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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you think that the way your profile,photographs and the way you converse matters with how successful you are on fab

Personally i feel it’s important when looking to meet a person or persons, should be two way in messages and photos and appealing

Do you find some get lazy post anything, thinking “its is a sex site blah blah”. I know its a site to meet like minded people with the option to swing

Thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends. A single woman like myself can have very little on their profile and still do ok.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

As a man, definitely, as a couple, probably. Don't know enough about TVs.

As a woman, genuinely not sure.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

I think a good profile is vital - whether you’re looking for hourly ‘fuck and go’s’ or an exclusive relationship - or the whole gamut in between!

A good, well written profile should tell people who you are, what you’re looking for and what you offer in return - and should hopefully be injected with a little of your personality!

This should then save many hours of message tennis trying to establish what both parties are looking for - and with whom!

My profile certainly works well for me anyway op!

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I've been told endless times 'it's a sex site's when I tell them a meet has to be more than just sex. It's like they just want Fab for sex only, I also want friends with a same attitude, being open-minded about others is a rare commodity these days.

A true relationship would be nice but I'm not holding my breath

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends. A single woman like myself can have very little on their profile and still do ok."

A lady can have nothing on their profile and be inundated.

A man will have to have a perfect profile and will be slated if a comma is in the wrong place.

But I wouldn't change it for the world... Sharpens our game.

[corrected due to spelling mistakes]

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"[Useless Information Removed by poster at 23/02/19 12:02:50]"

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I think a good profile is vital - whether you’re looking for hourly ‘fuck and go’s’ or an exclusive relationship - or the whole gamut in between!

A good, well written profile should tell people who you are, what you’re looking for and what you offer in return - and should hopefully be injected with a little of your personality!

This should then save many hours of message tennis trying to establish what both parties are looking for - and with whom!

My profile certainly works well for me anyway op! "

I try to aim for that, but (at least when looking for guys) I have no idea how much difference it makes.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I couldn't give two hoots to be honest, I had the same profile for nearly 10 years, now I've rewritten it, it doesn't change the fact that I'm a 56 year old bisexual smoker

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

We hardly get messages. We’ve tried sprucing up our profile and even change it at one point to read no one reads profiles anyway and we still got the same about of messages and looks lol but we still we troop on in hope!

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By *andyMinx_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

Leeds

It absolutely matters. Messages from a faceless profile with "Fill in later" and no photos asking no more than "can I fuck you now?" mean I can't respond quickly enough.... to say no thanks

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"I think a good profile is vital - whether you’re looking for hourly ‘fuck and go’s’ or an exclusive relationship - or the whole gamut in between!

A good, well written profile should tell people who you are, what you’re looking for and what you offer in return - and should hopefully be injected with a little of your personality!

This should then save many hours of message tennis trying to establish what both parties are looking for - and with whom!

My profile certainly works well for me anyway op!

I try to aim for that, but (at least when looking for guys) I have no idea how much difference it makes. "

Can’t answer for everyone else but it definitely works for me! I’ve had the best sex of my life on here and have met - and continue to meet - some amazing people who are ‘singing from the same hymnsheet’ so to speak (Ie looking for select, genuine friendships involving great sex!)

When I see ‘just ask me if you want to know anything ‘ on a profile I really just can’t be bothered! I want to know whether it’s worth starting a dialogue - and to me that starts with two good profiles!

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Do you think that the way your profile,photographs and the way you converse matters with how successful you are on fab

Personally i feel it’s important when looking to meet a person or persons, should be two way in messages and photos and appealing

Do you find some get lazy post anything, thinking “its is a sex site blah blah”. I know its a site to meet like minded people with the option to swing

Thoughts. "

I've no doubt that my attitude, the way I engage with people and the effort i've put into my profile is what has made my experience here a memorable one

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Extremely important. I’ve put a lot of thought into my profile.

I’m in comms so my first questions to any team are:

A) who’s your audience?

B) what key messages do you want to get across?

So, I open with a bit about myself, move on to exactly what I look for with different people and finish with a call to action. Classic comms approach

I’m trying to attract intelligent, laidback, funny people with a bit of a dark side and hopefully, my profile does that. It’s your one shot to make a first impression...you have to make it count for something.

