FabSwingers.com forum: Fake profile messages

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Does this annoy anyone else? When you get messages with some kind of accusation that your profile is fake but then the person tries to dress it up as a compliment.

It’s like nah you’ve lost me now with the accusation. Like of all the fake profiles on here I wouldn’t say mine has the trademarks of a fake profile, or does it, baring in mind I’m photo verified and meet in person verified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate it

And when I get a wee bit defensive that just confirms it apparently.

I was in bed with C once and some random added me on kik and accused me of being fake. Having a laugh I went along and sent a Live Photo of me giving the middle finger. He said ‘oh that can be faked’ so I video called him and said ‘am I really a fake?! You absolute fanny’

And yep he still wanted to meet and fuck and thought it was entirely possible

baring in mind that was the only conversation I had ever had with him.

I’m hot, but I’d pick an absolute babe with perky tits and straight teeth if I was gonna catfish folk

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It’s the dressing up as a compliment bit that does my head in, or like you described,they still want to meet.

It’s like don’t lead with an accusation, it’s naturally gonna get someone’s back up before you’ve even began.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does this annoy anyone else? When you get messages with some kind of accusation that your profile is fake but then the person tries to dress it up as a compliment.

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everything can be faked and people can lie their tits off in here, but that's not what fab is for.....

If you're not interested in the person accusing you (and why would you be?) then delete block works fine

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I've never had it as a compliment. More like, only a fake would delete my shitty impersonal message.

I think a fake would string you along, mate...

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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Also apparent when they find your profile and immediately ask for a face pic and their profiles are sparsely populated.

I ignore the requests these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also apparent when they find your profile and immediately ask for a face pic and their profiles are sparsely populated.

I ignore the requests these days"

So this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get accused of being a fake so I don't know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fake would say that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm kitten xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Everything can be faked and people can lie their tits off in here, but that's not what fab is for.....

If you're not interested in the person accusing you (and why would you be?) then delete block works fine

It’s annoying cos sometimes the guys saying it are handsome men that I could be interested in, it puts me on the defensive and I get put off from wanting to converse with them any further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everything can be faked and people can lie their tits off in here, but that's not what fab is for.....

If you're not interested in the person accusing you (and why would you be?) then delete block works fine

It’s annoying cos sometimes the guys saying it are handsome men that I could be interested in, it puts me on the defensive and I get put off from wanting to converse with them any further. "

Yeah but if they've gone off accusing you of being fake from the get go then they've clearly got issues and would be a nightmare to talk to irl. With a profile like yours they must be beating your door down and you surely have plenty of decent fuckers to choose from? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely you can see what they are doing, it’s the only way they are going to get any attention or reply from you by saying that. Pretty obvious really. Ignore and delete. Next.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Especially when they block you too so you cant even reply. Arses.

I dont see the point in that at all.

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By *oupleNeedPlus1Couple
over a year ago

Reading

I declined to meet someone once and they said I was a time waster and clearly a fake profile. Then blocked me. No, hon, it's called freedom of choice.

Pretty sure our profile looks the real deal!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've never had it as a compliment. More like, only a fake would delete my shitty impersonal message.

I think a fake would string you along, mate... "

I said that to one guy who accused me after deleting one of his messages. I said hint hint, a fake profile would actually chat to you and/or ask for pictures not delete your message instantly.

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By *ames_dieselMan
over a year ago

London

If they’re photo verified and meet verified, how can anyone ever say they’re fake? Based on what evidence?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This drives me to insanity!! Like no, you've pissed me off now off you pop.

Had someone from miles away call me an ignorant cow. I said he was ignorant for messaging despite my specifications about being local on my profile. He wanted to book me a hotel after that. Was livid!

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By *lue NarwhalMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

Why worry about such people..

Their lack of social skills is what drew them here (and similar sites) thinking that a shag was guaranteed..

When reality bites they get offended and take it out on others..

Thats why they will always be single and keyboard warriors..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been called fake but it never bothers me. Perhaps in their eyes I am, so I can't argue with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been called fake but it never bothers me. Perhaps in their eyes I am, so I can't argue with that.

Even I've been called fake, with my shitty profile!!! I think some ppl just want the attention or lack confidence, idk?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I'm too much of a total bitch to be called fake

so most have stopped contacting me at all! Suits me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first six months on here I was called fake pretty often.

Also, after telling me I was fake they proceeded to block me without giving me a chance to say that I was genuine.

Their loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can’t say it’s ever been a problem I’ve faced.

Drama free zone here...

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Can’t say it’s ever been a problem I’ve faced.

Drama free zone here...

Same

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can’t say it’s ever been a problem I’ve faced.

Drama free zone here...

So you’ve never had anyone say you’re too good to be true?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes absolutely none of the women on here are real we are all fake because we won't just shag every Tim,Dick or Harry.

I've only ever been accused of having a fake profile when I've turned someone down or deleted their message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can’t say it’s ever been a problem I’ve faced.

Drama free zone here...

I don't see how someone sending you a shity message makes you full of drama!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was called fake because I wouldn’t lower my age limits and meet this young lad. Soon blocked x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh yes absolutely none of the women on here are real we are all fake because we won't just shag every Tim,Dick or Harry.

I've only ever been accused of having a fake profile when I've turned someone down or deleted their message. "

What happened to Tom ?

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

Never been accused of being fake tbh! Bit bloody obvious I’m actually real and shagging those I feel inclined to shag really!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh yes absolutely none of the women on here are real we are all fake because we won't just shag every Tim,Dick or Harry.

I've only ever been accused of having a fake profile when I've turned someone down or deleted their message.

What happened to Tom ? "

well obviously Tom is a decent guy who would never accuse me of being fake, Tim however....

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Aye... It happens... Usually when I've turned someone down. I think it's the online version of the 'she must be a lezzer' excuse guys used to tell their mates when they got turned down in night clubs

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Yes I've had people say I'm "too good to be true" or "must be fake" I just take it as another shit flattery tactic, delete and ignore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are these messages you speak of!?

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