FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to The Lounge

Just a few tips please

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi

I'm new to this site...well new ish. Can anyone give me any tips that might help? I think my profile is fine. I know I haven't got any pics on there but I've got a good reason not to. However any advice would be very gratefully received.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very little chance without pics, you don't have to show your face, we don't.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only one thing.....

Covering expenses in what way? Only thing imho that wouldn't come across as creepy would be cum?

Minor point, so don't stress, and I'm an arsehole, so it's probably invalid and someone will probs point you in a better direction

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi

I'm new to this site...well new ish. Can anyone give me any tips that might help? I think my profile is fine. I know I haven't got any pics on there but I've got a good reason not to. However any advice would be very gratefully received. "

I'm assuming you're tattooed from head to toe and own no clothes.

That's the only fathamable reason I can muster up as to why someone can't have pics.

Oh, or no camera on their phone, laptop or any other device capable of capturing images.

P

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only one thing.....

Covering expenses in what way?"

He might be into tributing The Queen. Thank goodness some of the notes are plastic now. About time.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

[Removed by poster at 27/02/19 15:58:09]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 27/02/19 16:09:56]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi

I'm new to this site...well new ish. Can anyone give me any tips that might help? I think my profile is fine. I know I haven't got any pics on there but I've got a good reason not to. However any advice would be very gratefully received.

I'm assuming you're tattooed from head to toe and own no clothes.

That's the only fathamable reason I can muster up as to why someone can't have pics.

Oh, or no camera on their phone, laptop or any other device capable of capturing images.

P"

Wrong on all counts I'm afraid.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are happy with your profile, leave it be.

Adjust your expectations.

The harder you try to get a meet, the harder it is to get one.

Just go with the flow, more meets happen when you are just chatting and connecting with people.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi

I'm new to this site...well new ish. Can anyone give me any tips that might help? I think my profile is fine. I know I haven't got any pics on there but I've got a good reason not to. However any advice would be very gratefully received. "

Pictures and a text with a bit of a personality injected into It, will help. There's no excuse not to have ANY pictures on your profile at all. There's discreet, then wanking discreet. I'm afraid no pics at all will more likely land you in the wanking discreet category, than the meeting one. Good luck

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have some pictures would help, they don’t need to be face pics as we can’t have them either due to work reasons (half a face is acceptable lol).

Maybe taking out the expenses part, from my point of view is does seem a little like you are willing to pay for it.

Danish x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Tip removed by poster at 27/02/19 15:58:09]"

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Tip removed by poster at 27/02/19 15:58:09]"

That's tight.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Tip removed by poster at 27/02/19 15:58:09]

That's tight. "

It wasn't me.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Without photos there is no way I would consider meeting you. No matter how wonderful and interesting your profile might be...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you so incredibly famous that we'd recognise you from, say a side torso shot?

Remove the expenses bit, get to socials and clubs and join in on the forums and maybe just maybe show us a little flesh...

Peach x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People look at photos first without them most just tend to move onto the next person.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People look at photos first without them most just tend to move onto the next person. "

I thought most chicks looked at expenses?

(tbf I did have a girl ask me if I'd cover her taxi the other week, foreal.... ......there's heavy cummers and there's beyond reason.....! )

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics, pics and more pics to start at the very least.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *cgkcCouple
over a year ago

Hitchin

Last time I saw OP he was jamming good with Weird and Gilly.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without any photos you’ve got two hopes, no hope and Bob Hope.

Good luck

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sadly it seems like I'm probably wasting my time here then. The 'expenses' bit was because on other sites I've been on I have been asked to pay for their petrol if they are quite a distance away and I've got no problem doing that at all.

I really don't know why so many people are saying I have to post pics. I have explained that I won't and I have good reasons not to. So any tips regarding pics is pointless. I already know you stand a better chance with pics. I do offer to send pics with messages so that's something. Anyway...thanks very much. It seems the only tip you have is 'post pics'. No problem. I'll just leave it as it is on the off chance there is someone here who it might click with. Thanks for your contributions anyway. Have fun.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Last time I saw OP he was jamming good with Weird and Gilly. In my younger days

"

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sadly it seems like I'm probably wasting my time here then. The 'expenses' bit was because on other sites I've been on I have been asked to pay for their petrol if they are quite a distance away and I've got no problem doing that at all.

