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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Either on the forums or in PM.....

Backhanded complement?

Offensive?

Couldn't care less?

Mixed feelings?

In other words does it bother you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You do though.

I guess I can't really answer this yet as it hasn't happened but I think I'd just take it as a compliment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No backhanded about it! I’ll take that kind of compliment any day of the week

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

It's a compliment I'll take

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

I normally hate it.

Today, I’ve lost my sexy. I’ll take it. Cheers

Lex

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

It gets boring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It means you’re a massively old b*stard... but I’m desperate and probably would anyway?!...

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

I like it when it comes from someone who does not know my age.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Haha get this alot love it as i feel old..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I kinda like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It gets a little repetitive, but I'll take it.

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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back

I take it as a compliment after all I'm getting older by the minute

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull


"It means you’re a massively old b*stard... but I’m desperate and probably would anyway?!..."

That’s what I always think they mean when I get messages like that on here along with the ‘you’re stunning/gorgeous/hottest woman blah blah blah’ Pull the other one it plays jingle bells mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It gets a little repetitive, but I'll take it.

"

I bet you get used to it.. Lol xx

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I think the first time I receive it I'll realise I am old and hysterically cry. And then gracefully accept it. It's a well meaning compliment just poorly executed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always take it as a compliment... unless they think I look 60

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Either on the forums or in PM.....

Backhanded complement?

Offensive?

Couldn't care less?

Mixed feelings?

In other words does it bother you"

If someone says I look good - I’ll take that! But then turning 50 didn’t bother me either! In my eyes I went from looking ok for someone in her forties to looking bloody amazing for someone in her fifties overnight!

Age is just a number - and an attitude! I’ve come across plenty of people in their twenties who act like they’re in their seventies!

If people want to add ‘for my age’ then let ‘em!

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

The for your age bit kinda waters down the compliment, it's meant well tho so wouldn't be offended. Better than omg you've had a rough life lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely a complement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't look 26 more like 18-20 x

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Better than the other way round. Some bloke got hammered on here not so long ago when he said he was 47.

Me I don’t get it I’m hoping it’s because I’m not at that stage and not because I look tragic.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What if you are now old and you DONT get a message saying that, all fuckin he'll breaks loose

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

Age is a number that you either wear well or you don’t . It’s all about how you feel about yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take no offence by that comment. I get it often so I’m used to it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I got one awhile ago off a 30 something young lady complimenting me, made my day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m 99, I’m doing alright

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got one awhile ago off a 30 something young lady complimenting me, made my day"

Your lovely Dash

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I told a lie, im really 65.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I take no offence by that comment. I get it often so I’m used to it. "

Ooooooh look at you all used to it by now and that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I got one awhile ago off a 30 something young lady complimenting me, made my day

Your lovely Dash "

Tears of joy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I told a lie, im really 65."

You look great anyway .. Whatever your age x

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"I think the first time I receive it I'll realise I am old and hysterically cry. And then gracefully accept it. It's a well meaning compliment just poorly executed."

But you are old...

I know your real age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id take it any day as a compliment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I take no offence by that comment. I get it often so I’m used to it.

Ooooooh look at you all used to it by now and that"

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"Either on the forums or in PM.....

Backhanded complement?

Offensive?

Couldn't care less?

Mixed feelings?

In other words does it bother you

If someone says I look good - I’ll take that! But then turning 50 didn’t bother me either! In my eyes I went from looking ok for someone in her forties to looking bloody amazing for someone in her fifties overnight!

Age is just a number - and an attitude! I’ve come across plenty of people in their twenties who act like they’re in their seventies!

If people want to add ‘for my age’ then let ‘em! "

Peachy you will always be attractive you have a wise attitude to life which will always shine through even after gravity has taken its toll, which it hasn't yet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Either on the forums or in PM.....

Backhanded complement?

Offensive?

Couldn't care less?

Mixed feelings?

