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What Makes a Good Fab Meet?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all! Just opening with that particular question just to get your own opinions.

Personally for me, fab is a great way of meeting likeminded people and they tend to be open too. Obviously sex comes into it which tends to be great but also having banter too!

I think platforms such as tinder, there are waaay too many mind games and also mixed intentions etc. This is why this is a great alternative!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all! Just opening with that particular question just to get your own opinions.

Personally for me, fab is a great way of meeting likeminded people and they tend to be open too. Obviously sex comes into it which tends to be great but also having banter too!

I think platforms such as tinder, there are waaay too many mind games and also mixed intentions etc. This is why this is a great alternative! "

For us, a great meet is one where we get Fab out of the way as soon as possible and get to at least a social meet reasonable soon.

We like to see the whites of their eyes rather than a screen!

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Meet in a club, great chat a bit of flirting then passionate play (but not essential for a great night for me)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meet in a club, great chat a bit of flirting then passionate play (but not essential for a great night for me) "

Similar to me xx

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Chemistry, passionate kissing, flirty chat, laughing, more kissing, passionate sex, more kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fun, laughter, flirting, teasing, snogging, fucking... pizza

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A social for me conversation flowing and a good vibe off the other person/persons..A few laughs nothing serious with a hope if taking it that next step further on our next meet x

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland


"Fun, laughter, flirting, teasing, snogging, fucking... pizza "

You forgot the profiteroles - do I have to remember everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fun, laughter, flirting, teasing, snogging, fucking... pizza

You forgot the profiteroles - do I have to remember everything "

I can always rely on you to bring desert!

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland


"Fun, laughter, flirting, teasing, snogging, fucking... pizza

You forgot the profiteroles - do I have to remember everything

I can always rely on you to bring desert! "

Guaranteed. Will always leave you with a sweet taste in your mouth, wanting more

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

One you would love to have again

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I've been been fortunate to have had a number of meets that could be classed as the ideal fab meet. Off the chart chemistry, great conversation, food, topped by amazing sex. Experiences like these are what keep me coming back for more. Anyone who's experienced similar will know where i'm coming from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fun, laughter, flirting, teasing, snogging, fucking... pizza

You forgot the profiteroles - do I have to remember everything

I can always rely on you to bring desert!

Guaranteed. Will always leave you with a sweet taste in your mouth, wanting more "

It’s just as well sex burns calories huh Lexa

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland


"Fun, laughter, flirting, teasing, snogging, fucking... pizza

You forgot the profiteroles - do I have to remember everything

I can always rely on you to bring desert!

Guaranteed. Will always leave you with a sweet taste in your mouth, wanting more

It’s just as well sex burns calories huh Lexa "

You know fad diets aren’t good for you though don’t you? A good regular plan is what you need

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me being there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fun, laughter, flirting, teasing, snogging, fucking... pizza

You forgot the profiteroles - do I have to remember everything

I can always rely on you to bring desert!

Guaranteed. Will always leave you with a sweet taste in your mouth, wanting more

It’s just as well sex burns calories huh Lexa

You know fad diets aren’t good for you though don’t you? A good regular plan is what you need "

Oh absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My best meets have been when I feel I know the person.

I had a amazing meet last week with someone I see regular but hadn't seen for 3weeks. There was gin. Loads of kissing. Lots of laughter. Taking the mickey out of each others music choice. Non serious sex. It was just perfect. That's what I need in a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone turning up, lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Great responses-pity none of you ladies are in London

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

My best meets are the ones where I feel comfortable with the person straight away, where we are on the same wavelength and where we fancy the arse off each other.

Love it when a plan comes together

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My best meets are the ones where I feel comfortable with the person straight away, where we are on the same wavelength and where we fancy the arse off each other.

Love it when a plan comes together "

Totally agree! Pity this doesn't happen on Tinder without "feelings"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it ends with turkey twizzlers after sex.

Which neither will happen any time soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I have the ideal meet

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By *hostheman1972Man
over a year ago

tipperary

Manners and respect .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

one where you have chatted for a couple of weeks ,flirting, laughing always aware of the underlying sexual tension, THEN you finally meet have that first kiss and WHOOSH you're tearing each others clothes off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, just getting a Fab date is a Good meet.

They are very few and far between

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh oh it’s all about Chemistry...

Get the chemistry right and boom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh oh it’s all about Chemistry...

Get the chemistry right and boom "

??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm liking the suggestions about meeting in a club and flirt etc or chat for a few weeks and buikd up the underlying attraction/lust

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

The chat for a few weeks thing doesn't really work with me, unless someone is a long way away and there's no alternative. I'm way more about face to face interaction. It takes a matter of seconds or minutes to gauge attraction and chemistry when you can read people's body language and hear their tone of voice when they speak to you. Whereas with endless messaging back and forth I think it's too easy to set yourself up for disappointment when you eventually do meet face to face. Plus it's hard for me to keep a conversation going with someone I don't know if I can't see their reactions to what I'm saying. I might be boring them or shocking them but by the time I've worked out which, it's usually too late already...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chemistry, connection, communication & crisps...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chemistry, connection, communication & crisps... "

Sandwiches to go with the crisps

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Chemistry, connection, communication & crisps... "

I like your thinking...

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

What flavour crisps?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What flavour crisps? "

A mix of Salt & Vinegar and Ready Salted...Walkers are my preference

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Certainly the right match of needs. Great communication up front with an agreed agenda, for how you confirm etc before the meet.

The ideal meet has no surprises on how the others look, nor what each side wants to enjoy. Everyone is relaxed, affectionate, happy and friendly.

Some jokes and laughs are great. You read each other well and proceed at the right pace. Positive feedback is given and there's ongoing communication about what you'd like.

Sexually you each feel very satisfied and happy with each other. When you part ways, you remain warm and positive. The hosts make the guests feel extremely welcome and comfortable throughout.

Bed post notches are added once guests depart, never earlier

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