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Do you think that the way your profile,photographs and the way you converse matters with how successful you are on fab

Personally i feel it’s important when looking to meet a person or persons, should be two way in messages and photos and appealing

Do you find some get lazy post anything, thinking “its is a sex site blah blah”. I know its a site to meet like minded people with the option to swing

Thoughts.

I've no doubt that my attitude, the way I engage with people and the effort i've put into my profile is what has made my experience here a memorable one "

Dude...I crush on your profile so hard, I crumple. It’s superb.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Do you think that the way your profile,photographs and the way you converse matters with how successful you are on fab

Personally i feel it’s important when looking to meet a person or persons, should be two way in messages and photos and appealing

Do you find some get lazy post anything, thinking “its is a sex site blah blah”. I know its a site to meet like minded people with the option to swing

Thoughts. "

Very much so. A profile is a shop window so needs to be good enough to draw people inside.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Extremely important. I’ve put a lot of thought into my profile.

I’m in comms so my first questions to any team are:

A) who’s your audience?

B) what key messages do you want to get across?

So, I open with a bit about myself, move on to exactly what I look for with different people and finish with a call to action. Classic comms approach

I’m trying to attract intelligent, laidback, funny people with a bit of a dark side and hopefully, my profile does that. It’s your one shot to make a first impression...you have to make it count for something."

I feel similarly about what it should be. I just don't know how much difference it makes in practice, you know?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I'm not too sure. My profile is shite, I have one profile photo visible. And yet I'm still being contacted by and meeting some fantastic people. It obviously does work for some people but meh. Maybe the way I type bollocks on here has an impact. And my friends who help my cock hunting.

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Extremely important. I’ve put a lot of thought into my profile.

I’m in comms so my first questions to any team are:

A) who’s your audience?

B) what key messages do you want to get across?

So, I open with a bit about myself, move on to exactly what I look for with different people and finish with a call to action. Classic comms approach

I’m trying to attract intelligent, laidback, funny people with a bit of a dark side and hopefully, my profile does that. It’s your one shot to make a first impression...you have to make it count for something.

I feel similarly about what it should be. I just don't know how much difference it makes in practice, you know? "

Good point...I didn’t read the brief there. No...still getting 30 messages an hour, 99% of which I could autoreply with ‘read my profile, it’s a no’ if I was a mardy bum.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Do you think that the way your profile,photographs and the way you converse matters with how successful you are on fab

Personally i feel it’s important when looking to meet a person or persons, should be two way in messages and photos and appealing

Do you find some get lazy post anything, thinking “its is a sex site blah blah”. I know its a site to meet like minded people with the option to swing

Thoughts.

I've no doubt that my attitude, the way I engage with people and the effort i've put into my profile is what has made my experience here a memorable one

Dude...I crush on your profile so hard, I crumple. It’s superb. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think my profile gives information about me and my pictures are ok... not the best by a long shot! But they’re ok. I should make time to do more. I try and look at the hot photos and get inspiration but the blokes ones are generally pictures of massive cocks or someone who is incredibly ripped... neither am I blessed with.

I do think a conversation on here has to be two way, open and you have to enjoy it.

I try to reply to everyone, male, females, couples. Just because something isn’t my kink doesn’t mean I should be rude to someone because it’s theirs!

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"I'm not too sure. My profile is shite, I have one profile photo visible. And yet I'm still being contacted by and meeting some fantastic people. It obviously does work for some people but meh. Maybe the way I type bollocks on here has an impact. And my friends who help my cock hunting. "

Nice norks as a profile picture helps. Not that I was staring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We hardly get messages. We’ve tried sprucing up our profile and even change it at one point to read no one reads profiles anyway and we still got the same about of messages and looks lol but we still we troop on in hope! "

Maybe it's because of your filters?

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport


"We hardly get messages. We’ve tried sprucing up our profile and even change it at one point to read no one reads profiles anyway and we still got the same about of messages and looks lol but we still we troop on in hope!

Maybe it's because of your filters? "

Just ages between 38 and 55. But open for men women and couples!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also think being a ‘presence’ on here helps, forums and making friends in here.

I feel like making friends is better than trying to hunt meets down. While, yes this is a site where swingers gather, we’re all still people and we like to converse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We hardly get messages. We’ve tried sprucing up our profile and even change it at one point to read no one reads profiles anyway and we still got the same about of messages and looks lol but we still we troop on in hope!

Maybe it's because of your filters?

