FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to The Lounge

Few looks

Jump to newest
 

By *xperience hunting OP   Man
over a year ago

where

But very few messages! Not many winks either! Think I’m doing this wrong ?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you think you’re doing wrong?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But very few messages! Not many winks either! Think I’m doing this wrong ? "

you get messages?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *xperience hunting OP   Man
over a year ago

where

Had one or two from some females and a couple but I mainly get fellas messaging which I tend to ignore unless they are general chat! I’m not sure what I’m doing wrong that’s why I’m here asking lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cool sunglasses.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"But very few messages! Not many winks either! Think I’m doing this wrong ? "

Probably not. Only a small proportion of viewers will consider you (this is not specific to you, this applies to all of us), and only a proportion that consider you will message / wink.

On that basis, "a few views" is not going to cut it. You'll need dozens. Every day.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *xperience hunting OP   Man
over a year ago

where

Yeah roy bins they are made em meself

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

OK, so you've looked at my profile, and not messaged me.

I'm OK with that, but as a worked example...why didn't you?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you inviting people to look at your profile and comment upon doing that? Are you looking for advice? x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *xperience hunting OP   Man
over a year ago

where

Your a guy and straight. I’m not saying I expect a reply or message from each person who visits

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I Fabbed one of your photos cause the tiling is first class and the grouting top notch.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"I’m not saying I expect a reply or message from each person who visits "

Understood, but you do have some sort of expectation as to how visits should relate to messages...?

(and I think my gender was clear before you looked )

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv had 29 looks today and been chatting all day too thanks

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *xperience hunting OP   Man
over a year ago

where


"I Fabbed one of your photos cause the tiling is first class and the grouting top notch. "

Cheers dude. Need a plumber next

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Iv had 29 looks today and been chatting all day too thanks "

Don’t think that was the question, but well done anyway!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Iv had 29 looks today and been chatting all day too thanks

Don’t think that was the question, but well done anyway! "
i know i didnt read it as per

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had one or two from some females and a couple but I mainly get fellas messaging which I tend to ignore unless they are general chat! I’m not sure what I’m doing wrong that’s why I’m here asking lol "

Probably waiting for them to find you. Given how you've posed your question it would seem that you are yet another of those chaps who hears about fab from somewhere and is of the impression that all you need to do is sign up, create a profile and wait for all the offers from women gagging for sex.

Granted your profile text is better written than most but we single men massively outnumber the ladies and they really do not need to go looking. You need to be more pro active

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a female commenting on your post, are you interested in a response OP, but would be based on your profile, is that ok? Viv x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

You're doing it right if you gain interest and manage to deflect those who aren't matched. No point in investing time and effort with inappropriate people.

Research how to improve contact levels and interest, via profile amendments and getting to meet socially etc

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *xperience hunting OP   Man
over a year ago

where


"As a female commenting on your post, are you interested in a response OP, but would be based on your profile, is that ok? Viv x"

Yes for sure any advice is welcome, please done be too brutal I’m a sensitive soul ha ha.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *xperience hunting OP   Man
over a year ago

where


"Had one or two from some females and a couple but I mainly get fellas messaging which I tend to ignore unless they are general chat! I’m not sure what I’m doing wrong that’s why I’m here asking lol

Probably waiting for them to find you. Given how you've posed your question it would seem that you are yet another of those chaps who hears about fab from somewhere and is of the impression that all you need to do is sign up, create a profile and wait for all the offers from women gagging for sex.

Not at all, I was hoping for some insight from more experienced and successful people. Thanks anyway

Granted your profile text is better written than most but we single men massively outnumber the ladies and they really do not need to go looking. You need to be more pro active"

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 05/03/19 07:48:03]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"But very few messages! Not many winks either! Think I’m doing this wrong ?

you get messages?"

You get winks?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a female commenting on your post, are you interested in a response OP, but would be based on your profile, is that ok? Viv x

Yes for sure any advice is welcome, please done be too brutal I’m a sensitive soul ha ha. "

Lol, it was the pic that you’ve removed- feminine items on show, and the fact you can’t accommodate. Some people won’t meet attached men, and that definitely have the impression you’re attached xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a female commenting on your post, are you interested in a response OP, but would be based on your profile, is that ok? Viv x

Yes for sure any advice is welcome, please done be too brutal I’m a sensitive soul ha ha.

Lol, it was the pic that you’ve removed- feminine items on show, and the fact you can’t accommodate. Some people won’t meet attached men, and that definitely have the impression you’re attached xx"

Gave, not have xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *xperience hunting OP   Man
over a year ago

where


"As a female commenting on your post, are you interested in a response OP, but would be based on your profile, is that ok? Viv x

Yes for sure any advice is welcome, please done be too brutal I’m a sensitive soul ha ha.

Lol, it was the pic that you’ve removed- feminine items on show, and the fact you can’t accommodate. Some people won’t meet attached men, and that definitely have the impression you’re attached xx

Gave, not have xx"

Ahh thank you! I am attached but have consent, I didn’t realise however how that may have been misinterpreted. Thank you

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oupleNeedPlus1Couple
over a year ago

Reading

I'm nosy at profiles but only message once in a blue moon.

Looking for good photos (plural), veris that match our interests and well written profile text that floats our boat. Getting all of this is very very rare and that okay!

We get hundreds of view a day and never think about how this translates to messages as I'm sure they are taking the same steps we are... Or just perving at photos which is fine too!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *xperience hunting OP   Man
over a year ago

where


"I'm nosy at profiles but only message once in a blue moon.

Looking for good photos (plural), veris that match our interests and well written profile text that floats our boat. Getting all of this is very very rare and that okay!

We get hundreds of view a day and never think about how this translates to messages as I'm sure they are taking the same steps we are... Or just perving at photos which is fine too! "

Yeah will bear all that in mind, and look to get a few more acceptable photos up! Thanks for taking the time to reply. We all love a good nosy don’t we.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top