn’t my real name either. My real name doesn’t even get given on a social unless I’m likely to meet them again either. 2 men and one woman know my name on here. Nobody knows where I live and never will. One person knows what I do for a living. This place is full of nutters!!!! Tell nobody nothing. Believe me I did once. Never again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did and gave my real name out for them to find me on face book and where I work.

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By *r FirecrackerMan
over a year ago

London


"No. My kik name isn’t my real name either. My real name doesn’t even get given on a social unless I’m likely to meet them again either. 2 men and one woman know my name on here. Nobody knows where I live and never will. One person knows what I do for a living. This place is full of nutters!!!! Tell nobody nothing. Believe me I did once. Never again!"

Exactly this. I had to move houses! No joke, horrific experience. My personal details are very confidential, if people can’t handle that then it’s fine by me.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

My Kik is a variation of my username. I'm not easy to track.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. My kik name isn’t my real name either. My real name doesn’t even get given on a social unless I’m likely to meet them again either. 2 men and one woman know my name on here. Nobody knows where I live and never will. One person knows what I do for a living. This place is full of nutters!!!! Tell nobody nothing. Believe me I did once. Never again!

Exactly this. I had to move houses! No joke, horrific experience. My personal details are very confidential, if people can’t handle that then it’s fine by me. "

Damn right. It’s not a nice experience. I’ll reveal nothing about myself on here.

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By *r FirecrackerMan
over a year ago

London


"No. My kik name isn’t my real name either. My real name doesn’t even get given on a social unless I’m likely to meet them again either. 2 men and one woman know my name on here. Nobody knows where I live and never will. One person knows what I do for a living. This place is full of nutters!!!! Tell nobody nothing. Believe me I did once. Never again!

Exactly this. I had to move houses! No joke, horrific experience. My personal details are very confidential, if people can’t handle that then it’s fine by me.

Damn right. It’s not a nice experience. I’ll reveal nothing about myself on here. "

Incognito till I die

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like late night spontaneous meetings.....

So I’m more action , less talk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once revealed that I'm a playboy millionaire genius philanthropist, but Stark Industries has plenty of security to keep the inquisitive at bay

In all seriousness, what I reveal to trusted friends is far more than I probably should. But I do trust them not to reveal my identity, occupation, or even actual location.

My casual contact security is watertight though after an unfortunate incident with a bipolar lady who had other issues as well.

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP   Man
over a year ago

Kent


"I like late night spontaneous meetings.....

So I’m more action , less talk "

Deffo my favs now . When the horny mood takes and no big build up to be let down ! .....but do they reveal to many details when arranging meeting ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I follow an approach of being really open about my pictures and my kinks... (currently low profile)

I don't give out really revealing personal details but....

I'm 30 from rochdale, I've got pictures, I talk about myself and hobbies....

I've been in this online game a long time and it's best to never admit things you wouldn't admit publicly.

As far as work is concerned if you have a respectable adult profile it's your own business. people who are spying on you via joining this websight are basicly peeping toms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like late night spontaneous meetings.....

So I’m more action , less talk

Deffo my favs now . When the horny mood takes and no big build up to be let down ! .....but do they reveal to many details when arranging meeting ??"

No way , I don’t have time to investigate... I’m usually showering and shaving my balls...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No iv no intrrest at all and my kik reveals only what i wish it to

As i named it after my penis

Blake the snake

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP   Man
over a year ago

Kent


"I like late night spontaneous meetings.....

So I’m more action , less talk

Deffo my favs now . When the horny mood takes and no big build up to be let down ! .....but do they reveal to many details when arranging meeting ??

No way , I don’t have time to investigate... I’m usually showering and shaving my balls..."

Haha i get that ! ...so location given to meet on a fabs dm , no more questions asked !! My type of meets aswel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of people know my real name and where I live and I'm more than happy with that. These are people I know very well and have met in other locations several times first. Having lived with a complete loon for several years without realising it, I accept that there are oddballs in every place but I'm not going to let that dictate how future friendships develop.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

Nobody on here knows my full name or where I live. Only people that do are club owners who take I.D. and it would easily traced back to them and they would be in trouble if there was a breach.

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By *cousesubsallyWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere out there

A couple of people know my real first name (surprise, it’s not Sally!) it is on my kik but not my surname - that’s about all anyone apart from one or two know and that’s the way it’ll stay x I value my privacy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On our couples profile we were chatting to someone who had been recognised by their sofa.. guess you need to be careful where you take your pics!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I trust very few people with my personal information, and over the years I’ve become more guarded.

I’m still friends wit those I’ve shared with and I don’t think anyone new (in the last 2 years or so ) knows much about me.

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP   Man
over a year ago

Kent

[Removed by poster at 05/03/19 22:12:28]

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I swapped numbers with some one who then popped up on my FB page... killed it before it started because the profile pic was of happy couple and it potentially brought his personal life into mine ... an absolute NO! if guys chose to play away from home keep your personal life separate!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On fabs people will use discreet username that doesnt reveal who they are .

Then your given there kik ....where their full name reveals who they are . Human nature kicks in and you search it on fbook .Is it wrong ..hmmm not sure ?

If your looking to 'play' with someone ,you have a cheeky check to see if they look like the pics on fabs as nothing worse than turning up to a person whos 10st heavier than photos..which has happened a few times to me !!!

On the postive note iv messaged the lady and told her to change her kik coz you are easy to trace and it reveals to much . Which she was very grateful considering her family situation !

What mistakes do you know people make ?

Have you found someone via them revealing to much which has lead to a few shocks..eg... knows your family ect ect ?

Do you go all out to trace more info before meeting ??"

Don’t use our real names on here or kik

Mrscxxx

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP   Man
over a year ago

Kent

Someone once gave me an email address . Hmmm i wont tell you the rest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd probably have a peek but that's about it, I dont care about peoples personal lives and its rude/innapropriate to shove myself into it without being asked.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

My ex & new partner posted their face pic as profile pic by on a face pic Friday - I already knew it was them but it made me chuckle

I’m hoping we’re not identifiable but you never know!!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I have been able to 'trace' or 'find' people from what they say here.

Not that I go to lengths to meet them or stalk them but in bored moments ive thought ......... click , click , click ...... and there they are.

A lot of it from pics in the background.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Someone once gave me an email address . Hmmm i wont tell you the rest "

No need I can sense it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people are mugs. Those that reply to “what was No1 when you were born” type threads for example.

I’m a mug for joining FPF. Now about 7 of the women on Fab have my face, schoolboy error.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve shared pics that have been linked back to my Insta page, but the people who’ve followed and messaged me have been polite or friends on here anyway. No one can find my personal account linked to my family life and real name, as I don’t have anything traceable to it. Viv xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really have much of an internet presence, so I don't really care.

Besides - a single guy who likes shagging isn't much of a story to get excited about.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

lots of people know stuff about me as lots have been to my house. A couple have met my mum. I dont use kik and only have 3 people on whatsapp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My full inner most details of my life are known by only 2 people thats how it will stay as i trust those people with my life

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

oh one woman posted a thread with a youtube link of her on the forums and everyone ended up knowing her full name

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By *ulldog_71Man
over a year ago

Sedgefield

I only use kik to talk to people from here so my username is nearly the same as here. There is only one person from here knows my real name and that's because I know her in the real world and realised who she was after chatting for a while so it was only polite to let her know

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