Just ages between 38 and 55. But open for men women and couples! "

Wrong! Men are blocked

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I'm not too sure. My profile is shite, I have one profile photo visible. And yet I'm still being contacted by and meeting some fantastic people. It obviously does work for some people but meh. Maybe the way I type bollocks on here has an impact. And my friends who help my cock hunting.

Nice norks as a profile picture helps. Not that I was staring "

Haha, thanks. Yeah, my norks definitely help. I could type any nonsense and as long as I had some great shots, I'd be fine.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport


"We hardly get messages. We’ve tried sprucing up our profile and even change it at one point to read no one reads profiles anyway and we still got the same about of messages and looks lol but we still we troop on in hope!

Maybe it's because of your filters?

Just ages between 38 and 55. But open for men women and couples!

Wrong! Men are blocked"

Oops hubby must of switched back off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We hardly get messages. We’ve tried sprucing up our profile and even change it at one point to read no one reads profiles anyway and we still got the same about of messages and looks lol but we still we troop on in hope!

Maybe it's because of your filters?

Just ages between 38 and 55. But open for men women and couples!

Wrong! Men are blocked

Oops hubby must of switched back off! "

I was about to tell you privately how lovely your profile looked... But I couldn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We hardly get messages. We’ve tried sprucing up our profile and even change it at one point to read no one reads profiles anyway and we still got the same about of messages and looks lol but we still we troop on in hope!

Maybe it's because of your filters?

Just ages between 38 and 55. But open for men women and couples!

Wrong! Men are blocked

Oops hubby must of switched back off! "

The trickle of messages may now flow as you've removed the log jam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I'm well aware my profile is rather lazy and I'm keeping it that way

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I found out that a lady on here,via pm, was actually 39 rather than the 35 that she states on her profile. Why lie about 4 years?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think mine is too bad i will keep looking

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I found out that a lady on here,via pm, was actually 39 rather than the 35 that she states on her profile. Why lie about 4 years? "

There's a lot of age lying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We could have the worlds best profile and stuff and we still wouldn’t get meets, we are looking for a very particular type of meet (yep the single bi female) and these are very few and far between who would meet a couple like us (or are too far away).

When I had my single profile of course things were entirely different in the bedroom department because I was a single lady (regardless of what I looked like).

But we totally accept that we won’t get many (if at all) meets from here and a club setting would probably be better for us but due to family and work commitments we’ve settled with just purving and lurking, we know we are a niche

Geeky x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I found out that a lady on here,via pm, was actually 39 rather than the 35 that she states on her profile. Why lie about 4 years? "

I'm 46 and it stops me from talking to a lot of people who's filters cut of at 45.

But I've never been tempted to change it to increase my chances

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"We hardly get messages. We’ve tried sprucing up our profile and even change it at one point to read no one reads profiles anyway and we still got the same about of messages and looks lol but we still we troop on in hope!

Maybe it's because of your filters?

Just ages between 38 and 55. But open for men women and couples! "

I also think you have a great profile fwiw.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

Our filters used to be up to 60 but so many people lie about their age that we lowered it. Even now we’ve met people that say they are 45 but they’re 55 and look 60+ lol

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport


"We hardly get messages. We’ve tried sprucing up our profile and even change it at one point to read no one reads profiles anyway and we still got the same about of messages and looks lol but we still we troop on in hope!

Maybe it's because of your filters?

Just ages between 38 and 55. But open for men women and couples!

Wrong! Men are blocked

Oops hubby must of switched back off!

I was about to tell you privately how lovely your profile looked... But I couldn't "

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I found out that a lady on here,via pm, was actually 39 rather than the 35 that she states on her profile. Why lie about 4 years?

There's a lot of age lying. "

Well I'll be 57 on the fifth of March, I have room for a Birthday Card

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Our filters used to be up to 60 but so many people lie about their age that we lowered it. Even now we’ve met people that say they are 45 but they’re 55 and look 60+ lol "

My filters are based on "I had more hassle when I allowed people younger and older to message me".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our filters used to be up to 60 but so many people lie about their age that we lowered it. Even now we’ve met people that say they are 45 but they’re 55 and look 60+ lol "

I had a guy once who who said he was early forties, turned out he was well over 50!! I mean I didn’t turn him down because he was a fitty but still!

And you have a great profile btw!

Geeky x

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport


"We hardly get messages. We’ve tried sprucing up our profile and even change it at one point to read no one reads profiles anyway and we still got the same about of messages and looks lol but we still we troop on in hope!

