FabSwingers.com forum: Confused?

By *ifferent69 OP Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

We all know this is not a dating site....

Where for majority we are seeking like minded people.

So why do fellow fabbers get upset and and slate others who are direct with requests and needs.?

Ie .... " Love the romantic msgs"...." Does she do bareback?"

Yes possible a daft question ....but we have to accept that for some a direct question like that works.,..and they appreciated.

This is a pretty open platform if offended just don,t reply or block.

Don,t slate them off, if its romance sought maybe this site isn,t the appropriate one for you.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Yet lots of people have found it here.... Hmmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Drugs are bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I'm not entirely sure I get the point of the thread to be honest. Had someone consumed about yoh asking them for a fuck? Did they want you yo make love instead?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont know

I'll have to think about it.

Actually, can you repeat the question?

You want to know if people do romantic bareback?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I'm confused too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People like to be spoken to like a human not a slab of meat, regardless of what site this is. If you find that strange, it says more about you than it does people wanting a certain level of respect and effort.

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By *ifferent69 OP Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

"I'm not entirely sure I get the point of the thread to be honest. Had someone consumed about yoh asking them for a fuck? Did they want you yo make love instead? "
No not me .... just read some one else's status stating they were not happy with crudeness of messages......REALLY..?

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By *ifferent69 OP Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

"I dont know

I'll have to think about it.

Actually, can you repeat the question?

You want to know if people do romantic bareback?"
ROMANTIC BAREBACK....ha ha ..now that beast don,t exist....

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"I'm not entirely sure I get the point of the thread to be honest. Had someone consumed about yoh asking them for a fuck? Did they want you yo make love instead? No not me .... just read some one else's status stating they were not happy with crudeness of messages......REALLY..?"

So people can't expect nice messages because they're on a swingers site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've come across plenty of people that wish to be objectified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont know

I'll have to think about it.

Actually, can you repeat the question?

You want to know if people do romantic bareback? ROMANTIC BAREBACK....ha ha ..now that beast don,t exist...."

You are mistaken.

I especially like bareback gangbangs, where the guys all fuck with a rose between their teeth.

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By *ifferent69 OP Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

"People like to be spoken to like a human not a slab of meat, regardless of what site this is. If you find that strange, it says more about you than it does people wanting a certain level of respect and effort."
Yes I totally agree ,I could never begin conversations in such a way nor drop in any similar. Though I,Ve been contacted by others ( mainly guys) who are this direct. I just accept its part of being on this site,I'm not offended by it. After all kinks and fetishes manifest there way in all forms, and some people just don,t want the constant msg ping pong ......but just want to get it on..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've come across plenty of people that wish to be objectified. "

I’ve cum across a nice big pair of tits, but I showed them respect first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate crude messages. There’s no need for them. I’m also happily married so not looking for romance.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I dont know

I'll have to think about it.

Actually, can you repeat the question?

You want to know if people do romantic bareback? ROMANTIC BAREBACK....ha ha ..now that beast don,t exist....

You are mistaken.

I especially like bareback gangbangs, where the guys all fuck with a rose between their teeth."

Love that lol

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"I dont know

I'll have to think about it.

Actually, can you repeat the question?

You want to know if people do romantic bareback? ROMANTIC BAREBACK....ha ha ..now that beast don,t exist....

You are mistaken.

I especially like bareback gangbangs, where the guys all fuck with a rose between their teeth.

Love that lol"

MBF... must bring flowers

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

Everyone uses Fab for their own needs. Problems occur when people use it differently and others can't accept that. So if you want a quick fuck, a fb, a fwb, social, romance or all the other options then this is the place to be. If you can't accept that others have different needs to you, then you are the one with the issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never had the intention of romance on here, it was literally to find fuck buddies but we all know how ‘that’ turned out! (For anyone that doesn’t know, some weirdo messaged me on a dating thread and here we are married and shit).

Geeky x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"We all know this is not a dating site....

Where for majority we are seeking like minded people.

So why do fellow fabbers get upset and and slate others who are direct with requests and needs.?

Ie .... " Love the romantic msgs"...." Does she do bareback?"

Yes possible a daft question ....but we have to accept that for some a direct question like that works.,..and they appreciated.

This is a pretty open platform if offended just don,t reply or block.

Don,t slate them off, if its romance sought maybe this site isn,t the appropriate one for you.

I don't know why people get upset about direct messages. There are lots of people who mention acceptance, open mindedness etc but when they come face to face with the reality of what many people on fab want i.e. sex with no strings it offends the. For a lot of us we never see our casual sex partners again, our encounters are brief, respectful and friendly but a certain amount of direct communication is required to achieve the kind of meet we want. In my opinion only us humans need a bit of window dressing to make us feel we're not just shagging around.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I met Jack here over 3 years ago,wasn't looking for more than fun but happened.

People can use fab however they choose,it isn't hurting anyone else after all.

However the direct crass approach you mention clearly does cause offence to some.

No matter what we seek here,it costs nothing to show respect to others on here.

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