In other words does it bother you

If someone says I look good - I’ll take that! But then turning 50 didn’t bother me either! In my eyes I went from looking ok for someone in her forties to looking bloody amazing for someone in her fifties overnight!

Age is just a number - and an attitude! I’ve come across plenty of people in their twenties who act like they’re in their seventies!

If people want to add ‘for my age’ then let ‘em!

Peachy you will always be attractive you have a wise attitude to life which will always shine through even after gravity has taken its toll, which it hasn't yet. "

Wise=old.... O dear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck it,a compliment is a compliment, backhanded or not

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

I will take any compliments I get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it’s always nice when someone tells you that and also after a meet they say that was amazing sex

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere


"The for your age bit kinda waters down the compliment, it's meant well tho so wouldn't be offended. Better than omg you've had a rough life lol"

Which is the kind of comment I get when people find out my age and think I’m older. Lost my hair in early 20’s (by 21 really) and upnintol that point I always looked younger.

Saved a fortune in barbers fees though

And you know the cause of baldness in men don’t you??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got one awhile ago off a 30 something young lady complimenting me, made my day

Your lovely Dash

Tears of joy"

Awww don’t cry Dash, here have a cuddle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get told I look older. And it’s supposed to be a compliment. Motherfuckers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deffo compliment no other way of looking at it glass half full bud

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I got one awhile ago off a 30 something young lady complimenting me, made my day

Your lovely Dash

Tears of joy

Awww don’t cry Dash, here have a cuddle "

It worked dash ,MOTORBOAT!!!

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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Told by students at work today they thought I was late 20s

Always take it as a compliment

TB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd accept it but then I'm just an old fugly....

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

I find it ageist..

You either look good or not..

age should be irrelevant..

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By *ustooCouple
over a year ago

East Fife

We get compliments all the time, they’ve seen the bodies but not the faces lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find it ageist..

You either look good or not..

age should be irrelevant.."

Of course it is, if my mother was "dating" a 16 year old lad I would have something to say about it, she's 70 fucking 6.....ok?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a compliment dont overthink it

Its like been called cute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll take it, nice to get a compliment x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its a compliment dont overthink it

Its like been called cute"

Is that your ass?

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

People tell me I look younger than my age, and I mean people I meet face to face every day not someone sending a message on here, I am all filtered up anyway so people can’t send messages my body is shot to fuck tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take it as a compliment...Iv had much worse messages

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By *arahBaby123Woman
over a year ago

WORCESTER

It's a whole lot better than 'nice tits' type of comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People say that to me a lot, and it's usually much younger people.

I think it's because they don't really know what a 53 year looks like an think it's ancient.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it ageist..

You either look good or not..

age should be irrelevant..

Of course it is, if my mother was "dating" a 16 year old lad I would have something to say about it, she's 70 fucking 6.....ok?"

You killjoy

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull


"People tell me I look younger than my age, and I mean people I meet face to face every day not someone sending a message on here, I am all filtered up anyway so people can’t send messages my body is shot to fuck tho "

When people find out my age in real life, face to face, they don’t believe it and think I’m a lot younger but on here most people can’t see my face. Messages and flattery on here are always taken with a large pinch of salt anyway. I’m a little too cynical for my own good sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People tell me I look younger than my age, and I mean people I meet face to face every day not someone sending a message on here, I am all filtered up anyway so people can’t send messages my body is shot to fuck tho

When people find out my age in real life, face to face, they don’t believe it and think I’m a lot younger but on here most people can’t see my face. Messages and flattery on here are always taken with a large pinch of salt anyway. I’m a little too cynical for my own good sometimes "

You look so much better in the flesh SJ .. Hope you are doing ok.. Take care.

Mr Nice x

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

I take it as a compliment

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"People tell me I look younger than my age, and I mean people I meet face to face every day not someone sending a message on here, I am all filtered up anyway so people can’t send messages my body is shot to fuck tho

When people find out my age in real life, face to face, they don’t believe it and think I’m a lot younger but on here most people can’t see my face. Messages and flattery on here are always taken with a large pinch of salt anyway. I’m a little too cynical for my own good sometimes "

I was actually laughed at when I told the guys at work I had been to an over 50’s swim session, they told me not to be so daft and to stop lying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get told I look good for my age ..but on here i take it as just flannel...we are a totally normal mid 40s couple with wrinkles and wobbly bits, nothing at all special.

