FabSwingers.com forum: Single Ladies at Parties

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi peeps,

Just wondering if single ladies are welcomed at parties.

I am trying to pluck up the courage to attend a party, however, I am on my own and have reservations about what to expect.

Any help and advice would be most welcomed, thanks in advance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it depends which parties, some are very very hard swinging you have to make the choice hard or soft, think if its first time go to a party where not everyone swinging then you can make up your own mind, and single fems especially if your bi are extremely welcome and if your not bi u probably will end up so lol have fun whichever you decide

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Please excuse the innocent newbie here, however, what is meant by hard and soft swinging?

I am straight, and do not have bi tendency.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honey I wouldnt dream of going to a party unless there was someone there I knew or went with a buddy. Way to scary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the simple answer is yes,

but it does depend, house parties are almost exclusivly "invite only" so if ur invited, ur welcome.

Most club parties encourage single ladies by drastically reducing entry fees ( sometimes even free).

There is some good info on here in the "Events section/clubs section" it worth reading before U commit urself to anything,

Hope U have fun regardless

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

We've been to loads of parties and to the best of our knowledge single girls are always welcome but more to the point we have never seen any of the put under any pressure although they are of course immensley popular

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice, ladies, keep them coming please!

I have met a nice gentleman who says he would gladly escort me to a party. Hopefully I'll get the chance to attend one soon!

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place

hi .,

from my experience provided you have got to know the hosts and clearly signalled your personal boundaries to them ,you shouldnt have any problems ..as no means no at the parties as well ..

why not try and team up with a few single guys you like, who are looking for a regular swing partner to attend clubs and parties.

I also note you are mainly looking for fun at the weekend ,so that would rule out most of the married guys who are professing to be single.

At parties i have been to single women tend to be looked after the most and treated courteously.

hope this helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi .,

from my experience provided you have got to know the hosts and clearly signalled your personal boundaries to them ,you shouldnt have any problems ..as no means no at the parties as well ..

why not try and team up with a few single guys you like, who are looking for a regular swing partner to attend clubs and parties.

I also note you are mainly looking for fun at the weekend ,so that would rule out most of the married guys who are professing to be single.

At parties i have been to single women tend to be looked after the most and treated courteously.

hope this helps

PD supplies popcorn bless him

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"Hi peeps,

Just wondering if single ladies are welcomed at parties.

I am trying to pluck up the courage to attend a party, however, I am on my own and have reservations about what to expect.

Any help and advice would be most welcomed, thanks in advance.

Generally single ladies are very welcome.

If you have your heart set on a party.... contact a few peeps who are advertising one. Have a chat to the organisers to see what sort of party it is expected to be... full on straight into it with all involved (not so common) or social style and play if/when ready (more common). If they don't have time to talk to you about it and answer your questions... don't go! Usually you'll find the sensible ones will chat to you and make sure you are comfortable... you'll also feel more like you know someone when you do go.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"At parties i have been to single women tend to be looked after the most and treated courteously.

hope this helps

I need to loose my inhibitions and find the courage first before I should attend a party!

Thanks for the reassuring words though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not host your own party honey, thats what i did first...then you get to "cherry pick" those who attend

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By *im53Man
over a year ago

Boldon

"Hi peeps,

Just wondering if single ladies are welcomed at parties.

I am trying to pluck up the courage to attend a party, however, I am on my own and have reservations about what to expect.

Any help and advice would be most welcomed, thanks in advance.

single ladies are allways welcome to any of my partys. and if its her first one I will see that shes happy with what ever sort of play she wants

I have found that most hosts would do the same

hope this helps

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Generally single ladies are very welcome.

Thanks for the advice.

Hopefully, I'll pluck up the courage soon!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why not host your own party honey, thats what i did first...then you get to "cherry pick" those who attend

Too many nosey kids in the neighbourhood, and I am not a tidy person, and the house is a shamble!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why not host your own party honey, thats what i did first...then you get to "cherry pick" those who attend

Too many nosey kids in the neighbourhood, and I am not a tidy person, and the house is a shamble!

trust me they wont notice

could always rent a nice cottage or apartment, some good deals about, everybody chips in

the possibilities are endless

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"single ladies are allways welcome to any of my partys. and if its her first one I will see that shes happy with what ever sort of play she wants

I have found that most hosts would do the same

hope this helps "

At this moment in time, I would gladly watch any actions going. And if I get hot and bothered, I may join in!

