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"Depends. A single woman like myself can have very little on their profile and still do ok." A lady can have nothing on their profile and be inundated. A man will have to have a perfect profile and will be slated if a comma is in the wrong place. But I wouldn't change it for the world... Sharpens our game. [corrected due to spelling mistakes] | |||
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"I think a good profile is vital - whether you’re looking for hourly ‘fuck and go’s’ or an exclusive relationship - or the whole gamut in between! A good, well written profile should tell people who you are, what you’re looking for and what you offer in return - and should hopefully be injected with a little of your personality! This should then save many hours of message tennis trying to establish what both parties are looking for - and with whom! My profile certainly works well for me anyway op! " I try to aim for that, but (at least when looking for guys) I have no idea how much difference it makes. | |||
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"I think a good profile is vital - whether you’re looking for hourly ‘fuck and go’s’ or an exclusive relationship - or the whole gamut in between! A good, well written profile should tell people who you are, what you’re looking for and what you offer in return - and should hopefully be injected with a little of your personality! This should then save many hours of message tennis trying to establish what both parties are looking for - and with whom! My profile certainly works well for me anyway op! I try to aim for that, but (at least when looking for guys) I have no idea how much difference it makes. " Can’t answer for everyone else but it definitely works for me! I’ve had the best sex of my life on here and have met - and continue to meet - some amazing people who are ‘singing from the same hymnsheet’ so to speak (Ie looking for select, genuine friendships involving great sex!) When I see ‘just ask me if you want to know anything ‘ on a profile I really just can’t be bothered! I want to know whether it’s worth starting a dialogue - and to me that starts with two good profiles! | |||
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"Do you think that the way your profile,photographs and the way you converse matters with how successful you are on fab Personally i feel it’s important when looking to meet a person or persons, should be two way in messages and photos and appealing Do you find some get lazy post anything, thinking “its is a sex site blah blah”. I know its a site to meet like minded people with the option to swing Thoughts. " I've no doubt that my attitude, the way I engage with people and the effort i've put into my profile is what has made my experience here a memorable one | |||
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"Do you think that the way your profile,photographs and the way you converse matters with how successful you are on fab Personally i feel it’s important when looking to meet a person or persons, should be two way in messages and photos and appealing Do you find some get lazy post anything, thinking “its is a sex site blah blah”. I know its a site to meet like minded people with the option to swing Thoughts. I've no doubt that my attitude, the way I engage with people and the effort i've put into my profile is what has made my experience here a memorable one " Dude...I crush on your profile so hard, I crumple. It’s superb. | |||
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"Do you think that the way your profile,photographs and the way you converse matters with how successful you are on fab Personally i feel it’s important when looking to meet a person or persons, should be two way in messages and photos and appealing Do you find some get lazy post anything, thinking “its is a sex site blah blah”. I know its a site to meet like minded people with the option to swing Thoughts. " Very much so. A profile is a shop window so needs to be good enough to draw people inside. | |||
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"Extremely important. I’ve put a lot of thought into my profile. I’m in comms so my first questions to any team are: A) who’s your audience? B) what key messages do you want to get across? So, I open with a bit about myself, move on to exactly what I look for with different people and finish with a call to action. Classic comms approach I’m trying to attract intelligent, laidback, funny people with a bit of a dark side and hopefully, my profile does that. It’s your one shot to make a first impression...you have to make it count for something." I feel similarly about what it should be. I just don't know how much difference it makes in practice, you know? | |||
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"Extremely important. I’ve put a lot of thought into my profile. I’m in comms so my first questions to any team are: A) who’s your audience? B) what key messages do you want to get across? So, I open with a bit about myself, move on to exactly what I look for with different people and finish with a call to action. Classic comms approach I’m trying to attract intelligent, laidback, funny people with a bit of a dark side and hopefully, my profile does that. It’s your one shot to make a first impression...you have to make it count for something. I feel similarly about what it should be. I just don't know how much difference it makes in practice, you know? " Good point...I didn’t read the brief there. No...still getting 30 messages an hour, 99% of which I could autoreply with ‘read my profile, it’s a no’ if I was a mardy bum. | |||
