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"It means you’re a massively old b*stard... but I’m desperate and probably would anyway?!..." That’s what I always think they mean when I get messages like that on here along with the ‘you’re stunning/gorgeous/hottest woman blah blah blah’ Pull the other one it plays jingle bells mate | |||
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"It gets a little repetitive, but I'll take it. " I bet you get used to it.. Lol xx | |||
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"Either on the forums or in PM..... Backhanded complement? Offensive? Couldn't care less? Mixed feelings? In other words does it bother you" If someone says I look good - I’ll take that! But then turning 50 didn’t bother me either! In my eyes I went from looking ok for someone in her forties to looking bloody amazing for someone in her fifties overnight! Age is just a number - and an attitude! I’ve come across plenty of people in their twenties who act like they’re in their seventies! If people want to add ‘for my age’ then let ‘em! | |||
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"I got one awhile ago off a 30 something young lady complimenting me, made my day" Your lovely Dash | |||
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"I take no offence by that comment. I get it often so I’m used to it. " Ooooooh look at you all used to it by now and that | |||
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"I got one awhile ago off a 30 something young lady complimenting me, made my day Your lovely Dash " Tears of joy | |||
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"I told a lie, im really 65." You look great anyway .. Whatever your age x | |||
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"I think the first time I receive it I'll realise I am old and hysterically cry. And then gracefully accept it. It's a well meaning compliment just poorly executed." But you are old... I know your real age | |||
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"I take no offence by that comment. I get it often so I’m used to it. Ooooooh look at you all used to it by now and that" | |||
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"Either on the forums or in PM..... Backhanded complement? Offensive? Couldn't care less? Mixed feelings? In other words does it bother you If someone says I look good - I’ll take that! But then turning 50 didn’t bother me either! In my eyes I went from looking ok for someone in her forties to looking bloody amazing for someone in her fifties overnight! Age is just a number - and an attitude! I’ve come across plenty of people in their twenties who act like they’re in their seventies! If people want to add ‘for my age’ then let ‘em! " Peachy you will always be attractive you have a wise attitude to life which will always shine through even after gravity has taken its toll, which it hasn't yet. | |||
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"The for your age bit kinda waters down the compliment, it's meant well tho so wouldn't be offended. Better than omg you've had a rough life lol" Which is the kind of comment I get when people find out my age and think I’m older. Lost my hair in early 20’s (by 21 really) and upnintol that point I always looked younger. Saved a fortune in barbers fees though And you know the cause of baldness in men don’t you?? | |||
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"I got one awhile ago off a 30 something young lady complimenting me, made my day Your lovely Dash Tears of joy" Awww don’t cry Dash, here have a cuddle | |||
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"I got one awhile ago off a 30 something young lady complimenting me, made my day Your lovely Dash Tears of joy Awww don’t cry Dash, here have a cuddle " It worked dash ,MOTORBOAT!!! | |||
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"I find it ageist.. You either look good or not.. age should be irrelevant.." Of course it is, if my mother was "dating" a 16 year old lad I would have something to say about it, she's 70 fucking 6.....ok? | |||
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"Its a compliment dont overthink it Its like been called cute" Is that your ass? | |||
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"I find it ageist.. You either look good or not.. age should be irrelevant.. Of course it is, if my mother was "dating" a 16 year old lad I would have something to say about it, she's 70 fucking 6.....ok?" You killjoy | |||
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"People tell me I look younger than my age, and I mean people I meet face to face every day not someone sending a message on here, I am all filtered up anyway so people can’t send messages my body is shot to fuck tho " When people find out my age in real life, face to face, they don’t believe it and think I’m a lot younger but on here most people can’t see my face. Messages and flattery on here are always taken with a large pinch of salt anyway. I’m a little too cynical for my own good sometimes | |||
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"People tell me I look younger than my age, and I mean people I meet face to face every day not someone sending a message on here, I am all filtered up anyway so people can’t send messages my body is shot to fuck tho When people find out my age in real life, face to face, they don’t believe it and think I’m a lot younger but on here most people can’t see my face. Messages and flattery on here are always taken with a large pinch of salt anyway. I’m a little too cynical for my own good sometimes " You look so much better in the flesh SJ .. Hope you are doing ok.. Take care. Mr Nice x | |||
