FabSwingers.com forum: Talking to boobs?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’ve had two instances in work in the last week where male colleagues have talked to my boobs rather than my face. I often think, do I say something, do they even realise they’ve done it?

I don’t recall chatting to a mans crotch or a female colleagues boobs ever.

What’s it about ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Lol. A guy used to do this to me on holiday once, we used to laugh and say he wouldn't recognise my face.

I don't like it. In a professional situation I hate it. Could you kind of angle your head to look at his face so he becomes aware that you're aware iyswim or just laugh and say "my face is up here"

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Years ago I was talking to a woman whose false teeth clacked and moved as she talked...I couldn't take my eyes off her mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are they half out?

I’m a massive boob man and hard not to look at them when there half out.

If there covered then I look at there eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like when they try to pretend they're not looking. It amuses me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like when they try to pretend they're not looking. It amuses me. "

We always get caught out, normally I get a cheeky smile when I look back up

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By *ot-AshMan
over a year ago

London

"I’ve had two instances in work in the last week where male colleagues have talked to my boobs rather than my face. I often think, do I say something, do they even realise they’ve done it?

I don’t recall chatting to a mans crotch or a female colleagues boobs ever.

What’s it about ? "

I think you should mention it to them next time you see them that you weren't comfortable with them looking at your boobs during your conversations and hopefully they wont don't it again in future.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont hide it but i do introduce my self to them first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How much were they on show? That makes a huge difference in the difficulties of focusing.

It is rare that my gaze will ever wander from a woman's face when locked in conversation, unless said situation offers the opportunity to do so.

It does become increasingly more difficult based on visibility of said boobs though.

Some guys just like "shiney" things and their focus is easily swayed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like when they try to pretend they're not looking. It amuses me. "

I wouldn't even to pretend I'm not looking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like when they try to pretend they're not looking. It amuses me.

I wouldn't even to pretend I'm not looking. "
you can look all you like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do women want men to look at their boobs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cover them up next time

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I can understand a guy being distracted if a woman wears a low cut top but how about when they're covered and they still do it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is a male thing, lol.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I do the sneaky furtive crotch glance. Would never dream of objectifying a man by staring at his bulge when I'm talking to him.

I also notice boobs as well. Again, it's about the stealth perv. I don't think men realise how obvious they are. I spent most of a meeting with one of my team checking they were still there for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t wait for summer

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I just say "my face is up here" whilst pointing at my face.

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By *esires of HertsCouple
over a year ago

Herts and London Borders

Rather annoying when a woman has a very very low cut top at work, and then turns around to complain about men staring at them...cover them up and dress more professionally its my advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just say "my face is up here" whilst pointing at my face. "
id say excuse me dont interupt im talking to pinky and perky

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Do women want men to look at their boobs? "

Therein lies the problem. I am fully aware that if I have a low cut top on men will look if I minded I wouldn't dress like that. If I cover up I don't like it. How are men supposed to know who likes it and when? I think if they assume that most women like to be spoken to face to face guys can't go far wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like when they try to pretend they're not looking. It amuses me.

I wouldn't even to pretend I'm not looking. you can look all you like

Aww thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Standard lol! They’re usually only as tall as my boobs anyway lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Rather annoying when a woman has a very very low cut top at work, and then turns around to complain about men staring at them...cover them up and dress more professionally its my advice"

Or the guys could be asked to stop staring and act more professionally...

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I just say "my face is up here" whilst pointing at my face. "

This. It's not acceptable at work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still get this even though I had a breast reduction last year!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I do the sneaky furtive crotch glance. Would never dream of objectifying a man by staring at his bulge when I'm talking to him.

I also notice boobs as well. Again, it's about the stealth perv. I don't think men realise how obvious they are. I spent most of a meeting with one of my team checking they were still there for me."

That was good of him

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

They were well covered btw not even a tiny bit out.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Rather annoying when a woman has a very very low cut top at work, and then turns around to complain about men staring at them...cover them up and dress more professionally its my advice

Or the guys could be asked to stop staring and act more professionally..."

