FabSwingers.com forum: Dating sites

By *iger-blue OP Woman
over a year ago

Crewe

I appreciate this is a strange question for a swingers forum, but can anyone recommend a good dating site? I'm thinking of Match or Tinder...any thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I appreciate this is a strange question for a swingers forum, but can anyone recommend a good dating site? I'm thinking of Match or Tinder...any thoughts? "
whats wrong with fab? Are they not all the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice ass on you op

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I appreciate this is a strange question for a swingers forum, but can anyone recommend a good dating site? I'm thinking of Match or Tinder...any thoughts? whats wrong with fab? Are they not all the same"

I believe they are all the same. At least with fab people are honest about what they want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends what you want from a dating site really but I wouldn't say tinder is really one more a hook up app.

In theory though paid sites should cut down on time wasters and players.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe they are all the same. At least with fab people are honest about what they want. "

Yeah fabs all about honesty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It depends what you want from a dating site really but I wouldn't say tinder is really one more a hook up app.

In theory though paid sites should cut down on time wasters and players. "

Dear lord my underpants have just exploded!!!

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

I recommend going for a specialised site and not a general dating one. Nobody reads your profile or care what it says so if you join a site where you know you'll have similar people to you on it then you're more likely to find what you want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met my Knight off here.. better than all dating sites.. 6m on he not ran away yet ... lol

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Probably all the same people on all of them (even here) so just look on here it saves explaining a swinging past later too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience of them, the free ones are pretty much the same as here, I’ve seen plenty of people on both sites and 98% of the time the likes of tinder and badoo etc it’s pretty much guys wanting a shag.

You do get the rare people that meet and fall in love, my ex husband being one of them, he was lucky I guess.

I would think a proper paid dating site you might have more luck in finding a relationship, my ex sister in law went on one and found her husband (admittedly it was one of those ‘find a rich man’ job) but she still found a husband lol.

I found Ads here, so you do get some relationships from these places, plenty of members had found love here, we are probably in that 2%.

Good luck

Geeky x

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By *U1966Man
over a year ago

Devon

Match.com worked for me met a lovely lady who I wouldn't of met otherwise. Found POF a waste of time

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By *talian PassionMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

As far as I'm concerned, I met women on Tinder, Badoo, twoo, pof, Essex single and fuckbuddy. Most of them time waster. I would prefer fab because you match with people closer to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been told by several friends that Bumble is best for ladies.

Men can’t message you until you message them apparently

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Probably all the same people on all of them (even here) so just look on here it saves explaining a swinging past later too. "

This is very true on all points x

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

Bumble is the future.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

They are all crap really.

You want a single person to date, they want a single person to date, you both pick based on chemistry. Spend the next 3 months finding out the person they showed you was the best version of them, and not who they are in day in day out.

So you gradually start to argue, he tries to think you're changing him, but you're just trying to bring out the guy he was pretending to be when you met.

You drift apart and break up

All because you dated someone who was single and looking for a girlfriend when you were single looking for a boyfriend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They are all crap really.

So you gradually start to argue, he tries to think you're changing him, but you're just trying to bring out the guy he was pretending to be when you met.

You drift apart and break up

All because you dated someone who was single and looking for a girlfriend when you were single looking for a boyfriend."

An old friend of mine did exactly this, she met him on tinder, bought a house with him just two months later and less than a year after being together they have now broken up, I thought Ads and I moved quick but had nothing on her, I do feel sorry for her in a way, I am hoping she will take some time off the dating scene for a while and meet someone, actually be with them a while before she takes another big leap. Mind you life is too short sometimes, she had balls.

Geeky x

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By *oul BrothaMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy far far away

A unique alternative is meeting people "in real life".

Or try speed dating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe they are all the same. At least with fab people are honest about what they want. "
agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It depends what you want from a dating site really but I wouldn't say tinder is really one more a hook up app.

In theory though paid sites should cut down on time wasters and players. "
what a beautiful body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe they are all the same. At least with fab people are honest about what they want. "

Thought OP said dating site. Fab isn't that or even pretends to be, nor Tinder.

Try OkCupid OP. Used it for dating and definitely a different breed on there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe they are all the same. At least with fab people are honest about what they want. "
exactly faf

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"A unique alternative is meeting people "in real life".

Or try speed dating. "

What is this "real life" you speak of?!

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By *oungcouple25Couple
over a year ago

coventry

"I appreciate this is a strange question for a swingers forum, but can anyone recommend a good dating site? I'm thinking of Match or Tinder...any thoughts? "

Jack and I met on tinder 5 years ago. We now have a mortgage , are engaged to marry and are planning on having a family . So tindercdoes work

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By *oungcouple25Couple
over a year ago

coventry

"I appreciate this is a strange question for a swingers forum, but can anyone recommend a good dating site? I'm thinking of Match or Tinder...any thoughts? "

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By *iger-blue OP Woman
over a year ago

Crewe

"I appreciate this is a strange question for a swingers forum, but can anyone recommend a good dating site? I'm thinking of Match or Tinder...any thoughts?

Jack and I met on tinder 5 years ago. We now have a mortgage , are engaged to marry and are planning on having a family . So tindercdoes work "

Was that the free Tinder, or did you pay for it?

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By *iger-blue OP Woman
over a year ago

Crewe

"A unique alternative is meeting people "in real life".

Or try speed dating. "

I've tried speed dating...3 mins can be a lifetime lol!!

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By *iger-blue OP Woman
over a year ago

Crewe

"Probably all the same people on all of them (even here) so just look on here it saves explaining a swinging past later too. "

Yes...explaining that could be a bit tricky lol!!