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"Do you think that the way your profile,photographs and the way you converse matters with how successful you are on fab Personally i feel it’s important when looking to meet a person or persons, should be two way in messages and photos and appealing Do you find some get lazy post anything, thinking “its is a sex site blah blah”. I know its a site to meet like minded people with the option to swing Thoughts. I've no doubt that my attitude, the way I engage with people and the effort i've put into my profile is what has made my experience here a memorable one Dude...I crush on your profile so hard, I crumple. It’s superb. " | |||
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"I'm not too sure. My profile is shite, I have one profile photo visible. And yet I'm still being contacted by and meeting some fantastic people. It obviously does work for some people but meh. Maybe the way I type bollocks on here has an impact. And my friends who help my cock hunting. " Nice norks as a profile picture helps. Not that I was staring | |||
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"We hardly get messages. We’ve tried sprucing up our profile and even change it at one point to read no one reads profiles anyway and we still got the same about of messages and looks lol but we still we troop on in hope! " Maybe it's because of your filters? | |||
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"We hardly get messages. We’ve tried sprucing up our profile and even change it at one point to read no one reads profiles anyway and we still got the same about of messages and looks lol but we still we troop on in hope! Maybe it's because of your filters? " Just ages between 38 and 55. But open for men women and couples! | |||
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"We hardly get messages. We’ve tried sprucing up our profile and even change it at one point to read no one reads profiles anyway and we still got the same about of messages and looks lol but we still we troop on in hope! Maybe it's because of your filters? Just ages between 38 and 55. But open for men women and couples! " Wrong! Men are blocked | |||
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"I'm not too sure. My profile is shite, I have one profile photo visible. And yet I'm still being contacted by and meeting some fantastic people. It obviously does work for some people but meh. Maybe the way I type bollocks on here has an impact. And my friends who help my cock hunting. Nice norks as a profile picture helps. Not that I was staring " Haha, thanks. Yeah, my norks definitely help. I could type any nonsense and as long as I had some great shots, I'd be fine. | |||
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"We hardly get messages. We’ve tried sprucing up our profile and even change it at one point to read no one reads profiles anyway and we still got the same about of messages and looks lol but we still we troop on in hope! Maybe it's because of your filters? Just ages between 38 and 55. But open for men women and couples! Wrong! Men are blocked" Oops hubby must of switched back off! | |||
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"We hardly get messages. We’ve tried sprucing up our profile and even change it at one point to read no one reads profiles anyway and we still got the same about of messages and looks lol but we still we troop on in hope! Maybe it's because of your filters? Just ages between 38 and 55. But open for men women and couples! Wrong! Men are blocked Oops hubby must of switched back off! " I was about to tell you privately how lovely your profile looked... But I couldn't | |||
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"We hardly get messages. We’ve tried sprucing up our profile and even change it at one point to read no one reads profiles anyway and we still got the same about of messages and looks lol but we still we troop on in hope! Maybe it's because of your filters? Just ages between 38 and 55. But open for men women and couples! Wrong! Men are blocked Oops hubby must of switched back off! " The trickle of messages may now flow as you've removed the log jam | |||
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"I found out that a lady on here,via pm, was actually 39 rather than the 35 that she states on her profile. Why lie about 4 years? " There's a lot of age lying. | |||
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"I found out that a lady on here,via pm, was actually 39 rather than the 35 that she states on her profile. Why lie about 4 years? " I'm 46 and it stops me from talking to a lot of people who's filters cut of at 45. But I've never been tempted to change it to increase my chances | |||
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"We hardly get messages. We’ve tried sprucing up our profile and even change it at one point to read no one reads profiles anyway and we still got the same about of messages and looks lol but we still we troop on in hope! Maybe it's because of your filters? Just ages between 38 and 55. But open for men women and couples! " I also think you have a great profile fwiw. | |||
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"We hardly get messages. We’ve tried sprucing up our profile and even change it at one point to read no one reads profiles anyway and we still got the same about of messages and looks lol but we still we troop on in hope! Maybe it's because of your filters? Just ages between 38 and 55. But open for men women and couples! Wrong! Men are blocked Oops hubby must of switched back off! I was about to tell you privately how lovely your profile looked... But I couldn't " | |||