It happens to me even when I'm completely covered. Regardless, guys need to not do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do women want men to look at their boobs? "

I don’t, unless it’s because we fucking

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I just say "my face is up here" whilst pointing at my face.

This. It's not acceptable at work. "

I will say something next time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve had two instances in work in the last week where male colleagues have talked to my boobs rather than my face. I often think, do I say something, do they even realise they’ve done it?

I don’t recall chatting to a mans crotch or a female colleagues boobs ever.

What’s it about ? "

Helps if you don’t have them hanging out lover

I always thought if you look at a woman’s mouth it seduces them subconsciously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just say "my face is up here" whilst pointing at my face.

This. It's not acceptable at work. "

Is it acceptable in a pub

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By *ot-AshMan
over a year ago

London

"Standard lol! They’re usually only as tall as my boobs anyway lol"

I had a slow dance recently with a very tall lady with big boobs and nearly suffocated...

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I just say "my face is up here" whilst pointing at my face.

This. It's not acceptable at work.

Is it acceptable in a pub"

For me, I'd rather it not happen except in an explicitly sexual context or one that might become one. Like, even a Fab social, keep it to stealth glances (which aren't that sneaky tbh).

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By *esires of HertsCouple
over a year ago

Herts and London Borders

"Rather annoying when a woman has a very very low cut top at work, and then turns around to complain about men staring at them...cover them up and dress more professionally its my advice

Or the guys could be asked to stop staring and act more professionally...

It happens to me even when I'm completely covered. Regardless, guys need to not do it. "

i've seen plenty of cases where they are bulging out and not covered up...both your replies above do not really hold true..

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

I get this at work. I go quiet until they look at me and I say "now I have your attention" then continue with my job. It doesn't make me uncomfortable but it sure does them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do not tell lies ladies. You all secretly love that admiration.

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I don't mind guys talking to my boobs, at least they are not looking at my big belly or ass then

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I wonder if the guys who do this know what women say about them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just say "my face is up here" whilst pointing at my face.

This. It's not acceptable at work.

Is it acceptable in a pub

For me, I'd rather it not happen except in an explicitly sexual context or one that might become one. Like, even a Fab social, keep it to stealth glances (which aren't that sneaky tbh). "

You do realise men cannot just switch if their primal instincts don't you,every red hot blooded male will look at boobs,its a natural thing to do and something that men shouldn't be ashamed of doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just say "my face is up here" whilst pointing at my face.

This. It's not acceptable at work.

Is it acceptable in a pub"

Depends who you are. I find it creepy when men just stare at me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just say "my face is up here" whilst pointing at my face.

This. It's not acceptable at work.

Is it acceptable in a pub

For me, I'd rather it not happen except in an explicitly sexual context or one that might become one. Like, even a Fab social, keep it to stealth glances (which aren't that sneaky tbh).

You do realise men cannot just switch if their primal instincts don't you,every red hot blooded male will look at boobs,its a natural thing to do and something that men shouldn't be ashamed of doing"

Men should also be able to control themselves as well in a professional environment

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Rather annoying when a woman has a very very low cut top at work, and then turns around to complain about men staring at them...cover them up and dress more professionally its my advice

Or the guys could be asked to stop staring and act more professionally...

It happens to me even when I'm completely covered. Regardless, guys need to not do it.

i've seen plenty of cases where they are bulging out and not covered up...both your replies above do not really hold true.."

My over 40 years experience as an adult woman tell me that men talk to my breasts even when I'm wearing a jumper.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Rather annoying when a woman has a very very low cut top at work, and then turns around to complain about men staring at them...cover them up and dress more professionally its my advice

Or the guys could be asked to stop staring and act more professionally...

It happens to me even when I'm completely covered. Regardless, guys need to not do it.

i've seen plenty of cases where they are bulging out and not covered up...both your replies above do not really hold true.."

Just because some women don't always cover their breasts doesn't mean that all women are like this (and I'd love to know when you've seen me at work like this!). It also doesn't mean that it's acceptable to stare at breasts at work. I manage to ignore both breasts and bulging groins at work just fine. It's called being a respectful adult and controlling myself.