Maybe it's because of your filters?

Just ages between 38 and 55. But open for men women and couples!

Wrong! Men are blocked

Oops hubby must of switched back off!

The trickle of messages may now flow as you've removed the log jam"

Only time will tell! Lol

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Our filters used to be up to 60 but so many people lie about their age that we lowered it. Even now we’ve met people that say they are 45 but they’re 55 and look 60+ lol

I had a guy once who who said he was early forties, turned out he was well over 50!! I mean I didn’t turn him down because he was a fitty but still!

And you have a great profile btw!

Geeky x"

I judge people's appearance based on how old they claim to be. So reducing age actually backfires with me.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport


"Our filters used to be up to 60 but so many people lie about their age that we lowered it. Even now we’ve met people that say they are 45 but they’re 55 and look 60+ lol

My filters are based on "I had more hassle when I allowed people younger and older to message me". "

That’s why we raised the lower age to 38!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Our filters used to be up to 60 but so many people lie about their age that we lowered it. Even now we’ve met people that say they are 45 but they’re 55 and look 60+ lol

My filters are based on "I had more hassle when I allowed people younger and older to message me".

That’s why we raised the lower age to 38!"

If it's not too forward of me, more's the pity

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport


"Our filters used to be up to 60 but so many people lie about their age that we lowered it. Even now we’ve met people that say they are 45 but they’re 55 and look 60+ lol

I had a guy once who who said he was early forties, turned out he was well over 50!! I mean I didn’t turn him down because he was a fitty but still!

And you have a great profile btw!

Geeky x"

.

Why thank you xx Mrs J xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to find that alot of women can put hardy anything on and. E fine, i have re written mine 4/5 times and still get the same resolution. Its quite disheartening

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I'm 18 don't ya know

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport


"Our filters used to be up to 60 but so many people lie about their age that we lowered it. Even now we’ve met people that say they are 45 but they’re 55 and look 60+ lol

My filters are based on "I had more hassle when I allowed people younger and older to message me".

That’s why we raised the lower age to 38!

If it's not too forward of me, more's the pity "

well we are aways looking for a sexy women we can both enjoy (mainly hubby but we always meet as a couple!)

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Our filters used to be up to 60 but so many people lie about their age that we lowered it. Even now we’ve met people that say they are 45 but they’re 55 and look 60+ lol

My filters are based on "I had more hassle when I allowed people younger and older to message me".

That’s why we raised the lower age to 38!

If it's not too forward of me, more's the pity well we are aways looking for a sexy women we can both enjoy (mainly hubby but we always meet as a couple!) "

I'd message you, but I'm a mere sapling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend to find that alot of women can put hardy anything on and. E fine, i have re written mine 4/5 times and still get the same resolution. Its quite disheartening"

Maybe change your MO?

Try going to an organised social?

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Despite having what I think is an appealing profile, I very rarely receive unsolicited messages from people I don't know. The initiative is 95% on my side to achieve any results. Good thing I relish social interaction!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Despite having what I think is an appealing profile, I very rarely receive unsolicited messages from people I don't know. The initiative is 95% on my side to achieve any results. Good thing I relish social interaction! "

Getting unsolicited messages from strangers is not all it's cracked up to be.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Despite having what I think is an appealing profile, I very rarely receive unsolicited messages from people I don't know. The initiative is 95% on my side to achieve any results. Good thing I relish social interaction!

Getting unsolicited messages from strangers is not all it's cracked up to be. "

Most single guys throw a party if it's from their target audience

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Despite having what I think is an appealing profile, I very rarely receive unsolicited messages from people I don't know. The initiative is 95% on my side to achieve any results. Good thing I relish social interaction!

Getting unsolicited messages from strangers is not all it's cracked up to be. "

It can be great. It's often... not

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Despite having what I think is an appealing profile, I very rarely receive unsolicited messages from people I don't know. The initiative is 95% on my side to achieve any results. Good thing I relish social interaction!

Getting unsolicited messages from strangers is not all it's cracked up to be.

It can be great. It's often... not "

My friends have shown me the veritable nuggets they receive daily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Despite having what I think is an appealing profile, I very rarely receive unsolicited messages from people I don't know. The initiative is 95% on my side to achieve any results. Good thing I relish social interaction!

Getting unsolicited messages from strangers is not all it's cracked up to be.

