FabSwingers.com forum: Disabled Swingers

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am in a wheelchair (Mrs M) due to MS. That doesn't mean I don't have a sex drive as Mr M can vouch for this. I also have an ileostomy which saved my life back in 2014 I am fully aware this may put some people off but I have great tits ask Mr M and the ceiling hoists come in very handy.

On this site I have so far only found 1 other person in a wheelchair surely there are others who like me enjoy having great sex and fun. Where are you all!

Mrs M xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There have been a few men and at least 2 women on the forum that I can think of who use wheelchairs. You're not alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am in a wheelchair (Mrs M) due to MS. That doesn't mean I don't have a sex drive as Mr M can vouch for this. I also have an ileostomy which saved my life back in 2014 I am fully aware this may put some people off but I have great tits ask Mr M and the ceiling hoists come in very handy.

On this site I have so far only found 1 other person in a wheelchair surely there are others who like me enjoy having great sex and fun. Where are you all!

Mrs M xx"

One of our close friends who we play with is disabled. She’s so much fun.

It wouldn’t deter us at all, we would just need to know limits, what’s safe and what’s not. Much the same as any other meet really.

Enjoy your adventures!

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By *nicorn on wheelsWoman
over a year ago

scotland

On this site I have so far only found 1 other person in a wheelchair surely there are others who like me enjoy having great sex and fun. Where are you all!

Mrs M xx"

Hi I’m a wheelchair user also, I feel for you, the questions/requests I receive can be frustrating. I understand nit everyone understands or has experience with sexual encounters with wheelchair users but it’s infuriating when assumption are made.

I don’t have a hoist like you, must be fun to use

Fun can be had by all in many forms. And you can ask one who has met me. (Unless they say I’m rubbish then it’s all lies;) )

Gem xx

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Disabilities come in various forms, and not all are visible.

Mini rant here, as I sometimes get filthy looks when I use my Blue Badge...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"I feel ya! xx"

Who?!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

op some swinging clubs are wheelchair friendly. I know VA is

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Disabilities come in various forms, and not all are visible.

Mini rant here, as I sometimes get filthy looks when I use my Blue Badge... "

I feel ya!

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Disability for me is irrelevant as far as preferences are concerned. If someone's attractive/hot they're hot, making their disability effectively non existent in most respects. No one should make assumptions as to what is or isn't possible. Focusing on the positives is all that matters in the end. I'd be delighted to be contacted by someone with a disability as much as I would anyone else.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"Disabilities come in various forms, and not all are visible.

Mini rant here, as I sometimes get filthy looks when I use my Blue Badge...

I feel ya!

Or when non badge holders use fhe few spaces. Grrrrt

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I feel ya! xx

Who?!"

Mrs M! I understand xx

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"I feel ya! xx

Who?!

Mrs M! I understand xx"

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By *lay-full-funCouple
over a year ago

stockport

Iam in a wheelchair (Mrs) been swinging for nearly 15 years went in the chair 4 years ago hasn't stopped us haveing fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people are mental in the head and not the legs so... ya kno... diversity

Not for me tho... I’ve just gotten into yoga for one!...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people are mental in the head and not the legs so... ya kno... diversity

Not for me tho... I’ve just gotten into yoga for one!..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people are mental in the head and not the legs so... ya kno... diversity

Not for me tho... I’ve just gotten into yoga for one!..."

My the head one! But you know what, I still enjoy life x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people are mental in the head and not the legs so... ya kno... diversity

Not for me tho... I’ve just gotten into yoga for one!..."

I'm not mental, it's called bipolar disorder

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By *IG G77Man
over a year ago

GATLEY

Hi I'm here but wont let me message you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people are mental in the head and not the legs so... ya kno... diversity

Not for me tho... I’ve just gotten into yoga for one!...

I'm not mental, it's called bipolar disorder

you sure?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people are mental in the head and not the legs so... ya kno... diversity

Not for me tho... I’ve just gotten into yoga for one!...

I'm not mental, it's called bipolar disorder

you sure?!"

I really hope you are taking the piss! FFS!

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

One of the owners of quest in Leeds is a wheelchair user.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people are mental in the head and not the legs so... ya kno... diversity

Not for me tho... I’ve just gotten into yoga for one!...

I'm not mental, it's called bipolar disorder

you sure?!

I really hope you are taking the piss! FFS! "

I’m not that harsh

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By *kmale201633Man
over a year ago

Southampton

"Some people are mental in the head and not the legs so... ya kno... diversity

Not for me tho... I’ve just gotten into yoga for one!..."

I don't care if this is 'just banter', it's pathetic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people are mental in the head and not the legs so... ya kno... diversity

Not for me tho... I’ve just gotten into yoga for one!...

I don't care if this is 'just banter', it's pathetic. "

Thank you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people are mental in the head and not the legs so... ya kno... diversity

Not for me tho... I’ve just gotten into yoga for one!...

I'm not mental, it's called bipolar disorder

you sure?!

I really hope you are taking the piss! FFS!

I’m not that harsh

It is for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people are mental in the head and not the legs so... ya kno... diversity

Not for me tho... I’ve just gotten into yoga for one!...

I don't care if this is 'just banter', it's pathetic. "

Oh god... tell him later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He's not worth the forum ban over it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people are mental in the head and not the legs so... ya kno... diversity

Not for me tho... I’ve just gotten into yoga for one!..."

Hopefully you’ll never develop an illness that leaves you incapacitated in any way. There’s plenty of things on the site to take the piss out of. Disabilities isn’t one, it’s pretty bad form IMO.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Disabilities come in various forms, and not all are visible.