I've been stared at like a piece of meat when I had B cups in a baggy top that went to my wrists and throat. It's about inappropriate entitlement, not the breasts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv talked to women about this, one justast week, she said when she's out on the pull she will wear low cut tops and push up bras to her noticed, if she doesn't want attention she covers them uo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just say "my face is up here" whilst pointing at my face.

This. It's not acceptable at work.

Is it acceptable in a pub

For me, I'd rather it not happen except in an explicitly sexual context or one that might become one. Like, even a Fab social, keep it to stealth glances (which aren't that sneaky tbh).

You do realise men cannot just switch if their primal instincts don't you,every red hot blooded male will look at boobs,its a natural thing to do and something that men shouldn't be ashamed of doing

Men should also be able to control themselves as well in a professional environment "

We do try but alas we fail

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I just say "my face is up here" whilst pointing at my face.

This. It's not acceptable at work.

Is it acceptable in a pub

For me, I'd rather it not happen except in an explicitly sexual context or one that might become one. Like, even a Fab social, keep it to stealth glances (which aren't that sneaky tbh).

You do realise men cannot just switch if their primal instincts don't you,every red hot blooded male will look at boobs,its a natural thing to do and something that men shouldn't be ashamed of doing"

Then they should learn to control themselves and go away until they can be civilised in polite company.

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By *esires of HertsCouple
over a year ago

Herts and London Borders

"Rather annoying when a woman has a very very low cut top at work, and then turns around to complain about men staring at them...cover them up and dress more professionally its my advice

Or the guys could be asked to stop staring and act more professionally...

It happens to me even when I'm completely covered. Regardless, guys need to not do it.

i've seen plenty of cases where they are bulging out and not covered up...both your replies above do not really hold true..

I've been stared at like a piece of meat when I had B cups in a baggy top that went to my wrists and throat. It's about inappropriate entitlement, not the breasts. "
,,,,its nothing to do with entitlement, its about the basics at the work place, more specifically women who wear very low cut tops and then complain about their boobs being stared at...I'm not commenting on those that cover up

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Iv talked to women about this, one justast week, she said when she's out on the pull she will wear low cut tops and push up bras to her noticed, if she doesn't want attention she covers them uo"

Yeah, I cover up when I don't want men to look. They still look.

I know it's instinct but surely guys can differentiate between covered and uncovered, professional and sexualised social situations.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Iv talked to women about this, one justast week, she said when she's out on the pull she will wear low cut tops and push up bras to her noticed, if she doesn't want attention she covers them uo"

Some women do this. Some women wear clothes that they like, or it's hot and women happen to have big tits. It's not always about what you think about us!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Rather annoying when a woman has a very very low cut top at work, and then turns around to complain about men staring at them...cover them up and dress more professionally its my advice

Or the guys could be asked to stop staring and act more professionally...

It happens to me even when I'm completely covered. Regardless, guys need to not do it.

i've seen plenty of cases where they are bulging out and not covered up...both your replies above do not really hold true..

I've been stared at like a piece of meat when I had B cups in a baggy top that went to my wrists and throat. It's about inappropriate entitlement, not the breasts. ,,,,its nothing to do with entitlement, its about the basics at the work place, more specifically women who wear very low cut tops and then complain about their boobs being stared at...I'm not commenting on those that cover up "

The OP has said that she was covered.

Women have breasts. We can't make them go away in the office. But, a bit like toilet activities, we can pretend not to notice them because it isn't the time or place.

I'm a bi woman. I do it every day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Iv talked to women about this, one justast week, she said when she's out on the pull she will wear low cut tops and push up bras to her noticed, if she doesn't want attention she covers them uo

Some women do this. Some women wear clothes that they like, or it's hot and women happen to have big tits. It's not always about what you think about us! "

I will relay that message to her when I see her at weekend thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve had two instances in work in the last week where male colleagues have talked to my boobs rather than my face. I often think, do I say something, do they even realise they’ve done it?

