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"It means you’re a massively old b*stard... but I’m desperate and probably would anyway?!..." That’s what I always think they mean when I get messages like that on here along with the ‘you’re stunning/gorgeous/hottest woman blah blah blah’ Pull the other one it plays jingle bells mate ![]() ![]() | |||
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"It gets a little repetitive, but I'll take it. " I bet you get used to it.. Lol xx ![]() | |||
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"Either on the forums or in PM..... Backhanded complement? Offensive? Couldn't care less? Mixed feelings? In other words does it bother you" If someone says I look good - I’ll take that! But then turning 50 didn’t bother me either! In my eyes I went from looking ok for someone in her forties to looking bloody amazing for someone in her fifties overnight! ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I got one awhile ago off a 30 something young lady complimenting me, made my day" Your lovely Dash ![]() | |||
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"I take no offence by that comment. I get it often so I’m used to it. " Ooooooh look at you all used to it by now and that | |||
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"I got one awhile ago off a 30 something young lady complimenting me, made my day Your lovely Dash ![]() Tears of joy ![]() | |||
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"I told a lie, im really 65." You look great anyway .. Whatever your age x ![]() | |||
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"I think the first time I receive it I'll realise I am old and hysterically cry. And then gracefully accept it. It's a well meaning compliment just poorly executed." But you are old... I know your real age | |||
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"I take no offence by that comment. I get it often so I’m used to it. Ooooooh look at you all used to it by now and that" ![]() | |||
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"Either on the forums or in PM..... Backhanded complement? Offensive? Couldn't care less? Mixed feelings? In other words does it bother you If someone says I look good - I’ll take that! But then turning 50 didn’t bother me either! In my eyes I went from looking ok for someone in her forties to looking bloody amazing for someone in her fifties overnight! ![]() ![]() ![]() Peachy you will always be attractive you have a wise attitude to life which will always shine through even after gravity has taken its toll, which it hasn't yet. ![]() | |||
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"The for your age bit kinda waters down the compliment, it's meant well tho so wouldn't be offended. Better than omg you've had a rough life lol" Which is the kind of comment I get when people find out my age and think I’m older. Lost my hair in early 20’s (by 21 really) and upnintol that point I always looked younger. Saved a fortune in barbers fees though ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I got one awhile ago off a 30 something young lady complimenting me, made my day Your lovely Dash ![]() ![]() Awww don’t cry Dash, here have a cuddle ![]() | |||
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"I got one awhile ago off a 30 something young lady complimenting me, made my day Your lovely Dash ![]() ![]() ![]() It worked dash ![]() | |||
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"I find it ageist.. You either look good or not.. age should be irrelevant.." Of course it is, if my mother was "dating" a 16 year old lad I would have something to say about it, she's 70 fucking 6.....ok? | |||
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"Its a compliment dont overthink it Its like been called cute" Is that your ass? | |||
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"I find it ageist.. You either look good or not.. age should be irrelevant.. Of course it is, if my mother was "dating" a 16 year old lad I would have something to say about it, she's 70 fucking 6.....ok?" You killjoy | |||
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"People tell me I look younger than my age, and I mean people I meet face to face every day not someone sending a message on here, I am all filtered up anyway so people can’t send messages ![]() ![]() When people find out my age in real life, face to face, they don’t believe it and think I’m a lot younger but on here most people can’t see my face. Messages and flattery on here are always taken with a large pinch of salt anyway. I’m a little too cynical for my own good sometimes ![]() | |||
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"People tell me I look younger than my age, and I mean people I meet face to face every day not someone sending a message on here, I am all filtered up anyway so people can’t send messages ![]() ![]() ![]() You look so much better in the flesh SJ .. Hope you are doing ok.. Take care. Mr Nice x | |||
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"People tell me I look younger than my age, and I mean people I meet face to face every day not someone sending a message on here, I am all filtered up anyway so people can’t send messages ![]() ![]() ![]() I was actually laughed at when I told the guys at work I had been to an over 50’s swim session, they told me not to be so daft and to stop lying ![]() ![]() | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 28/02/19 16:37:24]" A compliments a compliment. Backhanded or not I’m happy to take what’s on offer!! | |||
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"It's a compliment I'll take " Me too ![]() | |||
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"Why add caveats? Is it ok to add ‘for a woman/black man/homosexual’? Just offer the compliment and stop making judgements. " I have soft skin...for an old woman, apparently. | |||
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"I feel just a bit sad when Im called a mature woman in a message. It certainly doesnt make me feel sexy. ![]() Now I don't mind being called mature or older or even old but I really dislike being called "young at heart" ![]() | |||
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"Why add caveats? Is it ok to add ‘for a woman/black man/homosexual’? Just offer the compliment and stop making judgements. I have soft skin...for an old woman, apparently. " ![]() | |||
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"I feel just a bit sad when Im called a mature woman in a message. It certainly doesnt make me feel sexy. ![]() ![]() Now that I want to see ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I was in the attic last weekend and somebody started the guess the age thing. Let's just say I've still not forgiven the cunt ![]() ![]() First rule of age guessing, take at least ten years off your estimate | |||
