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"Wear what you want. Have your hair and hair removal how you want. Have your body how you want. Wear as little or as much makeup as you want. Rock your own bad arse self. Be the person you want to be. Nothing is as sexy as knowing yourself and rocking it. " I do this anyway! I’ve not trimmed my bush in ions lol. | |||
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"It's true irrespective of how you identify" Indeed, but this is inspired by the threads telling women what to wear and how to groom themselves. | |||
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"Yes and the same applies fot the countless women whose profiles instruct men on how to do the same....sigh" Being who I am doesn't mean I'm guaranteed to attract who I want to attract. I get knocked back for it a lot. Them's the breaks. | |||
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"Seeing this made me slap myself..... Trying outfits on for tonight feeling shit. Still don’t know what to wear though! "I try to pick a colour or two I know makes me look good, and emphasise a body feature or two I get the most compliments on. | |||
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"Seeing this made me slap myself..... Trying outfits on for tonight feeling shit. Still don’t know what to wear though! "Wear something you feel comfortable and confident in. It's your personality that's the most important, for me anyway | |||
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"Seeing this made me slap myself..... Trying outfits on for tonight feeling shit. Still don’t know what to wear though! "Try a few outfits on and wear whatever you feel most comfortable in. You'll feel your best if you are happy yourself with what you're wearing x | |||
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"Does that mean I can rock undies that don’t match? I’m in! "  lucky if I've got matching shoes on these days... | |||
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"Does that mean I can rock undies that don’t match? I’m in! " I do this almost every day. Comfy supportive bra with comfy easy care knickers.
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"Does that mean I can rock undies that don’t match? I’m in! I do this almost every day. Comfy supportive bra with comfy easy care knickers.
(I do change for meets ) " | |||
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I've discovered the joys of bralets. My boobs aren't under my chin but fuck they are happy. | |||
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"I don't want to be sexy. I just want to be comfortable.
I've discovered the joys of bralets. My boobs aren't under my chin but fuck they are happy. "Oh that too. I think the underlying message is "do what works for you, not the peanut gallery who tells us how to be". My first meet, for a variety of reasons I was in regular underwear and hadn't shaved anything (extremely unusual circumstances which he knew about). The sex was still amazing for both of us. (I do now shave as much as I want to ) | |||
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"My mum always told me to wear matching underwear in case I got ran over. Nice, upbeat pearls of wisdom that have stuck in my mind. I'd feel I was tempting fate if my underwear didn't match x ""Make sure you're wearing clean underwear so the paramedics know you were brought up properly!" #priorities | |||
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"Wear what you want. Have your hair and hair removal how you want. Have your body how you want. Wear as little or as much makeup as you want. Rock your own bad arse self. Be the person you want to be. Nothing is as sexy as knowing yourself and rocking it. " Absolutely! My pet peeve at the moment is men expecting me to be trussed up in uncomfortable lingerie 24/7 when in fact I much prefer to be naked nowadays | |||
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"My mum always told me to wear matching underwear in case I got ran over. Nice, upbeat pearls of wisdom that have stuck in my mind. I'd feel I was tempting fate if my underwear didn't match x
"Make sure you're wearing clean underwear so the paramedics know you were brought up properly!"
#priorities"You knew my mum? Lol x | |||
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"Wear what you want. Have your hair and hair removal how you want. Have your body how you want. Wear as little or as much makeup as you want. Rock your own bad arse self. Be the person you want to be. Nothing is as sexy as knowing yourself and rocking it. Absolutely! My pet peeve at the moment is men expecting me to be trussed up in uncomfortable lingerie 24/7 when in fact I much prefer to be naked nowadays " Uncomfortable sometimes intricate lingerie, heels you can't walk in, hair off the catwalk, no hair or stubble or evidence any ever grew otherwise, tons of makeup the way they like it (whatever the fuck that means), looking not a day over 25. Arriving in something skimpy on the thin wedge between exciting and inappropriate, taking no responsibility for the way we're treated on the way there. Fuck that shit. | |||
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"My mum always told me to wear matching underwear in case I got ran over. Nice, upbeat pearls of wisdom that have stuck in my mind. I'd feel I was tempting fate if my underwear didn't match x "Hahaha
Snap it's a real fear that was drummed into me too 
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"Wear what you want. Have your hair and hair removal how you want. Have your body how you want. Wear as little or as much makeup as you want. Rock your own bad arse self. Be the person you want to be. Nothing is as sexy as knowing yourself and rocking it. " I do | |||
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"Seeing this made me slap myself..... Trying outfits on for tonight feeling shit. Still don’t know what to wear though!
I try to pick a colour or two I know makes me look good, and emphasise a body feature or two I get the most compliments on. "I’ll probably wear black. More slimming I think x | |||
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"Does that mean I can rock undies that don’t match? I’m in! lucky if I've got matching shoes on these days... "Yes indeed I actually don't think I have matching set underwear! I love to mix a match and I think I look good so I don't really care what anyone else thinks. | |||
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"Does that mean I can rock undies that don’t match? I’m in! lucky if I've got matching shoes on these days...
Yes indeed I actually don't think I have matching set underwear!
