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By *ickygirl41 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Been chatting to a fellow with the intention of a social meet and possibly more but as convo went on he was continuously mentioning a meet at his place of work after hours, I explained I would be happy to talk about a scenario like that but first meet has to be in a public place. He kept throwing out reasons his idea was better or why he couldn't go to a pub after work for a cola and a chat.

This is not a sympathy or opinion post tho people, this is a "most inventive or entertaining reason he'd truly truly have for meeting in his garage and not in a local bar"

Prove me wrong people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He is either a psycho killer but that could just be too far probably because he is married and hiding it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been chatting to a fellow with the intention of a social meet and possibly more but as convo went on he was continuously mentioning a meet at his place of work after hours, I explained I would be happy to talk about a scenario like that but first meet has to be in a public place. He kept throwing out reasons his idea was better or why he couldn't go to a pub after work for a cola and a chat.

This is not a sympathy or opinion post tho people, this is a "most inventive or entertaining reason he'd truly truly have for meeting in his garage and not in a local bar"

Prove me wrong people "

Can not afford the cola

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been chatting to a fellow with the intention of a social meet and possibly more but as convo went on he was continuously mentioning a meet at his place of work after hours, I explained I would be happy to talk about a scenario like that but first meet has to be in a public place. He kept throwing out reasons his idea was better or why he couldn't go to a pub after work for a cola and a chat.

This is not a sympathy or opinion post tho people, this is a "most inventive or entertaining reason he'd truly truly have for meeting in his garage and not in a local bar"

Prove me wrong people "

Sounds like he has a specific scenario/fantasy he wants to fulfill and he wants you to play the role of the woman.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Regardless of anything if you don't feel comfortable, then just don't do it. You are fully entitled to keep at all times within your comfort now zone.

I always suggest meeting in a public place first for your own safety.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Been chatting to a fellow with the intention of a social meet and possibly more but as convo went on he was continuously mentioning a meet at his place of work after hours, I explained I would be happy to talk about a scenario like that but first meet has to be in a public place. He kept throwing out reasons his idea was better or why he couldn't go to a pub after work for a cola and a chat.

This is not a sympathy or opinion post tho people, this is a "most inventive or entertaining reason he'd truly truly have for meeting in his garage and not in a local bar"

Prove me wrong people

Sounds like he has a specific scenario/fantasy he wants to fulfill and he wants you to play the role of the woman. "

This. He just wants sex, simple. I wouldn't be meeting him at all.

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By *ickygirl41 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Not terribly inventive so far, was hoping at least for an MI5 plot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He wants sex. Hes thinking if you meet him there and you get on there will be sex, in his place of work, after hours when everyone else has gone.

He can also tell his wife he's working late at the office and be telling the truth

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Move on op ,he wants completely different to what you want.

I use it as a filter when people refuse to have a social meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or, he doesn't want to buy you a Costa coffee and wants the free ones from work.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

His house has been taken over by the militant wing of the local playgroup. Angry toddlers accompanied by their parents armed with fully loaded play do bombs and highon Ribena are staking out the local bars. His garage is the only safe place as he's surrounded it with a repellent shield although you will be required to wear a tin foil hat to repel invasive thoughts

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"His house has been taken over by the militant wing of the local playgroup. Angry toddlers accompanied by their parents armed with fully loaded play do bombs and highon Ribena are staking out the local bars. His garage is the only safe place as he's surrounded it with a repellent shield although you will be required to wear a tin foil hat to repel invasive thoughts"

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By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds

I'd be envisioning gaffertape and cable ties, but not in a good way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he is the ceo of a big impressive company and he is thinking of trying to impress you so as to improve his chances for a meet after your social. Probably not though, he's probably got a dungeon in his office

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

Sounds like a complete nutter, avoid at all costs.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

It is likely he does not want to be seen in public with you in case it feeds back to his significant other, and also cannot be bothered with the social part of it he just wants to get you somewhere alone where he can have his way with you. It certainly wouldn't me a scenario I would feel is completely safe and suitable for your needs being respected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I spoke to one guy who “can’t” meet anywhere public as he’s being stalked by his crazy ex. Apparently for my own safety I need to meet him at his house or in a hotel (room only, not bar).

He also can’t give out his phone number for the same reason. Apparently it’s much safer if he rings me withholding his number in case she gets a hold of his phone. Blocked me when I pointed out that surely it would be safer if I called him from a withheld number lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Well I read and understood your post op

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By *ickygirl41 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"His house has been taken over by the militant wing of the local playgroup. Angry toddlers accompanied by their parents armed with fully loaded play do bombs and highon Ribena are staking out the local bars. His garage is the only safe place as he's surrounded it with a repellent shield although you will be required to wear a tin foil hat to repel invasive thoughts"

I have a tinfoil hat already, obvs a match made in heaven.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I spoke to one guy who “can’t” meet anywhere public as he’s being stalked by his crazy ex. Apparently for my own safety I need to meet him at his house or in a hotel (room only, not bar).

He also can’t give out his phone number for the same reason. Apparently it’s much safer if he rings me withholding his number in case she gets a hold of his phone. Blocked me when I pointed out that surely it would be safer if I called him from a withheld number lol"

Bejesus, that's some commitment to bullshit isn't it?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I read and understood your post op "

Ha! Yeah, I missed that bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not terribly inventive so far, was hoping at least for an MI5 plot "

Thats it -he wants you to fit new cupboards and shelving in his garage....oh wait thats MFI.

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By *ickygirl41 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Lol, folks,you all failed your close reading exam.

Defo not going to meet in his workplace.

If he can bring himself to go for a coffee in an actual shop with people around I may meet.

Safety first!

Now, anyone got one up on militant toddlers?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

He works in a garage you say? Well obviously he wants to meet there as:

(a) It'll give him some company on the night shift waiting for the occasional car needing petrol to pull in

(b) You'd be able to help him restock the shelves with Ginsters

(c) He'll have a ready made stash of porn magazines on the shelves he can entice you with (side note - are garages now the last bastion of porn mags?)

(d) He can live out a long help fantasy when you ask him to "fill her up" and he can reply "I'll fill you up gladly" in a leery voice.

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By *electableDalliancesCouple
over a year ago

leeds


"Well I read and understood your post op "

Oops I missed the last bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't you seen the giant rabbid fluffy bunnies that are taking over Earth? His garage is the safe house. Durrrr.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


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He also can’t give out his phone number for the same reason. Apparently it’s much safer if he rings me withholding his number in case she gets a hold of his phone."

Do these people ever think through their bullshit or do they think everyone else is really stupid?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

he has a thing about big-ends

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"he has a thing about big-ends "

Or perhaps he just wants to dip his dip stick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you're in his garage tell him not to start anything

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