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"People tell me I look younger than my age, and I mean people I meet face to face every day not someone sending a message on here, I am all filtered up anyway so people can’t send messages ![]() ![]() ![]() Thank you secret Santa ![]() | |||
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"I was in the attic last weekend and somebody started the guess the age thing. Let's just say I've still not forgiven the cunt ![]() ![]() Hate that game ![]() | |||
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"I feel just a bit sad when Im called a mature woman in a message. It certainly doesnt make me feel sexy. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Hastings is a hot bed of 90 year olds in cargo pants and cargo pants. ![]() | |||
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"I was in the attic last weekend and somebody started the guess the age thing. Let's just say I've still not forgiven the cunt ![]() ![]() I did I was well under I know the rules and have had the slaps for getting it wrong to. It took all night to console me after that it was hell ![]() | |||
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"I feel just a bit sad when Im called a mature woman in a message. It certainly doesnt make me feel sexy. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Now your just turning me on young lady ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I feel just a bit sad when Im called a mature woman in a message. It certainly doesnt make me feel sexy. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() People of my age know how to please a man ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I find it ageist.. You either look good or not.. age should be irrelevant.. Of course it is, if my mother was "dating" a 16 year old lad I would have something to say about it, she's 70 fucking 6.....ok? You killjoy" ![]() | |||
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"I feel just a bit sad when Im called a mature woman in a message. It certainly doesnt make me feel sexy. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Is that so. I also have a thing for bingo wings if you've a single sister ![]() | |||
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"I feel just a bit sad when Im called a mature woman in a message. It certainly doesnt make me feel sexy. ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Someone recently told me I hadn't changed a bit since I last saw them nearly 20 years ago....my first thought was shit that means I looked haggard when i was 25!!!! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"You do though. ![]() I've complimented you a couple of times now, and never once mentioned or even showed an interest in your age. We are what we are. Take us or leave us. ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Most definitely a compliment, that's how it's intended when I say it anyway. Jo.Xx " Great ass | |||
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"It's a whole lot better than 'nice tits' type of comment ![]() ![]() ![]() Sarahbaby You KNOW how I feel about you. Wink, wink. Yes and nice tits as well. But a fabulous kisser. | |||
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"Most definitely a compliment, that's how it's intended when I say it anyway. Jo.Xx Great ass" For my age ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Why add caveats? Is it ok to add ‘for a woman/black man/homosexual’? Just offer the compliment and stop making judgements. I have soft skin...for an old woman, apparently. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I like it when it comes from someone who does not know my age. ![]() Exactly this! ![]() | |||
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"I'll do you Dash even of you look good for your age X " ![]() | |||
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"Found what I was looking for... "You need to stop telling me that I look younger than my age, and I will return the favor. We need to reject the harmful and hurtful garbage of internalized ageism, stop fetishizing youth and stop spoon-feeding each other crap like, “You look 10 years younger than your age.” We need to stop making the natural progression of time anything other than what it is ? a triumph, and a testament to our wisdom and experience."" Soooooooo do you like it or not? ![]() | |||
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"Found what I was looking for... "You need to stop telling me that I look younger than my age, and I will return the favor. We need to reject the harmful and hurtful garbage of internalized ageism, stop fetishizing youth and stop spoon-feeding each other crap like, “You look 10 years younger than your age.” We need to stop making the natural progression of time anything other than what it is ? a triumph, and a testament to our wisdom and experience."" Being told I look a lot younger than my age doesn't make me feel good. Is it supposed to? | |||
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"Found what I was looking for... "You need to stop telling me that I look younger than my age, and I will return the favor. We need to reject the harmful and hurtful garbage of internalized ageism, stop fetishizing youth and stop spoon-feeding each other crap like, “You look 10 years younger than your age.” We need to stop making the natural progression of time anything other than what it is ? a triumph, and a testament to our wisdom and experience." Soooooooo do you like it or not? ![]() You can’t tell? ![]() | |||
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"Found what I was looking for... "You need to stop telling me that I look younger than my age, and I will return the favor. We need to reject the harmful and hurtful garbage of internalized ageism, stop fetishizing youth and stop spoon-feeding each other crap like, “You look 10 years younger than your age.” We need to stop making the natural progression of time anything other than what it is ? a triumph, and a testament to our wisdom and experience." Being told I look a lot younger than my age doesn't make me feel good. Is it supposed to? " Other people seem to think so. Why we can’t give compliments without caveats is beyond me. I’m 58 and I look like me. That’s all there is to it. | |||
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"I would be worried if I looked bad for 25! ![]() What’s does a ‘bad’ 25 year old look like? | |||
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"I would be worried if I looked bad for 25! ![]() The 25th anniversary re-release of Michael Jackson's hit song? ![]() | |||
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"Would be accepted as a compliment, thank you kindly. ![]() Wow that ass!! Hold on, this is the female chatting isnt it? | |||
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"Would be accepted as a compliment, thank you kindly. ![]() Not really chatting just commenting but thanks. | |||
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