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"I found out that a lady on here,via pm, was actually 39 rather than the 35 that she states on her profile. Why lie about 4 years? There's a lot of age lying. " Well I'll be 57 on the fifth of March, I have room for a Birthday Card | |||
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"Our filters used to be up to 60 but so many people lie about their age that we lowered it. Even now we’ve met people that say they are 45 but they’re 55 and look 60+ lol " My filters are based on "I had more hassle when I allowed people younger and older to message me". | |||
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"Our filters used to be up to 60 but so many people lie about their age that we lowered it. Even now we’ve met people that say they are 45 but they’re 55 and look 60+ lol " I had a guy once who who said he was early forties, turned out he was well over 50!! I mean I didn’t turn him down because he was a fitty but still! And you have a great profile btw! Geeky x | |||
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"We hardly get messages. We’ve tried sprucing up our profile and even change it at one point to read no one reads profiles anyway and we still got the same about of messages and looks lol but we still we troop on in hope! Maybe it's because of your filters? Just ages between 38 and 55. But open for men women and couples! Wrong! Men are blocked Oops hubby must of switched back off! The trickle of messages may now flow as you've removed the log jam" Only time will tell! Lol | |||
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"Our filters used to be up to 60 but so many people lie about their age that we lowered it. Even now we’ve met people that say they are 45 but they’re 55 and look 60+ lol I had a guy once who who said he was early forties, turned out he was well over 50!! I mean I didn’t turn him down because he was a fitty but still! And you have a great profile btw! Geeky x" I judge people's appearance based on how old they claim to be. So reducing age actually backfires with me. | |||
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"Our filters used to be up to 60 but so many people lie about their age that we lowered it. Even now we’ve met people that say they are 45 but they’re 55 and look 60+ lol My filters are based on "I had more hassle when I allowed people younger and older to message me". " That’s why we raised the lower age to 38! | |||
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"Our filters used to be up to 60 but so many people lie about their age that we lowered it. Even now we’ve met people that say they are 45 but they’re 55 and look 60+ lol My filters are based on "I had more hassle when I allowed people younger and older to message me". That’s why we raised the lower age to 38!" If it's not too forward of me, more's the pity | |||
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"Our filters used to be up to 60 but so many people lie about their age that we lowered it. Even now we’ve met people that say they are 45 but they’re 55 and look 60+ lol I had a guy once who who said he was early forties, turned out he was well over 50!! I mean I didn’t turn him down because he was a fitty but still! And you have a great profile btw! Geeky x" . Why thank you xx Mrs J xx | |||
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"Our filters used to be up to 60 but so many people lie about their age that we lowered it. Even now we’ve met people that say they are 45 but they’re 55 and look 60+ lol My filters are based on "I had more hassle when I allowed people younger and older to message me". That’s why we raised the lower age to 38! If it's not too forward of me, more's the pity " well we are aways looking for a sexy women we can both enjoy (mainly hubby but we always meet as a couple!) | |||
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"Our filters used to be up to 60 but so many people lie about their age that we lowered it. Even now we’ve met people that say they are 45 but they’re 55 and look 60+ lol My filters are based on "I had more hassle when I allowed people younger and older to message me". That’s why we raised the lower age to 38! If it's not too forward of me, more's the pity well we are aways looking for a sexy women we can both enjoy (mainly hubby but we always meet as a couple!) " I'd message you, but I'm a mere sapling. | |||
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"I tend to find that alot of women can put hardy anything on and. E fine, i have re written mine 4/5 times and still get the same resolution. Its quite disheartening" Maybe change your MO? Try going to an organised social? | |||
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"Despite having what I think is an appealing profile, I very rarely receive unsolicited messages from people I don't know. The initiative is 95% on my side to achieve any results. Good thing I relish social interaction! " Getting unsolicited messages from strangers is not all it's cracked up to be. | |||
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"Despite having what I think is an appealing profile, I very rarely receive unsolicited messages from people I don't know. The initiative is 95% on my side to achieve any results. Good thing I relish social interaction! Getting unsolicited messages from strangers is not all it's cracked up to be. " Most single guys throw a party if it's from their target audience | |||
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"Despite having what I think is an appealing profile, I very rarely receive unsolicited messages from people I don't know. The initiative is 95% on my side to achieve any results. Good thing I relish social interaction! Getting unsolicited messages from strangers is not all it's cracked up to be. " It can be great. It's often... not | |||
