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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think we all have standards some differ very widely,but i would never lower my standards just for the sake,my standards are high how high are yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slightly lower than yours, but higher than the person below me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Slightly lower than yours, but higher than the person below me."

I doubt that

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By *cousesubsallyWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere out there


"Slightly lower than yours, but higher than the person below me."

Exactly the same for me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have any.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As high as they can be

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

*Really* high

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly ?

Depends on the scenario and how horned up I am

I've allowed people to have a fondle or a grope in clubs & saunas that I wouldn't engage with here if they were to message me

There have been times when I've found that scenario overwhelming, but, on occasion, if the flame is already fully lit, I can go with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just have 1 tick box that people have to satisfy.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I have some set in stone. Others are contextual.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Extremely high (sometimes to my detriment maybe) I haven't had sex in two years now, but 18 months of those have and still include a stressful situation that is still unresolved, so maybe my full attention hasn't been given and many poor messages are just easier to just ignore!

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

High,I haven't had a meet on this profile in ages due to it.

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own


"*Really* high"

Damnit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on how many pints they've - sorry I've had.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is he breathing? Yup, I'll have that.

I kid, I'm very fussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Slightly lower than yours, but higher than the person below me.

I doubt that "

I thought you had raised them, but I see you're back. Welcome anyway...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not sure I’d class it as high standards. I just know what I want and won’t settle for anything less. It’s not really a standards thing it’s just what I personally want. Not easy to find for me but maybe one day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Slightly lower than yours, but higher than the person below me.

I doubt that

I thought you had raised them, but I see you're back. Welcome anyway..."

Haha. Yeah I’m half back ish, for now x

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By *iss SinWoman
over a year ago

portchester

Really high

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

As long as she not carrying an axe, I'm happy.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Really high and no compromise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yay! NORA'S back! We missed you

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I’m fussy..... does that mean they are high?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yay! NORA'S back! We missed you "

Aw thanks. Hope you’re doing ok x

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"Really high "

Thts where my cream egg went!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not about standards.. it's more about finding a connection. Without that nothing happens..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yay! NORA'S back! We missed you

Aw thanks. Hope you’re doing ok x"
yeah I'm doing great thanks, better than what I was doing a few weeks ago.

The forums have been great help, so many great people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not about standards.. it's more about finding a connection. Without that nothing happens.."

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yay! NORA'S back! We missed you

Aw thanks. Hope you’re doing ok x yeah I'm doing great thanks, better than what I was doing a few weeks ago.

The forums have been great help, so many great people. "

Yes there are. Good to hear it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My heels, standards and head are all held high.

If others disagree that's their problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they dropped there knickers I’ll drop my standards (joke)

I go of personality sounds cheesy but if you can have a laugh with them then I’m sure your gonna have a good time with them.

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

Standards are like a lot of things, individual. Who I find to be incredibly "hot" someone else might turn their nose up at.

I like who I like and that's all that matters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Incredibly high.

No ones going to admit to having low standards on here though! But mine really are high.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not about standards.. it's more about finding a connection. Without that nothing happens.."

Absolutely agree with this because I never quite understand what people mean when they say standards!

Does that mean that anyone they don't want to meet is substandard?

I think has already been mentioned it's about personal preference and knowing what you want and not compromising on that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As long as she not carrying an axe, I'm happy."

Damn...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not about standards.. it's more about finding a connection. Without that nothing happens..

Absolutely agree with this because I never quite understand what people mean when they say standards!

Does that mean that anyone they don't want to meet is substandard?

I think has already been mentioned it's about personal preference and knowing what you want and not compromising on that "

For me standards mean knowing what I want and not compromising. I don't look for men out of my league I seek humour and intelligence. Mutual attraction and a spark

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By *olexMan
over a year ago

Hull

I know who i want...but it's not happening. That's life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Incredibly high.

No ones going to admit to having low standards on here though! But mine really are high. "

Mine are pretty low, if you're talking about physical appearance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not about standards.. it's more about finding a connection. Without that nothing happens..

Absolutely agree with this because I never quite understand what people mean when they say standards!

Does that mean that anyone they don't want to meet is substandard?

I think has already been mentioned it's about personal preference and knowing what you want and not compromising on that

For me standards mean knowing what I want and not compromising. I don't look for men out of my league I seek humour and intelligence. Mutual attraction and a spark "

I completely agree with you I was just saying I never quite understand the term standards because it's suggesting certain people are substandard. I know that's not what most people mean when they use it and think they mean preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As long as she not carrying an axe, I'm happy."

I have an Estwing Hammer, does that work for you..?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For some it doesn't seem they have particularly high standards; more a particular look they go for.

I don't have a particular look I'm attracted to, so they might think I'll fuck anyone, whereas I need a high level of attraction, not just a tick of the "he looks the part" box.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

My standards are really really high..... until I drop them.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"It's not about standards.. it's more about finding a connection. Without that nothing happens.."

And today's prize for voicing my thoughts exactly goes to....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not about standards.. it's more about finding a connection. Without that nothing happens..

And today's prize for voicing my thoughts exactly goes to.... "

Schooled by yoda of course!!

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"I think we all have standards some differ very widely,but i would never lower my standards just for the sake,my standards are high how high are yours"
Mine aren't as high on here as in the real world. Still reasonably high though.

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

Mine are very high, all my ex's have been very easy on the eye. I've been punching every time in my opinion but it still sets the standard.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"It's not about standards.. it's more about finding a connection. Without that nothing happens.."

True!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have very high standards in most things I do, the way I dress, manners etc. and that is the same rule for the people I choose to associate with off here.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular


"I think we all have standards some differ very widely,but i would never lower my standards just for the sake,my standards are high how high are yours"

How very dare you accuse me of having standards

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

i meet people i have a connection with. Dont care about what others think

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

They're appropriate - it's not about high or low, as that implies a kind of judgmental position. I have preferences and maintain them, sometimes exploring new ground too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Slightly lower than yours, but higher than the person below me.

Exactly the same for me... "
what ghe fuck u trying go say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really high x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Impossible standards as i have who/what i want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sky high

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By *orgotten22Woman
over a year ago

out in the sticks in the north east england

Very high standards only the best for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They're appropriate - it's not about high or low, as that implies a kind of judgmental position. I have preferences and maintain them, sometimes exploring new ground too."

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