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By *orbidden east OP Man
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Chase or just wait for a reply? What do you think chaps especially you ladies?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Play it cool.

Chasing sounds deperate. The good one's are patient and will wait to see how desperate you sound.

Delete your sent items and let the stars align themselves.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Chase or just wait for a reply? What do you think chaps especially you ladies?

Chase like mad, we like that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chase or just wait for a reply? What do you think chaps especially you ladies?

Wait for a reply.

Is it an initial message or during a conversation?

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Depends...... if I’ve replied and someone then chases that’s ok. But if I don’t reply and get constant messages it just a out off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chase or just wait for a reply? What do you think chaps especially you ladies?

Chase like mad, we like that! "

Hope you’re worth the effort

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Chase, until the Restraining Order becomes effective..

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

It’s a fine line. You need to be interested but not look desperate. You need to be keen but not stalker like. You need to make ladies feel special in one way or another but not come across as sleazy and cheesy

it’s easy really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Noooooo.......don’t chase. Fastest route to the block button .....

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By *oupleNeedPlus1Couple
over a year ago

Reading

No chase, for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t like or enjoy chasing or being chased. It just happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not a whippet if i ever chase

Especially now

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"Chase or just wait for a reply? What do you think chaps especially you ladies?

Chase like mad, we like that! "

Depending on who doing the chasing.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"Chase, until the Restraining Order becomes effective.."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As Babs said it's a fine line.

If I've been having a conversation with someone or chatting to them over time sometimes it's very easy for me to miss their message, or read it get distracted and forget to reply so I follow up message is not a problem.

When I've made it clear I am not interested and somebody continues to message that's when I block.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"Chase or just wait for a reply? What do you think chaps especially you ladies?

Stalk or not to stalk that is the question?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chase or just wait for a reply? What do you think chaps especially you ladies?

No never chase just leads you to blockedvill lol and don't think just cos they read your message that they are interested trust me they will let you know one way or another

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By *orbidden east OP Man
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

"It’s a fine line. You need to be interested but not look desperate. You need to be keen but not stalker like. You need to make ladies feel special in one way or another but not come across as sleazy and cheesy

it’s easy really. "

Yes very like a kick in the nuts or in the face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never chase,,,there is such a thing as trying too hard.

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By *orbidden east OP Man
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

"Noooooo.......don’t chase. Fastest route to the block button ....."

Yes very good

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By *orbidden east OP Man
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

"Chase or just wait for a reply? What do you think chaps especially you ladies?

No never chase just leads you to blockedvill lol and don't think just cos they read your message that they are interested trust me they will let you know one way or another

Indeed sir indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm too tired. Meh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s fine to send a second message especially if you’ve already had a conversation. I’ve often lost messages I would have replied to amongst all the ridiculous ones.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

If you haven't had an initial reply sending the same message again could be counter-productive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Already chatting, then send another one.

No conversations then no chase, looks desperate imo.

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By *orbidden east OP Man
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Thank you quite a mixture of views but I think got the gist of it

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