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"People tell me I look younger than my age, and I mean people I meet face to face every day not someone sending a message on here, I am all filtered up anyway so people can’t send messages my body is shot to fuck tho When people find out my age in real life, face to face, they don’t believe it and think I’m a lot younger but on here most people can’t see my face. Messages and flattery on here are always taken with a large pinch of salt anyway. I’m a little too cynical for my own good sometimes " I was actually laughed at when I told the guys at work I had been to an over 50’s swim session, they told me not to be so daft and to stop lying | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 28/02/19 16:37:24]" A compliments a compliment. Backhanded or not I’m happy to take what’s on offer!! | |||
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"It's a compliment I'll take " Me too | |||
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"Why add caveats? Is it ok to add ‘for a woman/black man/homosexual’? Just offer the compliment and stop making judgements. " I have soft skin...for an old woman, apparently. | |||
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"I feel just a bit sad when Im called a mature woman in a message. It certainly doesnt make me feel sexy. " Now I don't mind being called mature or older or even old but I really dislike being called "young at heart" it makes me think of 90 year olds wearing baseball caps. | |||
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"Why add caveats? Is it ok to add ‘for a woman/black man/homosexual’? Just offer the compliment and stop making judgements. I have soft skin...for an old woman, apparently. " . | |||
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"I feel just a bit sad when Im called a mature woman in a message. It certainly doesnt make me feel sexy. Now I don't mind being called mature or older or even old but I really dislike being called "young at heart" it makes me think of 90 year olds wearing baseball caps." Now that I want to see | |||
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"I was in the attic last weekend and somebody started the guess the age thing. Let's just say I've still not forgiven the cunt " First rule of age guessing, take at least ten years off your estimate | |||
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"People tell me I look younger than my age, and I mean people I meet face to face every day not someone sending a message on here, I am all filtered up anyway so people can’t send messages my body is shot to fuck tho When people find out my age in real life, face to face, they don’t believe it and think I’m a lot younger but on here most people can’t see my face. Messages and flattery on here are always taken with a large pinch of salt anyway. I’m a little too cynical for my own good sometimes You look so much better in the flesh SJ .. Hope you are doing ok.. Take care. Mr Nice x " Thank you secret Santa | |||
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"I was in the attic last weekend and somebody started the guess the age thing. Let's just say I've still not forgiven the cunt First rule of age guessing, take at least ten years off your estimate" Hate that game | |||
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"I feel just a bit sad when Im called a mature woman in a message. It certainly doesnt make me feel sexy. Now I don't mind being called mature or older or even old but I really dislike being called "young at heart" it makes me think of 90 year olds wearing baseball caps. Now that I want to see " Hastings is a hot bed of 90 year olds in cargo pants and cargo pants. | |||
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"I was in the attic last weekend and somebody started the guess the age thing. Let's just say I've still not forgiven the cunt First rule of age guessing, take at least ten years off your estimate" I did I was well under I know the rules and have had the slaps for getting it wrong to. It took all night to console me after that it was hell | |||
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"I feel just a bit sad when Im called a mature woman in a message. It certainly doesnt make me feel sexy. Now I don't mind being called mature or older or even old but I really dislike being called "young at heart" it makes me think of 90 year olds wearing baseball caps. Now that I want to see Hastings is a hot bed of 90 year olds in cargo pants and cargo pants. " Now your just turning me on young lady | |||
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"I feel just a bit sad when Im called a mature woman in a message. It certainly doesnt make me feel sexy. Now I don't mind being called mature or older or even old but I really dislike being called "young at heart" it makes me think of 90 year olds wearing baseball caps. Now that I want to see Hastings is a hot bed of 90 year olds in cargo pants and cargo pants. Now your just turning me on young lady " People of my age know how to please a man . I also meant to say cargo pants and baseball caps but at my age I forget what I'm saying mid sentence | |||
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"I find it ageist.. You either look good or not.. age should be irrelevant.. Of course it is, if my mother was "dating" a 16 year old lad I would have something to say about it, she's 70 fucking 6.....ok? You killjoy" | |||