I don’t recall chatting to a mans crotch or a female colleagues boobs ever.

What’s it about ? "

It happens with women, I was out on my bike, (wearing Lycra) I stopped and asked directions and the woman looked I my crotch, not subtle either, if was pretty obvious.

So it’s not just a male thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Rather annoying when a woman has a very very low cut top at work, and then turns around to complain about men staring at them...cover them up and dress more professionally its my advice

Or the guys could be asked to stop staring and act more professionally...

It happens to me even when I'm completely covered. Regardless, guys need to not do it.

i've seen plenty of cases where they are bulging out and not covered up...both your replies above do not really hold true..

The OP has said that she was covered.

Women have breasts. We can't make them go away in the office. But, a bit like toilet activities, we can pretend not to notice them because it isn't the time or place.

I'm a bi woman. I do it every day. "

Weird that eh, I do it as well

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Iv talked to women about this, one justast week, she said when she's out on the pull she will wear low cut tops and push up bras to her noticed, if she doesn't want attention she covers them uo

Some women do this. Some women wear clothes that they like, or it's hot and women happen to have big tits. It's not always about what you think about us!

I will relay that message to her when I see her at weekend thanks

I don't think she has a problem with it tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve had two instances in work in the last week where male colleagues have talked to my boobs rather than my face. I often think, do I say something, do they even realise they’ve done it?

I don’t recall chatting to a mans crotch or a female colleagues boobs ever.

What’s it about ?

It happens with women, I was out on my bike, (wearing Lycra) I stopped and asked directions and the woman looked I my crotch, not subtle either, if was pretty obvious.

So it’s not just a male thing. "

Haha it’s hard not to with those things cyclists wear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve had two instances in work in the last week where male colleagues have talked to my boobs rather than my face. I often think, do I say something, do they even realise they’ve done it?

I don’t recall chatting to a mans crotch or a female colleagues boobs ever.

What’s it about ?

It happens with women, I was out on my bike, (wearing Lycra) I stopped and asked directions and the woman looked I my crotch, not subtle either, if was pretty obvious.

So it’s not just a male thing.

Haha it’s hard not to with those things cyclists wear

Incidentally, I don’t suppose you have a pic of you in said Lycra shorts? Asking for my mate Sue.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Rather annoying when a woman has a very very low cut top at work, and then turns around to complain about men staring at them...cover them up and dress more professionally its my advice

Or the guys could be asked to stop staring and act more professionally...

It happens to me even when I'm completely covered. Regardless, guys need to not do it.

i've seen plenty of cases where they are bulging out and not covered up...both your replies above do not really hold true..

The OP has said that she was covered.

Women have breasts. We can't make them go away in the office. But, a bit like toilet activities, we can pretend not to notice them because it isn't the time or place.

I'm a bi woman. I do it every day.

Weird that eh, I do it as well"

For me this also extends to, say, gym changing rooms. Do I theoretically appreciate the fit women wandering around with no clothes on? Sure. Why is it theoretical? Because I'm not a creep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve had two instances in work in the last week where male colleagues have talked to my boobs rather than my face. I often think, do I say something, do they even realise they’ve done it?

I don’t recall chatting to a mans crotch or a female colleagues boobs ever.

What’s it about ?

It happens with women, I was out on my bike, (wearing Lycra) I stopped and asked directions and the woman looked I my crotch, not subtle either, if was pretty obvious.

So it’s not just a male thing. "

It happened to me in a pub a couple of weeks ago,sat down and jeans were tight around my crotch, couple of women friends were staring and laughing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont hide it but i do introduce my self to them first"

I like to give each one a quick "honk" in friendly greeting.

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over a year ago

"I’ve had two instances in work in the last week where male colleagues have talked to my boobs rather than my face. I often think, do I say something, do they even realise they’ve done it?

I don’t recall chatting to a mans crotch or a female colleagues boobs ever.

What’s it about ?

It happens with women, I was out on my bike, (wearing Lycra) I stopped and asked directions and the woman looked I my crotch, not subtle either, if was pretty obvious.

