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By *inkyLondonpair OP   Couple
over a year ago

London

This came up in another thread, about men's attitudes on here.

So this is just for men or men in couples looking for women or couples.

Whats your general attitude on here towards women and couples. Please just pick the number which fits you best.

1. Beggars can't be choosers. Anyone with a vagina who wants to meet me, I'm up for it.

2. There's a large proportion of the women/couples on here I fancy and I will only meet them.

3. There are very few women/couples on here I fancy and I will only meet them.

4. I am very picky and will only meet people I feel are special. I'd rather not meet anyone rather than compromise my standards.

Obviously, I know were all unique and no category will fit you exactly, but please pick the one that fits best. And be honest. The women aren't looking

I'm a 2.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I’m a 3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"4"

I’ll add a ride to that, it’s not about standards it’s about connection. I’ll only meet people who really get me and I really get them if you get my drift.

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Closest would be 2 for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This came up in another thread, about men's attitudes on here.

So this is just for men or men in couples looking for women or couples.

Whats your general attitude on here towards women and couples. Please just pick the number which fits you best.

1. Beggars can't be choosers. Anyone with a vagina who wants to meet me, I'm up for it.

2. There's a large proportion of the women/couples on here I fancy and I will only meet them.

3. There are very few women/couples on here I fancy and I will only meet them.

4. I am very picky and will only meet people I feel are special. I'd rather not meet anyone rather than compromise my standards.

Obviously, I know were all unique and no category will fit you exactly, but please pick the one that fits best. And be honest. The women aren't looking

I'm a 2.

"

I find that hard to answer.. I'd say 2. Provided my standards aren't compromised. I have broad tastes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Currently midway between 2 and 3.

Not getting any interest at all.

I’d like to think I won’t go to 1 but maybe I will move down the scale as time goes on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3

However I do message people that might not be for me (or me for them) to chat etc. As the old ad said ‘It’s good to talk!’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"4

I’ll add a ride to that, it’s not about standards it’s about connection. I’ll only meet people who really get me and I really get them if you get my drift."

Agree with this

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By *iavelmanMan
over a year ago

Worcester

1.5

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to think i'm pretty inclusive and have an eclectic taste when it comes to meets but i still have standards so i'd say it's number 2.

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By *utsidenakedMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

Not really one to suit me bit if I have to choose then its

2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2.

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By *otts72Man
over a year ago

London

2

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By *hingford manMan
over a year ago

highams park East London


"This came up in another thread, about men's attitudes on here.

So this is just for men or men in couples looking for women or couples.

Whats your general attitude on here towards women and couples. Please just pick the number which fits you best.

1. Beggars can't be choosers. Anyone with a vagina who wants to meet me, I'm up for it.

2. There's a large proportion of the women/couples on here I fancy and I will only meet them.

3. There are very few women/couples on here I fancy and I will only meet them.

4. I am very picky and will only meet people I feel are special. I'd rather not meet anyone rather than compromise my standards.

Obviously, I know were all unique and no category will fit you exactly, but please pick the one that fits best. And be honest. The women aren't looking

I'm a 2.

I find that hard to answer.. I'd say 2. Provided my standards aren't compromised. I have broad tastes. "

2

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is 2 for me

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By *naquest321Man
over a year ago

Carlisle

4

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably 2

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

Say a 3, standards aren't as high on here as in the real world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 nudging 4

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably between 2 and 3.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was a 2 now a 4

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By *LUKCouple
over a year ago

Loughborough

4.

And I don't care how good looking they are, if I can't connect with the person I'm not shagging them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 but I wouldn't say very few, there are people who I like on here who I would definitely want to meet but for me a connection is definitely something I look for, if I'm bored talking to you and we don't have much in common you're not what I'm looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4

Why compromise? Women and couples don't have to by all accounts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"4.

And I don't care how good looking they are, if I can't connect with the person I'm not shagging them."

Does being a 2 mean you don't need a mental connection? If so, I'd change mine. I just find I can make a connection with lots of people over different things. 3 and 4 seemed quite specific about the amount of partners you choose to have. I am selective and I need a connection, but my tastes are broad as far as looks and personality go. That's why I struggled answering.

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

Just to get my first meet I would say 1.

but in truth 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

It's a 3 from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2

I know it's a survey, but that's based on profile alone. That can quickly change after the first message and initial contact where 4 becomes mire applicable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just to get my first meet I would say 1.

but in truth 2"

Go to a local group social my friend. Stay a 2. Don't compromise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just to get my first meet I would say 1.

but in truth 2

Go to a local group social my friend. Stay a 2. Don't compromise."

Fair play to him for saying it though

*sorry OP, woman backing out of thread now..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just to get my first meet I would say 1.

but in truth 2

Go to a local group social my friend. Stay a 2. Don't compromise.

Fair play to him for saying it though

*sorry OP, woman backing out of thread now.. "

Indeed Now get out of here WOMAN

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2. There's a large proportion of the women/couples on here I fancy and I will only meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 why would anyone ever settle for second best?

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

It's a number 4 for me.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

4

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By *unny ValentineCouple
over a year ago

Crewe

Probably a 3 here, and thinking about it C is the same. So finding a woman for both of us may be hard work

B

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

I am 5. There are a few people I would like to meet up with, but they would serve me with legal action never to come near them again lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 with only a handful I have come across so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BTW what is the difference between 3 and 4. Is 4 for people looking for 1-on-1 LTR ?

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By *otyouraverageguy...Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I would say 3

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

4 with a social 2

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By *eeroybrownMan
over a year ago

aldershot

Between 3 and 4.

Think of those vacuous idiots in the media that are smoking hot but not got 2 brain cells. Good to wank over but wouldn't think of having a decent conversation with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did we have any 1s?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4. I'm doomed.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

-10

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

What do you do with all these surveys?

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By *eeroybrownMan
over a year ago

aldershot


"What do you do with all these surveys?

"

Sends them to Sydney University

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Your survey wont work because the lapsogs wont answer honestly as they want to appear appealing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This came up in another thread, about men's attitudes on here.

So this is just for men or men in couples looking for women or couples.

Whats your general attitude on here towards women and couples. Please just pick the number which fits you best.

1. Beggars can't be choosers. Anyone with a vagina who wants to meet me, I'm up for it.

2. There's a large proportion of the women/couples on here I fancy and I will only meet them.

3. There are very few women/couples on here I fancy and I will only meet them.

4. I am very picky and will only meet people I feel are special. I'd rather not meet anyone rather than compromise my standards.

Obviously, I know were all unique and no category will fit you exactly, but please pick the one that fits best. And be honest. The women aren't looking

I'm a 2.

"

Definitely a 2

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By *rtraymondo76Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Tween 2 and 3.

In fairness although a solo artist, most and best responses come from couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did we have any 1s?"

A couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2/3

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