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Think I might give up !!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been on this site for a while and haven’t had a meet , starting to think it’s me and no1 is Intrested in what I’m looking for or I don’t appeal to any1 !!!

Shall I give up or stick at it and see what happens ?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

What are you doing to sell yourself?

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

What have you been doing to try and get a meet?

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Nobody can decide that but you.....

However a little work on your profile may enable more success?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's up to you. If I was in your position I'd change my approach and see what happens.

There's plenty of advice on profiles and getting meets and things if you search the forums.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any advice would be welcomed I have got pics but not everyone likes all dick pics and I think my profile what I’m looking for is ok

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"Any advice would be welcomed I have got pics but not everyone likes all dick pics and I think my profile what I’m looking for is ok "

Just to clarify,what's your profile pic i honestly can't tell.

Have you thought about socials or clubs?good ways to get known and meet new people on the scene.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"Been on this site for a while and haven’t had a meet , starting to think it’s me and no1 is Intrested in what I’m looking for or I don’t appeal to any1 !!!

Shall I give up or stick at it and see what happens ? "

Stop being a get your self out to a club or social .

Or go..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You took away your pics. None is just as bad as having cock pics.

Some body shots always go down well.

Your text doesn't really have any personality, it's just a list of cliches and that "woman cums first" line is always a bit cringe.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My profile pic is me laying on my bed and I have but wouldn’t know where to start as never been to one before lol

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"You took away your pics. None is just as bad as having cock pics.

Some body shots always go down well.

Your text doesn't really have any personality, it's just a list of cliches and that "woman cums first" line is always a bit cringe. "

Exactly. Have a look at some guys profiles and their pictures for ideas.

There are loads of threads with helpful advice for newbies

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suggest you create a new profile or change your username. Being a newbie for 10 months on fab seems not quite right..

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"You took away your pics. None is just as bad as having cock pics.

Some body shots always go down well.

Your text doesn't really have any personality, it's just a list of cliches and that "woman cums first" line is always a bit cringe. "

This was my perception of the profile too. Far to vague.... written as needs must profile and one indistinguishable photo

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Nothing that makes you stand out from thousands of others i'm afraid. Probably best to start over from a clean slate after reading the many help threads on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thankyou everyone for your constructive advice I’m gunna change it around and make it more Appealing

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"My profile pic is me laying on my bed and I have but wouldn’t know where to start as never been to one before lol "

You start by finding a club near you (on this site), finding out if you can go on a given night, finding out the pricing structure/ dress code, reading around on the forum re etiquette and gripes (optional), showing up, telling them you've not been to a club before and asking for a tour/ the rules/ tips.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thankyou everyone for your constructive advice I’m gunna change it around and make it more Appealing "

Definitely change the wording on your profile tell us what you are looking for and be specific as us woman actually quite like that!

Just mix it up a bit and also maybe try different approach with your messaging as obviously that's not helping either.

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