So it’s not just a male thing.

Haha it’s hard not to with those things cyclists wear

Incidentally, I don’t suppose you have a pic of you in said Lycra shorts? Asking for my mate Sue. "

Yeah my mate Jeff wants a pic as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

While I’m looking at one tit, I tell the other tit that I’ll get to you in a minute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the end of the day men will stare at tits, passed a bit of time though

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over a year ago

"I’ve had two instances in work in the last week where male colleagues have talked to my boobs rather than my face. I often think, do I say something, do they even realise they’ve done it?

I don’t recall chatting to a mans crotch or a female colleagues boobs ever.

What’s it about ?

It happens with women, I was out on my bike, (wearing Lycra) I stopped and asked directions and the woman looked I my crotch, not subtle either, if was pretty obvious.

So it’s not just a male thing.

Haha it’s hard not to with those things cyclists wear

Incidentally, I don’t suppose you have a pic of you in said Lycra shorts? Asking for my mate Sue.

Yeah my mate Jeff wants a pic as well "

Yeah yeah. We all know you have a bit of an obsession with Tame’s big willy

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"At the end of the day men will stare at tits, passed a bit of time though"

And women don't appreciate it when it's not appropriate.

I pass time by imagining things. Sometimes these include tits I've seen. But I don't inflict my desire on someone (particularly at work, it is inflicting).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve had two instances in work in the last week where male colleagues have talked to my boobs rather than my face. I often think, do I say something, do they even realise they’ve done it?

I don’t recall chatting to a mans crotch or a female colleagues boobs ever.

What’s it about ?

It happens with women, I was out on my bike, (wearing Lycra) I stopped and asked directions and the woman looked I my crotch, not subtle either, if was pretty obvious.

So it’s not just a male thing.

Haha it’s hard not to with those things cyclists wear

Incidentally, I don’t suppose you have a pic of you in said Lycra shorts? Asking for my mate Sue. "

Tell your mate Sue, there’s two on my profile, if she wants a better look she will have to wait till I’m lost again and in her vacinity.

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over a year ago

"I’ve had two instances in work in the last week where male colleagues have talked to my boobs rather than my face. I often think, do I say something, do they even realise they’ve done it?

I don’t recall chatting to a mans crotch or a female colleagues boobs ever.

What’s it about ?

It happens with women, I was out on my bike, (wearing Lycra) I stopped and asked directions and the woman looked I my crotch, not subtle either, if was pretty obvious.

So it’s not just a male thing.

Haha it’s hard not to with those things cyclists wear

Incidentally, I don’t suppose you have a pic of you in said Lycra shorts? Asking for my mate Sue.

Yeah my mate Jeff wants a pic as well

Yeah yeah. We all know you have a bit of an obsession with Tame’s big willy

It's scary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At the end of the day men will stare at tits, passed a bit of time though

And women don't appreciate it when it's not appropriate.

I pass time by imagining things. Sometimes these include tits I've seen. But I don't inflict my desire on someone (particularly at work, it is inflicting). "

I meant the thread passed a bit of time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve had two instances in work in the last week where male colleagues have talked to my boobs rather than my face. I often think, do I say something, do they even realise they’ve done it?

I don’t recall chatting to a mans crotch or a female colleagues boobs ever.

What’s it about ?

It happens with women, I was out on my bike, (wearing Lycra) I stopped and asked directions and the woman looked I my crotch, not subtle either, if was pretty obvious.

So it’s not just a male thing.

Haha it’s hard not to with those things cyclists wear

Incidentally, I don’t suppose you have a pic of you in said Lycra shorts? Asking for my mate Sue.

Tell your mate Sue, there’s two on my profile, if she wants a better look she will have to wait till I’m lost again and in her vacinity. "

Ok I’ve told her.

Ps. She said what’s a vacinity?

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By *iss behaving2019Woman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

When I was younger it used to annoy me! Now I would feel flattered!