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"I feel just a bit sad when Im called a mature woman in a message. It certainly doesnt make me feel sexy. Now I don't mind being called mature or older or even old but I really dislike being called "young at heart" it makes me think of 90 year olds wearing baseball caps. Now that I want to see Hastings is a hot bed of 90 year olds in cargo pants and cargo pants. Now your just turning me on young lady People of my age know how to please a man . I also meant to say cargo pants and baseball caps but at my age I forget what I'm saying mid sentence " Is that so. I also have a thing for bingo wings if you've a single sister | |||
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"I feel just a bit sad when Im called a mature woman in a message. It certainly doesnt make me feel sexy. Now I don't mind being called mature or older or even old but I really dislike being called "young at heart" it makes me think of 90 year olds wearing baseball caps." | |||
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"Someone recently told me I hadn't changed a bit since I last saw them nearly 20 years ago....my first thought was shit that means I looked haggard when i was 25!!!! " | |||
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"You do though. I guess I can't really answer this yet as it hasn't happened but I think I'd just take it as a compliment. " I've complimented you a couple of times now, and never once mentioned or even showed an interest in your age. We are what we are. Take us or leave us. | |||
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"Most definitely a compliment, that's how it's intended when I say it anyway. Jo.Xx " Great ass | |||
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"It's a whole lot better than 'nice tits' type of comment " Sarahbaby You KNOW how I feel about you. Wink, wink. Yes and nice tits as well. But a fabulous kisser. | |||
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"Most definitely a compliment, that's how it's intended when I say it anyway. Jo.Xx Great ass" For my age Thanks, great abs. Jo.Xx | |||
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"Why add caveats? Is it ok to add ‘for a woman/black man/homosexual’? Just offer the compliment and stop making judgements. I have soft skin...for an old woman, apparently. . " | |||
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"I like it when it comes from someone who does not know my age. " Exactly this! | |||
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"I'll do you Dash even of you look good for your age X " | |||
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"Found what I was looking for... "You need to stop telling me that I look younger than my age, and I will return the favor. We need to reject the harmful and hurtful garbage of internalized ageism, stop fetishizing youth and stop spoon-feeding each other crap like, “You look 10 years younger than your age.” We need to stop making the natural progression of time anything other than what it is ? a triumph, and a testament to our wisdom and experience."" Soooooooo do you like it or not? | |||
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"Found what I was looking for... "You need to stop telling me that I look younger than my age, and I will return the favor. We need to reject the harmful and hurtful garbage of internalized ageism, stop fetishizing youth and stop spoon-feeding each other crap like, “You look 10 years younger than your age.” We need to stop making the natural progression of time anything other than what it is ? a triumph, and a testament to our wisdom and experience."" Being told I look a lot younger than my age doesn't make me feel good. Is it supposed to? | |||
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"Found what I was looking for... "You need to stop telling me that I look younger than my age, and I will return the favor. We need to reject the harmful and hurtful garbage of internalized ageism, stop fetishizing youth and stop spoon-feeding each other crap like, “You look 10 years younger than your age.” We need to stop making the natural progression of time anything other than what it is ? a triumph, and a testament to our wisdom and experience." Soooooooo do you like it or not? " You can’t tell? | |||
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"Found what I was looking for... "You need to stop telling me that I look younger than my age, and I will return the favor. We need to reject the harmful and hurtful garbage of internalized ageism, stop fetishizing youth and stop spoon-feeding each other crap like, “You look 10 years younger than your age.” We need to stop making the natural progression of time anything other than what it is ? a triumph, and a testament to our wisdom and experience." Being told I look a lot younger than my age doesn't make me feel good. Is it supposed to? " Other people seem to think so. Why we can’t give compliments without caveats is beyond me. I’m 58 and I look like me. That’s all there is to it. | |||
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"I would be worried if I looked bad for 25! " What’s does a ‘bad’ 25 year old look like? | |||
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"I would be worried if I looked bad for 25! What’s does a ‘bad’ 25 year old look like?" The 25th anniversary re-release of Michael Jackson's hit song? | |||
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"Would be accepted as a compliment, thank you kindly. " Wow that ass!! Hold on, this is the female chatting isnt it? | |||
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"Would be accepted as a compliment, thank you kindly. Wow that ass!! Hold on, this is the female chatting isnt it? " Not really chatting just commenting but thanks. | |||
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