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"That’s where I went wrong Married in my twenties but had the baby when I was 30 Fucks sake" Apparantly the same for me. | |||
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"I was watching an interesting program saying that if you got married and had kids in your 20s you would be alot happier especially women, whats your view?" Married with kids and a mortgage by the time we were 22, I had out oldest when I was 19 and I'm happy though was quite stressful the first few years | |||
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"I got married at 20, now having a baby at 22 Would have had a baby at 20 if I didn’t miscarry. And then again at 21. " Congratulations xx | |||
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"I was watching an interesting program saying that if you got married and had kids in your 20s you would be alot happier especially women, whats your view?" Bullocks they are! | |||
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"I was watching an interesting program saying that if you got married and had kids in your 20s you would be alot happier especially women, whats your view?" What was this program called ‘Sweeping generalisations R us’ ? | |||
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"I got married at 20, now having a baby at 22 Would have had a baby at 20 if I didn’t miscarry. And then again at 21. " How many weeks are you now? | |||
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"I was watching an interesting program saying that if you got married and had kids in your 20s you would be alot happier especially women, whats your view?" Depends on who the dad is. If he's a useless knob then they'd probably be better off single and childless. | |||
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"I was watching an interesting program saying that if you got married and had kids in your 20s you would be alot happier especially women, whats your view?" There's a lot to this. Recent surveys and studies have shown conclusively that the more women become more career focused the unhappier they become. Still, if that's what they want it's up to them. What's even stranger is the Norwegian gender paradox. Norway is well known to be the most egalitarian country in the world. They have invested literally billions into gender neutral this that and the other. What's got them scratching their heads is why more than ever before, women go into traditonal caring roles and men go into traditional labour intensive and technical roles. It seems along with Norway and a few other countries, that when men and women are encouraged to make decisions they want to make, they are far more likely go into traditional gendered careers. | |||
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"I was watching an interesting program saying that if you got married and had kids in your 20s you would be alot happier especially women, whats your view? What was this program called ‘Sweeping generalisations R us’ ? " It was a swedish program about the role of women in the society. | |||
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"Don't think women are happier being tied down early with responsibilities tbh. In what way were they more happier? Did the programme mean women were less happy being teenage parents and older parents or were they genuinely thrilled when they married and then had kids in their 20s?" It was more like they could spend more time with them rather than less if having kids to late in life. | |||
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"I got married at 20, now having a baby at 22 Would have had a baby at 20 if I didn’t miscarry. And then again at 21. " Excellent news on the impending pregnancy you will love being a young mum you can enjoy all the fun stuff. My son is so open with me and we have such a understanding and friendship we would never have had if I had him later in life | |||
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"Don't think women are happier being tied down early with responsibilities tbh. In what way were they more happier? Did the programme mean women were less happy being teenage parents and older parents or were they genuinely thrilled when they married and then had kids in their 20s? It was more like they could spend more time with them rather than less if having kids to late in life." Makes sense. I used to use parenting forums and you'd see somemums being bitter about having to work to pay for their kids. You could tell they wanted to spend more time with them, although others enjoyed work and the adult time that gave them. | |||
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"Don't think women are happier being tied down early with responsibilities tbh. In what way were they more happier? Did the programme mean women were less happy being teenage parents and older parents or were they genuinely thrilled when they married and then had kids in their 20s? It was more like they could spend more time with them rather than less if having kids to late in life. Makes sense. I used to use parenting forums and you'd see somemums being bitter about having to work to pay for their kids. You could tell they wanted to spend more time with them, although others enjoyed work and the adult time that gave them." That is right, my mum got me when I was 20, good choice cos I can spend more time with my parents and as well with the grandparents and all of my relatives too. | |||
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"Don't think women are happier being tied down early with responsibilities tbh. In what way were they more happier? Did the programme mean women were less happy being teenage parents and older parents or were they genuinely thrilled when they married and then had kids in their 20s? It was more like they could spend more time with them rather than less if having kids to late in life. Makes sense. I used to use parenting forums and you'd see somemums being bitter about having to work to pay for their kids. You could tell they wanted to spend more time with them, although others enjoyed work and the adult time that gave them.That is right, my mum got me when I was 20, good choice cos I can spend more time with my parents and as well with the grandparents and all of my relatives too." Same here as well. Birthday parties were the best. | |||
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"I was watching an interesting program saying that if you got married and had kids in your 20s you would be alot happier especially women, whats your view?" I don't have any kids but I'm happy | |||
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"I got married at 20, now having a baby at 22 Would have had a baby at 20 if I didn’t miscarry. And then again at 21. " Sorry to hear you've had problems. Sometimes people don't realise it's not all plain sailing, having a baby. X | |||
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"I was watching an interesting program saying that if you got married and had kids in your 20s you would be alot happier especially women, whats your view?" It worked for me... though I am on marriage 2 as the first didn't last long Nita | |||
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"I was watching an interesting program saying that if you got married and had kids in your 20s you would be alot happier especially women, whats your view?" Nah. Mid and late 40s here. Together 20+ yrs and no intention of getting married. Had our kids mid 30's. Only regret (sometimes) is that we didn't have kids earlier as I would have had a football team. | |||