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By *lovebustyladiesMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Oooh yeah nothing like talking to a woman with big boobs n a heaving chest u always notice the breathing rate increase lol not that I’ve noticed lol

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"I’ve had two instances in work in the last week where male colleagues have talked to my boobs rather than my face. I often think, do I say something, do they even realise they’ve done it?

I don’t recall chatting to a mans crotch or a female colleagues boobs ever.

What’s it about ? "

Sexual harassment. They are objectifying you report to HR and get them sacked.

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I’ve had two instances in work in the last week where male colleagues have talked to my boobs rather than my face. I often think, do I say something, do they even realise they’ve done it?

I don’t recall chatting to a mans crotch or a female colleagues boobs ever.

What’s it about ? "

I always do the two fingers into their field of vision and direct them up to my eyes saying "Up here dude, eyes please."

Works beautifully.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve had two instances in work in the last week where male colleagues have talked to my boobs rather than my face. I often think, do I say something, do they even realise they’ve done it?

I don’t recall chatting to a mans crotch or a female colleagues boobs ever.

What’s it about ?

It happens with women, I was out on my bike, (wearing Lycra) I stopped and asked directions and the woman looked I my crotch, not subtle either, if was pretty obvious.

So it’s not just a male thing.

Haha it’s hard not to with those things cyclists wear

Incidentally, I don’t suppose you have a pic of you in said Lycra shorts? Asking for my mate Sue.

Tell your mate Sue, there’s two on my profile, if she wants a better look she will have to wait till I’m lost again and in her vacinity.

Ok I’ve told her.

Ps. She said what’s a vacinity? "

It’s like vicinity, but sucks better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Rather annoying when a woman has a very very low cut top at work, and then turns around to complain about men staring at them...cover them up and dress more professionally its my advice

Or the guys could be asked to stop staring and act more professionally..."

Or women dress more professionally

when at work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve had two instances in work in the last week where male colleagues have talked to my boobs rather than my face. I often think, do I say something, do they even realise they’ve done it?

I don’t recall chatting to a mans crotch or a female colleagues boobs ever.

What’s it about ?

Sexual harassment. They are objectifying you report to HR and get them sacked."

Segregation is safest way it seems. One could argue she's objectifying herself if dressed in appropriately too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve got used to it, but it’s very annoying x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve had two instances in work in the last week where male colleagues have talked to my boobs rather than my face. I often think, do I say something, do they even realise they’ve done it?

I don’t recall chatting to a mans crotch or a female colleagues boobs ever.

What’s it about ? "

I think it's in a man's DNA to do so, lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Say "do I have something on my top?" and pretend to check for crumbs

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By *aul40Man
over a year ago

millom

Yours look gorgeous x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve had two instances in work in the last week where male colleagues have talked to my boobs rather than my face. I often think, do I say something, do they even realise they’ve done it?

I don’t recall chatting to a mans crotch or a female colleagues boobs ever.

What’s it about ?

Sexual harassment. They are objectifying you report to HR and get them sacked.

Segregation is safest way it seems. One could argue she's objectifying herself if dressed in appropriately too."

Why not just lock us all up and throw away the key

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Say "do I have something on my top?" and pretend to check for crumbs

Love it.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

It's an every day occurance here.

Usually because most people are boob height to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very aware of when my eyes start to wander southwards. I'm not saying I don't look, but I do make a conscious effort to look women in the face. Being tall doesn't help, you're having to look down to start with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve had two instances in work in the last week where male colleagues have talked to my boobs rather than my face. I often think, do I say something, do they even realise they’ve done it?

I don’t recall chatting to a mans crotch or a female colleagues boobs ever.

What’s it about ?

Sexual harassment. They are objectifying you report to HR and get them sacked.

Segregation is safest way it seems. One could argue she's objectifying herself if dressed in appropriately too.

Why not just lock us all up and throw away the key"

Not together I hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes even touch them slightly myslef just to tease them a bit more..

It all depends the situation really..

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I’ve had two instances in work in the last week where male colleagues have talked to my boobs rather than my face. I often think, do I say something, do they even realise they’ve done it?

I don’t recall chatting to a mans crotch or a female colleagues boobs ever.

