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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I write this after a conversation in fact a lengthy conversation of the way women are now thinking that they are better looking then what they are. Before I get barrels of abuse please hear this out.

Before the use of phones and other technologies to meet people, the way people meet was through a mutual attraction and people being approached. Now obviously we have 2 ends of the scale here and that scale is rated 1-the pits to 10-worldie. Now before technology all the 7-10s used to get hounded with praise and such likes which turned them into stuck up people and not really worth the time spent on trying to bed them. Nowadays even the 1-4s are getting these compliments because it's easy to message someone hiding behind your phone or laptop. Now I'm finding even these 1-4s are getting a bit stuck up thinking that they are unreal and it's all down to desperate men doing desperate things. So please men think before you act as you are making the scale a bit of a mockery.

This isn't offensive it's the truth and I'd love to hear what someone else thinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One person's 1-4 is another person's 7-10.

I know what you are saying OP but if you think those acting "above their status" are only 1-4 then why are you messaging them anyway? All women on Fab get loads of attention on here which gives them the option to be very selective in choosing who they meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm not messaging them. I read their profile and a lot of them ask for things that are really out of their league in normal life

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By *ream3.14159Man
over a year ago

Here & there

Take cover my man, God (a woman by the way) will release the hounds of hell and they will be after your arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not messaging them. I read their profile and a lot of them ask for things that are really out of their league in normal life"

How do you know that? Do you know them all personally?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice OP, but I think I'll carry on seeking what I desire, and not settling for 2nd best.

Yours sincerely

An ugly bint.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Have to disagree completely - has nothing to do with technology or some ridiculous grading scheme (I'm sure some of the ladies here will be very glad to be described as either "the pits" or a "worldie" - like they're some world class goal that's just been scored) - simple fact of the matter is there have always been those who have been put on a pedestal and believed the hype as a result, even when I was at school there were those boys and girls who were considered the most sought after, and bought into it too.

So technology isn't the reason at all - and in my three years or so on here, the vast majority of people I have interacted with or met, have been grounded, level headed people who interact just as we always have done.

The whole "women getting ideas above their station" thing is usually rolled out by men who use it as a thing to blame because they've not got a meet, when they really should be looking closer to home for the reasons.

Yes there are some (of both genders) who get caught up in some of the hype, and start to believe it - but that's always been the case - meanwhile there are plenty of grounded people who "get" it that just carry on having a good time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It may be your perception OP.

But then perhaps the issue is the way you view and "score" others like they are prize cattle in a country fair?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All those damned uppity, ugly women should just be damned grateful for anything they can get huh OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree, it's all the men's fault. They should think with their big brain not their little brain.

I'm barely a 1 but I still get messages. It's utter madness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Making a mockery of the scale

Damn you men.

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By *am4CamWoman
over a year ago

Fairy Land

Out of interest OP; where on this scale of yours would you rate yourself?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I write this after a conversation in fact a lengthy conversation of the way women are now thinking that they are better looking then what they are. Before I get barrels of abuse please hear this out.

Before the use of phones and other technologies to meet people, the way people meet was through a mutual attraction and people being approached. Now obviously we have 2 ends of the scale here and that scale is rated 1-the pits to 10-worldie. Now before technology all the 7-10s used to get hounded with praise and such likes which turned them into stuck up people and not really worth the time spent on trying to bed them. Nowadays even the 1-4s are getting these compliments because it's easy to message someone hiding behind your phone or laptop. Now I'm finding even these 1-4s are getting a bit stuck up thinking that they are unreal and it's all down to desperate men doing desperate things. So please men think before you act as you are making the scale a bit of a mockery.

This isn't offensive it's the truth and I'd love to hear what someone else thinks "

I don't know about women, I find men vastly over-estimate their 'value' on such scales, maybe that's the problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I write this after a conversation in fact a lengthy conversation of the way women are now thinking that they are better looking then what they are. Before I get barrels of abuse please hear this out.

Before the use of phones and other technologies to meet people, the way people meet was through a mutual attraction and people being approached. Now obviously we have 2 ends of the scale here and that scale is rated 1-the pits to 10-worldie. Now before technology all the 7-10s used to get hounded with praise and such likes which turned them into stuck up people and not really worth the time spent on trying to bed them. Nowadays even the 1-4s are getting these compliments because it's easy to message someone hiding behind your phone or laptop. Now I'm finding even these 1-4s are getting a bit stuck up thinking that they are unreal and it's all down to desperate men doing desperate things. So please men think before you act as you are making the scale a bit of a mockery.

This isn't offensive it's the truth and I'd love to hear what someone else thinks

I don't know about women, I find men vastly over-estimate their 'value' on such scales, maybe that's the problem."