I really don't know why so many people are saying I have to post pics. I have explained that I won't and I have good reasons not to. So any tips regarding pics is pointless. I already know you stand a better chance with pics. I do offer to send pics with messages so that's something. Anyway...thanks very much. It seems the only tip you have is 'post pics'. No problem. I'll just leave it as it is on the off chance there is someone here who it might click with. Thanks for your contributions anyway. Have fun."

You don’t have to have photos, but why would a woman even consider a photoless profile when there are thousands with decent photos on.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's fine. I think I've got the gist.

Cheers.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Kinda wish I hadn't asked now...can a post be removed?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant help i never had sex before

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I cant help i never had sex before "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sadly it seems like I'm probably wasting my time here then. The 'expenses' bit was because on other sites I've been on I have been asked to pay for their petrol if they are quite a distance away and I've got no problem doing that at all.

I really don't know why so many people are saying I have to post pics. I have explained that I won't and I have good reasons not to. So any tips regarding pics is pointless. I already know you stand a better chance with pics. I do offer to send pics with messages so that's something. Anyway...thanks very much. It seems the only tip you have is 'post pics'. No problem. I'll just leave it as it is on the off chance there is someone here who it might click with. Thanks for your contributions anyway. Have fun."

They are saying It, because there are so many profiles you are competing with to gain attention, that most if not all, are far more likely to start talking to someone with a full profile. It's how it works. Fingers crossed you will find one who couldn't care if they are chatting to a shadow profile though. I'm sure it happens sometimes

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do a forum search on anything you want to know. That's my top tip!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sadly it seems like I'm probably wasting my time here then. The 'expenses' bit was because on other sites I've been on I have been asked to pay for their petrol if they are quite a distance away and I've got no problem doing that at all.

I really don't know why so many people are saying I have to post pics. I have explained that I won't and I have good reasons not to. So any tips regarding pics is pointless. I already know you stand a better chance with pics. I do offer to send pics with messages so that's something. Anyway...thanks very much. It seems the only tip you have is 'post pics'. No problem. I'll just leave it as it is on the off chance there is someone here who it might click with. Thanks for your contributions anyway. Have fun."

Awww, I'm sorry my friend, I was just taking the piss on the expenses, it's what I do worst. Don't take it to heart and chin up, there's someone for everyone on here. Most of the arseholes here are visually unfuckable so if you flip that then maybe you're the man with the plan after all....? Stick with it and be yourself, but never be afraid to learn new shit....

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sadly it seems like I'm probably wasting my time here then. The 'expenses' bit was because on other sites I've been on I have been asked to pay for their petrol if they are quite a distance away and I've got no problem doing that at all.

I really don't know why so many people are saying I have to post pics. I have explained that I won't and I have good reasons not to. So any tips regarding pics is pointless. I already know you stand a better chance with pics. I do offer to send pics with messages so that's something. Anyway...thanks very much. It seems the only tip you have is 'post pics'. No problem. I'll just leave it as it is on the off chance there is someone here who it might click with. Thanks for your contributions anyway. Have fun.

Awww, I'm sorry my friend, I was just taking the piss on the expenses, it's what I do worst. Don't take it to heart and chin up, there's someone for everyone on here. Most of the arseholes here are visually unfuckable so if you flip that then maybe you're the man with the plan after all....? Stick with it and be yourself, but never be afraid to learn new shit.... "

Thank you for that

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Aside from the pics, it's probably been said already but the "expenses" bit reads like you're trying to attract prostitutes. This will put off many women.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

I'm curious what's the reasons?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi

I'm new to this site...well new ish. Can anyone give me any tips that might help? I think my profile is fine. I know I haven't got any pics on there but I've got a good reason not to. However any advice would be very gratefully received. "

Depends on how desperate you are for a meet. You could sell your soul to the devil to try and a get a fuck.

I like that you are happy in yourself and how your profile is. I say if you like it, keep it.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

If you have no pictures only way around it, is when you send a message attach a picture as well and hope the recipient like what they see.

I’d remove the ‘no oil painting’ at best it’s saying you’re ordinary looking at worst ...well !

Just look at some of your competition on here who do have pictures, verifications and amusing profiles. Even one yesterday bragging how much he looked like Ryan Gosling, and he did Good Luck

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top