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"Despite having what I think is an appealing profile, I very rarely receive unsolicited messages from people I don't know. The initiative is 95% on my side to achieve any results. Good thing I relish social interaction! Getting unsolicited messages from strangers is not all it's cracked up to be. It can be great. It's often... not " My friends have shown me the veritable nuggets they receive daily | |||
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"Despite having what I think is an appealing profile, I very rarely receive unsolicited messages from people I don't know. The initiative is 95% on my side to achieve any results. Good thing I relish social interaction! Getting unsolicited messages from strangers is not all it's cracked up to be. It can be great. It's often... not My friends have shown me the veritable nuggets they receive daily " Oh yeah and i could definitely add to a few of those gems. Sometimes they can be rather entertaining and there's definitely some Diamonds out there, you just have to sift through a lot of crap to find them. | |||
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"Despite having what I think is an appealing profile, I very rarely receive unsolicited messages from people I don't know. The initiative is 95% on my side to achieve any results. Good thing I relish social interaction! Getting unsolicited messages from strangers is not all it's cracked up to be. It can be great. It's often... not My friends have shown me the veritable nuggets they receive daily Oh yeah and i could definitely add to a few of those gems. Sometimes they can be rather entertaining and there's definitely some Diamonds out there, you just have to sift through a lot of crap to find them. " I'm very sad at the horrors that no longer make me dry heave. | |||
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"Despite having what I think is an appealing profile, I very rarely receive unsolicited messages from people I don't know. The initiative is 95% on my side to achieve any results. Good thing I relish social interaction! Getting unsolicited messages from strangers is not all it's cracked up to be. It can be great. It's often... not My friends have shown me the veritable nuggets they receive daily Oh yeah and i could definitely add to a few of those gems. Sometimes they can be rather entertaining and there's definitely some Diamonds out there, you just have to sift through a lot of crap to find them. I'm very sad at the horrors that no longer make me dry heave. " Dry heave? A novel way of describing revulsion | |||
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"Despite having what I think is an appealing profile, I very rarely receive unsolicited messages from people I don't know. The initiative is 95% on my side to achieve any results. Good thing I relish social interaction! Getting unsolicited messages from strangers is not all it's cracked up to be. It can be great. It's often... not My friends have shown me the veritable nuggets they receive daily Oh yeah and i could definitely add to a few of those gems. Sometimes they can be rather entertaining and there's definitely some Diamonds out there, you just have to sift through a lot of crap to find them. I'm very sad at the horrors that no longer make me dry heave. Dry heave? A novel way of describing revulsion " I'm being literal, sadly! Some messages used to make me gag and make vomit like mouth and throat actions. I've become a bit less shockable, which I'm not sure is a good thing. | |||
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"Despite having what I think is an appealing profile, I very rarely receive unsolicited messages from people I don't know. The initiative is 95% on my side to achieve any results. Good thing I relish social interaction! Getting unsolicited messages from strangers is not all it's cracked up to be. It can be great. It's often... not My friends have shown me the veritable nuggets they receive daily Oh yeah and i could definitely add to a few of those gems. Sometimes they can be rather entertaining and there's definitely some Diamonds out there, you just have to sift through a lot of crap to find them. I'm very sad at the horrors that no longer make me dry heave. Dry heave? A novel way of describing revulsion I'm being literal, sadly! Some messages used to make me gag and make vomit like mouth and throat actions. I've become a bit less shockable, which I'm not sure is a good thing. " It's called desensitisation | |||
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"It depends on what people are looking for. Like attracts like. Some want fuck n go. Some want more. Some lie for a fuck. " Nail on the head there people have different agendas here. | |||
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"Do you think that the way your profile,photographs and the way you converse matters with how successful you are on fab Personally i feel it’s important when looking to meet a person or persons, should be two way in messages and photos and appealing Do you find some get lazy post anything, thinking “its is a sex site blah blah”. I know its a site to meet like minded people with the option to swing Thoughts. I've no doubt that my attitude, the way I engage with people and the effort i've put into my profile is what has made my experience here a memorable one " Very impressive on all fronts | |||
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"It doesn't take a genius to realise that you attract different people depending how you advertise yourself. You're not going to catch a marlin with a lump of Spam." I might try. | |||
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