It can be great. It's often... not

My friends have shown me the veritable nuggets they receive daily "

Oh yeah and i could definitely add to a few of those gems.

Sometimes they can be rather entertaining and there's definitely some Diamonds out there, you just have to sift through a lot of crap to find them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recently had a long chat about profiles with a guy who did an experiment and basically he signed into three different apps with female gender and no pics or text.. And he got bombed with messages from men asking to meet up.

Then he signed in male gender and put effort into his pics and texts.. But didn't get a message, so he messaged women and didn't get a single reply!

So I don't think it makes a difference what women have in the profiles, because women will have no problem getting chats and meeting people.. But havin said this I like to read a nice profile.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Despite having what I think is an appealing profile, I very rarely receive unsolicited messages from people I don't know. The initiative is 95% on my side to achieve any results. Good thing I relish social interaction!

Getting unsolicited messages from strangers is not all it's cracked up to be.

It can be great. It's often... not

My friends have shown me the veritable nuggets they receive daily

Oh yeah and i could definitely add to a few of those gems.

Sometimes they can be rather entertaining and there's definitely some Diamonds out there, you just have to sift through a lot of crap to find them. "

I'm very sad at the horrors that no longer make me dry heave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on what people are looking for. Like attracts like. Some want fuck n go. Some want more. Some lie for a fuck.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Despite having what I think is an appealing profile, I very rarely receive unsolicited messages from people I don't know. The initiative is 95% on my side to achieve any results. Good thing I relish social interaction!

Getting unsolicited messages from strangers is not all it's cracked up to be.

It can be great. It's often... not

My friends have shown me the veritable nuggets they receive daily

Oh yeah and i could definitely add to a few of those gems.

Sometimes they can be rather entertaining and there's definitely some Diamonds out there, you just have to sift through a lot of crap to find them.

I'm very sad at the horrors that no longer make me dry heave. "

Dry heave? A novel way of describing revulsion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes ! as soon as I put a dick pic up I get messages from women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't take a genius to realise that you attract different people depending how you advertise yourself.

You're not going to catch a marlin with a lump of Spam.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Despite having what I think is an appealing profile, I very rarely receive unsolicited messages from people I don't know. The initiative is 95% on my side to achieve any results. Good thing I relish social interaction!

Getting unsolicited messages from strangers is not all it's cracked up to be.

It can be great. It's often... not

My friends have shown me the veritable nuggets they receive daily

Oh yeah and i could definitely add to a few of those gems.

Sometimes they can be rather entertaining and there's definitely some Diamonds out there, you just have to sift through a lot of crap to find them.

I'm very sad at the horrors that no longer make me dry heave.

Dry heave? A novel way of describing revulsion "

I'm being literal, sadly! Some messages used to make me gag and make vomit like mouth and throat actions. I've become a bit less shockable, which I'm not sure is a good thing.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Despite having what I think is an appealing profile, I very rarely receive unsolicited messages from people I don't know. The initiative is 95% on my side to achieve any results. Good thing I relish social interaction!

Getting unsolicited messages from strangers is not all it's cracked up to be.

It can be great. It's often... not

My friends have shown me the veritable nuggets they receive daily

Oh yeah and i could definitely add to a few of those gems.

Sometimes they can be rather entertaining and there's definitely some Diamonds out there, you just have to sift through a lot of crap to find them.

I'm very sad at the horrors that no longer make me dry heave.

Dry heave? A novel way of describing revulsion

I'm being literal, sadly! Some messages used to make me gag and make vomit like mouth and throat actions. I've become a bit less shockable, which I'm not sure is a good thing. "

It's called desensitisation

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"It depends on what people are looking for. Like attracts like. Some want fuck n go. Some want more. Some lie for a fuck. "

Nail on the head there people have different agendas here.

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By *onygirlieWoman
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"Do you think that the way your profile,photographs and the way you converse matters with how successful you are on fab

Personally i feel it’s important when looking to meet a person or persons, should be two way in messages and photos and appealing

Do you find some get lazy post anything, thinking “its is a sex site blah blah”. I know its a site to meet like minded people with the option to swing

Thoughts.

I've no doubt that my attitude, the way I engage with people and the effort i've put into my profile is what has made my experience here a memorable one "

Very impressive on all fronts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesn't take a genius to realise that you attract different people depending how you advertise yourself.

You're not going to catch a marlin with a lump of Spam."

I might try.

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