Mini rant here, as I sometimes get filthy looks when I use my Blue Badge... "

I have fibromyalgia and osteoarthritis and I get funny looks when I sit in a disabled seat on a bus or train, makes me feel like shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people are mental in the head and not the legs so... ya kno... diversity

Not for me tho... I’ve just gotten into yoga for one!...

Whaaaat?... I really think what I’ve said has been taken in the wrong way?!... is it because I used the word “Mental”?... as in “Mental Health”?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On this site I have so far only found 1 other person in a wheelchair surely there are others who like me enjoy having great sex and fun. Where are you all!

Mrs M xx"

Dont have to be in a wheelchair

I have IPF and have to use oxygen

But I still love sex and like you finding the positive in using your hoist as a swing I use my oxygen as a positive during oral...you know the old joke about being able to breathe thru your ears...well with a nasal oxygen canula I dont have to

hehe xx

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By *kmale201633Man
over a year ago

Southampton

"Some people are mental in the head and not the legs so... ya kno... diversity

Not for me tho... I’ve just gotten into yoga for one!...

Whaaaat?... I really think what I’ve said has been taken in the wrong way?!... is it because I used the word “Mental”?... as in “Mental Health”?"

What about the ya kno...diversity 'joke', how has that been taken in the wrong way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people are mental in the head and not the legs so... ya kno... diversity

Not for me tho... I’ve just gotten into yoga for one!...

Whaaaat?... I really think what I’ve said has been taken in the wrong way?!... is it because I used the word “Mental”?... as in “Mental Health”?

What about the ya kno...diversity 'joke', how has that been taken in the wrong way?"

I was pointing out that not all disabilities can be seen... as there’s a diverse array of afflictions that can’t be?... Onviously got a bee in your bonnet tho so just rip on fella...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On this site I have so far only found 1 other person in a wheelchair surely there are others who like me enjoy having great sex and fun. Where are you all!

Mrs M xx

Dont have to be in a wheelchair

I have IPF and have to use oxygen

hehe xx"

Oh wow love that post! Really brings out your sense of humour. Thank you for sharing.

Mrs M, we can all see you have great tits so no need to ask Mr M

I used to know of a woman in a wheelchair the last time I was on here and she used to post in the forums, but I can't remember her username. She also had an insatiable sex drive! I was at a social in a club last year and met a couple. The lady was a wheelchair user and again insatiable sex drive! She was saying she loves the lifestyle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need to find my way to Chippenham.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Disability comes in all forms.

If people fancy that person why shouldn't they be able to swing. Like anything in life if your prepared to talk and make a few allowances, then the fun should just be same all over.

M has a hidden Disability and can be open about it during swinging, some socials don't go further than that because of a variety of things. Sometimes we think people just don't know how to handle a Disability hidden or not.

Life is too short to dwell on those that don't get it, encourage the ones that do and have fun.

OP, I had to google that medical procedure, learnt something new today.

M & J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was brought up living next door to a girl who had cerebral palsy. Her and a friend went on the ferry to Bilbao with their three wheeled invalid cars for a holiday. I also have a grandson who has down syndrome but he attends a mainstream school and is doing pretty well. Don't look at the disability. See the ability.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Disability doesn’t bother us...in fact I’m fully qualified in using hoists and various other pieces of equipment (Mrs)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m paralysed from the chest down and I still have the same massive sex drive I had before my accident, I totally understand that the chair is not an attractive thing and it causes some issues with access so it limits where and how things can be done, but I definitely find it makes meeting on here near on mission impossible, I see all the posts from fit healthy guys that can tick all the boxes from the want list that ladies put out and they fail to meet so I’ve resigned to the fact that this is just a fantasy site for me now. Being able to get my real personality out in one message is not that easy so then mention that I’m in a wheelchair and that’s message deleted. I’m very realistic about the situation as would I honestly had gone for a lady in a chair before I was and the answer was probably no but now as I understand the frustration, well I’ll sit here with my collection of toys waiting to meet someone who can see past it and just enjoys good times and continue to enjoy reading all the boo hoo from the able bodied men that have no luck and all the women that get blown out by the time wasters.

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Really fantastic to hear all the positive comments on here. Things have rightfully moved on in the world of disability, with those of us perhaps more visually able-bodied seeing the person, rather than allow their disability to define them. I personally messaged a gorgeous lady with a disability recently who's profile really made me stop and take notice. Sadly it either didn't get read, or I wasn't for her, which was disappointing, but good on all who either don't allow a perceived imperfection to define them - and anyone else who rightly just sees someone gorgeous in exactly the same way as they would anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I may not be in a wheelchair but I do have a mild form of Autism known as Asperger's Syndrome.

I used to have social anxieties but when I first started going to a club, I made many great friends and had many fun times. My anxieties faded away over time and I became a much happier man than I was before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got autism. It's shit when people don't know me and say "oh he is like a right spastic wierdo"

They think it's ok because I don't wear the autism as a lable in public. So they single me out alot as an outcasts in groups or fear im a "wierdo"....

Like i must say "yeh I actually am a spastic who appears normal sometimes when I am actually not"

I do sports like normal people but I don't socially interact how I am expected to.

A girl liked me and hated me in a few days simply because I didn't give her the right eyecontact or attention when she was being warm to me....

The whole time I never flirted with her but because she made the effort and I wasn't receptive she's now being sour and bitter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not all disabilities are visable"

Is an annoying statement!

I agree....

But I also volenteer with amputees and people with profound autism...

The special service users can get changed in normal changing room.

I need the disabled room for an amputee...

So I don't appreciate people/parents of children with disabilities (like mine) taking facilities meant for people who can't physicly walk and are dependent on them....

"Not all disabilities are visable"....yah but autism or partially sighted doesn't mean you can use rooms meant for weelchair users!

Especially at "disabled swim"

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