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"Of course this programme was propaganda for a population in decline as we move away from the dated opinions of these institutions. My reality is. Mum got married and kid before 25. Then got cheated on, divorced and is now a hateful old woman who will die alone because she can't trust men. So no I don't think rushing in to a family in your 20s will make you happier." Lol I did have to laugh at your propaganda statement. There's a reason for lowering birth rates. Mostly its due to men. Men are becoming less interested in getting married and settling down. The main reason for that is the massive inequalities in divorce. Men lose their homes, access to their children, half their income etc etc. Most men look at how their dads get screwed when mum gets bored and divorces him and they think "fuck that". They don't want to take the risk. Especially with ever increasing rates of divorce. Add to that the misandric attitude in society these days, especially in the media. Most men are portrayed as incompetent and inferior rather than as equals. So they've just given up. Why risk losing everything when you can keep it all to yourself, and never have to spend your life trying to live up to impossible standards that women seem to want these days. I have a 7 year old boy. I genuinely worry for his future and relationships. A lot of women these days are terrible. Have a look at dating apps. I had a look at my friends POF one day to see what the fuss was about. It was an eye opener. When you look at a guys profile, it usually tells you a bit about themselves, what kind of personality they have, what kind of things they like to do etc. Then when you look at a woman's profile, it reads like a list of demands from a hostage taker. Nothing about what they have to offer, only what they want. And they wonder why they are all alone. | |||
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"I don't have children so I don't know. However my sister was very young when she had her children 18 with her first and 20 with her second. It was a real struggle in the early days and still is to a certain extent however she is now only in her late thirties that has practically grown up children. She now is enjoying life to the full but the great thing is that she now has the resources and emotional maturity to really enjoy life. How children really enjoyed having a younger mother also. I'm not sure if it makes her happier than a woman who waited but she most definitely does not regret having her children young. " Yes I must admit I wish I'd done it sooner. I'm 40 now. I'm gonna be pushing 50 when he hits his teens haha. | |||
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"Of course this programme was propaganda for a population in decline as we move away from the dated opinions of these institutions. My reality is. Mum got married and kid before 25. Then got cheated on, divorced and is now a hateful old woman who will die alone because she can't trust men. So no I don't think rushing in to a family in your 20s will make you happier. Lol I did have to laugh at your propaganda statement. There's a reason for lowering birth rates. Mostly its due to men. Men are becoming less interested in getting married and settling down. The main reason for that is the massive inequalities in divorce. Men lose their homes, access to their children, half their income etc etc. Most men look at how their dads get screwed when mum gets bored and divorces him and they think "fuck that". They don't want to take the risk. Especially with ever increasing rates of divorce. Add to that the misandric attitude in society these days, especially in the media. Most men are portrayed as incompetent and inferior rather than as equals. So they've just given up. Why risk losing everything when you can keep it all to yourself, and never have to spend your life trying to live up to impossible standards that women seem to want these days. I have a 7 year old boy. I genuinely worry for his future and relationships. A lot of women these days are terrible. Have a look at dating apps. I had a look at my friends POF one day to see what the fuss was about. It was an eye opener. When you look at a guys profile, it usually tells you a bit about themselves, what kind of personality they have, what kind of things they like to do etc. Then when you look at a woman's profile, it reads like a list of demands from a hostage taker. Nothing about what they have to offer, only what they want. And they wonder why they are all alone." Interesting | |||
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"Of course this programme was propaganda for a population in decline as we move away from the dated opinions of these institutions. My reality is. Mum got married and kid before 25. Then got cheated on, divorced and is now a hateful old woman who will die alone because she can't trust men. So no I don't think rushing in to a family in your 20s will make you happier. Lol I did have to laugh at your propaganda statement. There's a reason for lowering birth rates. Mostly its due to men. Men are becoming less interested in getting married and settling down. The main reason for that is the massive inequalities in divorce. Men lose their homes, access to their children, half their income etc etc. Most men look at how their dads get screwed when mum gets bored and divorces him and they think "fuck that". They don't want to take the risk. Especially with ever increasing rates of divorce. Add to that the misandric attitude in society these days, especially in the media. Most men are portrayed as incompetent and inferior rather than as equals. So they've just given up. Why risk losing everything when you can keep it all to yourself, and never have to spend your life trying to live up to impossible standards that women seem to want these days. I have a 7 year old boy. I genuinely worry for his future and relationships. A lot of women these days are terrible. Have a look at dating apps. I had a look at my friends POF one day to see what the fuss was about. It was an eye opener. When you look at a guys profile, it usually tells you a bit about themselves, what kind of personality they have, what kind of things they like to do etc. Then when you look at a woman's profile, it reads like a list of demands from a hostage taker. Nothing about what they have to offer, only what they want. And they wonder why they are all alone." I watched a programme about a woman’s refuge last night. Scary how some men behave. | |||
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"Explain again how having kids and being tied down at 20 makes you happier? " Personally I'd hate the idea of old age having not had children but if people get there and they're happy with that then good for them. | |||
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"I mainly got pissed and stoned in my 20’s- clubs and raves most weekends- had a blast!, time for a well paid job too Never married, no kids- got fixed so there’s no accidents. Got a lovely house, nice car, 2-3 holidays a year, no debts, little stress and the only thing that stops me doing what I want, when I want is work. Explain again how having kids and being tied down at 20 makes you happier? " | |||
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"I was watching an interesting program saying that if you got married and had kids in your 20s you would be alot happier especially women, whats your view?" Married at 17 had 1st baby at 17 | |||
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