I get more compliments than Cookie, butagain, on here, that’s expected ..

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By *hatterley64Couple
over a year ago

Hertford

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Why add caveats? Is it ok to add ‘for a woman/black man/homosexual’?

Just offer the compliment and stop making judgements.

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By *hatterley64Couple
over a year ago

Hertford


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A compliments a compliment. Backhanded or not I’m happy to take what’s on offer!!

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I'll take it as a compliment as I work hard for it. I exercise, eat healthy, don't smoke, rarely drink. Result

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive never had anyone say here I look young or old for my age but I’ve had a few people say I don’t look old enough to have an 18 year old outside of here, I look at my crows feet etc and I don’t concur

Danish x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Its a compliment and I take it as such but why not just say "you look good" ? Nobody ever says "you look good for your age" to a 25 year old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel just a bit sad when Im called a mature woman in a message. It certainly doesnt make me feel sexy.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"It's a compliment I'll take "

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why add caveats? Is it ok to add ‘for a woman/black man/homosexual’?

Just offer the compliment and stop making judgements. "

I have soft skin...for an old woman, apparently.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"I feel just a bit sad when Im called a mature woman in a message. It certainly doesnt make me feel sexy. "

Now I don't mind being called mature or older or even old but I really dislike being called "young at heart" it makes me think of 90 year olds wearing baseball caps.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I was in the attic last weekend and somebody started the guess the age thing. Let's just say I've still not forgiven the cunt

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Why add caveats? Is it ok to add ‘for a woman/black man/homosexual’?

Just offer the compliment and stop making judgements.

I have soft skin...for an old woman, apparently. "

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I feel just a bit sad when Im called a mature woman in a message. It certainly doesnt make me feel sexy.

Now I don't mind being called mature or older or even old but I really dislike being called "young at heart" it makes me think of 90 year olds wearing baseball caps."

Now that I want to see

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"I was in the attic last weekend and somebody started the guess the age thing. Let's just say I've still not forgiven the cunt "

First rule of age guessing, take at least ten years off your estimate

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull


"People tell me I look younger than my age, and I mean people I meet face to face every day not someone sending a message on here, I am all filtered up anyway so people can’t send messages my body is shot to fuck tho

When people find out my age in real life, face to face, they don’t believe it and think I’m a lot younger but on here most people can’t see my face. Messages and flattery on here are always taken with a large pinch of salt anyway. I’m a little too cynical for my own good sometimes

You look so much better in the flesh SJ .. Hope you are doing ok.. Take care.

Mr Nice x "

Thank you secret Santa

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I was in the attic last weekend and somebody started the guess the age thing. Let's just say I've still not forgiven the cunt

First rule of age guessing, take at least ten years off your estimate"

Hate that game

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By *ottielouWoman
over a year ago

Come and see x

I take it as a compliment also x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I feel just a bit sad when Im called a mature woman in a message. It certainly doesnt make me feel sexy.

Now I don't mind being called mature or older or even old but I really dislike being called "young at heart" it makes me think of 90 year olds wearing baseball caps.

Now that I want to see "

Hastings is a hot bed of 90 year olds in cargo pants and cargo pants.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I was in the attic last weekend and somebody started the guess the age thing. Let's just say I've still not forgiven the cunt

First rule of age guessing, take at least ten years off your estimate"

I did I was well under I know the rules and have had the slaps for getting it wrong to. It took all night to console me after that it was hell

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I feel just a bit sad when Im called a mature woman in a message. It certainly doesnt make me feel sexy.

Now I don't mind being called mature or older or even old but I really dislike being called "young at heart" it makes me think of 90 year olds wearing baseball caps.