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By *oungcouple25Couple
over a year ago

coventry

"I appreciate this is a strange question for a swingers forum, but can anyone recommend a good dating site? I'm thinking of Match or Tinder...any thoughts?

Jack and I met on tinder 5 years ago. We now have a mortgage , are engaged to marry and are planning on having a family . So tindercdoes work

Was that the free Tinder, or did you pay for it?"

Free tinder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have used a variety of sites, and echoing above , bumble gets a lot of good feedback as ladies have to say hi.

Equally, tinder , bumble And here will have a lot of cross over.

All in its a numbers game, you match , chat and go from there.

You might be lucky and meet 'the one' the first day , it might never happen.

Lots of players and mistruth is rife. But that's the same as real life. Someone you meet in a bar can tell you anything too.

Just use as a tool to 'meet' people and go from there. People who think Fab is truthful and honest are deluded. Some are, some aren't.

I met a lot of woman through dating apps, and had a lot of casual encounters. Current GF was a tinder match and we are super happy. Could have met her first swipe , but didn't!

Have a list of tickboxes you need a date to fulfil , if they don't you move on.

Ultimately dating should be fun, with luck the right one is there for you, and doesn't matter what you use to meet them

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Personally I was a big fan of OK Cupid. The comparability questions help to match people across all aspects including attitudes towards monogomy and sex in a useful and not creepy or seedy way that maybe other sites don't. The only real down side was that it's a lesser used site so the selection is not so good.

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

I've tried a fair few sites ..some (mostly) free and others paid membership. They were all pretty similar, pof haven't used in months seemed to have a lot of ladies with issues, okcupid messages from all over the world, badoo poop. Bumble seems popular at the moment, ladies that have messaged me on there really need to learn how to message.. hi just doesn't do it.

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By *oupleNeedPlus1Couple
over a year ago

Reading

M and I met on Tinder... It's possible!!

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"I appreciate this is a strange question for a swingers forum, but can anyone recommend a good dating site? I'm thinking of Match or Tinder...any thoughts? "

No their are all crap, full of narcissistic arseholes who just want to rub their own egos. If you want to meet ACTUAL PEOPLE try socialize more.

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By *iger-blue OP Woman
over a year ago

Crewe

"I have used a variety of sites, and echoing above , bumble gets a lot of good feedback as ladies have to say hi.

Equally, tinder , bumble And here will have a lot of cross over.

All in its a numbers game, you match , chat and go from there.

You might be lucky and meet 'the one' the first day , it might never happen.

Lots of players and mistruth is rife. But that's the same as real life. Someone you meet in a bar can tell you anything too.

Just use as a tool to 'meet' people and go from there. People who think Fab is truthful and honest are deluded. Some are, some aren't.

I met a lot of woman through dating apps, and had a lot of casual encounters. Current GF was a tinder match and we are super happy. Could have met her first swipe , but didn't!

Have a list of tickboxes you need a date to fulfil , if they don't you move on.

Ultimately dating should be fun, with luck the right one is there for you, and doesn't matter what you use to meet them "

Thanks for the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They are all crap really.

So you gradually start to argue, he tries to think you're changing him, but you're just trying to bring out the guy he was pretending to be when you met.

You drift apart and break up

All because you dated someone who was single and looking for a girlfriend when you were single looking for a boyfriend."

You Sir , get it.....

This is exactly what happens all the time..

Op I would suggest going out more often. Whenever someone invites you out to do something.. just go...

Online dating has made us lazy...

I find it funny now that when people go out to socialize, they are constantly on their phones..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They are all crap really.

So you gradually start to argue, he tries to think you're changing him, but you're just trying to bring out the guy he was pretending to be when you met.

You drift apart and break up

All because you dated someone who was single and looking for a girlfriend when you were single looking for a boyfriend."

That is sooooo true!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love all the 'they're all shit , waste of time posts '

Yes, I'm sure the many thousands of people who use them agree .

It's what you make of it. If you want to date , where is better to look? Online sites of similar single people, or hope you bump into someone in the frozen section of Tesco!

I know where my choice is going. If you are 'normal', and have the ability to chat and flirt it's all very simple.

If you are socially inept and defeatist from the start, well i imagine it might be a little tricky.

I love the dating app world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It depends what you want from a dating site really but I wouldn't say tinder is really one more a hook up app.

In theory though paid sites should cut down on time wasters and players.

Dear lord my underpants have just exploded!!! "

How embarrassing ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've tried a fair few sites ..some (mostly) free and others paid membership. They were all pretty similar, pof haven't used in months seemed to have a lot of ladies with issues, okcupid messages from all over the world, badoo poop. Bumble seems popular at the moment, ladies that have messaged me on there really need to learn how to message.. hi just doesn't do it.

Probably because they aren't real people ...

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I can’t believe that on the day I read this thread I’ve matched with two ladies on Bumble that I’ve met in passing in clubs. True!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can’t believe that on the day I read this thread I’ve matched with two ladies on Bumble that I’ve met in passing in clubs. True! "

Go for it

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By *ewitching1Woman
over a year ago

belfast

I'm on bumble and matched 3 guys on fab!!! So that saved any tricky conversations

good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tinder isn’t that great , haven’t tried Match and plenty of fish was awful . Sorry I’m not much help but I would try them and see as you never know !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tinder isn’t that great , haven’t tried Match and plenty of fish was awful . Sorry I’m not much help but I would try them and see as you never know !

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