I love to mix a match and I think I look good so I don't really care what anyone else thinks.
"OMG. I don’t think I could cope. I don’t buy any underwear that doesn’t match. Everything is in sets | |||
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"Does that mean I can rock undies that don’t match? I’m in! lucky if I've got matching shoes on these days...
Yes indeed I actually don't think I have matching set underwear!
I love to mix a match and I think I look good so I don't really care what anyone else thinks.
OMG. I don’t think I could cope. I don’t buy any underwear that doesn’t match. Everything is in sets"My bras and knickers don't even come from the same shop. | |||
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"Does that mean I can rock undies that don’t match? I’m in! lucky if I've got matching shoes on these days...
Yes indeed I actually don't think I have matching set underwear!
I love to mix a match and I think I look good so I don't really care what anyone else thinks.
OMG. I don’t think I could cope. I don’t buy any underwear that doesn’t match. Everything is in sets
My bras and knickers don't even come from the same shop. "Oh god woman you’re giving me panic attacks | |||
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"Wear what you want. Have your hair and hair removal how you want. Have your body how you want. Wear as little or as much makeup as you want. Rock your own bad arse self. Be the person you want to be. Nothing is as sexy as knowing yourself and rocking it. " I'm mostly like this but it's because I'm old, stroppy and don't care what other people think about me | |||
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"Wear what you want. Have your hair and hair removal how you want. Have your body how you want. Wear as little or as much makeup as you want. Rock your own bad arse self. Be the person you want to be. Nothing is as sexy as knowing yourself and rocking it. " You go girl | |||
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"Wear what you want. Have your hair and hair removal how you want. Have your body how you want. Wear as little or as much makeup as you want. Rock your own bad arse self. Be the person you want to be. Nothing is as sexy as knowing yourself and rocking it. " Amen Sister! | |||
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"Does that mean I can rock undies that don’t match? I’m in! lucky if I've got matching shoes on these days...
Yes indeed I actually don't think I have matching set underwear!
I love to mix a match and I think I look good so I don't really care what anyone else thinks.
OMG. I don’t think I could cope. I don’t buy any underwear that doesn’t match. Everything is in sets"Does it stay in sets or is it like odd socks. A rough colour match if Im meeting does me | |||
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"Does that mean I can rock undies that don’t match? I’m in! lucky if I've got matching shoes on these days...
Yes indeed I actually don't think I have matching set underwear!
I love to mix a match and I think I look good so I don't really care what anyone else thinks.
OMG. I don’t think I could cope. I don’t buy any underwear that doesn’t match. Everything is in sets
Does it stay in sets or is it like odd socks. A rough colour match if Im meeting does me "Yesterday I wore a pink and a green sock to the gym. And I do have a "close enough" sexy set | |||
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"Wear what you want. Have your hair and hair removal how you want. Have your body how you want. Wear as little or as much makeup as you want. Rock your own bad arse self. Be the person you want to be. Nothing is as sexy as knowing yourself and rocking it. " I always do | |||
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"I don't want to be sexy. I just want to be comfortable.
I've discovered the joys of bralets. My boobs aren't under my chin but fuck they are happy. "Excuse me ladies, what is a "bralet"? | |||
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"Does that mean I can rock undies that don’t match? I’m in! lucky if I've got matching shoes on these days...
Yes indeed I actually don't think I have matching set underwear!
I love to mix a match and I think I look good so I don't really care what anyone else thinks.
OMG. I don’t think I could cope. I don’t buy any underwear that doesn’t match. Everything is in sets
Does it stay in sets or is it like odd socks. A rough colour match if Im meeting does me Yesterday I wore a pink and a green sock to the gym. And I do have a "close enough" sexy set " I have a close enough one too. Although at the moment I am forsaking bras as a lost cause for my boobs so can wear whatever knickers appear out of the drawer first | |||
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"Does that mean I can rock undies that don’t match? I’m in! lucky if I've got matching shoes on these days...
Yes indeed I actually don't think I have matching set underwear!
I love to mix a match and I think I look good so I don't really care what anyone else thinks.
OMG. I don’t think I could cope. I don’t buy any underwear that doesn’t match. Everything is in sets
Does it stay in sets or is it like odd socks. A rough colour match if Im meeting does me "Oh god everything is folded in the drawers in sets. I have one drawer for white underwear, one for black and one for coloured sets. The knickers are folded inside the bras. Sometimes I buy all the different style knickers that match the bra. It’s just my thing | |||
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"Does that mean I can rock undies that don’t match? I’m in! lucky if I've got matching shoes on these days...
Yes indeed I actually don't think I have matching set underwear!
I love to mix a match and I think I look good so I don't really care what anyone else thinks.
OMG. I don’t think I could cope. I don’t buy any underwear that doesn’t match. Everything is in sets
Does it stay in sets or is it like odd socks. A rough colour match if Im meeting does me
Oh god everything is folded in the drawers in sets. I have one drawer for white underwear, one for black and one for coloured sets. The knickers are folded inside the bras. Sometimes I buy all the different style knickers that match the bra. It’s just my thing "That gives me anxiety | |||
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