Now that I want to see

Hastings is a hot bed of 90 year olds in cargo pants and cargo pants. "

Now your just turning me on young lady

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"I feel just a bit sad when Im called a mature woman in a message. It certainly doesnt make me feel sexy.

Now I don't mind being called mature or older or even old but I really dislike being called "young at heart" it makes me think of 90 year olds wearing baseball caps.

Now that I want to see

Hastings is a hot bed of 90 year olds in cargo pants and cargo pants.

Now your just turning me on young lady "

People of my age know how to please a man . I also meant to say cargo pants and baseball caps but at my age I forget what I'm saying mid sentence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take it as a compliment because I don't look my age. In the real world people rarely believe I'm almost 50, so it's not just faux Fab flattery

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find it ageist..

You either look good or not..

age should be irrelevant..

Of course it is, if my mother was "dating" a 16 year old lad I would have something to say about it, she's 70 fucking 6.....ok?

You killjoy"

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I feel just a bit sad when Im called a mature woman in a message. It certainly doesnt make me feel sexy.

Now I don't mind being called mature or older or even old but I really dislike being called "young at heart" it makes me think of 90 year olds wearing baseball caps.

Now that I want to see

Hastings is a hot bed of 90 year olds in cargo pants and cargo pants.

Now your just turning me on young lady

People of my age know how to please a man . I also meant to say cargo pants and baseball caps but at my age I forget what I'm saying mid sentence "

Is that so. I also have a thing for bingo wings if you've a single sister

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Complimentary. Most think I'm lying about my age and they're not thinking I'm 60 either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most definitely a compliment, that's how it's intended when I say it anyway.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone recently told me I hadn't changed a bit since I last saw them nearly 20 years ago....my first thought was shit that means I looked haggard when i was 25!!!!

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By *entileschiWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Not looking or acting my age is a good thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel just a bit sad when Im called a mature woman in a message. It certainly doesnt make me feel sexy.

Now I don't mind being called mature or older or even old but I really dislike being called "young at heart" it makes me think of 90 year olds wearing baseball caps."

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Someone recently told me I hadn't changed a bit since I last saw them nearly 20 years ago....my first thought was shit that means I looked haggard when i was 25!!!! "

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By *rtraymondo76Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"You do though.

I guess I can't really answer this yet as it hasn't happened but I think I'd just take it as a compliment. "

I've complimented you a couple of times now, and never once mentioned or even showed an interest in your age. We are what we are. Take us or leave us.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Most definitely a compliment, that's how it's intended when I say it anyway.

Jo.Xx "

Great ass

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By *esires of HertsCouple
over a year ago

Herts and London Borders

definitely a nice compliment in the vanilla world...but on Fab and directed towards a female most probably an angle at getting her knickers off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im both exceptionally handsome AND deluded.I might play 'walking football'like Fulham.Where's my nurse

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By *rtraymondo76Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"It's a whole lot better than 'nice tits' type of comment "

Sarahbaby

You KNOW how I feel about you. Wink, wink. Yes and nice tits as well. But a fabulous kisser.

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By *r GreyfoxMan
over a year ago

Newport

People are always shocked when I say how old I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most definitely a compliment, that's how it's intended when I say it anyway.

Jo.Xx

Great ass"

For my age

Thanks, great abs.

Jo.Xx

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"Why add caveats? Is it ok to add ‘for a woman/black man/homosexual’?

Just offer the compliment and stop making judgements.

I have soft skin...for an old woman, apparently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like it when it comes from someone who does not know my age. "

Exactly this!

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

We're always flattered when people are genuinely shocked when they discover how old we are (our ages on our profile are correct)

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

On the occasions it happens and is genuine, I take it as a compliment.

I have no objection what so ever to people being surprised I'm 45 and thinking I look good.

Nita

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Found what I was looking for...

"You need to stop telling me that I look younger than my age, and I will return the favor. We need to reject the harmful and hurtful garbage of internalized ageism, stop fetishizing youth and stop spoon-feeding each other crap like, “You look 10 years younger than your age.” We need to stop making the natural progression of time anything other than what it is ? a triumph, and a testament to our wisdom and experience."