Not all men. Scurrying back to the darkness of the man cave with the covered up mirrors

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what if they do feel they are higher on the "scale" than they actually are?

Surely they are clearly beneath your standards in the first place, so their opinion of themselves has no impact on your search for the truly desirable women...

As has been said true attractiveness (in all is very subjective.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I write this after a conversation in fact a lengthy conversation of the way women are now thinking that they are better looking then what they are. Before I get barrels of abuse please hear this out.

Before the use of phones and other technologies to meet people, the way people meet was through a mutual attraction and people being approached. Now obviously we have 2 ends of the scale here and that scale is rated 1-the pits to 10-worldie. Now before technology all the 7-10s used to get hounded with praise and such likes which turned them into stuck up people and not really worth the time spent on trying to bed them. Nowadays even the 1-4s are getting these compliments because it's easy to message someone hiding behind your phone or laptop. Now I'm finding even these 1-4s are getting a bit stuck up thinking that they are unreal and it's all down to desperate men doing desperate things. So please men think before you act as you are making the scale a bit of a mockery.

This isn't offensive it's the truth and I'd love to hear what someone else thinks

I don't know about women, I find men vastly over-estimate their 'value' on such scales, maybe that's the problem.

Not all men. Scurrying back to the darkness of the man cave with the covered up mirrors "

Yeah, some of you know your place...

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By *onderstuff73mMan
over a year ago

Brum


"I write this after a conversation in fact a lengthy conversation of the way women are now thinking that they are better looking then what they are. Before I get barrels of abuse please hear this out.

Before the use of phones and other technologies to meet people, the way people meet was through a mutual attraction and people being approached. Now obviously we have 2 ends of the scale here and that scale is rated 1-the pits to 10-worldie. Now before technology all the 7-10s used to get hounded with praise and such likes which turned them into stuck up people and not really worth the time spent on trying to bed them. Nowadays even the 1-4s are getting these compliments because it's easy to message someone hiding behind your phone or laptop. Now I'm finding even these 1-4s are getting a bit stuck up thinking that they are unreal and it's all down to desperate men doing desperate things. So please men think before you act as you are making the scale a bit of a mockery.

This isn't offensive it's the truth and I'd love to hear what someone else thinks

I don't know about women, I find men vastly over-estimate their 'value' on such scales, maybe that's the problem.

Not all men. Scurrying back to the darkness of the man cave with the covered up mirrors

Yeah, some of you know your place... "

I am breaking the floorboards and am in the minus points on “the scale”, happy with myself though and that’s all that matters to me...fuck everyone else and what they think of me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea what scale system is going on in here, but...


"Making a mockery of the scale

Damn you men.

"

*giggling out of here*

Will need to read this thread again later!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Know your value.....I'll settle for nothing less than I'm worth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well Pete, I look at it another way. The people you think of as spamming those you regard as lower down on the "scale" don't actually care about any kind of physical attraction or mental connection. They are spamming everyone with equal fervour. Their wanton, lust-filled offers of bone bumping are distributed with wild abandon and nary a fuck given with regard to anyones ordering system.

So I reckon that'd mean everyone on any scale gets the ego boost you are theorising about... Making the playing feild the same as it was before... So it all kinda doesn't matter really... Much like this post

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Anyway, what the OP doesn't realise is the 'posing down the pub' scale is completely different from the 'available for no string sex' scale.

Horny women are far higher fab value that 'barbie from the pub who wants your babies' so our demands are totally real..........'cos we're worth it!!!

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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"It may be your perception OP.

But then perhaps the issue is the way you view and "score" others like they are prize cattle in a country fair?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I write this after a conversation in fact a lengthy conversation of the way women are now thinking that they are better looking then what they are. Before I get barrels of abuse please hear this out.

Before the use of phones and other technologies to meet people, the way people meet was through a mutual attraction and people being approached. Now obviously we have 2 ends of the scale here and that scale is rated 1-the pits to 10-worldie. Now before technology all the 7-10s used to get hounded with praise and such likes which turned them into stuck up people and not really worth the time spent on trying to bed them. Nowadays even the 1-4s are getting these compliments because it's easy to message someone hiding behind your phone or laptop. Now I'm finding even these 1-4s are getting a bit stuck up thinking that they are unreal and it's all down to desperate men doing desperate things. So please men think before you act as you are making the scale a bit of a mockery.

This isn't offensive it's the truth and I'd love to hear what someone else thinks "

well if you want to hear what others think here goes and if i get banned for it so be it!! " I think your talking out of your arse!!!" lol

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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I'm guessing the op is throwing his toys out the pram after being turned down by someone, even us average ladies have the right to be selective

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