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place

"hi .,

from my experience provided you have got to know the hosts and clearly signalled your personal boundaries to them ,you shouldnt have any problems ..as no means no at the parties as well ..

why not try and team up with a few single guys you like, who are looking for a regular swing partner to attend clubs and parties.

I also note you are mainly looking for fun at the weekend ,so that would rule out most of the married guys who are professing to be single.

At parties i have been to single women tend to be looked after the most and treated courteously.

hope this helps

PD supplies popcorn bless him

like sitting in the back row of the movie hun lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi .,

from my experience provided you have got to know the hosts and clearly signalled your personal boundaries to them ,you shouldnt have any problems ..as no means no at the parties as well ..

why not try and team up with a few single guys you like, who are looking for a regular swing partner to attend clubs and parties.

I also note you are mainly looking for fun at the weekend ,so that would rule out most of the married guys who are professing to be single.

At parties i have been to single women tend to be looked after the most and treated courteously.

hope this helps

PD supplies popcorn bless him

like sitting in the back row of the movie hun lol"

I dont think they even noticed us throwing the popcorn

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place

"hi .,

from my experience provided you have got to know the hosts and clearly signalled your personal boundaries to them ,you shouldnt have any problems ..as no means no at the parties as well ..

why not try and team up with a few single guys you like, who are looking for a regular swing partner to attend clubs and parties.

I also note you are mainly looking for fun at the weekend ,so that would rule out most of the married guys who are professing to be single.

At parties i have been to single women tend to be looked after the most and treated courteously.

hope this helps

PD supplies popcorn bless him

like sitting in the back row of the movie hun lol

I dont think they even noticed us throwing the popcorn

i always knew one day i would get a hole in one ....lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi .,

from my experience provided you have got to know the hosts and clearly signalled your personal boundaries to them ,you shouldnt have any problems ..as no means no at the parties as well ..

why not try and team up with a few single guys you like, who are looking for a regular swing partner to attend clubs and parties.

I also note you are mainly looking for fun at the weekend ,so that would rule out most of the married guys who are professing to be single.

At parties i have been to single women tend to be looked after the most and treated courteously.

hope this helps

PD supplies popcorn bless him

like sitting in the back row of the movie hun lol

I dont think they even noticed us throwing the popcorn

i always knew one day i would get a hole in one ....lol x"

PMSFL

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By *ardnWettCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Well for us an extra lady is always welcome, we always treat them with the geatest of respect and pamper them and make em welcome, the big thing is no pressure and that goes for everyone, Vee x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi .,

from my experience provided you have got to know the hosts and clearly signalled your personal boundaries to them ,you shouldnt have any problems ..as no means no at the parties as well ..

why not try and team up with a few single guys you like, who are looking for a regular swing partner to attend clubs and parties.

I also note you are mainly looking for fun at the weekend ,so that would rule out most of the married guys who are professing to be single.

At parties i have been to single women tend to be looked after the most and treated courteously.

hope this helps

PD supplies popcorn bless him

like sitting in the back row of the movie hun lol

I dont think they even noticed us throwing the popcorn

i always knew one day i would get a hole in one ....lol x

PMSFL"

PMSL what are you like and yes i remember the bloody popcorn lol

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By *iamondladyWoman
over a year ago

titsville

You could also try going to a club with your single guy to see if your interested in the scene. There is no presssure there and you can observe others and see if you enjoy the atmosphere ecterea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you single Bi fem, they send a limo for you..

if you single str8 fem...... they send your bus fare

xxxxxx

have fun xxx

but always a positive, a single guy, they send to hell ....... lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Problem solved!

Just came back from a sexy sensual afternoon, and my playmates said he will escort me to a party together! Can't wait!!!

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting

"Problem solved!

Just came back from a sexy sensual afternoon, and my playmates said he will escort me to a party together! Can't wait!!!

Nice one hunny!!!!

Hope you have lots of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on the party.

Some parties are for anyone, some are for everyone but single men, some have no singles at all.......

We have been to parties that do not allow single women as they were strictly for couples, however we have been to even more that DO allow singles, so there are def lots out there.

If you pick a good party, then you will be treated with respect, not because you are a single fem, but because you are a guest at someone’s party and they treat ALL their guests with respect.

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