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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I read it a bit like ‘you’re older than I would normally go for but you look ok actually, probably like someone a few years younger so I don’t mind giving you a go’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll do you Dash even of you look good for your age X

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By *r GreyfoxMan
over a year ago

Newport

If anyone wants to see what I look like ask and I will send you a photo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never get that. I get "you look good for your size" or words to the equivalent.

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

Debra gets the “I don’t believe you” when people find out our ages, as if we would make ourselves older than we are! That’s in normal vanilla life and work environments too.

She also had the MILF thing when the kids were 15/16 through to present day.

Of course it’s taken with a pinch of salt but it’s nice to hear occasionally.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'll do you Dash even of you look good for your age X "

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Found what I was looking for...

"You need to stop telling me that I look younger than my age, and I will return the favor. We need to reject the harmful and hurtful garbage of internalized ageism, stop fetishizing youth and stop spoon-feeding each other crap like, “You look 10 years younger than your age.” We need to stop making the natural progression of time anything other than what it is ? a triumph, and a testament to our wisdom and experience."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Found what I was looking for...

"You need to stop telling me that I look younger than my age, and I will return the favor. We need to reject the harmful and hurtful garbage of internalized ageism, stop fetishizing youth and stop spoon-feeding each other crap like, “You look 10 years younger than your age.” We need to stop making the natural progression of time anything other than what it is ? a triumph, and a testament to our wisdom and experience.""

Soooooooo do you like it or not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Found what I was looking for...

"You need to stop telling me that I look younger than my age, and I will return the favor. We need to reject the harmful and hurtful garbage of internalized ageism, stop fetishizing youth and stop spoon-feeding each other crap like, “You look 10 years younger than your age.” We need to stop making the natural progression of time anything other than what it is ? a triumph, and a testament to our wisdom and experience.""

Being told I look a lot younger than my age doesn't make me feel good. Is it supposed to?

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Found what I was looking for...

"You need to stop telling me that I look younger than my age, and I will return the favor. We need to reject the harmful and hurtful garbage of internalized ageism, stop fetishizing youth and stop spoon-feeding each other crap like, “You look 10 years younger than your age.” We need to stop making the natural progression of time anything other than what it is ? a triumph, and a testament to our wisdom and experience."

Soooooooo do you like it or not? "

You can’t tell?

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By *r. JoystickMan
over a year ago

SE London

I would be worried if I looked bad for 25!

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Found what I was looking for...

"You need to stop telling me that I look younger than my age, and I will return the favor. We need to reject the harmful and hurtful garbage of internalized ageism, stop fetishizing youth and stop spoon-feeding each other crap like, “You look 10 years younger than your age.” We need to stop making the natural progression of time anything other than what it is ? a triumph, and a testament to our wisdom and experience."

Being told I look a lot younger than my age doesn't make me feel good. Is it supposed to? "

Other people seem to think so. Why we can’t give compliments without caveats is beyond me.

I’m 58 and I look like me. That’s all there is to it.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"I would be worried if I looked bad for 25! "

What’s does a ‘bad’ 25 year old look like?

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By *r. JoystickMan
over a year ago

SE London


"I would be worried if I looked bad for 25!

What’s does a ‘bad’ 25 year old look like?"

The 25th anniversary re-release of Michael Jackson's hit song?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't really both us. We think if it's from a complete stranger that does not know us it means nithing.

The people we are friends with would not do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does age really matter if someone looks good? Personally don't think it should make its way into things, if you look good you look good end of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would be accepted as a compliment, thank you kindly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would be accepted as a compliment, thank you kindly. "

Wow that ass!!

Hold on, this is the female chatting isnt it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always get told I look younger so I’d take it as a compliment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would be accepted as a compliment, thank you kindly.

Wow that ass!!

Hold on, this is the female chatting isnt it? "

Not really chatting just commenting but thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good read

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