What’s it about ?

Sexual harassment. They are objectifying you report to HR and get them sacked.

Segregation is safest way it seems. One could argue she's objectifying herself if dressed in appropriately too.

Why not just lock us all up and throw away the key"

Or we could go for some personal responsibility? If you're at work, don't look at people inappropriately. If they're dressed inappropriately, speak to them or whoever it's appropriate to speak to.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"It's an every day occurance here.

Usually because most people are boob height to me

Maybe, but their eyes can look up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve had two instances in work in the last week where male colleagues have talked to my boobs rather than my face. I often think, do I say something, do they even realise they’ve done it?

I don’t recall chatting to a mans crotch or a female colleagues boobs ever.

What’s it about ?

Sexual harassment. They are objectifying you report to HR and get them sacked.

Segregation is safest way it seems. One could argue she's objectifying herself if dressed in appropriately too.

Why not just lock us all up and throw away the key

Or we could go for some personal responsibility? If you're at work, don't look at people inappropriately. If they're dressed inappropriately, speak to them or whoever it's appropriate to speak to. "

Thank for the advice,I will do that

(.)(.)

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

"I like when they try to pretend they're not looking. It amuses me. "

O Noooooooo, please tell me that ladies don't notice..

I must admit to having realised that my eyes are pointing the wrong way and feeling rather embarrassed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like when they try to pretend they're not looking. It amuses me.

O Noooooooo, please tell me that ladies don't notice..

I must admit to having realised that my eyes are pointing the wrong way and feeling rather embarrassed."

They notice. Most of them don't mind you looking as long as you're not staring.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

You just need to tell them ‘eyes up’. Do I look? Yes occasionally, but not at work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How people look at boobs I do the same at restaurants with other people's food

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How people look at boobs I do the same at restaurants with other people's food

It helps you choose what food you want more easily

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I often get guys talking to my cleavage. Kind of hard to hide mine though. Doesn't bother me in the slightest. In fact its quite funny when they keep looking and think I haven't noticed x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just say "my face is up here" whilst pointing at my face. "
What if he says I prefer the view I have right now,thank you?

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I mirror people without realising so when this happens I find myself looking down at my boobs too. This confuses them.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I just say "my face is up here" whilst pointing at my face. What if he says I prefer the view I have right now,thank you?"

Yes, because that's completely appropriate at work...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just say "my face is up here" whilst pointing at my face. What if he says I prefer the view I have right now,thank you?

Yes, because that's completely appropriate at work... "
Height may come into play during conversation as it's not always comfortable to be constantly looking up while talking (try it) but yes, people should behave in a right time right place manner.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I just say "my face is up here" whilst pointing at my face. What if he says I prefer the view I have right now,thank you?

Yes, because that's completely appropriate at work... Height may come into play during conversation as it's not always comfortable to be constantly looking up while talking (try it) but yes, people should behave in a right time right place manner."

I do. I interact with the very tall through to the wheelchair bound, and I manage to look at their faces.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"I’ve had two instances in work in the last week where male colleagues have talked to my boobs rather than my face. I often think, do I say something, do they even realise they’ve done it?

I don’t recall chatting to a mans crotch or a female colleagues boobs ever.

What’s it about ? "

Haha think your giving yourself a big head..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’ve had two instances in work in the last week where male colleagues have talked to my boobs rather than my face. I often think, do I say something, do they even realise they’ve done it?

I don’t recall chatting to a mans crotch or a female colleagues boobs ever.

What’s it about ?

Haha think your giving yourself a big head..

How so?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you ladies feel if a guy looks at you as you walk past him at work? Is that also seen as in appropriately taking advantage as you're looking the other way?

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By *ream3.14159Man
over a year ago

Here & there

"I’ve had two instances in work in the last week where male colleagues have talked to my boobs rather than my face. I often think, do I say something, do they even realise they’ve done it?

I don’t recall chatting to a mans crotch or a female colleagues boobs ever.

What’s it about ? "

Maybe they were trying to prove they can concentrate on two things at the same time

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